>myself. If instead I >say to myself, "Oh, janey, >you made a mistake -- >how unlike you!" that reinforces >the idea that I'm a >worthy person who doesn't make >mistakes. This is not >to say that we don't >all make mistakes. Just >that I think we can >create conditions that expect mistakes >and so create them, or >expect good works and so >creates that.
..like justified expectations - righteous anger. or is it the other way around. ______________________________________
seize your time! - marley/wailers
I'm all about peace in this nation but if she played me in the womb I'd give my mother complications.. - dres/blacksheep