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"stop hollering at women on the street."


  

          

stop it.

stop asking women where they men at

stop calling women over to talk to you while you're sitting in your car

stop telling them to smile (word to t.lynn faz - http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_majg4g5JyX1r1kx42o1_500.jpg)

stop interrupting them when theyre on the phone, listening to music, reading a book or otherwise preoccupied

stop pressing when she tells you she's not interested

don't continue trying to talk to her after it's clear she's ignoring you

stop thinking that 'damn baby you got a fat ass' is a compliment

when she turns you down, don't call her a bitch and tell her she ain't that cute anyway

stop feeling like we owe you time or conversation

if she snaps at you, don't blame her

stop hollering at women on the street.

just fucking stop it.
tell your sons/cousins/uncles/friends/etc to stop it, too.
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RE: stop hollering at women on the street.
Sep 27th 2012
1
ok
Sep 27th 2012
7
all seriousness. What if you approuch a woman correctly.
Sep 27th 2012
2
there's no correct way to approach a woman on the street.
Sep 27th 2012
10
      that sucks.
Sep 27th 2012
22
      I'm starting to believe this.. cause I try my best to be open to whateve...
Sep 27th 2012
41
      You notice him. He notices you noticing him. Yall lock eyes.
Sep 27th 2012
153
      Not true
Sep 27th 2012
94
      Are others in agreeance?
Sep 27th 2012
140
i support this post, forreal
Sep 27th 2012
3
Unless you think hes cute in which case Holla away
Sep 27th 2012
4
approaching a woman on the street is unattractive, no matter
Sep 27th 2012
9
No matter what he looks like? Like no discussion at all? nm
Sep 27th 2012
42
dont buy that, at any price
Sep 27th 2012
99
... TO YOU
Sep 28th 2012
476
ugh, blame the victim
Sep 27th 2012
12
      Now just the simple act of hollering victimizes women
Sep 27th 2012
25
      man, shut yo gay ass up...
Sep 27th 2012
38
      man, I be trying, but...I'm glad you said something.
Sep 27th 2012
54
      naw, clown ass nigga
Sep 27th 2012
71
      forgive me for laughing at this..out loud...at work. please+thanks
Sep 27th 2012
260
      Your avi is being used from a malware site. Please change it.
Sep 27th 2012
373
           I've had this avi for months. I aint changing nothin til the O's season ...
Sep 27th 2012
437
                You don't have to change it, just upload that image to another domain.
Sep 27th 2012
438
                Lol no doubt!
Sep 28th 2012
473
      Fix your sig fuck ass!!
Sep 27th 2012
324
      It's daryloneal avatar.
Sep 27th 2012
376
      Thats not what im talkig about. Im talking about assholes that dont sepe...
Sep 27th 2012
453
      lmao
Sep 27th 2012
428
      Lmfao. Simple yet effective.
Sep 27th 2012
439
      LMAO
Sep 28th 2012
458
           hardeeharhar mofos. gay>>>stuck in ur sad rape culture world
Sep 28th 2012
586
      i hate when okp latches onto a buzzword as evidence of enlightenment
Sep 27th 2012
101
           niggas read the back of one bell hooks book and BOOM.
Sep 27th 2012
109
           uh i experience the affects fo patriarchial bullshit in my own
Sep 27th 2012
131
           that is simultaneously entirely possible, unfortunate, and irrelevant
Sep 27th 2012
163
                k
Sep 27th 2012
227
                     lol that was all this ridiculous post deserved in the first place
Sep 27th 2012
238
           well said
Sep 27th 2012
451
I just found out that this is something that only developed in
Sep 27th 2012
5
yes it is
Sep 27th 2012
13
women: you don't have to talk to anyone you don't want to talk to.
Sep 27th 2012
6
so why can't dude cuss you the fuck out?
Sep 27th 2012
14
because they should be mature enough to keep it moving if
Sep 27th 2012
23
      so women don't have to be polite, but men do?
Sep 27th 2012
31
           im not encouraging women to blow up on a dude & spit in his face
Sep 27th 2012
49
           im not encouraging women to blow up on a dude & spit in his face
Sep 27th 2012
50
           so not getting it
Sep 28th 2012
581
but SOME of those dudes be crazy, yall remember that vid
Sep 27th 2012
15
i wish that were true
Sep 27th 2012
298
nah, you GON smile.
Sep 28th 2012
459
There's nothing wrong with being polite.
Sep 28th 2012
648
never.
Sep 27th 2012
8
No, I won't.
Sep 27th 2012
11
don't be out in the street looking for a meal.
Sep 27th 2012
17
      I mean, how could I *not* attempt a holler if you walked by me?
Sep 27th 2012
32
           by exhibiting self-control?
Sep 27th 2012
55
                It seems like you're more referring to harassment than hollering...
Sep 27th 2012
68
                I dont see a problem with that either
Sep 27th 2012
117
                I know I've felt put out bypeople telling me "good morning" before
Sep 28th 2012
583
                     how long have you been pushing the button Desmond?
Sep 28th 2012
614
                not initiating conversation with an attractive woman is a virtue?
Sep 27th 2012
104
                     by its rarity it would be
Sep 27th 2012
352
where should men approach women that they find attractive and would
Sep 27th 2012
16
there are more constructive social situations.
Sep 27th 2012
37
      lol wtf the world outside your front door is a social situation
Sep 27th 2012
      lol @ you not answering the question.
Sep 27th 2012
382
it dont get no more okplayery than this
Sep 27th 2012
18
...but hollering on a messageboard is perfectly fine...
Sep 27th 2012
19
this reply doesn't make half a piece of sense.
Sep 27th 2012
60
      if a woman can't handle a street holla without feeling
Sep 27th 2012
138
*pulls up milk crate*
Sep 27th 2012
20
"it's not my fault you're pretty!"
Sep 27th 2012
21
Cuz it's never worked right lmao
Sep 27th 2012
24
oppression can't exist without the permission/participation of the oppre...
Sep 27th 2012
58
      LMAO
Sep 27th 2012
113
oh yeah 150,000 years of evolution called for you
Sep 27th 2012
26
things change over 150,000 years. we're more than a primitive drive.
Sep 27th 2012
73
does this still apply???
Sep 27th 2012
27
no.
Sep 27th 2012
80
It's so easy to talk to a woman on the street though.
Sep 27th 2012
28
if they stop, then women would start complaining about why men
Sep 27th 2012
29
Basically confession wednesday
Sep 27th 2012
48
i understand evolution, but we're more than a primitive drive.
Sep 27th 2012
70
she just did
Sep 27th 2012
357
A closed mouth don't get fed n/m
Sep 27th 2012
30
there are more appropriate places to look for a bite.
Sep 27th 2012
84
      I'm sayin, where?
Sep 27th 2012
133
           lol, everytime this question is asked, it's ignored.
Sep 27th 2012
389
                Son. I don't know if this is a common feminine characterisitic
Sep 27th 2012
435
                Because, man, if you REALLY loved her you would understand her..
Sep 27th 2012
447
                lol
Sep 28th 2012
457
                Sounds pretty logical to me n/m
Sep 28th 2012
472
                Ok, so it's not just me then lol.
Sep 28th 2012
471
                     No, lol. I've been waiting for the answer to this.
Sep 28th 2012
658
so wait I see an attractive woman as I'm walking down the street
Sep 27th 2012
33
RE: so wait I see an attractive woman as I'm walking down the street
Sep 27th 2012
40
shhh! you making too much sense right now dude.
Sep 27th 2012
44
no.
Sep 27th 2012
87
      so what makes you walking down the street different from you
Sep 27th 2012
92
           Bars are places meant for social interaction.
Sep 28th 2012
469
this is the dumbest post lol...
Sep 27th 2012
34
i can't help but feel that you've missed the point here.
Sep 27th 2012
88
      you HAVE no point
Sep 27th 2012
147
           harassment is her point
Sep 27th 2012
170
                walking up to you and starting a convo is not
Sep 27th 2012
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                     hello.
Sep 27th 2012
211
                     if you arent walking up to the person next to me
Sep 27th 2012
269
                     I LOVE U
Sep 27th 2012
282
                     you are crazy as fuck, yo...
Sep 27th 2012
348
                          fuck your crazy ass too
Sep 27th 2012
370
                          you probably the last woman in here that would have this issue
Sep 27th 2012
377
                               LOL
Sep 27th 2012
379
                               Gotdamb lol
Sep 28th 2012
468
                                    what was it? purple mountains
Sep 28th 2012
477
                                         No habla batshyt
Sep 28th 2012
494
                                              ^^^^^ this nigga wilin...LOLOL
Sep 28th 2012
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                                              you babble it real well though
Sep 28th 2012
528
                                              http://i52.tinypic.com/5p4xoo.jpg
Sep 28th 2012
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                          ^^^^^^ lol......this reply was classic
Sep 27th 2012
391
                     i've gotten this plenty times
Sep 27th 2012
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                          they are some big titties though...
Sep 27th 2012
394
                               i would be lying
Sep 27th 2012
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                                    i like you too...
Sep 27th 2012
413
can we get a list of acceptable places to holla at women?
Sep 27th 2012
35
outside of the courtroom
Sep 27th 2012
47
NO LOGIN NO BALLS IN
Sep 27th 2012
59
NO FOLLOW NO SWALLOW
Sep 27th 2012
85
the let out.
Sep 27th 2012
74
grocery store/ home depot/ car wash/ coin-op/ vet office/ on the bus
Sep 27th 2012
76
Weddings, funeral, the emergency room...
Sep 27th 2012
230
      the EMERGENCY room??? abuse clinic?????
Sep 27th 2012
341
So should we follow them home, THEN holler?
Sep 27th 2012
36
please god dont. the worst thing a woman hate is being followed.
Sep 27th 2012
46
i chuckled. on some real shit though i got followed home at 12
Sep 27th 2012
90
ladies: stop dressing to get attention--
Sep 27th 2012
39
POAST
Sep 27th 2012
57
^^THIS^^
Sep 27th 2012
62
http://i54.tinypic.com/qq1rp1.jpg
Sep 27th 2012
111
lol now im glad i didnt go the Predator route with mine
Sep 27th 2012
167
      LOL...yo, you and me was inna zone on some...>><<
Sep 27th 2012
175
http://i25.tinypic.com/1551550.gif/
Sep 27th 2012
125
MENS RIGHTS MOVEMENT.
Sep 27th 2012
142
www.sptimes.com/2004/10/25/images/homepg/preacher450.jpg
Sep 27th 2012
174
When did u start posting so beige nygga
Sep 27th 2012
43
I'll just park this here:
Sep 27th 2012
45
i'm done with okplayer for today, ya'll have fun.
Sep 27th 2012
53
stop walkin around lookin all good-n-stuff...
Sep 27th 2012
51
I saw a dude do a wack hollar the other day...
Sep 27th 2012
52
yep lol i dont mind street hollas as long as theyre not disrespectful
Sep 27th 2012
64
      exactly
Sep 27th 2012
86
           ^ ^ ^This pretty-much covers it!
Sep 27th 2012
124
           I would stare
Sep 27th 2012
245
           unbearably uncomfortable
Sep 28th 2012
460
                I got light eyes so it
Sep 29th 2012
693
           THANK YOU!
Sep 27th 2012
392
its fine as long as they come correct and are respectful
Sep 27th 2012
56
tell em!(c)Biggie
Sep 27th 2012
77
i look at women on the street like i'm gonna rob them at gunpoint
Sep 27th 2012
61
that is the dumbest thing i think i've read on here all week
Sep 27th 2012
63
      the poast called for it
Sep 27th 2012
66
           it actually didn't, at all.
Sep 27th 2012
91
                *hollas at trace on the street, with my had in my hoodie like i got a ga...
Sep 27th 2012
96
                     ok
Sep 27th 2012
98
                          only on days when louisville plays pitt tho
Sep 27th 2012
108
                               stop
Sep 27th 2012
114
                                    yawn
Sep 27th 2012
116
                                    LMAO!!
Sep 27th 2012
179
The class element to this issue seems huge, to me.
Sep 27th 2012
65
i actually agree with this, u dont see many men in suits doing
Sep 27th 2012
      walk down wall street in a sun dress
Sep 28th 2012
624
the alternative is what? the internet* and mutual friends
Sep 27th 2012
67
The solution is clear: step aside and let a Live Nigga holler.
Sep 27th 2012
78
The solution is clear: step aside and let a Live Nigga holler.
Sep 27th 2012
79
this isn't up to you to decide.
Sep 27th 2012
95
why did you use the word 'holler'?
Sep 27th 2012
115
^^^^^^
Sep 27th 2012
155
By the time you have enough info to decide, the holler has already
Sep 27th 2012
119
for clarity: it isnt harassment if she's open to being approached
Sep 27th 2012
246
agreed.
Sep 27th 2012
107
it would be great if they did.
Sep 27th 2012
69
now would you trade all that.. to be ugly as fuck???
Sep 27th 2012
72
Yo, I have NO DAMN IDEA why I burst into laughter off this reply.
Sep 27th 2012
82
all what?
Sep 27th 2012
83
everything that makes you hollerable???
Sep 27th 2012
93
lol, there are some women ain't heard a street holler since the 90s
Sep 27th 2012
121
IKR, but THIS IS OKAYPLAYER where dreams come true.
Sep 27th 2012
152
This pretty funny if true.
Sep 27th 2012
158
AP you are officially funny. God damn i just broke.
Sep 27th 2012
442
is your paper being long...worth your life being shorter?
Sep 27th 2012
454
until this is something that men can experience,
Sep 27th 2012
97
      I think there are guys in this post that understand your personal
Sep 27th 2012
106
      it's part of living in a world populated w/ppl other than yourself.
Sep 27th 2012
120
      seriously
Sep 27th 2012
176
      when yall have to hunt for dick...holler at me
Sep 27th 2012
265
           LOL
Sep 27th 2012
353
           lmaoo this mad me really LOL
Sep 28th 2012
470
get the entire fuck out of here
Sep 27th 2012
75
niggas acting like Obama aint hit michelle with a "yo ma"
Sep 27th 2012
89
what?
Sep 27th 2012
110
smh
Sep 27th 2012
261
^ ^ ^A whole lotta Jewels right here!
Sep 27th 2012
143
i was walking home w/2 bags of groceries & this dude goes, 'can i
Sep 27th 2012
81
it can NEVER be about being polite or helpful
Sep 27th 2012
118
WILD HUNNERDS
Sep 27th 2012
100
This post got me type mad right now.
Sep 27th 2012
102
^
Sep 28th 2012
536
I love these topics
Sep 27th 2012
103
i can't clap to this.
Sep 27th 2012
105
the ratio of 'appropriate/polite' to rude, annoying, and harassing
Sep 27th 2012
123
stop being a goofy bitch and assume all of us do this all the time
Sep 27th 2012
126
she's putting a lil extra on it b/c she's venting.
Sep 27th 2012
134
damn Chuck. did she fuck you in the ass dog??
Sep 27th 2012
141
how did u even think to come out ur bird with this statement?
Sep 27th 2012
156
probably, but i'm tired of the horse shit, especially in this department
Sep 27th 2012
162
      well this approach will surely work
Sep 27th 2012
173
      #whiterage
Sep 27th 2012
177
      it went from not probably to definitely
Sep 27th 2012
184
      dont worry about apologizing or saying shit else to me
Sep 27th 2012
186
           *replies to this post*
Sep 27th 2012
213
           he tryna quit cigs. let's give him a pass for a few weeks
Sep 27th 2012
232
           in his defense (and I don't defend white boys)
Sep 27th 2012
417
go drink a hot tea, man.
Sep 27th 2012
161
yo did somebody hack your fucking account?
Sep 27th 2012
171
WOW REALLY?
Sep 27th 2012
349
oh, okay. you're just venting frustration.
Sep 27th 2012
127
so just walking down the street is an invitation to be spoken to
Sep 27th 2012
149
yes. yes, it is.
Sep 27th 2012
160
      LOL its definitely NOT an invitation, u could reasonably expect
Sep 27th 2012
187
      sure, guy.
Sep 27th 2012
199
      I agree.....especially here, in the south...we speak to EVERYbody
Sep 27th 2012
397
exactly.
Sep 27th 2012
150
let it be idris elba sayin some of it tho...
Sep 27th 2012
112
^ agreed.
Sep 27th 2012
122
yep.
Sep 27th 2012
128
I mean I've had women tell me to smile on the street.
Sep 27th 2012
129
when i'm having a depressive episode that sort of thing makes me
Sep 27th 2012
139
      Understandable.
Sep 27th 2012
178
RE: let it be idris elba sayin some of it tho...
Sep 27th 2012
132
what if a woman came up to you in the same scenario
Sep 27th 2012
146
it happens
Sep 27th 2012
294
RE: let it be idris elba sayin some of it tho...
Sep 27th 2012
151
damn woman, do you hate humans?
Sep 27th 2012
202
      ^ this is how it reads.
Sep 27th 2012
206
      in all fairness i'm the same way with social interactions
Sep 27th 2012
220
      not suprising.
Sep 27th 2012
226
           thank you
Sep 27th 2012
243
      i love people! i hate being approached on the street!
Sep 27th 2012
250
Da hell you comin' in here makin' sense fo'?
Sep 27th 2012
159
^^^^^^BASE
Sep 27th 2012
400
Location plays a big part, too
Sep 27th 2012
130
What I hate when a woman makes a post like this.
Sep 27th 2012
135
the problem w/this post is
Sep 27th 2012
145
i don't think it's unreasonable.
Sep 27th 2012
157
      To expect strangers
Sep 27th 2012
164
      i don't think it's unreasonable.
Sep 27th 2012
169
      ...but this IS what she's saying, homie:
Sep 27th 2012
165
      no, im saying don't approach women -on the street-
Sep 27th 2012
180
      k.
Sep 27th 2012
188
      i think this is it:
Sep 27th 2012
190
           it's more this IMO:
Sep 27th 2012
193
                the highlight was to compliment that exact part.
Sep 27th 2012
205
      And my problem with it is that it's being stated like it's some
Sep 27th 2012
181
      hello.
Sep 27th 2012
189
      i get that trace is lookin to make her way frum point A to point B...
Sep 27th 2012
183
      yeah.
Sep 27th 2012
191
      this is very true
Sep 27th 2012
198
           it's not a damned thing for u to get over...
Sep 27th 2012
223
      there's a difference between holler and approach.
Sep 27th 2012
185
           i asked why she used the word 'holler'.
Sep 27th 2012
196
                i didnt see that question, sorry
Sep 27th 2012
228
                     ^^^^^^^^^^^
Sep 27th 2012
241
                     good luck w/this.
Sep 27th 2012
249
                     forreal.
Sep 27th 2012
365
                     keep asserting urself and protecting urself, i dont see how any
Sep 27th 2012
255
      Always a list of "don'ts" and hardly a list of "dos" or "how tos"
Sep 27th 2012
197
^shit that only works on non-sistas^
Sep 27th 2012
168
http://boubize.blogspot.com/2011/08/ninja-glimpse.html
Sep 27th 2012
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SO LISTEN!
Sep 27th 2012
136
AYE BABY! LEMME SHOW U WHAT I'D DO TO THOSE HIPS!
Sep 27th 2012
137
i wish all men could be women for one week
Sep 27th 2012
144
that would suck
Sep 27th 2012
166
lol i mean i'd like for us to switch
Sep 27th 2012
172
      You'd deal with the uncountable #s of rejections too?
Sep 27th 2012
259
      nigga please
Sep 27th 2012
425
      I feel this reply.
Sep 28th 2012
675
      good luck hunting for pussy
Sep 27th 2012
278
           right?
Sep 27th 2012
395
           lol like its that hard for men to get laid
Sep 27th 2012
426
                it's not hard because we have to practice
Sep 28th 2012
482
or just go to a gay bar...
Sep 27th 2012
236
I've been to a lesbian club
Sep 27th 2012
427
Me too.
Sep 27th 2012
396
RE: stop hollering at women on the street.
Sep 27th 2012
148
No.
Sep 27th 2012
154
stop hollering =/= stop speaking.
Sep 27th 2012
182
you should associate with a higher class of humanity
Sep 27th 2012
192
lol but i dont have to like them
Sep 27th 2012
314
      i do, maybe thats defeatist on my part but i aint changing anyone
Sep 27th 2012
354
interesting post
Sep 27th 2012
194
that sounds pretty anti-social to me.
Sep 27th 2012
204
because dudes are doing this to just be social?
Sep 27th 2012
207
      good luck w/this, player.
Sep 27th 2012
208
      smh
Sep 27th 2012
216
           . . .
Sep 27th 2012
222
      LOL give the writers credit, they stuck with their original vision for u
Sep 27th 2012
215
      this cant be for real...like....at all...lol...a grownup cant walk past
Sep 27th 2012
251
      so you talk to random men regularly?
Sep 27th 2012
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           some men do...but that still doens't matter
Sep 27th 2012
325
           oh it does and not regularly enough
Sep 27th 2012
363
           Aye...u catch that game ...crazy right
Sep 27th 2012
364
           Right...i guess Marvin's "Whas Happenin Brutha" was an
Sep 27th 2012
406
           men are the most talkingest to strangers ass ppl around
Sep 27th 2012
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           they really are
Sep 27th 2012
422
                wow
Sep 28th 2012
502
           lol don't ever go to the south
Sep 27th 2012
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                i have family in the south
Sep 27th 2012
412
      what's more social than sex?
Sep 27th 2012
288
           BRAIN ASPLOSION!!!!
Sep 27th 2012
319
           you are
Sep 27th 2012
326
                i really do actually hate you, lol
Sep 27th 2012
362
                     blame yourself
Sep 27th 2012
423
                          you have yet to counter anything i'm saying with reason though
Sep 28th 2012
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                               those are excuses not reasons
Sep 28th 2012
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                                    i'm not excusing ignorant behavior though
Sep 28th 2012
483
                                         arent you?
Sep 28th 2012
533
                                              this is seriously my last time going back and forth with you here
Sep 28th 2012
565
lol the earth is everyone's to share
Sep 27th 2012
209
^ that.
Sep 27th 2012
214
these men arent even talking to EACH OTHER
Sep 27th 2012
219
PREACH!!! lol why isnt it common that men are saying SMILE
Sep 27th 2012
229
y'all are speaking way too broadly
Sep 27th 2012
234
we're disconnecting here : unwelcomed advances
Sep 27th 2012
268
      k.
Sep 27th 2012
272
           i started to reply to u like that but decided to sure u bit more
Sep 27th 2012
308
                great.
Sep 27th 2012
311
men acknowledge other men in public ALL THE TIME
Sep 27th 2012
320
      when's the last time u felt phsically threatened cuz u didnt respond?
Sep 28th 2012
612
      do u say "smile" to other men?
Sep 28th 2012
664
           no, but i don't say that to ANYONE i don't know
Sep 29th 2012
690
then i kindly direct you to #192
Sep 27th 2012
231
      is being dense a choice?
Sep 27th 2012
242
           then its time to decide what you mean
Sep 27th 2012
252
                why dont men say hello and SMILE(?) to other men?
Sep 27th 2012
271
                we. do.
Sep 27th 2012
280
                o dear God, i asked do men ask other men to SMILE?
Sep 27th 2012
                     okay.
Sep 27th 2012
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                          well different opinions then, i find that very annoying
Sep 27th 2012
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                          awesome.
Sep 27th 2012
323
                               lastword
Sep 27th 2012
333
                                    <--- winner.
Sep 27th 2012
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                                         no
Sep 27th 2012
385
                          you should have mace'd those Sirens
Sep 27th 2012
331
                               LOL
Sep 27th 2012
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                get em sir
Sep 27th 2012
284
                lol i do...ive got top-notch friend game actually
Sep 27th 2012
289
                     well if ur telling other men to smile u prolly been called a fag more
Sep 27th 2012
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                          i would never say that to a man or woman i didnt know
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                               ok just cause a lady catches ur eye doesnt give u the right
Sep 27th 2012
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                                    but it does and that IS the point
Sep 27th 2012
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                                         lol bull, i guess there is an implied persmission to be robbed or
Sep 27th 2012
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                                              and how is any of that comparable to "hi im chris"?
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                                              feminist rage reasoning skills
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                                              Lmao holy shyt
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                i mean what i say
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                     ^^^^
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                     clear signals of intentional isolation fall under purview of #209
Sep 27th 2012
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                          that convoluted #209 you mean?
Sep 27th 2012
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                               hey i was right lol...recognizing signals is still recognizing signals
Sep 27th 2012
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                                    nah my pussy isn't communal
Sep 27th 2012
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                                         215
Sep 27th 2012
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RE: lol the earth is everyone's to share
Sep 27th 2012
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^^^
Sep 27th 2012
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please don't agree with that idiot.
Sep 27th 2012
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      says the moron
Sep 27th 2012
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are u speaking of literal speaking or the holler?
Sep 27th 2012
237
i live in NY
Sep 27th 2012
279
      maybe u look safe...
Sep 27th 2012
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           i do
Sep 27th 2012
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HOW DARE YOU BE ATTRACTIVE?
Sep 28th 2012
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This post should just read I'm anti-social and not comfortable being
Sep 27th 2012
195
says the antisocial ass
Sep 27th 2012
201
Purple mountains
Sep 27th 2012
212
#18
Sep 27th 2012
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Word. I hit all chicks w/ the howsitgoin' head nod at this point..
Sep 27th 2012
203
Ok, I have some issues with this.
Sep 27th 2012
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*Looks Around*
Sep 27th 2012
225
*releases a lone tear which gently cascades down my left cheek*
Sep 27th 2012
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lol...that was funny
Sep 27th 2012
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LOL!
Sep 27th 2012
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hehe
Sep 27th 2012
316
Jerome at work
Sep 27th 2012
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oh shit
Sep 28th 2012
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My best relationships have started that way
Sep 27th 2012
239
so... as soon as you enter the building, coffee shop or subway..
Sep 27th 2012
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oh also--
Sep 27th 2012
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i plan on killing myself when men dont look at me anymore.
Sep 27th 2012
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pardon my laziness.iont wanna read this clusterfuck, but i got a questio...
Sep 27th 2012
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never on the street, w/o regard for politeness.
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weird.
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they frustrated.
Sep 27th 2012
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      iono. i even appreciated a lil brazilian man calling me huge
Sep 27th 2012
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that's not what *i* said
Sep 27th 2012
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      267. i personally dont want to be approached on the street, period.
Sep 27th 2012
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           yeah i saw that, but nayaa was asking the ladies (plural)
Sep 27th 2012
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                uh huh.
Sep 27th 2012
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u can "hey beautiful" me to the grave...
Sep 27th 2012
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theyre saying a man shouldnt talk to a woman--
Sep 27th 2012
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i personally dont want to be approached on the street, period.
Sep 27th 2012
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iont think there's a right or wrong answer
Sep 27th 2012
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The key word is "she"
Sep 27th 2012
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hows okp the worst--
Sep 27th 2012
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what fucking streets are you walking down?
Sep 27th 2012
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      oh i have horror stories
Sep 27th 2012
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i don't like being approached on the street at all
Sep 27th 2012
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      what.the.hell.else do they have to go off of?
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           lol
Sep 28th 2012
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What about at a church?
Sep 27th 2012
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ON THE STREET, GUYS. ON THE STREET.
Sep 27th 2012
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but you are applying your preference as if every woman
Sep 27th 2012
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i never claimed to be speaking for all women
Sep 27th 2012
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      why women when you are only one woman?
Sep 27th 2012
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      if men stop street hollas then all women are impacted.
Sep 27th 2012
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      im not speaking for all women in that
Sep 27th 2012
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           okay.
Sep 27th 2012
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      RE: why women when you are only one woman?
Sep 27th 2012
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      I hate it too so now we're a plural. i especially hate it in
Sep 28th 2012
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that doesn't change my stance whatsoever.
Sep 27th 2012
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no prob! i wasnt trying to change your mind, just stressing that
Sep 27th 2012
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important to you...
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cool.
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LOL
Sep 27th 2012
DONT TALK TO ME AT THE OFFICE--
Sep 27th 2012
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      many of these ppl ARE anti-social at the office, btw.
Sep 27th 2012
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      omg im finna hitdog
Sep 27th 2012
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      sure.
Sep 27th 2012
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      yeah. can we make that post tomorrow?
Sep 27th 2012
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      it's been made numerous times and it's always popular.
Sep 27th 2012
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      LOL...tooooooo funny and true
Sep 27th 2012
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      boundaries folks
Sep 27th 2012
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      lmao what a horrible comparison
Sep 27th 2012
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http://boubize.blogspot.com/2011/08/ninja-glimpse.html
Sep 27th 2012
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fellas, you're walking down the street. a woman avoids making eye contac...
Sep 27th 2012
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nghs should be used to everybody they pass avoiding eye contact
Sep 27th 2012
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I can't stand when women do this^^^^
Sep 27th 2012
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RE: fellas, you're walking down the street. a woman avoids making eye co...
Sep 27th 2012
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when black women give me the bigscaryblackguy treatment
Sep 27th 2012
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I agree with you if you literally mean the street... to do so one..
Sep 27th 2012
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i read a post somewhere about exactly that
Sep 27th 2012
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Yeah I get it, but there aren't many opportunities for people...
Sep 27th 2012
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i get that
Sep 27th 2012
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      agree
Sep 27th 2012
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but you forgot the part where she did talk to a guy
Sep 27th 2012
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yeah, i literally meant on the street.
Sep 27th 2012
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I agree with you. I have approached a woman on a bus stop..
Sep 27th 2012
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its more rude
Sep 27th 2012
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you can say that about any scenario though... c'mon.
Sep 27th 2012
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      and its rude
Sep 27th 2012
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           not every woman that goes to a party wants to be approached..
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                the difference is
Sep 27th 2012
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                     this makes no sense in relation to his response
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                          thank you. I didn't even know how to respond to that.
Sep 28th 2012
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                          actually it does
Sep 28th 2012
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If I'm preoccupied it's not only unwelcome, but extremely rude!
Sep 28th 2012
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we're not being honest now...
Sep 28th 2012
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I see this as being on the subway
Sep 28th 2012
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      and while you feel that way..
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           You're arguing a point that I never made
Sep 28th 2012
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                My point is that people don't know how you really feel..
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                     Cheers to the nice guys
Sep 28th 2012
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                          Fine, but what you seem to be avoiding is that the point of...
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                               Nah
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*applauds until my hand go numb*
Sep 27th 2012
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Misanthropy FTW
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hello.
Sep 27th 2012
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not wanting to be approached in a specific situation = misanthropy?!
Sep 27th 2012
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      not all men talking to you in the street want anything more than
Sep 27th 2012
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           ^^^^^^^
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           in some cases there should be an inequality in favor of the oppressed
Sep 27th 2012
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           here's where that goes off the rails: not every woman - hell most
Sep 27th 2012
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           RE: not all men talking to you in the street want anything more than
Sep 28th 2012
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                you ain't never struck up a conversation with somebody just cuz?
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                     Not completely out of the blue, no.
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got damn this blew up.
Sep 27th 2012
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I was just thinkin this
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      perfect ingredients tho
Sep 27th 2012
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           and SoWhat being in top form today
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that explains the CLOSED sign on that box.
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you'll miss it when it doesnt happen anymore
Sep 27th 2012
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this is what I want them to respond to
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i don't miss it AT ALL
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WRONG
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This is LITERALLY
Sep 27th 2012
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It's really just the shotgun method, which is a waste of time
Sep 27th 2012
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such a sad post
Sep 27th 2012
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^^^^
Sep 27th 2012
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man, no shit.
Sep 27th 2012
444
WAUUUW...this post is nuts!! There's NOTHING wrong with a
Sep 27th 2012
404
The OP post is like the Romney campaign
Sep 27th 2012
407
This post is outstanding... I only disagree with the generaliztion
Sep 27th 2012
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.
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RE: This post is outstanding... I only disagree with the generaliztion
Sep 27th 2012
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^^ all this. plus chicks Initiate with me so.... n/m
Sep 28th 2012
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Yet y'all wonder why white women keep win---nvm...
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419
Harlow project is seeking particpants to discuss street harassment
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430
Stop walking so far outside the damn kitchen
Sep 27th 2012
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lmao
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lol
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WHAT YOU DESCRIBING IS HOLLA'ING AT A CHICK ON THE TRAIN
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train hollas are not improper foh
Sep 27th 2012
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      LOL!!!! this nigga said nelson muntz!
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lol
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btw: why ima die alone pt.2.
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bathicallyyyyyyyy!
Sep 28th 2012
465
Shit. I holla in public like a G. Professional niggas always win
Sep 27th 2012
443
This is a tricky one...
Sep 27th 2012
445
I agree with Trace.
Sep 27th 2012
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*cashes out*
Sep 27th 2012
448
lfresh hates men.
Sep 27th 2012
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i would have to consider you a man to hate you though
Sep 28th 2012
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      I wish you happiness ma'am.
Sep 28th 2012
           #569
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trace doing flora numbers
Sep 27th 2012
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I really didn't expect this post to blow up like this.
Sep 27th 2012
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i keep looking at the reply number increasing like O_o
Sep 28th 2012
643
Me and SoWhat are laughing at you breeders (he's the bottom, though)
Sep 27th 2012
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I took pics of some of them in Philly
Sep 28th 2012
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I was really hoping you meant you photographed street hollers.
Sep 28th 2012
462
those are AWESOME tlynn
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SMH--
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clearly.
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      omg
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*likes*
Sep 28th 2012
510
Folks are sharing these around Tumblr like crazy
Sep 28th 2012
634
fells stop paying attention to these old bitter damaged
Sep 28th 2012
464
RE: stop hollering at women on the street.
Sep 28th 2012
467
The male privilege voiced in this post is ASTOUNDING n/m
Sep 28th 2012
485
^
Sep 28th 2012
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the female double standards--
Sep 28th 2012
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it has to be boredom, fantasizing and stunting rolled together
Sep 28th 2012
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they just don't get it, they are saying no just put up with it
Sep 28th 2012
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*makes an appearance*
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oh i'd annoy the sh*t outta you--
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*looks across the street*
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      I like it!
Sep 28th 2012
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ARCHIVE
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AGREED......the levels in here...on every limb is outstanding
Sep 28th 2012
511
I think you living in KY has something to do with this.
Sep 28th 2012
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5 hunna.
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What about at a block party, Trace? WHAT DO WE DO?
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What about a street fair?
Sep 28th 2012
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      Say we are at a parade?
Sep 28th 2012
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           What if we find ourselves in Bunol for Tomatina?
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                Can we mingle at Mardi Gras?
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                     Can we raconteur on a river walk?
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                          What do you do at 4th Street Live?
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                               THIS IS ALL WRONG, WRONG YOU MONSTER!!
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this post is telling of lots of things.
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there is an ocean between all of that and what you are extolling
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agreed.
Sep 28th 2012
519
I think the point is that
Sep 28th 2012
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      you're right. At the same time, I think the post would have gone..
Sep 28th 2012
527
      i can accept this.
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      yup.
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      hello.
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men generally understand that harrassment exists.
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pretty much
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say word--
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hello.
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and that outside this site...women could care less lol...u know how
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LOL...why fam gotta be a subset though?? lol..smh
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even me fam!
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545
knowing something exists vs knowing what it's like.
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      *i* know what it's like.
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      and not everyone who experiences it would mind if it
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           Jesus the fuck Christ.
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      let's just leave it at this:
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the essence of the misunderstanding--
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But who decides what harassment is?
Sep 28th 2012
532
      sucks don't it?
Sep 28th 2012
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      oh harrassment is in the eye of the beholder--
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street harassment is awful and should end.
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in my opinion, it absolutely does.
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      while i understand your frustration, i completely disagree w/you.
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           i know it won't happen, too.
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                good luck w/that.
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                     hey, thanks!
Sep 28th 2012
569
                          *thumbs up*
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                          lol i know his concern and attitude is so touching in this post
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oh it's a website for every insecurity and dysfunction in the world
Sep 28th 2012
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*sees you drop your wallet on the street with a bit of cash spilling out...
Sep 28th 2012
549
They're either willfully ignorant or posturing.
Sep 28th 2012
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Y'ALL muthafuckas... *facepalm*
Sep 28th 2012
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the issue is respect
Sep 28th 2012
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i got them moooOOOOOOOooOoOOOOOOooves like Jagger
Sep 28th 2012
525
FOH FAM!
Sep 28th 2012
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this post is too deep so i aint read SHIT but the OP, anyways
Sep 28th 2012
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lol
Sep 28th 2012
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This thread is very sad and discouraging
Sep 28th 2012
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did y'all forget the Black Woman Walking mini-doc?
Sep 28th 2012
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This isnt directed @ u personally
Sep 28th 2012
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fellas, this post is information: use it...
Sep 28th 2012
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oontz.
Sep 28th 2012
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it kinda reminds me of one morning when I was on the train...
Sep 28th 2012
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That's happened to me on far too many occasions.
Sep 28th 2012
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bull and sh*t--
Sep 28th 2012
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It isn't good information though
Sep 28th 2012
579
It's too much like right; the menfolk will never "get" it.
Sep 28th 2012
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how about--
Sep 28th 2012
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I feel you but
Sep 28th 2012
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i feel tired like when i tried to explain white privilege to white folk ...
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      RE: i feel tired like when i tried to explain white privilege to white f...
Sep 28th 2012
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imma teach my daughter to karate chop niggas in the windpipe
Sep 28th 2012
568
tell your daughters/cousins/aunts/friends/etc to stop....
Sep 28th 2012
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So if you drop your wallet with cash spillin out then don't holla back?
Sep 28th 2012
578
People are talking about it's ok if he's cute
Sep 28th 2012
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it's also a privilege to not be expected to approach men.
Sep 28th 2012
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      *slow applause*
Sep 28th 2012
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      wait so u wouldnt try to stop those things u dont like?
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      no I wouldn't try to stop it, because I don't know what it.....
Sep 28th 2012
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      i wonder if the statute provides housing for the homeless
Sep 28th 2012
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      k
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      LOL. good luck w/this, ATL:
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           :-) thanks hun!
Sep 28th 2012
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           no shit, the same dudes have been at northside & 10th BP for yrs
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      control people?
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           my point is that people are going to people.
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                oh ok
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                that's because it IS what it is.
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                     Um, again, you're arguing a point I never made.
Sep 28th 2012
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                          I was referring to you saying that I'm implying you should just..
Sep 28th 2012
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                               and by the way, your avi is pretty. so there. *pokes tongue out*
Sep 28th 2012
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                shut the fuck up.
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Some of yall think you're "hollering" when you're not
Sep 28th 2012
590
so wait:
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ain't it?
Sep 28th 2012
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did you read what she wrote?
Sep 28th 2012
601
EVERYONE AIN'T YOU!! A lot of women appreciate it!!
Sep 28th 2012
603
smh. you have no perspective.
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if you don't believe that it's okay to be nice, I'm sorry.
Sep 28th 2012
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sigh. i didn't say any of that.
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619
      this is what you said:
Sep 28th 2012
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           right, and my point is that even though the woman responded
Sep 28th 2012
628
                so what is the conclusion??
Sep 28th 2012
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lol
Sep 28th 2012
620
How do we know they appreciate it, though?
Sep 28th 2012
625
why u typing in all caps?
Sep 28th 2012
665
      moment of frustration.
Sep 28th 2012
672
Women want to be left alone in public places.
Sep 28th 2012
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RE: so wait:
Sep 28th 2012
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      Yeah I get what you're saying. And it's very unfortunate.
Sep 28th 2012
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the very first hurt that i remember as a child was watching/hearing men
Sep 28th 2012
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yeesh.
Sep 28th 2012
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i don't think anybody here is saying rude fuckery don't happen
Sep 28th 2012
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      Not even the OP said that all public places were out of bounds
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      you may not agree, but can you understand why a woman
Sep 28th 2012
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           yes. I completely understand it.. TOTALLY
Sep 28th 2012
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                there's church here but it'll get buried
Sep 28th 2012
651
I put up a Men Can Stop Rape Street Harassment Link....
Sep 28th 2012
610
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i7zsG3XFUd8
Sep 28th 2012
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Just holla like this Stingray did *link*.
Sep 28th 2012
626
1988 - 2000 Crenshaw Blvd is laughin at yo ass
Sep 28th 2012
629
you have ANY idea how many *survey hollas* u just inspired?!?
Sep 28th 2012
630
SON. DONT SPOIL THE SURPRISE
Sep 28th 2012
657
I love how this post has boiled down to...
Sep 28th 2012
631
smh
Sep 28th 2012
636
When you point out people's privilege they get real defensive
Sep 28th 2012
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lol
Sep 28th 2012
649
just... damn shut up...
Sep 28th 2012
650
LMAO yes
Sep 28th 2012
666
      no.
Sep 29th 2012
681
i know no one is going to see this but...
Sep 28th 2012
637
almost 700 replies and no "I SWEAR IMMA MARRY A OKFEE"
Sep 28th 2012
641
can't marry em if you can't even talk to them.
Oct 01st 2012
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      lmao
Oct 03rd 2012
710
I SAY AGAIN:.......
Sep 28th 2012
645
lol why can't y'all just let these ladies emote?
Sep 28th 2012
652
if men would like for more women to be receptive to street hollers
Sep 28th 2012
654
I don't know very many real life events that ended with:
Sep 28th 2012
659
AND AT THE SAME TIME:
Sep 28th 2012
668
^^again, where r the acceptable places to holla^^
Sep 28th 2012
656
I highly doubt that you'll get an answer...
Sep 28th 2012
660
heres a few that ive found work great
Sep 28th 2012
662
Funny because I know plenty women who complain about these
Oct 01st 2012
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trace said in one of the replies in this post that clubs, lounges
Sep 28th 2012
667
      How am I supposed to know if she's walking to the store?
Sep 28th 2012
669
           well if you can't read her mind
Sep 28th 2012
670
                lmao. Its the lonely chicks makin excuses for not bein boo'd up
Sep 28th 2012
673
                LMAOOOOO
Oct 03rd 2012
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If you doin your numbers, don't listen to none of this shit in here.
Sep 28th 2012
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just dont holla at me at the gas station tho
Sep 28th 2012
663
DO NOT APPROACH ME ABOUT MY WHITE SHOES
Sep 28th 2012
671
BUT IT'S AFTER LABOR DAY!! DAMN RITE I'MMA SAY SOMETHIN!!!
Sep 29th 2012
678
I personally would rather K.I.M.
Sep 29th 2012
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There are a lot of POVs on this but it aint complicated.
Sep 29th 2012
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so it's either they want to be left alone or objectified...lol
Sep 29th 2012
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Either you're trolling or you must not read very well.
Sep 29th 2012
685
      OK CARL!
Sep 29th 2012
687
^ This
Sep 30th 2012
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"there are some women that want to be regarded as objects"
Oct 01st 2012
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Glad I live in a city where people are friendly and actually like each o...
Sep 29th 2012
683
But then they'd have a problem with this shit! Wheres the chivalry!!
Sep 29th 2012
688
I don't get why str8 men can't take "no" or no response for an answer
Sep 29th 2012
689
Because there's a rap stripper club video playing in their heads
Sep 29th 2012
691
Rootie Tootie Fresh And Fruity even made an appearance
Oct 01st 2012
699
all the dudes in the post not getting TRace's point
Sep 29th 2012
692
Do women think the assholes in the street
Sep 29th 2012
695
      THANK YOU!
Oct 01st 2012
698
I may catch flak for this, but as I guy, I somewhat understand
Sep 29th 2012
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niggas went from 0 to victim blaming/deal with it quick as fuck.
Oct 01st 2012
702
you post like you like niggas.
Oct 01st 2012
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      lol
Oct 01st 2012
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      I don't talk to niggas that write their name on the orange juice, kid.
Oct 01st 2012
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ironically this discussion came up with my wife last night
Oct 01st 2012
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i prayed this post would live to see another week.
Oct 01st 2012
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trace, we don't stand a chance...
Oct 01st 2012
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1. "RE: stop hollering at women on the street."
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2. "all seriousness. What if you approuch a woman correctly."
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Is that still a no go?



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I just can't believe, all the things people say. Controversy-Prince

  

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10. "there's no correct way to approach a woman on the street."
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22. "that sucks."
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41. "I'm starting to believe this.. cause I try my best to be open to whateve..."
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comes my way

but I can't.
I'm trying my best to imagine how a street holla can be okay but unless I'm standing still on the street (maybe waiting for the bus or the light to change) there really ain't a way I don't think

  

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153. "You notice him. He notices you noticing him. Yall lock eyes."
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You can see he's coming over. You start slowing down. He opens his mouth and starts talking. He's got your number 5 or 6 minutes later.

Happens everyday.

But the key ingredient is your interest at some point.

If route not interested, its unwelcome.

If you're interested, its a great story to tell at the wedding reception.

  

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94. "Not true"
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Valid street hollas DO EXIST.

There are tactful street hollas. I have experienced them.

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140. "Are others in agreeance?"
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'cause that's how it certainly feels.
Goes along w/ what we all talked about over the years.
Women want to be left alone in public places.

  

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3. "i support this post, forreal"
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prototype

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believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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4. "Unless you think hes cute in which case Holla away"
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Until women start making the 1st move consistently, it's the mans perogative on when the Holla goes down

Sorry Charlie


do or die

  

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9. "approaching a woman on the street is unattractive, no matter "
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what the approacher looks like.

it's invasive and uncomfortable and everyone needs to stop it.
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42. "No matter what he looks like? Like no discussion at all? nm"
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99. "dont buy that, at any price"
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476. "... TO YOU"
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Not all men holler the same and most definitely not all women react the same. You're assuming your personal tastes are shared by everyone with the same junk as you... they're almost certainly not.

I couldn't do the street holler because I haven't got the fucking guts, frankly, but I kind of respect those that can do it in a vaguely classy way. Obviously the shout from across the street is generally awful, but I've seen the conversation at the bus-stop, and the "You dropped something.." work amazingly in the past.

  

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12. "ugh, blame the victim"
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patriarchy at its worst

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25. "Now just the simple act of hollering victimizes women"
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Got it


do or die

  

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38. "man, shut yo gay ass up..."
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†††††††††††††††††††††††††††††††††††††††
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54. "man, I be trying, but...I'm glad you said something."
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"Give a woman the moon, bitch will want another moon to go with it"

(C) My Nigga Randall

  

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71. "naw, clown ass nigga"
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prototype

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260. "forgive me for laughing at this..out loud...at work. please+thanks"
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---
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373. "Your avi is being used from a malware site. Please change it."
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Anyone using Chrome gets red screen'd because of you.
Upload that image to a(n image) site that hasn't been hacked or used by douchebags.
Thanks.

  

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437. "I've had this avi for months. I aint changing nothin til the O's season ..."
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over.

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438. "You don't have to change it, just upload that image to another domain."
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tinypic, photobucket, imageshack, etc. and update that URL in your profile.

That image is currently hosted from a site that's flagged as malware.
Anyone using Chrome get a warning thrown at us anytime you post in a thread due to that image.

You don't have control over that site, but you *do* have control over where you can point that image to.

  

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473. "Lol no doubt!"
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That's a true fan

Instagram: @von_clay

  

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324. "Fix your sig fuck ass!!"
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LOL tho

but FIX YOUR FUCKING SIG!!

  

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376. "It's daryloneal avatar."
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Warning: Something's Not Right Here!
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Google has found malicious software may be installed onto your computer if you proceed. If you've visited this site in the past or you trust this site, it's possible that it has just recently been compromised by a hacker. You should not proceed, and perhaps try again tomorrow or go somewhere else.
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453. "Thats not what im talkig about. Im talking about assholes that dont sepe..."
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their sig's so that they don't look like part of their post. So you end up clinking their sig everytime you read their posts.

  

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428. "lmao"
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439. "Lmfao. Simple yet effective. "
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458. "LMAO"
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586. "hardeeharhar mofos. gay>>>stuck in ur sad rape culture world"
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prototype

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101. "i hate when okp latches onto a buzzword as evidence of enlightenment"
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the one that still gets me is groupthink, but patriachy is rapidly climbing the charts

  

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109. "niggas read the back of one bell hooks book and BOOM."
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131. "uh i experience the affects fo patriarchial bullshit in my own "
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life so please fuck off, u kno not what u speak

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163. "that is simultaneously entirely possible, unfortunate, and irrelevant"
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doesnt change the fact that big words spread around okp and suddenly become the explanation for things

  

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227. "k"
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short enuff word for u

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238. "lol that was all this ridiculous post deserved in the first place"
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451. "well said"
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5. "I just found out that this is something that only developed in"
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the last 30 years, or so.

To let my mother tell it, none of this was going on in the 60s and 70s.

She always suggests that I drop lines on girls in the street. I give her the what the hell are you talking about look and basically say "don't you know I'm liable to get stabbed and/or posted on Hollaback.com if I look at the wrong girl for second too long?"

I envy YT when it comes to this. Holler For Sport isn't such a terrible cancer on gender relations with them like it is with us.

  

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13. "yes it is"
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>I envy YT when it comes to this. Holler For Sport isn't such
>a terrible cancer on gender relations with them like it is
>with us.

they need to keep they mouths shut too
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6. "women: you don't have to talk to anyone you don't want to talk to."
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you don't owe anything to anyone.

you don't have to be polite.

you don't have to smile.

you're a grown ass woman. don't let men on the street make your decisions for you.

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14. "so why can't dude cuss you the fuck out?"
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"Give a woman the moon, bitch will want another moon to go with it"

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23. "because they should be mature enough to keep it moving if"
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someone doesn't want to speak?

i deserve to be left alone when i want to be left alone.
i don't deserve to be verbally assaulted for exercising that right.
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31. "so women don't have to be polite, but men do?"
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treating a motherfucker like they a homeless person asking for change is a good way to get blowed on. I wouldn't do it but, it should be some common respect on both sides.

"Give a woman the moon, bitch will want another moon to go with it"

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49. "im not encouraging women to blow up on a dude & spit in his face"
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i'm not encouraging women to blow up on a dude and spit in his face when he approaches her.
a lot of women will engage in unwanted conversation with a man just to be polite--we don't have to do that.
'i'm not interested' isn't rude.
me not trotting over to you like a dog after you've called out to me isn't rude.

leaving a woman alone when she expresses her disinterest isn't being polite, it's doing what you should have done in the first place.

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50. "im not encouraging women to blow up on a dude & spit in his face"
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i'm not encouraging women to blow up on a dude and spit in his face when he approaches her.
a lot of women will engage in unwanted conversation with a man just to be polite--we don't have to do that.
'i'm not interested' isn't rude.
me not trotting over to you like a dog after you've called out to me isn't rude.

leaving a woman alone when she expresses her disinterest isn't being polite, it's doing what you should have done in the first place.

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581. "so not getting it"
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smh

  

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15. "but SOME of those dudes be crazy, yall remember that vid"
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posted on here where these dudes were hollaring at this girl and she polited declined and one punched her so hard in the back that she went into the sidewalk face first, just fucked up

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298. "i wish that were true"
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A guy came after me w/ his fist balled after i ignored his "compliment"

So basically if a man gives me a respectful greeting "hello, good moening, etc". I'll respond in kind.

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459. "nah, you GON smile."
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648. "There's nothing wrong with being polite."
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They're a way to do everything.
Including a way to tell a man you aint interested. Politely and with respect, too.

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8. "never."
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11. "No, I won't."
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I was taught to go after what you want. I'd rather live with the negative consequences than to live with regrets.

I'm respectful as possible, but I'm still gonna *ask* so long that I'm single and unmarried.

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17. "don't be out in the street looking for a meal."
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it's a sidewalk, not a rotating buffet.

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32. "I mean, how could I *not* attempt a holler if you walked by me?"
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I'd be chopping it up with friends later, talking about "I saw this ~fine~ woman earlier on xyz street..."

The *first* thing they'd ask me is: "did you get her number?"


lol, even my mom would probably side-eye me if I didn't at least try.

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55. "by exhibiting self-control?"
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68. "It seems like you're more referring to harassment than hollering..."
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I do agree that harassment is disgusting. Personally, I hate (to see) that shit myself.

Hollering (at least how I do it) is a simple "hello" or "good morning", usually followed by an attempt to strike up a conversation. Simple as that. That basic cordiality. I don't see a problem with that.

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117. "I dont see a problem with that either"
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A good morning or whatever, followed by some conversation.
If a chick giving you the short answers or head nods...
It aint for you.
Chuck the dueces.

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583. "I know I've felt put out bypeople telling me "good morning" before"
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It's hard to put into words, even for me. But sometimes it's the manner in which it's done. Tone. Or it's completely out of sync with what *I'm* putting out there. Like, I could clearly be giving "don't want to be bothered" vibes (no eye contact, stank face, listening to music, reading, etc) and your salutation is just unwelcome. How presumptuous to think that just because you mean well, the recipient wants to RECEIVE that from you.

  

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614. "how long have you been pushing the button Desmond?"
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104. "not initiating conversation with an attractive woman is a virtue?"
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lol

  

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352. "by its rarity it would be"
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>lol



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or they can be common
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16. "where should men approach women that they find attractive and would"
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like to get to know better respectfully
unless you're just takin' the piss with this post
i'd like to know your thoughts

life always offers you a 2nd chance...it's called tomorrow. use it wisely

  

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37. "there are more constructive social situations."
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a public street isn't the only place and situation men have to meet women. it does not have to happen there.

in public conditions support an organic conversation between the two of you, tread lightly.
if you're not sure that your'e in such a social situation, don't do it.

it doesn't take a genius to figure out that if a women ignores you, if she's actively avoiding eye contact, if she doesn't stop when you call her, she's not interested.
and women are so conditioned to be complacent in these situations that often, just because she's being tolerant, it doesn't mean that she's interested.
don't chance it.

if you're convinced you just saw the future mother of your children walking to a bus stop, let god hook that up for yall.
leave it to fate & leave her alone.
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"lol wtf the world outside your front door is a social situation "


  

          

>if you're not sure that your'e in such a social situation, don't do it.

  

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382. "lol @ you not answering the question."
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I'll ask again:

What are the appropriate setting to holla @ a woman?

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18. "it dont get no more okplayery than this"
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19. "...but hollering on a messageboard is perfectly fine... "
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FOH





Goofy ass logic fail


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60. "this reply doesn't make half a piece of sense."
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what does someone's socially awkward ass online activity have to do with approaching women outside on the street in the real world?
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138. "if a woman can't handle a street holla without feeling"
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Some kinda way, then who is really the socially awkward one?


Nigga can't say where's your man or smile...


But TITS or GTFO or a/s/l will get you in the door


Half the chicks online titties out ass out bra and panties Skype sexin and all that shit, would side eye a regular nigga walking up to them starting some sort of conversation



Who is the socially awkward lol



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20. "*pulls up milk crate*"
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21. ""it's not my fault you're pretty!""
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did you catch this thread?:

http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=11518985&mesg_id=11518985&listing_type=search#11518997

it's sad that grown men have to be told these things.

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24. "Cuz it's never worked right lmao"
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58. "oppression can't exist without the permission/participation of the oppre..."
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this happens because it's working somewhere.
we need to teach our daughters what to expect and accept from men as we teach our sons how to treat women.
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113. "LMAO"
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26. "oh yeah 150,000 years of evolution called for you"
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they said "no."

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73. "things change over 150,000 years. we're more than a primitive drive."
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at least, the ones that aren't hollering at women on the street are.
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27. "does this still apply???"
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http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=11562739&mesg_id=11562739&page=3#11562747

for the record i agree with you. it was always uncomfortable to me. but we've all seen it work with some women. and not just work, but really work. so is this another of those things that only men you desire can do?
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believe in yourself.
have faith in your abilities.
without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers,
you cannot be successful or happy.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and

  

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80. "no."
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i realize that i can only speak for myself here

but the moment a man approaches me on the street, he becomes unattractive.
i'm not interested in someone who thinks that's appropriate.

i also don't really want some strange dude grinding his penis on me on a dancefloor.
i was bein silly with that.
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28. "It's so easy to talk to a woman on the street though."
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I've never understood why men can't do it properly and without desperate thirst seeping out of every pore in their body.

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29. "if they stop, then women would start complaining about why men"
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arent blowing up they egos (getting attention). its a part of nature, every male woos the female in a dance, facial makeup (monkeys with red face), build the biggest nest, etc. in this case men holla cuz its part of the mating evolution we've become accustomed to. yes some or all is disrespectful to most women as far as the type of holleration techniques that are out there, but men dont know that until you check them and tell them how'd you like to be approached.


anyway i wish there was a vid of black men vs other men hollering to women, i would wanna know who would come out on top.

take a message

  

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48. "Basically confession wednesday"
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70. "i understand evolution, but we're more than a primitive drive."
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your balls might be saying 'you need to plant a seed in that uterus. her estrogen levels are good, as evidenced by her fat ass and big titties, and im sure that she can nurse my children and see that they grow up strong and healthy, thus passing on my genes to the next generation.'

but your brain should say, 'this is not the time or place for this.'
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357. "she just did"
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>out there, but men dont know that until you check them and
>tell them how'd you like to be approached.


not on the street

you se the response in here
its not much better on the street when you tell them to stop


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30. "A closed mouth don't get fed n/m"
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84. "there are more appropriate places to look for a bite."
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133. "I'm sayin, where? "
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That's probably the one time I'm ever gonna see this woman so if I don't make contact then it's a wrap.

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389. "lol, everytime this question is asked, it's ignored."
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435. "Son. I don't know if this is a common feminine characterisitic"
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or if it's just common in the women I observe. But they can quickly and easily tell you what they *don't* like.

But ask them what they do like, and they're dumbfounded or continue to tell you what they don't like.
Now, of course, I've been told that women like for men to "just know" how to please them, but at some point that's just unrealistic.
Nigga askin' her a simple question to which a straight answer would diffuse all tension and can't get clear communication from her?
Sounds like she's to blame for her own complaints, at that point.

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447. "Because, man, if you REALLY loved her you would understand her.."
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"They used to call me Baby Luke....but now? The whole damn 2 Liiiive Crew."

  

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457. "lol"
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472. "Sounds pretty logical to me n/m"
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471. "Ok, so it's not just me then lol. "
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658. "No, lol. I've been waiting for the answer to this."
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So far... *crickets*

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33. "so wait I see an attractive woman as I'm walking down the street"
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I can't say hello and intro myself?
i can see if i'm in the car and pull over and open the door and tell her to get in...

but what's wrong with a PROPER intro and get to know u session if the feeling is mutual?

I got a good life man

  

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40. "RE: so wait I see an attractive woman as I'm walking down the street"
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>I can't say hello and intro myself? she reaching if she's including this in her list

>i can see if i'm in the car and pull over and open the door
>and tell her to get in...
what are trying to do pickup a prostitute


>but what's wrong with a PROPER intro and get to know u session
>if the feeling is mutual?
again she's talking for herself and not all women. shit i like the street hollas, keep'em coming.

take a message

  

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44. "shhh! you making too much sense right now dude."
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87. "no."
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>but what's wrong with a PROPER intro and get to know u session if the feeling is mutual?

there is no proper way to do it on the street.

it's SO pervasive that a lot of women--i know i cant speak for us all, but me and nearly every one that i know--get battered with that.
it's tired. it's never exceptional. im just trying to go guy a juice at the store.

there's a time and a place. the street, in my opinion, is not one of them at all.
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92. "so what makes you walking down the street different from you "
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being at a bar and I approach...
again it should not be over the top or disrespectful but if we make eye contact and it APPEARS she might be receptive to a "hello my name is Ed" I'm not seeing a problem..

again i've seen the side yall don't like and I agree but wow never new street holla was an off limit thing

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469. "Bars are places meant for social interaction."
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Going out on the street is a necessary step to get to bars, stores, restaurants or any other place with a specific purpose. I can imagine it being incredibly annoying if every time you go out to get some groceries or have a coffee with a friend, random people walk up to you and try to strike up a conversation that you're sure you're not interested in. Even though they mean well most of the time.

There's tons of places where striking up a conversation is more appropriate than on the street, go there. If you can't think of such places, it's probably time to stop hanging around on the street all day.

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34. "this is the dumbest post lol..."
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Game is a strategy...

If a dude ask you where your man at, it's obviously because you are that attractive and we KNOW 8 times out if 10 you will say you ain't got one...

...fine ass women we assume have men unless we find out otherwise, so why even ask the Megan Good clone where her man at?

...we don't even care if you HAVE a man anyway...



...know what, fuck it...


Okplayery shit

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88. "i can't help but feel that you've missed the point here."
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147. "you HAVE no point"
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170. "harassment is her point"
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200. "walking up to you and starting a convo is not "
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harassment.



Saying Bitch them is some big ass titties, can I borrow them for a few hours?
That's different...


A holla is a holla no matter where you are.

You having a bad day or a negative outlook on life and human interaction ain't MY problem.

Some women don't know how to communicate for shit.

Yeah, you don't have to talk to us, but there is also tact and maturity in being able to express that, although you may or may not be flattered by the attention or acknowledge the attempt to inquire about personal information, you aren't interested in taking it further than a thank you or kindly declining further conversation at that point...


Then KIM


anything past that would be considered harassment and THEN you can restructure your post to highlight negative reactions to polite rejection.


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211. "hello."
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fuck you.

  

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269. "if you arent walking up to the person next to me"
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>harassment.


and your fellow male
you might as well be saying
bitch i want to get with them big ass titties


when i have a pair of headphones on and am reading a book
when i am clearly walking during rush hour
again with headphones on
this is not simply starting a conversation
this is an imposition on my time

every precious second taken to stop you in your efforts to get at me
is a wasted second of my life
and this is not one second
this is several seconds
several minutes
from several males
several times a day

so excuse the millions of women who don't want to waste their precious time
which to most men apparently isnt precious
on a stranger on a street
again attempting to get their their pussy

its not communal pussy
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282. "I LOVE U"
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prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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348. "you are crazy as fuck, yo..."
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everyone ain't trying to get yo pussy first of all...



...secondly,

reading a book with headphones on while walking is a classic sign of a socially awkward fool.

Rush hour time is SO precious that you have to read Eric Jerome Dickey or the Bible, while listening to 2 Chainz and playing Temple Run while walking to the bus or train...


Half these broads plug into these outward devices just to take themselves further away from reality and interaction.

Is Gucci Mane that much more important...
Is 50 Shades of bullshit, THAT pivotal in your life?


Humanity suffers when women, the nurturers and mothers and teachers of this Earth, rush to disassociate themselves from their surroundings....

...each one teach one, not each one for themselves...

...the world was far better when people talked to each other and formed a sense of community and unity...

...nowadays, that antisocial "don't look at me, don't talk to me, don't tell me how to do anything, LEAVE ME ALONE! type bullshit takes society back so far...

Men will steady holla at what we like and strike convo...

If you are a man who is know to be a life of the party and conversationalist, as well as a jovial person in general, it will irk you to see people so focused on negativity and not appreciating the blessings and happiness they should be thankful for...

...oh you had a bad day, someone looked at your titties on the bus, someone with bad teeth had the audacity to say hello to you on the platform, you are so down and not feeling bothered????

...someone just died, someone just got raped, someone lost a leg or just got diagnosed with cancer...

...all this to say, THE WORLD DON'T REVOLVE AROUND YOU HEFFA! people have it much worse and some have it better and that negative, bitchy shit has no place in normal interaction.


Fuck your antisocial armor (phone, headphones, books etc.) a hello is a hello. A compliment is a compliment.




...saw this broad on the train a week ago on her okcupid phone app looking though boxes or pictures or however that shit works, and a dude say in front of her in a side facing seat and looked at her, smiled (said nothing) and sat there. 5 min later dude says, I like your ankh tattoo -short version of the story she was tatted up- and he has a similar one on his bicep, and she gives this annoyed look and pulls out some headphones and puts them in, naan music app turned on naan radio app, just still on that okcupid shit (I was all up in her screen trying to see what kinda pics she posted, cause she was banging...)

her lonely ass probably went home to set up a jump off session with some nigga named Nathaniel and missed an opportunity to just have a convo with dude and THAT shit happens ALL THE TIME...













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370. "fuck your crazy ass too"
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>everyone ain't trying to get yo pussy first of all...

get a pussy and find the fuck out
otherwise
stick to the dick you know about


>...secondly,
>
>reading a book with headphones on while walking is a classic
>sign of a socially awkward fool.

LOL

listen you want to go around talking to everyone all the time
have at it

dont expect me to engage with your stranger ass
yes what is going in my world in my device in my mind is
INFINITELY more important than ANYTHING you have to tell me
why?
because you're a strange
with ZERO entitlement to my time


take your altruistic sense of community
to the old woman or man sitting next to me
take your talkative lonely ass self to the psychiatrist even
because thats how desperate and lonely you are for someones time
that you need to approach a total stranger in the street
because you have no friends and no family who will speak to you
i on the other hand dont have this problem

so yes dont talk to me because those closest to you have deemed you unworthy of conversation
its highly and heavily doubtful your not after pussy
yes pussy
because there are 70 people on this muthafucking train
half of whom do not have headphones
and are not reading a damn book
and are not a woman
but your fool convincing no one regarding "community" and "social" ass wants to talk to the person in a crowd FULL of people
a woman with headphones, reading a book

thats rude, pathetic, sad and worthy of therapy & drugs
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377. "you probably the last woman in here that would have this issue"
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In the first place.

What you trying so hard to rep from the pretty girl side of the world is beyond me.


No wonder your only co-signer is a gay dude



Live women are in here posting they have no issue with interaction as long as it's respectful, while you the only one trying to not be bothered by anything.





Lets take a poll of how many women posting are single as FUCK and see if there is a pattern?


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379. "LOL"
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damn you sad

you time is done

run along now
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468. "Gotdamb lol"
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Basically tho.
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477. "what was it? purple mountains"
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oh and doc claw wants to socialize with you

but according to that

you aren't social or desirable enough to understand what he typed


LOL
yeah
purple mountains
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494. "No habla batshyt"
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498. "^^^^^ this nigga wilin...LOLOL"
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no diss
that shit was funny

  

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528. "you babble it real well though"
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574. "http://i52.tinypic.com/5p4xoo.jpg"
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http://i52.tinypic.com/5p4xoo.jpg






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391. "^^^^^^ lol......this reply was classic"
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made alot of sense

i don't believe that all approaches are negative ones....

but there are some that are.....just like anything else, i guess.


good points....

most were funny....lol

  

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386. "i've gotten this plenty times"
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> Bitch them is some big ass titties, can I borrow them
>for a few hours?


sans the "Bitch" part

niggas in the street are gully as fuck....



  

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394. "they are some big titties though..."
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In their defense...


...look like you trying to shoplift a couple beach balls from Sports Authority...


...look like you let a nigga titty fuck you raw and he got your chest pregnant with twins...


...look like you gonna need a separate Obamacare plan for your lower back...


...look like...


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403. "i would be lying"
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if i said i didn't laff at these....

i like u

in a "desus" kinda way.....


i do

  

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413. "i like you too..."
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...in a bloocollar Jade Typhoon post way...










...now had I been standing on 79th street, this convo wouldn't have been able to happen...



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35. "can we get a list of acceptable places to holla at women?"
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church
black owned bookstores
lobby after a charlie wilson concert

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47. "outside of the courtroom"
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Lobby of Planned parenthood
Parking lot outside prom
Outside of Olympia college and all the other schools where broads wear scrubs


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59. "NO LOGIN NO BALLS IN"
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85. "NO FOLLOW NO SWALLOW"
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74. "the let out."
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all let outs.
clubs.
bars.
church.
AA meetings.
the free clinic.

the let out is an acceptable holla zone.
if she wasn't tryna get that holla, why'd she even go in to come out.

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76. "grocery store/ home depot/ car wash/ coin-op/ vet office/ on the bus"
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230. "Weddings, funeral, the emergency room..."
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The abuse clinic, bookstore, concert, club, Costco, bus, bowling alley and sporting events.

No empathy for white misery (c) BDot

"root for everybody black haters say that's crazy, wow..."

  

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341. "the EMERGENCY room??? abuse clinic?????"
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wtf?

  

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36. "So should we follow them home, THEN holler?"
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________________________________________
"Stay out the dark, cause if I catch you when the sun is down..."
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46. "please god dont. the worst thing a woman hate is being followed."
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take a message

  

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90. "i chuckled. on some real shit though i got followed home at 12"
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by a grown ass man telling me how much he liked my overalls.

it starts so young, and men wonder why we're over this shit by the time we're 25.
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39. "ladies: stop dressing to get attention--"
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then get upset when you get that attention

stop pretending you were born yesterday

stop using your sexuality to get things

stop acting like you're entitled to chivalry and soft behavior

stop being equal and independent when it suits you

stop expecting people to take your feelings in to account

stop going on dates with men and expecting them to pick up the check AND see you as an equal

stop expecting men to pay for your time (or at least call it what it is: prostitution)

  

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57. "POAST"
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Once you tear a rose from the roots, the rose screams

  

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62. "^^THIS^^"
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http://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/Billy-D_Approves.gif

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111. "http://i54.tinypic.com/qq1rp1.jpg"
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http://i54.tinypic.com/qq1rp1.jpg







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167. "lol now im glad i didnt go the Predator route with mine"
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175. "LOL...yo, you and me was inna zone on some...>><<"
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125. "http://i25.tinypic.com/1551550.gif/"
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http://i25.tinypic.com/1551550.gif/

  

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142. "MENS RIGHTS MOVEMENT. "
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WHEN ARE MEN GOING TO STOP GETTING THE SHITTY END OF THE STICK.


i'm out.
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174. "www.sptimes.com/2004/10/25/images/homepg/preacher450.jpg"
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43. "When did u start posting so beige nygga"
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45. "I'll just park this here:"
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http://www.stopstreetharassment.org/male-allies/educating-boys-men/

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53. "i'm done with okplayer for today, ya'll have fun."
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http://leftycartoons.com/street-harassment/

take a message

  

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51. "stop walkin around lookin all good-n-stuff..."
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52. "I saw a dude do a wack hollar the other day..."
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...and she gleefully responded.

Therein lies the rub.

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64. "yep lol i dont mind street hollas as long as theyre not disrespectful"
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86. "exactly"
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hey how ya doing is fine, if I stop and engage you and actually look at you and smile then YOU ARE IN THERE.

if I keep walking, dont engage, dont give you eye contact and tell you I have a boyfreind after you ask and you still keep following me, trying to convince me that I want you, then thats a problem.


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124. "^ ^ ^This pretty-much covers it!"
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245. "I would stare "
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auset1 down until it was uncomfortable...

  

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460. "unbearably uncomfortable"
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i might not get to see anymore

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693. "I got light eyes so it "
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would take a while... lol.

  

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392. "THANK YOU!"
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Not every dude is an uncouth moron. A LOT of us get it.

smh

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56. "its fine as long as they come correct and are respectful "
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all this shit right here gotta go tho

>
>stop asking women where they men at
>
>stop calling women over to talk to you while you're sitting in
>your car
>
>stop telling them to smile (word to t.lynn faz -
>http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_majg4g5JyX1r1kx42o1_500.jpg)
>
>stop interrupting them when theyre on the phone, listening to
>music, reading a book or otherwise preoccupied
>
>stop pressing when she tells you she's not interested
>
>don't continue trying to talk to her after it's clear she's
>ignoring you
>
>stop thinking that 'damn baby you got a fat ass' is a
>compliment
>
>when she turns you down, don't call her a bitch and tell her
>she ain't that cute anyway
>
>stop feeling like we owe you time or conversation
>
>if she snaps at you, don't blame her
>

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77. "tell em!(c)Biggie"
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61. "i look at women on the street like i'm gonna rob them at gunpoint"
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that's the reaction they're afraid of, that's the reaction they deserve to get and i give it to 'em.

https://twitter.com/chuck4prez

  

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63. "that is the dumbest thing i think i've read on here all week"
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---------------------------------------
believe in yourself.
have faith in your abilities.
without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers,
you cannot be successful or happy.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and

  

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66. "the poast called for it"
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https://twitter.com/chuck4prez

  

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91. "it actually didn't, at all."
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96. "*hollas at trace on the street, with my had in my hoodie like i got a ga..."
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https://twitter.com/chuck4prez

  

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98. "ok"
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108. "only on days when louisville plays pitt tho"
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https://twitter.com/chuck4prez

  

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114. "stop"
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you creeped it up
aint no 'laugh it off' joke you can throw out there

just let it fade organically
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116. "yawn"
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179. "LMAO!!"
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65. "The class element to this issue seems huge, to me."
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But no one mentions that part.

  

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"i actually agree with this, u dont see many men in suits doing"


  

          

this or with good jobs

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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624. "walk down wall street in a sun dress"
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yuck mouth knows no class, financial status, etc.

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67. "the alternative is what? the internet* and mutual friends"
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*where 85% of my numbers have been done from anyway

women dont want to be approached in clubs

women dont want to be approached in public by strangers

what's left as a solution to this problem?

it cant be as cut and dry as "street hollers are wrong" bc in no way is every street holler harassment

  

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78. "The solution is clear: step aside and let a Live Nigga holler."
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Problem solved.

Well, not really, because who she thinks is a Live Nigga won't always match if the dude thinks he's a Live Nigga.

  

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79. "The solution is clear: step aside and let a Live Nigga holler."
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Problem solved.

Well, not really, because who she thinks is a Live Nigga won't always match if the dude thinks he's a Live Nigga.

  

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95. "this isn't up to you to decide."
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>in no way is every street holler harassment

your INTENT may not be to harass, but you don't get to decide whether or not you're being harassing. that's up to the person on the receiving end.


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115. "why did you use the word 'holler'?"
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is every approach a 'holler'?

do you think it's always unacceptable for a man to approach a woman he doesn't know? if not, when is it appropriate?

fuck you.

  

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155. "^^^^^^"
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That's all I really want to know.

  

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119. "By the time you have enough info to decide, the holler has already "
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happened.

Unless you just know that nothing out of this dudes mouth is going to be persuasive.

In which case the real issue is that that particular guy was the "wrong guy", he never had a chance.

  

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246. "for clarity: it isnt harassment if she's open to being approached"
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facts:
women are great
women deserve to be approached with respect
every woman doesnt take being approached in the street as harassment, disrespect or a nuisance

i think (with all the respect in the world for your writing talents), this post should have been framed in more of a "if a woman is clearly uninterested, leave her alone" type of direction

you made things really cut and dry when it's kind of a Trace thing that many women can relate to, not an all women thing

  

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107. "agreed."
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fuck you.

  

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69. "it would be great if they did."
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like LIFE CHANGING great.
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72. "now would you trade all that.. to be ugly as fuck???"
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"Give a woman the moon, bitch will want another moon to go with it"

(C) My Nigga Randall

  

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82. "Yo, I have NO DAMN IDEA why I burst into laughter off this reply."
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I think it was the ellipsis before "to be ugly as fuck?" that shattered my gentle spirit.

☺☻

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83. "all what?"
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