I'll bet your pastor also points out all the stuff about getting that plank out of your own eye before you try to help your neighbor get the splinter out of his.
I'm tellin ya (and here is where we'll doubtless disagree), based on my personal experience and that of my mother and sister, it seems to me that it doesn't matter what the denomination is so long as the community (led by its leader) is exhibiting true love for humanity and true forgiveness and true humility. I figure that if God wanted us all to worship him the same way, we would have been created in a way that one way satisfies all of us. I get the feeling that God likes a little diversity, too, nahmean?
Peace.
~ ~ ~ All meetings end in separation All acquisition ends in dispersion All life ends in death - The Buddha