3. "Get over it! She probably didn't enjoy it!" In response to In response to 0 Thu Mar-21-19 05:12 AM by Mori
I had sex with someone else while really pining for my main squeeze. In this day and age, we are told to keep it moving, keep options open, dole out our bodies and emotions to many different people, so we don't get hurt.
Sex before serious doesn't mean the feelings weren't strong, she probably wasn't sure if you two would go anywhere and thought, "might as well have some fun!".
In my past, I dated a guy who told me, I can't control if you date other people, but I don't divide my affection and I only want to be with you. It shifted my whole outlook. Now, I really try to put my all into one person while dating. It is about me feeling focused and committed, and not passing my attention around to any ole body.
Exclusivity must be earned and agreed upon, never assumed.