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Geah
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"** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **"


          

all money ain't good money

@geahuwine

  

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When I'm sick, I don't shower until I'm feeling better.
Jan 28th 2015
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hot showers with the door closed when you sick is that work
Jan 28th 2015
99
yeah you're doing it wrong man
Jan 28th 2015
154
This weekend is about to be epic.
Jan 28th 2015
2
I want to party with a gay guy.
Jan 28th 2015
3
and you say I'm #SUS !?
Jan 28th 2015
19
      I didn't want to go there...
Jan 28th 2015
34
           so don't
Jan 28th 2015
35
                nice try nigga
Jan 29th 2015
169
I used to like this girl in high school back in the day....
Jan 28th 2015
4
yeah, that was a violation for real...
Jan 28th 2015
6
it's like Theo trying to get on Dance Mania...
Jan 28th 2015
9
      RE: it's like Theo trying to get on Dance Mania...
Jan 28th 2015
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My boy from HS came out to us about a month ago.
Jan 28th 2015
7
lulz
Jan 28th 2015
17
Damn...
Jan 28th 2015
22
i guess the finger sucking makes sense now.
Jan 28th 2015
27
Lmaooooo
Jan 28th 2015
42
i actually thought the exact same thing...fingers=phallic symbol
Jan 28th 2015
47
Sucking fingers? You shoulda' knew then
Jan 28th 2015
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      i just thought he was mad freaky...he was a prince stan which now
Jan 28th 2015
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           F'Greasy's Boy - Giving You Clear Signals Since 92'
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                92, I was 16 and blind to shit like that. I mean he was dark skinned,
Jan 28th 2015
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                     You actually wanted three daughters?
Jan 28th 2015
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                          yeah 23 yrs ago...now i have a son and don't want any more kids
Jan 29th 2015
168
I'm still sick
Jan 28th 2015
5
It's amazing how one word in a post can bring out the wolves
Jan 28th 2015
8
Don't wager money with these Richmond guys
Jan 28th 2015
13
      I'm in Charlotte and it was one of those "I'm from NY niggas"
Jan 28th 2015
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           Oh wow that was definitely the right call
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I want to see George Ezra at Webster Hall
Jan 28th 2015
10
I've been on a fuck it fest type of deal
Jan 28th 2015
11
I did not read the word 'it' in your reply...
Jan 28th 2015
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hah!
Jan 28th 2015
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:)~
Jan 28th 2015
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Hay Bew, Hay!
Jan 28th 2015
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oh
Jan 28th 2015
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Ha! Love it.
Jan 28th 2015
166
Bout to get a second part time job while I get certified to teach here.
Jan 28th 2015
12
i think my friend is mad at me because i washed her dishes
Jan 28th 2015
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why didn't you respond to the text?
Jan 28th 2015
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I thought it was a weird accusatory question
Jan 28th 2015
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      sounds like the gray area of texting where subtext is hard or impossible
Jan 28th 2015
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           yep, pretty much
Jan 28th 2015
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i think your friend is mad bc you ignored her text
Jan 28th 2015
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nope, that's not it. i know her
Jan 28th 2015
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      that seems paranoid
Jan 28th 2015
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           we are not the kind of people to respond quickly to text messages
Jan 28th 2015
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                That makes more sense.
Jan 28th 2015
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that's like getting mad at a girl for swallowing....
Jan 28th 2015
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Guess old boy is back in the picture.
Jan 28th 2015
18
i'm really scared right now
Jan 28th 2015
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you ok?
Jan 28th 2015
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      yeah. i guess nervous is the better word
Jan 28th 2015
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           you need anything
Jan 28th 2015
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All of my passwords:
Jan 28th 2015
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All of I can think of is
Jan 28th 2015
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right...
Jan 28th 2015
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*suddenly remembers his OG login password*
Jan 28th 2015
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i haven't had sex since 2013 and i have no prospects on the horizon
Jan 28th 2015
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prayers
Jan 28th 2015
36
LALN(orC)HT
Jan 28th 2015
90
...
Jan 28th 2015
33
aww
Jan 28th 2015
55
I want to thank an OKP in a way that may sounds like a backhand thanks
Jan 28th 2015
40
Everything that I have wanted to happen this month
Jan 28th 2015
44
The Creator has a wry sense of humor (Longish)
Jan 28th 2015
45
who is she pregnant by?
Jan 28th 2015
46
Her new beau who is 60 years old
Jan 28th 2015
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      wow...60 & still fully loaded! props....
Jan 28th 2015
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the 7 yr old is pregnant? or did i not read that right?
Jan 28th 2015
50
I corrected it after I reread it
Jan 28th 2015
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thanks because i was like WHAT?!
Jan 28th 2015
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*wipes brow and lets out a sigh of relief* I was about to have someone
Jan 28th 2015
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im really hoping that the mom is pregnant
Jan 28th 2015
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OMG thank you for posting
Jan 28th 2015
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NOOOOO No outsiders LOL n/m
Jan 28th 2015
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your last bulletpoint.... *Cliff Face*
Jan 28th 2015
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so i cant really talk about what is going on
Jan 28th 2015
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for some reason whenever I get excited/hyped I clench my fists
Jan 28th 2015
60
My girlfriend got involved in a MLM
Jan 28th 2015
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LOL which one?
Jan 28th 2015
67
5Linx...I went to a "meeting" last night to show support
Jan 28th 2015
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      How long y'all been a thing?
Jan 28th 2015
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           Couple years, and another woman recruited her
Jan 28th 2015
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                Sorry man. No advice. Just good luck.
Jan 28th 2015
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It's her money and time. And if she's willing to work hard for a MLM -
Jan 28th 2015
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I'm looking at it from a larger perspective
Jan 28th 2015
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:0(
Jan 28th 2015
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Sounds logical
Jan 28th 2015
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Are you only looking at it from a larger perspective for yourself?
Jan 28th 2015
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What happens if it becomes THEIR money and time?
Jan 28th 2015
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Can't worry about that. He's not invested in that lane yet.
Jan 28th 2015
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nope, she will run out of money, ask him for contacts
Jan 28th 2015
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      So, he has a right to say no to investing in her financial goal.
Jan 28th 2015
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           that shit isn't entrepreneurial... it's annoying
Jan 28th 2015
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a friend is about to launch one.
Jan 28th 2015
83
At least you are being supportive.
Jan 28th 2015
129
#BreakUpNow
Jan 28th 2015
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      LOL
Jan 28th 2015
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      This shit had me laughing for a good minute
Jan 28th 2015
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      welp
Jan 28th 2015
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      yo
Jan 28th 2015
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Snow Days :(
Jan 28th 2015
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I spent a week visiting my father after being estranged for 27 years
Jan 28th 2015
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i am happy for you.
Jan 28th 2015
76
Thank you
Jan 28th 2015
150
Man Congratulation on overcoming that huge obstacle.
Jan 28th 2015
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If feel a little better. Just glad we got a chance to clear the air
Jan 28th 2015
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=)
Jan 28th 2015
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      :-D
Jan 28th 2015
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Is it me or does OKP have a short temper?
Jan 28th 2015
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It's a bit cultish, but you already knew this.
Jan 28th 2015
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      Yeah, those are good points.
Jan 28th 2015
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Jyeah
Jan 28th 2015
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that's some grown shyt right there
Jan 28th 2015
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Right now I'm using Coinstar to pay my bills.
Jan 28th 2015
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are you able to get a bank account? banks like PNC have coin machines
Jan 28th 2015
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My bank here doesn't.
Jan 28th 2015
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Never loan money you can't afford to lose....
Jan 28th 2015
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      I'd be the first one to tell you that.
Jan 28th 2015
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           have you confronted them on some "HeyBitchWhereMyDoeHoe?"
Jan 28th 2015
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                "Waiting on a check."
Jan 28th 2015
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"hard to be a spiritual being when shit is shakin what you believe in"
Jan 28th 2015
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i need more of MY OWN friends
Jan 28th 2015
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i don't live too far and i don't have a life
Jan 28th 2015
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      word.
Jan 28th 2015
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i saw this girl i know's boyfriend on tinder. ;/
Jan 28th 2015
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she's actually attractive
Jan 28th 2015
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I actually hung out with my mom today and I didn't wanna die
Jan 28th 2015
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jyeah 2.
Jan 28th 2015
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man, your pain is felt.I had the chance to get my son in a better school...
Jan 28th 2015
113
i have on new undergarments today and it feels great
Jan 28th 2015
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i signed up for improv classes for fun
Jan 28th 2015
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improv sounds like fun
Jan 28th 2015
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wait...a karaoke league. tell me more!
Jan 28th 2015
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      i went one time. and there was a lot of crazy drunken whiteness
Jan 28th 2015
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           sheena and i went there when she was in town and it was crazy in there, ...
Jan 28th 2015
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           You ever have any Fridays off? Recessions is still terrible fun
Jan 28th 2015
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                i'm working on that.
Jan 28th 2015
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                I'm not in town enough :-/
Jan 28th 2015
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                YES YES YES u have to bring ur own people but Recessions is awesome
Jan 28th 2015
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I will call my Nana tonight
Jan 28th 2015
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This has bothered me for 25 years
Jan 28th 2015
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are your mom and pop still together?
Jan 28th 2015
115
RE: are your mom and pop still together?
Jan 28th 2015
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      I know that'd def. fck with me still. Case One's suggestion is good...
Jan 29th 2015
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I suggest that to either talk to mom or create a ritual to get rid of th...
Jan 28th 2015
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so much bullshit goes on
Jan 28th 2015
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a nygga been making poached eggs
Jan 28th 2015
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Do you use the boiling spinning water technique?
Jan 28th 2015
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      probably adding vinegar to the water
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      naw. tried that once. didn't like the taste
Jan 28th 2015
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           all you need is a drop, the egg protects itself from the taste
Jan 28th 2015
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      yes. I switched to useing a small saucepan too
Jan 28th 2015
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I was sooooooo close to being a straight up simp today lol
Jan 28th 2015
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YOU BETTA DON'T
Jan 28th 2015
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i second this response. let her do it herself.
Jan 28th 2015
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she did & i didn't :)
Jan 28th 2015
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      lol, good!
Jan 28th 2015
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LOL I KNOWWWWWW n/m
Jan 28th 2015
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you way too cute for that
Jan 28th 2015
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      awwww thnx :)
Jan 28th 2015
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i find it hella funny my sons mother REFUSES to step foot in my house
Jan 28th 2015
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RE: ** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **
Jan 28th 2015
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i thought DJ RTistic's last line of his post was funny
Jan 28th 2015
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im so glad Jodeci is back
Jan 28th 2015
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yep
Jan 28th 2015
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I need a "sold not told post" lol
Jan 28th 2015
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RE: ** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **
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kingjerm78
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1. "When I'm sick, I don't shower until I'm feeling better. "
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#trifelife I know.

Just got out the shower FYI.

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Madvillain 626
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Wed Jan-28-15 01:52 PM

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99. "hot showers with the door closed when you sick is that work"
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feels good and it makes you feel less congested. might pass out in that bitch, but whatevs. make some hot tea after and lay the fuck down. i'm bout to do that right now

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154. "yeah you're doing it wrong man"
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you feel sick you gotta get IN that shower man
www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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Very-Effortless
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Wed Jan-28-15 08:56 AM

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2. "This weekend is about to be epic. "
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It's a work trip and I'm definitely overloaded at work and planning this has been some fuckery, but I'm gonna enjoy this weekend to the max

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3. "I want to party with a gay guy."
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Why?
They always seem to have lots of fun and be "turnt up"at events.

But it is hard to come across one these days in my regular routine.
I did see for gay guys at a table in Papparuchos the other day talking about their gayness.
I was waiting for my takeout.

I thought about chatting it up with them but then thought they'd think I thought of them as a novelty and really wouldn't embrace me like that.

There is a gay hispanic guy in my vanpool but he rarely rides.
He is really cool ALWAYS on "10" and is from cali like me.
For some reason he thinks I'm single, forgets I have a wife and kid at home, and always asks me where I'm going to turn up for the weekend.
I guess I need to ask him where he kicks it at.
But he non black and I was hoping to befriend a black gay.

Hopefully I will be invited to some pride events this year.

Wish me luck!

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19. "and you say I'm #SUS !? "
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34. "I didn't want to go there..."
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35. "so don't"
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You guys need to stop being so phobic and just let ppl be

Don't get caught on the wrong side of history

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169. "nice try nigga"
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you clowned that dude for being in the bathroom for 30 minutes...



  

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Fishgrease
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Wed Jan-28-15 09:02 AM

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4. "I used to like this girl in high school back in the day...."
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Wed Jan-28-15 09:09 AM by Fishgrease

  

          

like really really enamored with her and err'thang.

Like I was on that Jodeci "Come and talk to me, i really wanna meet you girl" at the lockers every morning. Her locker was like 3 away from mine.

"Before I go to sleep, and dream about you...I'm a single man, I hope that'chu are single too".

My boy also liked her.

* turns off Jodeci*

Me, being the unselfish person I put my feelings aside so that he could pursue her and yadda yadda.

He went out with her and what not. I remember him braggin' about being in the car with her kissing her and suckin' her fingers (ayyy, 10th grade that was some sh*t to be doing or so I thought). I was super salty but I ain't let it show.

Fast Forward to the present and now...



Why did he come out yesterday on Facebook?


I ain't mad that he is what he is...I'm actually happy for him in that regard. I'm upset that I put this girl on the back burner when he knew damn well he ain't like her LIKE that. That was almost 23 yrs ago and I wanna roll up on him (in the South of France where he lives with his beau)and whoop his ass on GP.


That's all i got for a confession.

I'm gonna let it burn (c) Ursha

  

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6. "yeah, that was a violation for real..."
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9. "it's like Theo trying to get on Dance Mania... "
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70. "RE: it's like Theo trying to get on Dance Mania... "
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:(...Damn, we gettin' old, moe!

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7. "My boy from HS came out to us about a month ago."
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I'm still kinda shocked.
He was always real pretty tho.
He modeled for a decade or so.
He live in some large east coast city now with a lot of black gays

Now I see why he was dodging me when I was in his city with my wife last year and was trying to link up.

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17. "lulz"
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--
Sometimes you have to look reality in the face and say 'No!'
-Ben (Reaper)

  

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22. "Damn... "
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she coulda been "the one" too...

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27. "i guess the finger sucking makes sense now."
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(which isnt to say finger sucking is a gay thing. not at all but his excitement to the point of talking about that as opposed to say finger popping is almost foreshadowing in this case. also: LMAO)

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42. "Lmaooooo "
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47. "i actually thought the exact same thing...fingers=phallic symbol"
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41. "Sucking fingers? You shoulda' knew then"
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joking/not joking, but mostly joking.

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Fishgrease
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48. "i just thought he was mad freaky...he was a prince stan which now"
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in hindsight (combined with other sh*t) totally explains errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr'thang.

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111. "F'Greasy's Boy - Giving You Clear Signals Since 92'"
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Fishgrease
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116. "92, I was 16 and blind to shit like that. I mean he was dark skinned, "
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Wed Jan-28-15 03:38 PM by Fishgrease

  

          

from panama with that silky rico suave ponytail...girls were likin' him and alladat and he seemed rather receptive to their fawnin' over him (at least it looked that way in my young mind but now as I sit back and think on it, not so much).

and to make matters worse, my momma used to say "something is wrong with that boy" but would never elaborate on it past sayin' that.


and to make matters worse(r) than that, I *really* liked that girl. Like I planned to attend a local state college to be her (Virginia Commonwealth University stand up!!!) , had already picked out the names of our 3 daughters and even planted her a rose garden in our yet to be purchased home.



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Meadow
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165. "You actually wanted three daughters?"
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How sweet to be so positive, young, and naive.

  

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168. "yeah 23 yrs ago...now i have a son and don't want any more kids"
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5. "I'm still sick"
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Yes I called in sick
It's 18 out there I'm really hoping to shake that last of this thing
Didn't help that I couldn't sleep last night
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8. "It's amazing how one word in a post can bring out the wolves"
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shit's hilarious to me... they focus on one word and run with that shit like Jesse Owens.


the hip hop group no one knows about post is awesome and bittersweet at the same time.

one poster on here prolly has some serious high blood pressure...

I need to find a SB party.

Hood nigga tried to get me to bet on VCU last night at the bar but I don't bet on my squad and I damn sure ain't placing a bet with a hood nigga... VCU won by 25.

  

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Garhart Poppwell
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13. "Don't wager money with these Richmond guys"
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they don't let details like initiating the bet get in the way of doing the right thing.

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legsdiamond
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15. "I'm in Charlotte and it was one of those "I'm from NY niggas""
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the type of niggas who know what real struggle is because "I'm from NY"

  

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Garhart Poppwell
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65. "Oh wow that was definitely the right call"
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luminous
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10. "I want to see George Ezra at Webster Hall"
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but I already have tix for another concert that same day. the fucked up part about living in NYC...

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Sha
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11. "I've been on a fuck it fest type of deal "
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-sent my most recent ex a tasteful nude. why? Because, fuck it!

-was supposed to go on a date friday but, dude started acting janky. I didn't text him back because...well...fuck it! I don't even chase my likka!

-older guy is interested in me but, he was trying to get me on a call schedule. Call me to talk about nothing at 6am...noon and 6pm. fuck that son! Nah I won't be a part of your boring planned out day.

-you're not speaking to me. *shrugs* fuck it. you'll come around.

This fuck it attitude is freeing because well...fuck it!

  

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14. "I did not read the word 'it' in your reply..."
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and your first bullet only furthered my misunderstanding.

"All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts..." -The Bard

  

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29. "hah!"
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sorry bew!

  

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58. ":)~"
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71. "Hay Bew, Hay!"
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~(:

  

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159. "oh"
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166. "Ha! Love it. "
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>-sent my most recent ex a tasteful nude. why? Because, fuck
>it!
>
>-was supposed to go on a date friday but, dude started acting
>janky. I didn't text him back because...well...fuck it! I
>don't even chase my likka!
>
>-older guy is interested in me but, he was trying to get me on
>a call schedule. Call me to talk about nothing at 6am...noon
>and 6pm. fuck that son! Nah I won't be a part of your boring
>planned out day.
>
>-you're not speaking to me. *shrugs* fuck it. you'll come
>around.
>
>This fuck it attitude is freeing because well...fuck it!
>
>

  

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Lardlad95
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12. "Bout to get a second part time job while I get certified to teach here."
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Been lifting boxes in a warehouse, about to work at a health food store too, and hopefully by the time I find a job teaching this summer I'm gonna be in the best muthafuckin' shape of my life.

Already putting on muscle just from lifting shit, and now I'm gonna have a discount on fruits and veggies.

I'm stuntin' on all of yall in like 4 months.

Please do not bring this post back up if I end up eating nothing but "organic" junk food and I actually end up out of shape.

  

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luminous
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16. "i think my friend is mad at me because i washed her dishes"
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we hung out, had a girl night and watched movies at her place. she cooked dinner and i crashed on her couch. the next day she woke up early and left for church. i woke up later and cleaned up where i was sleeping and washed the dishes.

later she sends me a text asking if i washed her dishes. i didn't respond. that was like early January.

anyway, recently i've been texting her asking if she wants to hang out and go to a couple of concerts... no response.

i don't even care right now. cause i don't have time for crazy.

why do i have so many crazy friends? i'm trying to work on building up an larger friend base. i need to get out of my introvert shell... *sigh*

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23. "why didn't you respond to the text?"
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>we hung out, had a girl night and watched movies at her
>place. she cooked dinner and i crashed on her couch. the next
>day she woke up early and left for church. i woke up later and
>cleaned up where i was sleeping and washed the dishes.
>
>later she sends me a text asking if i washed her dishes. i
>didn't respond. that was like early January.
>
>anyway, recently i've been texting her asking if she wants to
>hang out and go to a couple of concerts... no response.
>
>i don't even care right now. cause i don't have time for
>crazy.
>
>why do i have so many crazy friends? i'm trying to work on
>building up an larger friend base. i need to get out of my
>introvert shell... *sigh*


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37. "I thought it was a weird accusatory question"
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of course i washed her dishes, nobody else was there. i didn't know how to respond. And I was busy at the time and forgot about thinking of a response to it. And really didn't think that much about it at the time.

i was expecting something like, "Hey! Thanks for cleaning up. You didn't have to, but it's appreciated."

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39. "sounds like the gray area of texting where subtext is hard or impossible"
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>of course i washed her dishes, nobody else was there. i
>didn't know how to respond. And I was busy at the time and
>forgot about thinking of a response to it. And really didn't
>think that much about it at the time.
>
>i was expecting something like, "Hey! Thanks for cleaning up.
>You didn't have to, but it's appreciated."


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64. "yep, pretty much"
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30. "i think your friend is mad bc you ignored her text"
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she was probably going to thank you.

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38. "nope, that's not it. i know her"
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she's kinda crazy.

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43. "that seems paranoid"
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To think no, she's not mad I ignored her message. She's definitely mad that I did her chores....Kinda lol

>she's kinda crazy.


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luminous
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63. "we are not the kind of people to respond quickly to text messages"
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There have been times in the past when I forgot to respond to a text message and she didn't get upset. She usually doesn't respond to me until a day or two after I send her a text. But to not respond at all to like 5 or 6 messages is unusual for her.

But she is not really a clean person and her apt usually looks like a pig pen but she had hired a maid to clean the day before I came over. So I'm pretty sure she took offense to me washing the dishes. Its not a normal response but I think she is capable of it.

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123. "That makes more sense."
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161. "that's like getting mad at a girl for swallowing...."
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FOH

  

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18. "Guess old boy is back in the picture."
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Otherwise this out-of-the-blue not-talking-to-me shit is fucking baffling.

Called her on it. Says nothing's wrong. That means something's wrong.

*kicks rocks*

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20. "i'm really scared right now"
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about a few things
but i'll get through

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24. "you ok?"
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26. "yeah. i guess nervous is the better word"
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but honestly i know i'll be fine
still doesn't mean im not shook. lol.

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ThaAnthology
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32. "you need anything"
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i am an inbox away.

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21. "All of my passwords:"
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are a variation of the name of a girl i was in love with Freshman/Sophomore year of college.

Each
and
Every
Password
I
Got

her name isn't normal

but i was that infatuated with her.

I thought this was gonna be my super boo for life.

She coulda got all my love, all the time. If she wanted it.

We were an hour a part.

Tried the long distant shit

I was willing

She wasn't

Well we tried it for like 2 months....she decided she couldn't do it

like this was at the time theeeee best woman i'd ever met and i was willing to leave it all behind(FE!!)

anyway we've always kept in touch. always. No matter what. She's all but admitted through 2 baby daddies and several failed relationships that she shoulda gave me and her a real shot.

I saw a pic of her today

BLOWUPTUATED.

All i said when i saw it was

"She wouldn't have been that big with me"

shallow.....

@geahuwine

  

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25. "All of I can think of is"
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAADnHODAsE

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31. "right..."
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she still got that cute face though.....

@geahuwine

  

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112. "*suddenly remembers his OG login password*"
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CHARTER STATUS HERE I COME!

  

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28. "i haven't had sex since 2013 and i have no prospects on the horizon"
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this year is not looking good either

  

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36. "prayers"
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90. "LALN(orC)HT"
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33. "..."
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...it still hurts.

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55. "aww"
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Melancholoy Funk (available)

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MEAT
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40. "I want to thank an OKP in a way that may sounds like a backhand thanks"
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But it's legitamately sincere.
When we first met and were hanging out over some food, I was spilling to you about relationship stuff, how I'd just met someone and was pretty excited about that.
You were also telling me about someone you were talking about someone you knew and while you liked them you weren't sure if he was seeing someone else.
During this time you said something that dramatically changed my way of behavior and probably saved my relationship before it ever got started.
You said to me "I don't really care if he has a woman though, because if he's talking to me like that she's not that important to him."
Hearing that (or something very similar) so candidly blew me out the water. I'd always been the one to fuck up good things and bad things by keeping one foot out the door and the other in the room. Even if I was seeing someone, if someone else was throwing it at me, I'd at the very least have listened. But after that I started to shut that down. And the rest is present history.

There's a woman in the office that has most certainly given me "the look" and what not. She's not the first and won't be the last. But I can't justify entertaining her and I really think that open moment of honesty is what changed a lot of my behaviors. It sounds so simple and one of those things that people "should know." But I'm still learning people, taking them at face value for what they say, and even at 30, nobody had laid it out to me like that before. So it's appreciated.

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44. "Everything that I have wanted to happen this month"
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Has happened
It's a little freaky

Im excited for the newness of everything

I've come so far in a year
So very, very far
Depression is so real
And I hope people get help
And find a support system to get through the rough times
I never imagined I could feel this good again

  

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45. "The Creator has a wry sense of humor (Longish)"
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Wed Jan-28-15 11:08 AM by DaHeathenOne76

          

One of my good friends (she calls me her big sister even though she is older than me),

She just emerged from a 17 year marriage with an abusive religious fanatic. This was her: http://www.ramshacklechic.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/black-burqa.jpg

She is practically homeless because her mom has Bipolar disorder and kicks her out every 2 months.

Somebody stole her car and she hasnt been able to get it out of the impound because $$ (FUCK DPD). Not in a position to help her out because this is a slow time of year for us (property taxes, car repairs blah blah)

She already has 3 children:
16 year who stays with me and hubs because teenagers and her school is close to us.
14 year old who thinks he is going to make it to the NFL but nah.
7 year old who is alright. . .

My friend just told me she is pregnant.


Thinking about applying for this
http://detroitfellows.wayne.edu/ because this narrative of hip young white folks changing the city of Detroit makes me angry because I know better.

Or maybe we should blow the stash on http://www.bmwusa.com/standard/content/byo/byohome.aspx?namodelcode=155A



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46. "who is she pregnant by?"
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49. "Her new beau who is 60 years old"
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One of them I am Moor the law doesnt apply to me therefore I wont work for a corporation and I wont use my ss#

I didnt even want to touch on THAT... FEH
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66. "wow...60 & still fully loaded! props...."
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50. "the 7 yr old is pregnant? or did i not read that right? "
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51. "I corrected it after I reread it"
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THE 7 YEAR OLD IS NOT PREGNANT!
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53. "thanks because i was like WHAT?!"
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56. "*wipes brow and lets out a sigh of relief* I was about to have someone "
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track down your IP address and then yo friend. LOL


oh wait, that ain't funny because folks do that here on OKP

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52. "im really hoping that the mom is pregnant"
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57. "OMG thank you for posting"
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i didnt know the applications restarted. i missed the window on the last fellowship and i used to check the site religiously at my old job waiting for it to reopen

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59. "NOOOOO No outsiders LOL n/m"
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153. "your last bulletpoint.... *Cliff Face*"
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54. "so i cant really talk about what is going on"
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but i need to pray and make a decision
this such a crazy time
i dont know what to do

but i have to make a decision ASAP

as much as i should be crying and freaking out
i am thankfully calm
however this is so crazy
crazy
crazy

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60. "for some reason whenever I get excited/hyped I clench my fists "
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and raise 'em high and kinda wanna punch someone .. I don't know what thats about but it's funny

my friend brought it to my attention a few weeks back when we were at a party.. I was enjoying the music and then out of now where she pushes my hands down and said "thats enough of the fists" LOL

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I hate that when I get stressed I think about talking to him .. I had gotten soo far but recent events seem to have me regress a bit

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when two people in a crew hook up .. it definitely changes the vibe and while they may not want people to know it is quite obvious and the side jokes don't help- part of me think they want to be called out another part of me is 'lawt'
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ass, cash or grass everyone's gotta pay -I quoted this to my friend the other day and she cracked up
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I realize that I'm very distrustful of Russians .. so.. theres that and considering I gotta go there this should be fun

I wish my brother wasn't so impetuous I mean 2016 seems far in 2014 but it's 2015
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the little boy is actually kinda nice and supportive it's cute-I think I've finally convinced him to "cool his briefs"

  

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61. "My girlfriend got involved in a MLM"
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Her decision making to this point has caused me a lot of stress and is a major red flag. I think it might end our relationship.

Streets won't let me chill.

  

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67. "LOL which one?"
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@geahuwine

  

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72. "5Linx...I went to a "meeting" last night to show support"
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I went through levels of annoyance, anger, and then disappointment at the phuckery that went on. I've shown her the subterfuge, the mathematical improbability, and the cult-like nature of these things, but she's convinced it's going to work and I'm not believing in her. This is just the latest in a string of bad decisions and I don't know if I want a long term seat on that ride.

Streets won't let me chill.

  

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74. "How long y'all been a thing?"
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And the person that got her in the MLM door ... male or female?

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75. "Couple years, and another woman recruited her"
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Streets won't let me chill.

  

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79. "Sorry man. No advice. Just good luck. "
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77. "It's her money and time. And if she's willing to work hard for a MLM - "
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why can't you support her goals. Some people do very well with MLM's and I know a few that are killing their area of focus.

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84. "I'm looking at it from a larger perspective"
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because it will involve me on some level (and already has), from her asking for contacts, to expertise from me as a professional marketer, to financial support when she's sunk her money into the products, meetings, and such.

But more, it has to do with the string of decision making, being gullible, and trying to take the easy way out of a situation. Everybody knows someone who knows someone who's caked off these things and that does happen, IF YOU GET IT IN EARLY, because they are essentially pyramid schemes. The people at the 15-20th level, which I'm sure this particular one is at, are needed to keep to keep the <3% at the top paid. And from the business meeting/church service I went to yesterday, complete with altar call - they prey on those who are at their end or looking for a "financial blessing" in the wrong place. Starting a life with someone who doesn't have a discerning spirit or exercising critical thought when confronted with these kinds of things doesn't bode well for a permanent relationship, i.e. marriage IMO. At 34 and trying to get my own financial house in order, I can't afford that misstep and have to limit my exposure.

Streets won't let me chill.

  

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88. ":0("
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yeah.

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94. "Sounds logical"
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>because it will involve me on some level (and already has),
>from her asking for contacts, to expertise from me as a
>professional marketer, to financial support when she's sunk
>her money into the products, meetings, and such.
>

That's potentially going to place a lot of stress on the relationship right from the outset if she can't carry this ambition on her own. Plus I imagine giving your contacts over might put you in a compromising position professionally.

> And from the business meeting/church service I went to
>yesterday, complete with altar call - they prey on those who
>are at their end or looking for a "financial blessing" in the
>wrong place. Starting a life with someone who doesn't have a
>discerning spirit or exercising critical thought when
>confronted with these kinds of things doesn't bode well for a
>permanent relationship, i.e. marriage IMO. At 34 and trying to
>get my own financial house in order, I can't afford that
>misstep and have to limit my exposure.

Definitely a concern. Mixing business with the spiritual has caused many a family issues. Churches tend to play up the successes and ignore the failures. We've seen plenty of clients fail and it can cause a lot of tension in the relationship. And if she wants your expertise as a professional, why can't she trust your professional judgement as to the financial worthiness of this venture? Good luck with both that and getting your financial health in order.

Just IMO though.

  

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126. "Are you only looking at it from a larger perspective for yourself?"
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>because it will involve me on some level (and already has),
>from her asking for contacts, to expertise from me as a
>professional marketer, to financial support when she's sunk
>her money into the products, meetings, and such.
>


Well, if she's not your wife, you have a right to just support her venture via pure morale booting and emotional empathy.

But no matter what you do, do it for the good and for the right reasons.



>But more, it has to do with the string of decision making,
>being gullible, and trying to take the easy way out of a
>situation. Everybody knows someone who knows someone who's
>caked off these things and that does happen, IF YOU GET IT IN
>EARLY, because they are essentially pyramid schemes. The
>people at the 15-20th level, which I'm sure this particular
>one is at, are needed to keep to keep the <3% at the top paid.
> And from the business meeting/church service I went to
>yesterday, complete with altar call - they prey on those who
>are at their end or looking for a "financial blessing" in the
>wrong place. Starting a life with someone who doesn't have a
>discerning spirit or exercising critical thought when
>confronted with these kinds of things doesn't bode well for a
>permanent relationship, i.e. marriage IMO. At 34 and trying to
>get my own financial house in order, I can't afford that
>misstep and have to limit my exposure.


Well, in some instances it's about getting in Early, and with some products it's about motivation, skill, and client base. No MLM program will work unless the person is devoted to the mission for their own personal gain =- HARD WORK. But if you are sacred because she's daring to take a dedicated leap to help improve her situation then maybe you are not the right person for her. No Knock on you. But I know plenty of people that have a entrepreneurial spirit and they have lost everything and some have gained more then they could have imagined.


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86. "What happens if it becomes THEIR money and time?"
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It sounds like he doesn't like this stuff on principle, and he's considering whether or not he wants to be with a woman who would go as far as to actively participate in something that he thinks is a bad path to take.


I mean, would you ever marry someone who disagreed with some core tenets of your world view?

  

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127. "Can't worry about that. He's not invested in that lane yet. "
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>It sounds like he doesn't like this stuff on principle, and
>he's considering whether or not he wants to be with a woman
>who would go as far as to actively participate in something
>that he thinks is a bad path to take.
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>I mean, would you ever marry someone who disagreed with some
>core tenets of your world view?

In this case, I don't care for MLM because they are not my passion. But if I met a lady that was into the MLM opportunities and she's dedicated to making them work - yeah I'd be down.

Like I said, I know a few people doing really well and a few of their spouses didn't like it until the money started coming in. And not they are a team.


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108. "nope, she will run out of money, ask him for contacts"
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try to sell his friends during commercials while they are watching the Super Bowl.

I have NEVER seen an SO or friend try MLM and not have it bleed into other peoples private lives.

  

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128. "So, he has a right to say no to investing in her financial goal."
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>try to sell his friends during commercials while they are
>watching the Super Bowl.
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>I have NEVER seen an SO or friend try MLM and not have it
>bleed into other peoples private lives.
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Well, you've never seen an entrepreneur not have their business bleed into their personal life either. When you on your one way of making money it tends to become a way of life.


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146. "that shit isn't entrepreneurial... it's annoying "
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83. "a friend is about to launch one."
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i'm...being supportive. from a distance.

fuck you.

  

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129. "At least you are being supportive."
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93. "#BreakUpNow"
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97. "LOL"
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105. "This shit had me laughing for a good minute "
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@geahuwine

  

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121. "welp"
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149. "yo"
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62. "Snow Days :("
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I wish I could get legit paid from twitter...how cool would life be if I got paid to tweet all day...and then i realize I'd have to find a brand and build it, then find a way to capitalize on that brand and get money...and it seems like too much work. so essentially I'm lazy.

I thought that since I had a snow day I would work on a new novel idea...that interview I saw with Toni Morrison really spoke to me. She wrote her first novel at 39. I GOT TIME! But it was her statement about how she wanted to read something and she couldn't find it, so she wrote it. that's how i felt when i was younger, but i stopped because life and i just gave up on so much. but i digress, i literally didn't do anything with my snow day.

Also trying to decide if it's worth telling someone i know they are a liar. or just let them keep lying. i keep dropping hints, and i know they kinda get it but sheesh...it's annoying and you're amazing but yo...it's annoying. you're amazing without the lies.

i miss Hawaii. (i blogged about it, it's not much but it's below)

  

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68. "I spent a week visiting my father after being estranged for 27 years"
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I learned a lot about him (good and bad) and by extension myself. I understand a bit more where I get some of my personality and characteristics from. We're alike in many ways (good and bad).

I saw my paternal grandmother for the first time since I was a baby. She's quite a character. She told me about some of our family history.

I met my stepmother (who's white) and my two younger brothers (who are taller than me). They're very nice people.

My father apologized to me. It was an awkward conversation at first and definitely not the way I envisioned having the talk we've been postponing since we got back in contact 4-5 years ago (it happened in the middle of a pharmacy). He tried to deflect a lot of responsibility at first but eventually he accepted what he did (and didn't do) and apologized. It meant a lot to me.

His memories of what happened vary dramatically from my mother's recollections. I tend to believe her because she was waaaaaaaay more detailed (my father doesn't remember a lot and his explanations were kind of simplistic). She's happy that we were able to vet to know each other though.

My girlfriend accompanied me on the trip. She made everything easier and we got to have some fun too.

I had reservations about going but I'm glad I did.

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76. "i am happy for you."
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150. "Thank you"
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80. "Man Congratulation on overcoming that huge obstacle. "
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I bet your feel a million times better now.


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151. "If feel a little better. Just glad we got a chance to clear the air"
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mind
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matter

  

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122. "=)"
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152. ":-D"
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mind
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initiationofplato
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69. "Is it me or does OKP have a short temper?"
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What am I missing?

This is the first forum I have encountered where people will go hard at you over the slightest misunderstanding or choice of words.

I feel like I'm walking on egg shells and have to engage in a "snark" fest before any real talking occurs, lol.

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81. "It's a bit cultish, but you already knew this. "
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And if you keep it up, their going to call you an Alias from one of the may people that they've run off this site.

So, don't stand to far wary from the center and stop going against the grain unless you're prepared to be cast out of the temple.

But like I said, you already know this 2013.




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91. "Yeah, those are good points."
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>And if you keep it up, their going to call you an Alias from
>one of the may people that they've run off this site.
>

I don't fight it. People will always believe whatever they like so I just play along.

>So, don't stand to far wary from the center and stop going
>against the grain unless you're prepared to be cast out of the
>temple.
>

That seems to be the path I am on.


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73. "Jyeah"
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I can't even let it go here like I want because the lines are tapped and that's hella corny

But I'll say this...i have to be who I am. I'm not in my heart a vindictive person, and I get nothing from hurting others...just because. Will I? Yes. But only if I have to. And I don't have to right now...so I won't.

On one hand people telling me to go one route and don't seem to understand I am doing what's best. That route does nothing but hurt people it won't solve the issue in fact it will make it worse...& all is have done is "prove" something. I don't care abt that beyond having nothing to prove...to anyone.

On the other if the shoe was on the other foot and it was me? History shows I'd be fucked. Because people around me are vindictive and would fuck me over just because

I see it. I see it all. & I remember. But I am not that way. So do you...& I'll do me


does it really matter?

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124. "that's some grown shyt right there"
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I ain't even there yet

I'm not the type to seek out revenge but if it drops in my lap...

*birdman hand rub*

but If its going to effect other people I'd like to think I can listen to the godz

I don't think I'm their yet tho

unless it involves family

I can chill for fam


but im banned tho.
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78. "Right now I'm using Coinstar to pay my bills."
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Because a family member still hasn't paid me back the nearly $500 I lent in an emergency situation.

She knew it was my bill money for January. And she knows she's late in paying me back.

I've already planned and budgeted the future around chalking it up as a loss but it definitely hurts.


Found a roommate so I can leave this town sooner. But now he won't stop fracking up.
So I guess it's back to planning for just me. I'm sick of being able to rely on NO ONE.


This might be pathetic to say, but my dog is really getting me through everything.
Cuddling his little derpy self at the end of the day makes it all more bearable.

  

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85. "are you able to get a bank account? banks like PNC have coin machines"
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and they don't charge you a fee.



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100. "My bank here doesn't."
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Or I would've used that instead.

It was a rushed thing anyway.

  

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89. "Never loan money you can't afford to lose...."
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103. "I'd be the first one to tell you that. "
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But this person has helped me out tremendously in the past (though I've never done her like this)
and I just really didn't think she'd do anything like this.

My fault. I've owned it and handled it best I could. *shrug*

  

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106. "have you confronted them on some "HeyBitchWhereMyDoeHoe?""
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cuz if not then, you might just wanna.

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155. ""Waiting on a check.""
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82. ""hard to be a spiritual being when shit is shakin what you believe in""
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here for dis.

  

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87. "i need more of MY OWN friends"
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not couple friends
not work affiliated
not that i know through my inlaws
just mine
im not sure how to get that done though considering my lack of time
we'll see.

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95. "i don't live too far and i don't have a life"
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:)

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102. "word. "
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please tell me if something interesting pops up
im out the loop
but it's time to get back in
and out of these mommy leggings.

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92. "i saw this girl i know's boyfriend on tinder. ;/"
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i follow her on instagram and she follows me and we've met a few times. same business and same city. but i wouldn't say we're friends. so i'm not saying anything.

  

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96. "she's actually attractive"
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w/o all that extra shit. but you caint tell nobody how to live and who asked me anyway?


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98. "I actually hung out with my mom today and I didn't wanna die"
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I'm pretty sure she behaved herself too but it was so peace, I really might visit her next week.

We'll see, maybe my hormones are just playing nice right now.

Finally talked to my sister, looks like she's over it.

Basically tryna re-establish my fam in my corner cuz maybe I will need them

I'm expanding my recipes and my $$'s getting right so maybe I will be able to kick this shizz off *tips cap to Bin*

I still feel a ways when folks ask if I'm dating though. I'm not pressed to make anything happen with anyone but it would be nice to get roped into lively discussion with somebody sessy.

I do have a mini crush on one of the regulars at my new gig though so hopefully he'll ask for my digits one of these days *shrug*


"i wanna hug all u idiotic bastards & then set you all on fire" -Bin

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101. "jyeah 2."
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for those who want kids or think getting the tax break or whatever is worth it...feel my pain

so. 8 yr olds after care (AFTER care. ONLY after school, and on teacher inservice days or whatever I cant bring her there until after 9 am) is currently $115 a wk.

in the summer its $255 a wk.

i CAN afford it...but barely. finding a less expensive option would help out tremendously.

so I do so...a program in a county run rec bldg thats 5 miles or 10 min away.

other programs just like it in other buildings just like it have a bus that goes from other elementary schools just like ours

but MY particular school...doesnt.

because those other schools are closer to the rec centers to which they go.

i call the bus barn, they say nope. cant happen.

thats bullshit. if its happening @ another school it gatdamn well can happen @ ours.

so i call the rec center...they are like nope. no buses...maybe call your schools prinicpal.

i have a message in to the schools prinicipal to see what she can do

heres my thing.

this shit IS going to happen. im not saying drag her ass across the county. drop her off 10 min/5 miles away from her school.

it would literally save me hundreds a month. thousands per year.

its happening @ other schools.

if every other school didnt have a bus & the parents at other schools were just i dunno...paying for a shuttle or something to get their kids to where they need to go...thats 1 thing (still unacceptable but its how it is for everyone)

but thats not how it is. other schools have buses going to this affordable, clean, county run program. why not here?

if the prinicipal has nothing for me...im going on a fucking jihad. im writing everybody from the county executive clean down to the janitor. im writing the newspaper, the websites, everybody is gonna hear abt this.

because this is nothing but oh those poor ignorant mexicans & white folks & the sprinkling of negros...they dont know or care so we can screw them. naw bro. not on my gatdamn watch.

meantime ill wait for a call back from the prinipal...and if she dont hit me tonight...ill be in her office tomorrow morning w/ the shit eating grin like HOWDY MIZZ SAMPSON! came to make your life harder!

yep.


does it really matter?

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113. "man, your pain is felt.I had the chance to get my son in a better school..."
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but the extra $125 a week ($500/mo) for after school would've changed our day to day life dramatically. 5 of the 8 other schools in the district have buses that run to this state funded after school program but the top 3 performing schools do not.


Thats not even the killer...I could swing the $500 a month but the after school ends at 6 pm (where as the state funded program ends at 7pm), I timed it 2 or three times to see if i could make it (i get off work at 5pm) and I've been late to the "new school" by 7-8 minutes. You know how after school programs are about tardy parents, fees and removing said kids from program after "x" amount of late pick ups...


so as it stands, my son is in the same school as before and I'm not breakin' my neck to go pick him up.

Oh did I mention that there's a bus from the "desired" school that drives on a street exactly parallel to the after school program that my son currently attends?

this ain't even Plessy vs. Ferguson (separate but equal).


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104. "i have on new undergarments today and it feels great"
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not a matching set but who cares?
feels great!

one of my pins on pinterest has 3000 repins. actually it's 2989 and i keep checking to see if it's reached 3000 yet. this is more than the lady i pinned it from. i dunno why i'm so hype about this.

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107. "i signed up for improv classes for fun"
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there was a special on em, and i was like fuck it. i'm strangely excited about it, cause i think i'll be good at it, and it'll be fun. but most importantly...i wanna be good. i wanna be good at everything i do, which is the Virgo perfection rearing its ugly head. i'm lying. i don't want to be good, i want to be great. i want to be the best.

i've had so much fun since working back in the city. i drink a lot, but i'm not driving. i take myself to fantastic meals, and see friends. i go to events and shit. so far i think i'mma have the improv classes, a kickball team, and a karaoke league all coming up. its probably way too much for me, but i'mma be in these streets. having fun.

and the job...my shit is so sweet. and i'm in meetings and handling projects and all these old Black women love my well mannered, handsomely bearded, Black ass. its like fishing with dynamite. and they force us to work from home. i do less laundry cause i don't have to wear drawls. its all so very awesome.

my Dad is retiring and i love him for that. true Thomas fashion. lol. he was like....you know what....i've had enough. i'm done. here's 6 months and ya'll can have all this shit. its so G. go and enjoy your life old man.

i think my Mom got her driver's license which is the craziest thing i've heard in a while. but maybe after 18 years she's outta her funk.

i got good times all in my bones. life is a-okay, motherfuckers.
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117. "improv sounds like fun"
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118. "wait...a karaoke league. tell me more!"
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now go runtelldat, ho.

  

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119. "i went one time. and there was a lot of crazy drunken whiteness"
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but i got some homegirls who been doing it for a minute. so they're on a team and they had a spot open. other than that....i don't know too much. its involved tho. i think its solo and group performance. people wear costumes and shit. i'm just there to croon and hope someone makes some babies later on that night.

its at Policy on 14th St, but thats all the info i know for right now.
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120. "sheena and i went there when she was in town and it was crazy in there, ..."
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let me know more when you find out.

or i'll come and check yall out one day!

now go runtelldat, ho.

  

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131. "You ever have any Fridays off? Recessions is still terrible fun"
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132. "i'm working on that."
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not right now, but they just took someone's shifts away not realizing how badly i want to give some of mine up. do you know Recessions does karaoke T, W, TH, and F now? so you can still have fun, but its nothing like Friday nights. i miss that shit.
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136. "I'm not in town enough :-/"
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I used to be all about going out on "school nights" now I get thrown on planes at the last second.
It's professionally rewarding, but personally I'm missing out.

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140. "YES YES YES u have to bring ur own people but Recessions is awesome"
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109. "I will call my Nana tonight"
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eat as much humble pie as I can stomach and fix our relationship. It's been 5 going on 6 years and it is long enough.

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110. "This has bothered me for 25 years"
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When I was about 7 or 8 i remember getting out of bed and going into our family room and seeing my dad's friend on top of my mother.

she was not resisting him... and this did not appear as if he was making a pass at her and she tried to stop him... from they way I remembered it.

I distinctly remember this event...


I never spoke about that event to anyone ....ever.... over the next few years there were events where I would wake up in the morning and my mother would tell me I was sleep walking...

But I KNOW in this instance I was NOT sleep walking...

I am not sure why as a grown man this event still bothers me.

but it does..


anyways thats about it.

  

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115. "are your mom and pop still together? "
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160. "RE: are your mom and pop still together? "
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no but they didnt split until i was an adult ... im not sure my pop ever knew about it...

I just cant figure out why it bothers me so much now that im an adult...

You take the blue pill, the story ends. You wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill, you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes.

  

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GHNO
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170. "I know that'd def. fck with me still. Case One's suggestion is good..."
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Def. something you should try to approach and confront just to get your head back right.

Or just chalk it up as adult business.....

  

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Case_One
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130. "I suggest that to either talk to mom or create a ritual to get rid of th..."
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Example. Write a letter and then burn it or tear it up. It's a great practice for the mind and spirit.


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"Today is your day to have a better life -- it's your right."

  

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Crash Bandacoot
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114. "so much bullshit goes on"
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it literally blows my mind. a bunch of superficial users and abusers,
with myself included. i'm tired of people stealing my ideas, running
away with them and making money. nobody wanted to be involved in
it's infancy and grunge work but, once motherfuckers see success,
their like goddamn vultures. fuck them all.

  

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SeV
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125. "a nygga been making poached eggs"
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I'm pretty dope at it too

thats all




but im banned tho.
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initiationofplato
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134. "Do you use the boiling spinning water technique?"
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I've tried that once but it didn't go as expected.

~Experience is the currency of the soul.

  

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141. "probably adding vinegar to the water"
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"i wanna hug all u idiotic bastards & then set you all on fire" -Bin

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SeV
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157. "naw. tried that once. didn't like the taste"
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but im banned tho.
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Benji
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162. "all you need is a drop, the egg protects itself from the taste"
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for the most part

  

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SeV
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156. "yes. I switched to useing a small saucepan too"
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The key is the right boil

u want it boiling but not the big bubble boil cause the breaks it up

and I use a 3/4 measuring cup to lower it in the water

like I put the cup in the water and let it almost float out while tipping it out

turn it down to low and let it cook for 3-4 mins

I like mine firm but still runny

kinda like the consistency of yogurt




but im banned tho.
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dapitts08
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133. "I was sooooooo close to being a straight up simp today lol"
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so for those who followed the roommate chronicles
i almost shoveled her car out today
but i didn't lol
but i thought about it
lol smh



the key to happiness is not being rich;
it's doing something arduous and
creating something of value and then
being able to reflect on the fruits of your labor

  

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135. "YOU BETTA DON'T"
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here for dis.

  

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earthseed
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137. "i second this response. let her do it herself."
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now go runtelldat, ho.

  

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dapitts08
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139. "she did & i didn't :)"
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the key to happiness is not being rich;
it's doing something arduous and
creating something of value and then
being able to reflect on the fruits of your labor

  

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143. "lol, good!"
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now go runtelldat, ho.

  

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dapitts08
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138. "LOL I KNOWWWWWW n/m"
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the key to happiness is not being rich;
it's doing something arduous and
creating something of value and then
being able to reflect on the fruits of your labor

  

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142. "you way too cute for that"
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stop it 5


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dapitts08
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144. "awwww thnx :)"
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the key to happiness is not being rich;
it's doing something arduous and
creating something of value and then
being able to reflect on the fruits of your labor

  

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145. "i find it hella funny my sons mother REFUSES to step foot in my house "
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so the other day she came to pick him up and it's like 14 degrees here and he wasn't ready..
my wife says to her "come in" she responds "no thanks i'll stand here"
now mind u my door is wide open and my wife was like well i am closing the door and she returned to the car...

i mean i aint saying come in and have dinner with us and pretend like we are just one big happy family but to step in and wait for ur kid come on now...

she is bitter very bitter and I find it sad at this point.... like we should be past this point by now... but i guess she will never be past it...

side note as much as i hated taping the show i love how it turned out.

I got a good life man

  

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147. "RE: ** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **"
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My friends have the business sense of fruit flies, don't ask me shit
lol #banned.

The older you get the more you know many never grow up.

I'm done with one venue I DJ at because of shady mgmt.

But I'm using it to execute some ideas for a bit that I can take to a
better venue in the spring.

Looking forward to spinning out of town next month.

The weather is so beautiful today, going to the park!

http://i54.tinypic.com/2j51hj4.jpg

  

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148. "i thought DJ RTistic's last line of his post was funny"
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it didnt even occur to me to be offended.

i hate feeling like i *should* feel offended by some shit tho.

i didnt read all the responses but :-/

  

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158. "im so glad Jodeci is back"
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Had 'every moment' on repeat last night. def copping the album. I havent bought an album is YEARS but they will be getting my $$$

i hope the Seahawks smash Brady and co this week. i hope this game resembles last years Superbowl when Peyton was locked down for almost the entire game. Plus itd by dope to see a black qb when back to back SBs. History making.

my wcw this week is: http://instagram.com/p/yTKK9XIS74/?modal=true


Another note i have gotten a good night's sleep in a week and its starting to wear me down. im going to bed early tonight.

  

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163. "yep"
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>Had 'every moment' on repeat last night. def copping the
>album. I havent bought an album is YEARS but they will be
>getting my $$$

I couldn't stop playing it.

  

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164. "I need a "sold not told post" lol "
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--
I made a mess of my hair.. and for some reason I don't care hmmm
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I'm posting twice in confession wednesday .. who knows why
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lawd the lil boy is looking up russian visas to visit me .. I don't think that will happen but if it does I know what's not happening. lol
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I need to sort myself out.

  

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167. "RE: ** CONFESSION WEDNESDAY **"
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How did I miss that Angie Stone was in vertical hold?!

My squat is getting better. My snatch and clean needs work.

My aunt had brain surgery today and I have prayed a lot. I hope she's going to be okay and they find out what the hell is going on with her.

"We don't make mistakes, we just have happy little accidents" - Bob Ross

"I'm wearing a MSU Tshirt because I went to MSU, you are wearing a UM Tshirt because you went to Walmart!" -unknown.

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