i am a fraternal twin and what you have said is exactly the case between my twin brother and i. although neither of us have any children, he was nurtured while i was expected to just do certain things. now that we are older (24), i've gone out on my own. moved from Ny to Fl, and now to Md in the past 5 yrs while he has remained at home. He hasn't held a steady job or had any responsibility. instead of pushing to be more responsible. it's just accepted that he's just the way he his b/c of being sheltered.
MissMoe--manifesting true fear in folks at jhu s of m since 1999! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ¤§¤OKP Jazzy Broads¤§¤
as long as we're in love, i'll never be ready to die-- cee-lo
singles in rotation:
country girl-- cee-lo someday we'll all be free-- donny hathaway i am music--aaliyah (rip) fragile-- sting still searching-- damien marley black butterfly--denise williams when the revolution comes--the last poets
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ What would you do if you could not fail?