the last one, i married.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

got the sexual tension and bodily fluid exchange out the way
and now we been friends for years

and never had the desire to. But their homegirls??? I've def messed with a homegirl of each of them.

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You use to see that rah rah in college and after that but once you get older and get in serious relationships, kids, life, ain't nobody making time for some opposite sex best friend.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

>You use to see that rah rah in college and after that but
>once you get older and get in serious relationships, kids,
>life, ain't nobody making time for some opposite sex best
>friend.
>

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Coolin...

Just reverse the genders to see how bad of an idea that is.


*this depends on what kinda "best friends" tho. If it's mostly facebook and occasional calls then whatever, but if it involves going out on dates and all then the she's better off being single.

yes, i did end up fucking the girlfriend every time.

so, THAT'S why i say "FUCK NO!" lol.

man.

except in that "he's my man. i love him, he's my best friend" kind of way. which is to say i was trying to get her man out the paint.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

>

>

"he prolly lying girl, guys always say that shit when they want to hang with the fellas"

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

w/ them.

I would say this for same sex besties too. As I've gotten older, when I start wanting to talk about relationship problems w/ my single friends, it's usually time to end it.

it's salt in the game.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

>w/ them.
>
>I would say this for same sex besties too. As I've gotten
>older, when I start wanting to talk about relationship
>problems w/ my single friends, it's usually time to end it.


This is a good rule. I've been the listening-ear to women before and it 100% of the time ends up with said woman catching feelings

he would try to kick it to a couple of her homegirls but not her
we're all tight now

http://smg.photobucket.com/user/BR225/media/gifs/ray-jpricelessface.gif.html

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

>he would try to kick it to a couple of her homegirls but not
>her
>we're all tight now

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

I guess your insinuation is men and women can never be platonic.

>>he would try to kick it to a couple of her homegirls but
>not
>>her
>>we're all tight now

>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r58GQYFZeLE

You *do* laugh, don't you?

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

...3 exs cheated on me with their straight male "best friend". Found out about one years after we split tho...lol 😕

Somewhere in the middle.

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If its a new dude that's suddenly hopped into her life, that's a whole other story.

Im not about to go re-regulate someones pre-existing relationships based on my ego.

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

NoNoNo... after a relationship starts.

but when I hook up with her suddenly you painting picassos (c) Gucci...I almost can't be mad. I musta been fucking up, BAD, LOL.

and THEN tis on.....




"Get ready....for your blessing....."

sooner or later you gon eff up and lob one downfield like Eli.

Niggas gon intercept and be celebrating like Sherman

https://i.ytimg.com/vi/P2cyrOHbwAA/maxresdefault.jpg

And you gon be stuck at home with the eli face.

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BwO9s4RCEAA5dG5.png
http://cdn1.vox-cdn.com/uploads/chorus_asset/file/368784/smelli_1.0.jpg
http://www.gannett-cdn.com/-mm-/9b29c45bfa6b603f3ce8fa6e73ad3e9442c7fff1/c=0-0-282-376&r=537&c=0-0-534-712/local/-/media/2016/02/08/USATODAY/USATODAY/635905449208210057-EliManning.JPG

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

I applaud the use of the Eli face, had a whole Eli convo yesterday.

My thing is if he's been slacking all this time, and it's on my watch he's able to QB sneak his way in...I gotta give it up to him, lol. I knew that was the only move he had left, I had my defenses up, and he was able to pull off the win? I bow to the simp lord, lol.



>sooner or later you gon eff up and lob one downfield like
>Eli.
>
>Niggas gon intercept and be celebrating like Sherman
>
>https://i.ytimg.com/vi/P2cyrOHbwAA/maxresdefault.jpg
>
>And you gon be stuck at home with the eli face.
>
>https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BwO9s4RCEAA5dG5.png
>http://cdn1.vox-cdn.com/uploads/chorus_asset/file/368784/smelli_1.0.jpg
>http://www.gannett-cdn.com/-mm-/9b29c45bfa6b603f3ce8fa6e73ad3e9442c7fff1/c=0-0-282-376&r=537&c=0-0-534-712/local/-/media/2016/02/08/USATODAY/USATODAY/635905449208210057-EliManning.JPG

http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.2354182.1441831082!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/article_750/gtop10playspull-6-web.jpg

https://i.ytimg.com/vi/kP78mum2Wn8/maxresdefault.jpg

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

https://www.instagram.com/p/BN8cl-jjQ0x/

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

Wow... still aint as bad as the Peterson doormat on Willie Gay

https://youtu.be/KmrAyU3HcU0

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

http://soundcloud.com/djshinobishaw
http://www.rareformnyc.com
http://twitter.com/DJShinobiShaw
https://twitter.com/RareFormNYC
PSN: ShinobiShaw

"Arm Leg Leg Arm How you doin?" (c)T510

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCc6O8F-ntQ

but then again if they're having brunch tee hee-ing every day and ya man really is morris chestnut, maybe I'd feel differently

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

after having a wife/ girl wanted to fuck me.

The only exception? One guy friend introduced me to his girlfriend now wife, and we're besties now, and routinely leave him out of shit.

No solo opposite gender friends while you're in a relationship. The friend has got to be friends to you both.

Or you're implying something, not sure which one.

Guy and I became friends in grad school, and when I moved I moved to the town where his girlfriend lives.

Girl and I got close, and started having girl hangs.

They got married and we all hang together now.

but we have to in order to get yall to "trust" us

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

I've never dated a male friend.

If our energy starts out platonic, I'll never be attracted to you in "that" way.

Every dating/relationship situation I've been in has started w/ a date inquiry, either from him or (more rarely) from me.

we ain't trying to do that either.

can't date a woman who would has straight male friends...

(not you, just in general)

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TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

>we ain't trying to do that either.
>
>can't date a woman who would has straight male friends...
>
>(not you, just in general)

If I'm attracted to you and I like spending time with you, either we're dating or we're nothing. This happens so rarely that I'm not going to torture myself by forcing platonic feelings or, worse, end up in a "situation."

If I'm only physically attracted to you, no need to play the friend game. I don't friend people who don't stimulate me mentally.

If you're cool and there's no attraction? That. Will.Never.Change.

I've had male friends glo-up like shit. Lose weight, get good paying jobs, start smelling good. No matter. Once bro, always bro.

of something more for so many women.

and you didn't say so, I don't respect you enough to date you and I'm too turned off to fuck you.

initiator. I guess, being a dude, I don't viscerally identify with that as an attractive trait, but it makes sense in my brain.

quietly pinning and suffering in silence for them. I can't do it. It's too inauthentic.

>quietly pinning and suffering in silence for them.

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Back again for the first time.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

...hearing women I had an unspoken interest in say stuff like this would piss me off... then I realized a number of my female friends had been planning FOR YEARS the perfect opportunity to jump my bones and... there was just no way I could see us shifting from a platonic to a sexual relationship.

Sucks to be on the receiving end of unrequited love/lust, it really does... but experiencing the situation from both angles really granted me some insight.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

Happens more times than I can count, and always in a work setting.

1) After a good convo, guy says "you're cool."
2) Guy starts coming to my cube/ office to "talk" or "catch up."
3) Guy starts offering to do me work-related favors.
4) Guy says some variation of "You're so awesome. Why are you single?"
5) Guy getting more playful/borderline inappropriate w/ touching, or starts hugging me for too long.
6) Guy comes to my cube/ office and says nothing. When I don't do anything, he leaves.
7) Guy either 1) Admits feelings or 2) Gives a platonic "what if?"
8) I listen without judgement, saying something like "I accept what you said, I'm so glad we can remain professional colleagues" or in the platonic situation, tell him what I would do in a way that shoots him down.

Now, how he will take it varies in a few ways.
1) Most often, he'll accept the rejection and continue to be cordial, but more appropriately so.
2) He'll become distant in a weird and obvious way or
3) He'll quit/ transfer jobs (this has only happened in retail).

or you.

cuz yeah, that's exactly how it goes

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

especially at work.

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Back again for the first time.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

Apparently dudes are savages out in these streets...

i guess if once he gets rejected he dips or is acting funny, then he only wanted one thing...so he shoulda made it known from jump.

but sometimes women grow on you, or you not gonna leap until you believe it'll be reciprocated. Just saying all of that don't necessarily mean dude was scheming from jump.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

I think being approached by so many men in relationships at work is part of why I'm a bit closed off to dating. When these men are at work, they act completely single. The married ones too.

Once I can accept the fact that having a man means being cheated on at some point, I might get back in there.

my current gf has a gay best friend. And even with that I'm a little weary

I never EVER text just her - I either text just him or the both of them, and make it clear I'm addressing the two of them (often it's updates on my love life).

text and that's my wife's best friend.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.