then get upset when you get that attention

stop pretending you were born yesterday

stop using your sexuality to get things

stop acting like you're entitled to chivalry and soft behavior

stop being equal and independent when it suits you

stop expecting people to take your feelings in to account

stop going on dates with men and expecting them to pick up the check AND see you as an equal

stop expecting men to pay for your time (or at least call it what it is: prostitution)