29. "RE: You've been together 2 years" In response to In response to 23
Yeah, I know that. Intellectually I've made my peace with what happened, and even empathize with my gf. She went through some upside-down hell shit before me. I'm just waiting for the heart and gut to catch up with my mind now.
As far as why she told me, her motives seem nothing but genuine. We started talking about marriage and she said she didn't want to have secrets. I would have preferred her not telling me, but I do see this leaning-in towards sharing and honesty as a very good omen for the future.