26. "You had the exclusive talk for a reason..." In response to In response to 0 Thu Mar-21-19 12:22 PM by Crash85
Now, are you upset that you weren't out there trying to make it happen before you became exclusive? It doesn't sound like she was trying to make it happen, but she was on vacation and the shit happened...
It sucks...
At least she was honest, though...
Don't think that all your firsts with her don't mean shit now... They still do...
Say you break up over this... And in 20 years, you look back at this, you really gonna care about what happened 2 weeks after you first hooked up? Nah, you're gonna be thinking what if I had figured out a way to get over it...
People sleep with people... And she did her thing and then decided that you were the one... I'd be happy about that...
But you really have to take your time with this because it's obviously affected you...
If you stay with her, you can't hold this against her... You can't judge her for it... You have to forgive her... You won't forget, but you have to forgive her... You can't let it simmer on the back burner because eventually it will explode... You have to be secure enough with yourself and your relationship to know that she loves you and didn't tell you to hurt you... She told you because it was hurting her... And she doesn't want it to hurt your relationship in the future... Might sound selfish, but an honest relationship is the best one...
Best of luck to you man...
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