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GrumpySmurf
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"Poll question: You cool with your girlfriends best friend being a straight guy?"


  

          

Poll result (22 votes)
Yes (3 votes)Vote
Hail naw (19 votes)Vote
Im fine with it, I dont care if its Morris Chestnut (0 votes)Vote
You're an insecure, self hatin, coon! (0 votes)Vote

  

  

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every best female friend i've had, we messed around.
Dec 13th 2016
1
^^^yup
Dec 13th 2016
4
Yup. smashed first, then became and remained friends
Dec 13th 2016
73
Nooooooooooope. I have 3 super close, and 2-3 others. Ain't touched any
Dec 14th 2016
129
      hmmmm.
Dec 14th 2016
131
           Yupppppppppppppppppp
Dec 14th 2016
133
                reply 20. these niggas dumb though
Dec 14th 2016
134
That shit just doesn't happen when you reach a certain age.
Dec 13th 2016
2
basically...
Dec 13th 2016
16
pretty much
Dec 14th 2016
97
I'm not cool with my girl's best friend* being a guy, straight or gay
Dec 13th 2016
3
fuck no. BUT i've been the best friend before AND....
Dec 13th 2016
5
Word, if Im trying to hit; I wont wanna be her best friend if she has a
Dec 13th 2016
6
i mean, i wasn't trying to be her best friend either...
Dec 13th 2016
13
yeah, i've been there too.
Dec 13th 2016
7
we kick it all the time
Dec 13th 2016
8
^^^makes sense concerning you
Dec 13th 2016
12
go ahead explain
Dec 13th 2016
14
      you going to end up being a homewrecker
Dec 13th 2016
15
           or just a salt throwing nigga
Dec 13th 2016
19
           Rule one of opposite sex besties: Don't vent about relationship issues
Dec 13th 2016
26
                if you vent and the friend takes your side...
Dec 13th 2016
32
                RE: Rule one of opposite sex besties: Don't vent about relationship issu...
Dec 13th 2016
67
           other way around. my lady had a guy best friend before I was around
Dec 13th 2016
20
           http://smg.photobucket.com/user/BR225/media/gifs/ray-jpricelessface.gif....
Dec 13th 2016
22
           :snickers:
Dec 13th 2016
23
                shut up man
Dec 13th 2016
25
                not sure where the conversation is supposed to go from here
Dec 13th 2016
30
                *chuckles*
Dec 13th 2016
53
                     by all means, tell me more about my wife and her friend
Dec 13th 2016
56
                          https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r58GQYFZeLE
Dec 13th 2016
59
                          It's just jokes man. It's okay to laugh.
Dec 13th 2016
68
           YESH
Dec 14th 2016
112
oh, you that nigga
Dec 13th 2016
18
Not sure it's my place to be cool with it but....
Dec 13th 2016
9
Cool? No. Distraught? Not that either.
Dec 13th 2016
10
can I have a female bestie too?
Dec 13th 2016
11
tHat part
Dec 13th 2016
89
Who cares. If they were friends for years they wouldda fucked already
Dec 13th 2016
17
All you had to say is you were cool with it. Damn man
Dec 13th 2016
21
words words words words
Dec 13th 2016
24
^^ Another rule: NONEWFRIENDS NONEWFRIENDS NONEWFRIENDS
Dec 13th 2016
27
...so you're not familiar with the long game?? lol....
Dec 13th 2016
If you ain't spackle them cheeks in ten years
Dec 13th 2016
36
      That IS the long game though.... one day, ol boy gonna get in the doghou...
Dec 13th 2016
40
smh bruh, niggas be waiting in the secondary all season, just knowing
Dec 13th 2016
45
LOOOL.
Dec 13th 2016
49
I just think they're going to be real upset when it ends like
Dec 13th 2016
57
The best DB's have short memories
Dec 13th 2016
78
      I think Eric Weddle will remember legarrette lol
Dec 13th 2016
81
           lmao... I bet he was like "what hit?"
Dec 13th 2016
84
                oh damn I forgot about that one
Dec 13th 2016
85
LOL
Dec 13th 2016
65
ELI STILL A 2 TIME SUPERBOWL CHAMP THO
Dec 14th 2016
113
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCc6O8F-ntQ
Dec 13th 2016
72
eh, I don't think that'd be a dealbreaker
Dec 13th 2016
28
On the flip, almost every man who wanted to start a "friendship" w/ me
Dec 13th 2016
29
why did you and him break up?
Dec 13th 2016
31
I think you misread the post.
Dec 13th 2016
35
      yes. my bad
Dec 13th 2016
37
           No sweat :)
Dec 13th 2016
39
we don't really want to be friends
Dec 13th 2016
34
If you start as my friend, you will end as my friend
Dec 13th 2016
38
      date you?
Dec 13th 2016
42
      If I've ever called you "bro" or "fam" we not fucking
Dec 13th 2016
43
      I still can't figure out why friendship so often "taints" the possibilit...
Dec 13th 2016
46
           Honestly? If you wanted to date/ smash from jump
Dec 13th 2016
50
                Ah. So failing to live up to the male gender role of being the strong
Dec 13th 2016
51
                     This is just me. Some women get off on their male "friends"
Dec 13th 2016
55
                          The technical term for that is "Simp".
Dec 13th 2016
66
                          lol @ all of this...this is authentic discourse tho.
Dec 14th 2016
105
                          When I was younger...
Dec 13th 2016
92
did they present it like that? like "oh let's be friends"?
Dec 13th 2016
44
      This is how it always starts:
Dec 13th 2016
48
           I wonder if dudes in this pattern think they're fooling themselves
Dec 13th 2016
54
           straight up shameless, ain't it?
Dec 13th 2016
70
                and it's a lie from the "you're cool"
Dec 13th 2016
71
           Damn - these are guys with wives and such?
Dec 13th 2016
69
           work is weird tho....at what point is he supposed to holla?
Dec 14th 2016
106
                If you have a girl, the point is never
Dec 14th 2016
107
hell and no
Dec 13th 2016
33
Related: developing a legit friendship with your boy's S.O.
Dec 13th 2016
41
haha yeah...i can only think of one of my boy's girl that i would even
Dec 13th 2016
47
that isnt related at all
Dec 13th 2016
52
Yes it is.
Dec 13th 2016
58
      one scenario is a dude being her friend before I was there
Dec 13th 2016
60
           Both uncomfortable opposite sex friendships, that's the connection.
Dec 13th 2016
61
                There is a channel dedicated to these types of scenarios
Dec 13th 2016
82
                     Even if he didn't try, he looked for his opening and determined he
Dec 13th 2016
83
                          He hit on all my friends but not me
Dec 13th 2016
86
most of my boys are married...i wouldn't meet up with their wives ..
Dec 13th 2016
62
yeah. She got my info to plan his surprise BDay party.
Dec 13th 2016
64
Lot of variables here.
Dec 13th 2016
63
men and women can't be friends w/o resolving the sex issue
Dec 13th 2016
74
"a woman cant be attractive without us wanting to fuck" - you
Dec 13th 2016
76
don't hate men, hate biology
Dec 13th 2016
79
      maybe it's different for me because I've been out the game for so long
Dec 13th 2016
87
           RE: maybe it's different for me because I've been out the game for so lo...
Dec 14th 2016
102
                as long as there are straight male friends you are in the game
Dec 14th 2016
109
                congratulations on knowing my life better than I do
Dec 14th 2016
110
                     what makes you think I know your life?
Dec 14th 2016
120
Mutual non-attraction, too.
Dec 13th 2016
80
No, because I know how I think
Dec 13th 2016
75
Smart dude. Never ask a woman about other men
Dec 13th 2016
77
RE: You cool with your girlfriends best friend being a straight guy?
Dec 13th 2016
88
I had a female best friend up till I was like 23
Dec 13th 2016
90
Sounds like she was more attracted to you than you to her.
Dec 13th 2016
91
Most of you breeder dudes are insecure dolts.
Dec 14th 2016
93
if a dick falls in the forest....
Dec 14th 2016
94
you mean y'all didn't do an Eiffel Tower? C'mon man, what's the point?
Dec 14th 2016
96
so...if men ain't shit then i should be pushing up on my homies, right?
Dec 14th 2016
117
      not all, I meant on some game recognize game shit.
Dec 14th 2016
118
           there was no 'eiffel tower' 15 years ago.
Dec 14th 2016
124
lol, no you don't.
Dec 14th 2016
98
lmao
Dec 14th 2016
100
lol haha.
Dec 14th 2016
103
damn. missed this jewel. bodied.
Dec 14th 2016
111
tell Funk Flex to drop a bomb on it
Dec 14th 2016
115
oh i do.
Dec 14th 2016
116
LMAO
Dec 14th 2016
121
apples and oranges, but okay.
Dec 14th 2016
99
      apples and bananas, whole bunch of bananas
Dec 14th 2016
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      bagels and bananas.
Dec 14th 2016
104
           pumpernickel bagels
Dec 14th 2016
108
                bruh.. n/m
Dec 14th 2016
122
      How, Sway?
Dec 14th 2016
114
           wait, so gay dudes hang out sometimes and it doesn't turn into a wild or...
Dec 14th 2016
119
           ikr?
Dec 14th 2016
123
           What does this have to do with the subject? It clearly says 'girlfriend'
Dec 14th 2016
126
                niggas want it to be one way...
Dec 14th 2016
127
                and what's the difference?
Dec 14th 2016
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           Yall take on different roles... top, bottom, verse, etc
Dec 14th 2016
125
Hell No is the only answer
Dec 14th 2016
95
It can be dangerous but you can usually tell when it's more to it
Dec 14th 2016
130
The issue is not the gender of the friend
Dec 14th 2016
132

Cenario
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1. "every best female friend i've had, we messed around."
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the last one, i married.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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4. "^^^yup"
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73. "Yup. smashed first, then became and remained friends"
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got the sexual tension and bodily fluid exchange out the way
and now we been friends for years

  

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129. "Nooooooooooope. I have 3 super close, and 2-3 others. Ain't touched any"
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and never had the desire to. But their homegirls??? I've def messed with a homegirl of each of them.

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131. "hmmmm. "
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133. "Yupppppppppppppppppp"
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134. "reply 20. these niggas dumb though"
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2. "That shit just doesn't happen when you reach a certain age. "
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You use to see that rah rah in college and after that but once you get older and get in serious relationships, kids, life, ain't nobody making time for some opposite sex best friend.


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16. "basically..."
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>You use to see that rah rah in college and after that but
>once you get older and get in serious relationships, kids,
>life, ain't nobody making time for some opposite sex best
>friend.
>

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97. "pretty much"
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Coolin...

  

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3. "I'm not cool with my girl's best friend* being a guy, straight or gay"
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Just reverse the genders to see how bad of an idea that is.


*this depends on what kinda "best friends" tho. If it's mostly facebook and occasional calls then whatever, but if it involves going out on dates and all then the she's better off being single.

  

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5. "fuck no. BUT i've been the best friend before AND...."
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yes, i did end up fucking the girlfriend every time.

so, THAT'S why i say "FUCK NO!" lol.

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6. "Word, if Im trying to hit; I wont wanna be her best friend if she has a"
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man.

  

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13. "i mean, i wasn't trying to be her best friend either..."
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except in that "he's my man. i love him, he's my best friend" kind of way. which is to say i was trying to get her man out the paint.

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7. "yeah, i've been there too."
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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8. "we kick it all the time"
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12. "^^^makes sense concerning you"
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14. "go ahead explain"
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15. "you going to end up being a homewrecker"
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19. "or just a salt throwing nigga"
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"he prolly lying girl, guys always say that shit when they want to hang with the fellas"


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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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26. "Rule one of opposite sex besties: Don't vent about relationship issues"
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w/ them.

I would say this for same sex besties too. As I've gotten older, when I start wanting to talk about relationship problems w/ my single friends, it's usually time to end it.

  

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32. "if you vent and the friend takes your side..."
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it's salt in the game.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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67. "RE: Rule one of opposite sex besties: Don't vent about relationship issu..."
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>w/ them.
>
>I would say this for same sex besties too. As I've gotten
>older, when I start wanting to talk about relationship
>problems w/ my single friends, it's usually time to end it.


This is a good rule. I've been the listening-ear to women before and it 100% of the time ends up with said woman catching feelings

  

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20. "other way around. my lady had a guy best friend before I was around"
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he would try to kick it to a couple of her homegirls but not her
we're all tight now

  

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22. "http://smg.photobucket.com/user/BR225/media/gifs/ray-jpricelessface.gif...."
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http://smg.photobucket.com/user/BR225/media/gifs/ray-jpricelessface.gif.html

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23. ":snickers:"
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>he would try to kick it to a couple of her homegirls but not
>her
>we're all tight now

  

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25. "shut up man"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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30. "not sure where the conversation is supposed to go from here"
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I guess your insinuation is men and women can never be platonic.

  

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53. "*chuckles*"
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>>he would try to kick it to a couple of her homegirls but
>not
>>her
>>we're all tight now

  

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56. "by all means, tell me more about my wife and her friend"
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59. "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r58GQYFZeLE"
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>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r58GQYFZeLE

  

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68. "It's just jokes man. It's okay to laugh."
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You *do* laugh, don't you?

  

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112. "YESH"
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18. "oh, you that nigga"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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9. "Not sure it's my place to be cool with it but...."
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...3 exs cheated on me with their straight male "best friend". Found out about one years after we split tho...lol 😕

  

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10. "Cool? No. Distraught? Not that either."
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Somewhere in the middle.

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11. "can I have a female bestie too?"
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nm

_________________________________________
"Too weird to live.... too rare to die..."

PS+ ID: KnowOne215 | XBL GamerTag: KnowOne 215

  

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89. "tHat part"
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IG: amadu_me

"...Whateva, man..." (c) Redman

  

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17. "Who cares. If they were friends for years they wouldda fucked already"
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If its a new dude that's suddenly hopped into her life, that's a whole other story.

Im not about to go re-regulate someones pre-existing relationships based on my ego.

  

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21. "All you had to say is you were cool with it. Damn man"
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24. "words words words words "
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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27. "^^ Another rule: NONEWFRIENDS NONEWFRIENDS NONEWFRIENDS"
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NoNoNo... after a relationship starts.

  

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"...so you're not familiar with the long game?? lol...."


  

          

  

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36. "If you ain't spackle them cheeks in ten years"
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but when I hook up with her suddenly you painting picassos (c) Gucci...I almost can't be mad. I musta been fucking up, BAD, LOL.

  

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40. "That IS the long game though.... one day, ol boy gonna get in the doghou..."
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and THEN tis on.....




"Get ready....for your blessing....."

  

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45. "smh bruh, niggas be waiting in the secondary all season, just knowing"
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sooner or later you gon eff up and lob one downfield like Eli.

Niggas gon intercept and be celebrating like Sherman

https://i.ytimg.com/vi/P2cyrOHbwAA/maxresdefault.jpg

And you gon be stuck at home with the eli face.

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BwO9s4RCEAA5dG5.png
http://cdn1.vox-cdn.com/uploads/chorus_asset/file/368784/smelli_1.0.jpg
http://www.gannett-cdn.com/-mm-/9b29c45bfa6b603f3ce8fa6e73ad3e9442c7fff1/c=0-0-282-376&r=537&c=0-0-534-712/local/-/media/2016/02/08/USATODAY/USATODAY/635905449208210057-EliManning.JPG

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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49. "LOOOL."
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I applaud the use of the Eli face, had a whole Eli convo yesterday.

My thing is if he's been slacking all this time, and it's on my watch he's able to QB sneak his way in...I gotta give it up to him, lol. I knew that was the only move he had left, I had my defenses up, and he was able to pull off the win? I bow to the simp lord, lol.



>sooner or later you gon eff up and lob one downfield like
>Eli.
>
>Niggas gon intercept and be celebrating like Sherman
>
>https://i.ytimg.com/vi/P2cyrOHbwAA/maxresdefault.jpg
>
>And you gon be stuck at home with the eli face.
>
>https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BwO9s4RCEAA5dG5.png
>http://cdn1.vox-cdn.com/uploads/chorus_asset/file/368784/smelli_1.0.jpg
>http://www.gannett-cdn.com/-mm-/9b29c45bfa6b603f3ce8fa6e73ad3e9442c7fff1/c=0-0-282-376&r=537&c=0-0-534-712/local/-/media/2016/02/08/USATODAY/USATODAY/635905449208210057-EliManning.JPG

  

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57. "I just think they're going to be real upset when it ends like"
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http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.2354182.1441831082!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/article_750/gtop10playspull-6-web.jpg

https://i.ytimg.com/vi/kP78mum2Wn8/maxresdefault.jpg

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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78. "The best DB's have short memories"
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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81. "I think Eric Weddle will remember legarrette lol"
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https://www.instagram.com/p/BN8cl-jjQ0x/

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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84. "lmao... I bet he was like "what hit?""
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Wow... still aint as bad as the Peterson doormat on Willie Gay

https://youtu.be/KmrAyU3HcU0

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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85. "oh damn I forgot about that one"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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65. "LOL"
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113. "ELI STILL A 2 TIME SUPERBOWL CHAMP THO"
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http://soundcloud.com/djshinobishaw
http://www.rareformnyc.com
http://twitter.com/DJShinobiShaw
https://twitter.com/RareFormNYC
PSN: ShinobiShaw

"Arm Leg Leg Arm How you doin?" (c)T510

  

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72. "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCc6O8F-ntQ"
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCc6O8F-ntQ

  

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28. "eh, I don't think that'd be a dealbreaker"
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but then again if they're having brunch tee hee-ing every day and ya man really is morris chestnut, maybe I'd feel differently

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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29. "On the flip, almost every man who wanted to start a "friendship" w/ me"
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after having a wife/ girl wanted to fuck me.

The only exception? One guy friend introduced me to his girlfriend now wife, and we're besties now, and routinely leave him out of shit.

No solo opposite gender friends while you're in a relationship. The friend has got to be friends to you both.

  

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31. "why did you and him break up?"
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35. "I think you misread the post."
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Or you're implying something, not sure which one.

Guy and I became friends in grad school, and when I moved I moved to the town where his girlfriend lives.

Girl and I got close, and started having girl hangs.

They got married and we all hang together now.

  

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37. "yes. my bad"
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39. "No sweat :)"
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34. "we don't really want to be friends"
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but we have to in order to get yall to "trust" us

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38. "If you start as my friend, you will end as my friend"
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I've never dated a male friend.

If our energy starts out platonic, I'll never be attracted to you in "that" way.

Every dating/relationship situation I've been in has started w/ a date inquiry, either from him or (more rarely) from me.

  

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42. "date you? "
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we ain't trying to do that either.

can't date a woman who would has straight male friends...

(not you, just in general)

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caramelapplebttms
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43. "If I've ever called you "bro" or "fam" we not fucking"
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>we ain't trying to do that either.
>
>can't date a woman who would has straight male friends...
>
>(not you, just in general)

If I'm attracted to you and I like spending time with you, either we're dating or we're nothing. This happens so rarely that I'm not going to torture myself by forcing platonic feelings or, worse, end up in a "situation."

If I'm only physically attracted to you, no need to play the friend game. I don't friend people who don't stimulate me mentally.

If you're cool and there's no attraction? That. Will.Never.Change.

I've had male friends glo-up like shit. Lose weight, get good paying jobs, start smelling good. No matter. Once bro, always bro.

  

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46. "I still can't figure out why friendship so often "taints" the possibilit..."
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of something more for so many women.

  

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50. "Honestly? If you wanted to date/ smash from jump"
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and you didn't say so, I don't respect you enough to date you and I'm too turned off to fuck you.

  

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51. "Ah. So failing to live up to the male gender role of being the strong"
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initiator. I guess, being a dude, I don't viscerally identify with that as an attractive trait, but it makes sense in my brain.

  

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55. "This is just me. Some women get off on their male "friends""
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quietly pinning and suffering in silence for them. I can't do it. It's too inauthentic.

  

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66. "The technical term for that is "Simp"."
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>quietly pinning and suffering in silence for them.

___________

Back again for the first time.

  

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105. "lol @ all of this...this is authentic discourse tho."
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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92. "When I was younger..."
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...hearing women I had an unspoken interest in say stuff like this would piss me off... then I realized a number of my female friends had been planning FOR YEARS the perfect opportunity to jump my bones and... there was just no way I could see us shifting from a platonic to a sexual relationship.

Sucks to be on the receiving end of unrequited love/lust, it really does... but experiencing the situation from both angles really granted me some insight.

  

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44. "did they present it like that? like "oh let's be friends"?"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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caramelapplebttms
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48. "This is how it always starts: "
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Happens more times than I can count, and always in a work setting.

1) After a good convo, guy says "you're cool."
2) Guy starts coming to my cube/ office to "talk" or "catch up."
3) Guy starts offering to do me work-related favors.
4) Guy says some variation of "You're so awesome. Why are you single?"
5) Guy getting more playful/borderline inappropriate w/ touching, or starts hugging me for too long.
6) Guy comes to my cube/ office and says nothing. When I don't do anything, he leaves.
7) Guy either 1) Admits feelings or 2) Gives a platonic "what if?"
8) I listen without judgement, saying something like "I accept what you said, I'm so glad we can remain professional colleagues" or in the platonic situation, tell him what I would do in a way that shoots him down.

Now, how he will take it varies in a few ways.
1) Most often, he'll accept the rejection and continue to be cordial, but more appropriately so.
2) He'll become distant in a weird and obvious way or
3) He'll quit/ transfer jobs (this has only happened in retail).

  

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54. "I wonder if dudes in this pattern think they're fooling themselves"
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or you.

cuz yeah, that's exactly how it goes

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70. "straight up shameless, ain't it?"
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especially at work.

___________

Back again for the first time.

  

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71. "and it's a lie from the "you're cool""
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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soulfunk
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69. "Damn - these are guys with wives and such? "
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Apparently dudes are savages out in these streets...

  

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106. "work is weird tho....at what point is he supposed to holla?"
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i guess if once he gets rejected he dips or is acting funny, then he only wanted one thing...so he shoulda made it known from jump.

but sometimes women grow on you, or you not gonna leap until you believe it'll be reciprocated. Just saying all of that don't necessarily mean dude was scheming from jump.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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107. "If you have a girl, the point is never"
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I think being approached by so many men in relationships at work is part of why I'm a bit closed off to dating. When these men are at work, they act completely single. The married ones too.

Once I can accept the fact that having a man means being cheated on at some point, I might get back in there.

  

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33. "hell and no"
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my current gf has a gay best friend. And even with that I'm a little weary

  

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41. "Related: developing a legit friendship with your boy's S.O."
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I never EVER text just her - I either text just him or the both of them, and make it clear I'm addressing the two of them (often it's updates on my love life).

  

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47. "haha yeah...i can only think of one of my boy's girl that i would even"
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text and that's my wife's best friend.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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52. "that isnt related at all"
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unless there's a group chat we're all in, we would have no separate relationship past Facebook/IG friends

I've gone to Bible study with one of my wife's best girlfriends without her there, but we've never texted about anything other than a Black Friday deal I knew about where she wanted to buy her guy a pair of shoes

  

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58. "Yes it is."
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60. "one scenario is a dude being her friend before I was there"
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another scenario is me being too buddy buddy with my boy's new girlfriend

the latter is far closer to a violation

  

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61. "Both uncomfortable opposite sex friendships, that's the connection."
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82. "There is a channel dedicated to these types of scenarios"
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i don't care what a women tells me. If she is fine, that friend has tried to hit on her.

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83. "Even if he didn't try, he looked for his opening and determined he "
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never had one, so he left it alone.

  

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86. "He hit on all my friends but not me"
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Nigga...

I heard that bullshit before.

Unless all her friends are fat and white and she is skinny and Black I ain't buying it.

I always assume the worst. It ain't like I can go back in time but nigga be gone now that I'm here.

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62. "most of my boys are married...i wouldn't meet up with their wives .."
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...for drinks...lol...but I'd text them just like that...no issues
It's always with a question tho...business advice kinda thing....we were never close like that...

  

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64. "yeah. She got my info to plan his surprise BDay party."
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We texted back and forth to find a venue, and she needed my advice on what to get him as a gift, etc. The whole exchange of text lasted about a week, and ended the day before the party. Once he found about it, he felt some kinda way.

( I had NO interest in his girl ).

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63. "Lot of variables here."
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I've been the best friend.

One night YEARS ago (well over a decade)we went out, got drunk and made out . Nothing happened beyond that, and it never happened again.

But now she's married, and we're still really good friends. ( I knew them both before they knew each other, and I consider them both friends). Also, ol boy has met some of my SO's when I've been in relationships. So it's not like I'm lurking, waiting for him to fuck up.

He's cool with us being friends, and I'd never disrespect their marriage.


I'd never do a guy dirt, but in a different situation, and they weren't both my friends? who knows?

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74. "men and women can't be friends w/o resolving the sex issue"
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either he's putting his bid in trying to hit
or they've already smashed

the first one is disingenuous, because he's not trying to be her platonic friend.
the second is the civilized adult way. Either smash and move on to friendship, or smash and step off.

  

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76. ""a woman cant be attractive without us wanting to fuck" - you"
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not even "yeah I would if it happened randomly" or "I wouldnt turn it down"

yall are saying "single men and women cant be friends because we always want to fuck"

think about this next time yall wonder why women dont post here anymore

  

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79. "don't hate men, hate biology"
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yes, in fact men do want to procreate with attractive women
the social contract, manners, morals, and not being an animal prevent us from acting on our base instincts

You know things like mutual attraction, consent, and disposition

But you do you

  

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87. "maybe it's different for me because I've been out the game for so long"
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but I have a good number of "attractive" homegirls who I dont even imagine smashing

sex was never really the immediate goal when I was single though, I liked getting to know people and Im still friends with people I "talked to" and never smashed. Im also now friendly with women I slept with once without that even being my intent to begin with

  

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102. "RE: maybe it's different for me because I've been out the game for so lo..."
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Im also now
>friendly with women I slept with once without that even being
>my intent to begin with

think about that for a minute bruh...

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109. "as long as there are straight male friends you are in the game"
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STAY WOKE

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110. "congratulations on knowing my life better than I do"
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that reply referenced a girl who came over to kick it in 2008, we had sex once unexpectedly
going on 9 years later we live in different cities, we're casually cool via FB/IG and I dont think she's considered it happening again, because I havent

which really has nothing to do with male/female best friends

  

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120. "what makes you think I know your life? "
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80. "Mutual non-attraction, too."
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Although, in my experience, the average adult dude isn't putting a ton of work into cultivating a friendship with a woman he has zero attraction towards, unless her personality is super on-point.

  

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75. "No, because I know how I think"
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The only off-limits female friendships I have are ones where I'm friends with the man too.

I have one friend who was promiscuous in college but now has been with the same guy for about 5 years. It's happened multiple times that we'll be chilling and it's her, her man, and about 8 others but it will be about 4-5 dudes in the room total who've smashed said girl. I always wonder if her man knows or not, because she has A LOT of male friends. And most of those smashes were of the "we're just friends but we got drunk one night..." type. If I was her dude I would've asked "So what's your history with {Bob,Bill,George,Frank,...}?" but who knows if she'd be honest or not.

I also hope he never asks me about it... cuz I am better friends with her but the bro code would have me on some Larry David-level of conflicted.

  

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77. "Smart dude. Never ask a woman about other men"
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Either she'll lie, and you still won't know
or she'll tell the truth, and you might not have wanted to hear it in the first place

I mean, college and early 20's are out of control in general
Plus, I know the average regular woman wasn't out doing football numbers like most men
even if she was a club or hoodrat
and as long as we both clean, we're good

  

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88. "RE: You cool with your girlfriends best friend being a straight guy?"
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I got two ride or die home girls that i've known for years.. a decade or more.. both friendships manifested similarly basically as soon as I met them one of the homies wifed em up... we stayed cool and eventually those situations faded..

They are cool with my girl and I am cool with their dudes... ive never tried nor do I ever want to try and press up on em.. they feel like sisters..

Ionno ya'll be seeming super pressed if you cant have a platonic opposite sex relationship AT ALL

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90. "I had a female best friend up till I was like 23"
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Talked to her about everything. Sought advice on other girls I was seeing, etc. I thought she was cute (not fine but cute) but we were only ever really good friends. Then she had a psychotic breakdown and yadda yadda we don't speak at all now some 3-4 yrs later.

Post-breakdown she admitted to me that she always had feelings for me and that I was never single long enough for her to pursue those feelings. I felt like a huge asshole cuz I have def talked about other girls around her, and she has definitely witnessed me flirt with other girls. She even witnessed me catch some groupie love.

Always felt like me being oblivious to all of that played a part in her breakdown. I mean, I didn't know her feelings, so I don't feel 100% of the blame but definitely some part.



  

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91. "Sounds like she was more attracted to you than you to her."
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The person who's attracted less is more likely to not notice the other person likes them.

  

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93. "Most of you breeder dudes are insecure dolts."
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I lol @ you. But I understand - you understand that you ain't shit so your lady might be 'taken' by some other better guy. Plus you have a low opinion of women - you think they can be swayed by 'game' and that they're easily distracted, dizzy little creatures whose moves and motives are governed by men. And maybe you fear women's sexuality. You won't ever fix this. And somehow you fools manage to propagate the species despite your idiocy and regular sabotaging of something that should be real easy. My God. Lol.

Btw - I'm a guy who fucks guys. My best friend is also a guy who fucks guys. We don't fuck each other though. He's like a brother to me - though I see why other guys who fuck guys might want to fuck him I most certainly do NOT. I mean, yeah, we tag teamed that one guy years ago but we didn't touch so that doesn't count. And that was like 15 years ago.

It's totally possible for str8 men and women to be friends without fucking or even wanting to fuck.

fuck you.

  

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94. "if a dick falls in the forest...."
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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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96. "you mean y'all didn't do an Eiffel Tower? C'mon man, what's the point?"
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seriously tho. a lot of what you said is true.

but it mostly comes down to not being shit and knowing that most other cats ain't shit either.

I am shit and I'd still have a problem w/ a "New" friend. Old friends are whatevs.

  

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117. "so...if men ain't shit then i should be pushing up on my homies, right?"
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why don't i?

fuck you.

  

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118. "not all, I meant on some game recognize game shit. "
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specifically for cats that ain't shit.
That's what I should have said, I guess.



you deflecting from the subj line anyway. Was it too grimy for the Eiffel Tower? damn.

  

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124. "there was no 'eiffel tower' 15 years ago."
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or i wasn't aware of it.

fuck you.

  

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98. "lol, no you don't."
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>But I understand

  

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100. "lmao"
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103. "lol haha."
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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111. "damn. missed this jewel. bodied."
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STAND OUT HAND OUTS: http://basquiatwhenipaint.tumblr.com

TWEET ME: @PROMO206

  

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115. "tell Funk Flex to drop a bomb on it"
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https://youtu.be/lAFZnvTfFAs

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I only play the games that I win at -
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116. "oh i do."
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y'all are patently ridiculous.

i see it.

fuck you.

  

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121. "LMAO"
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99. "apples and oranges, but okay."
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STAND OUT HAND OUTS: http://basquiatwhenipaint.tumblr.com

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101. "apples and bananas, whole bunch of bananas"
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104. "bagels and bananas."
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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108. "pumpernickel bagels"
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I'm sorry...

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122. "bruh.. n/m"
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114. "How, Sway?"
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i'm friends w/ppl whose gender matches the gender of ppl i like to fuck.

and yet i'm friends w/these ppl w/o fucking being part of the relationship.

what's so different?

fuck you.

  

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119. "wait, so gay dudes hang out sometimes and it doesn't turn into a wild or..."
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*plays NBC "The More You Know" sound*

lol, it's so funny how hypersexualized gay men are in peoples heads...still.

  

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123. "ikr?"
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fuck you.

  

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126. "What does this have to do with the subject? It clearly says 'girlfriend'"
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and "straight guy"


>You cool with your girlfriends best friend being a straight guy?

  

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127. "niggas want it to be one way..."
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then get mad when its one way.




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SoWhat
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128. "and what's the difference?"
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that part hasn't been mansplained yet.

give it a shot.

fuck you.

  

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Boogie Stimuli
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125. "Yall take on different roles... top, bottom, verse, etc"
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Wed Dec-14-16 01:40 PM by Boogie Stimuli

          

>i'm friends w/ppl whose gender matches the gender of ppl i
>like to fuck.


For instance, in the post above, you
said you and your friend "tag teamed"
another guy.
If yall both prefer topping, that's
more akin to being friends with someone
of the same sex with regard to hetero
relationships (unless yall had a sandwich
with him in the middle, but that's a
whole other rabbit hole in itself).
Plus you trying to compare hetero
relationships to gay ones is just faulty
in itself for biological reasons that
you seem not to understand.



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Beezo
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95. "Hell No is the only answer"
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Fuck a sig, my presence is enough.

  

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-DJ R-Tistic-
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130. "It can be dangerous but you can usually tell when it's more to it"
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One of my closest homegirls had a "best friend" and after maybe six months, I could just tell it was more to it...and she ended up being in love with him, on some long term "didn't see it coming" type shit. She was one of his friend's girlfriend back in HS, but her and the BFF became way closer.

She finally made her move with him a few years ago, and he basically friend zoned her...most they ever did was cuddled and he rubbed her titties, but never even kissed. At this point, she has a BF and she's finally over it now.

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BabyYoda
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132. "The issue is not the gender of the friend"
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The issue is how the gf feels about me as well as how she treats me. Any woman I deal with should want to spend as much time with me as possible. So, it should not matter if her friend is a guy or woman.

Besides, a woman who cheats will do so with any man that is not me, whether it be with a friend or someone they met off the street, at a function, through friends, at work, etc.

A woman who would rather hang out with friends or feels the need to constantly be with friends over spending time with me is probably someone who is not into me and may want to keep her options open.

In all, a woman who is in her 30s and beyond should be a lil more settled in her life and not have the need to be hanging out with a bunch of people all the time. Hanging out with friends are cool, but if she has male friends, then the polite thing to do is invite me with her when hanging out with them. No solo dolo engagements with male friends and expect pace and harmony with me,

  

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