>i'm friends w/ppl whose gender matches the gender of ppl i
>like to fuck.


For instance, in the post above, you
said you and your friend "tag teamed"
another guy.
If yall both prefer topping, that's
more akin to being friends with someone
of the same sex with regard to hetero
relationships (unless yall had a sandwich
with him in the middle, but that's a
whole other rabbit hole in itself).
Plus you trying to compare hetero
relationships to gay ones is just faulty
in itself for biological reasons that
you seem not to understand.