The black Family unit is all messed up. I agree with your anology but I think that the problem goes back to the missing Male figure. A woman cant teach a boy how to be a man. The examples you showed are usually pointing the that fact. A Father who has been taught by his Father usually would be hard on his son. A son knows that in mommas eyes he can do no wrong and even if he does do wrong she'll be there to bail him out and assit him no matter what. A Father is usually more hard core with his son. When the Father finds out that his son has done something the son knows his dad is gonna give it to him.

Example:

The son gets a girl pregnant and then skates outta town.
A Father should be the one who scolds the hell out of his son for NOT taking care of his responsiblities. A Father can tell his son what if I did the same thing to you? But in the black family the Father's presence is either weak or doesnt exist. The boys momma gonna shield her son as much as possible.

To me thats the problem..the whole Family unit is shot to hell amongst us. The Fathers are gone or weak only to leave to women to take care of everything. This is the same agenda Slave owners had in Slavery: Take the male slaves manhood, beat him if he rebels, leave the woman to fend for herself with the kids and all...its just a viscous cycle. For generations the black family has been destroyed. We dont even know about the wonders of growing up in a unbroken home with both parents there. So the cycle continues and things turn out the opposite way of what they should be. Thats why we (our generation) should strive to break the cycle unfortunately many of us have already linked to the chain of pain at a young age by having children while were too young and not even finished with high school or junior high.

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"Beware the leader who bangs the drums of war in order to whip the citizenship
into a patriotic fervor, for patriotism is indeed a double-edged sword.

It both emboldens the blood, just as it narrows the mind.
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