>myself. If instead I
>say to myself, "Oh, janey,
>you made a mistake --
>how unlike you!" that reinforces
>the idea that I'm a
>worthy person who doesn't make
>mistakes. This is not
>to say that we don't
>all make mistakes. Just
>that I think we can
>create conditions that expect mistakes
>and so create them, or
>expect good works and so
>creates that.

..like justified expectations - righteous anger. or is it the other way around.
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seize your time! - marley/wailers

I'm all about peace in this nation
but if she played me in the womb
I'd give my mother complications.. - dres/blacksheep