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Trinity444
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"define sexy..."


  

          

my suitor asked if I thought I was sexy and in true trinity fashion, I responded with, "you would need to define what you mean by it".

Am I wrong?

men just be throwing stuff out there...

  

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Sexy, for me, equals a 'sexy' personality
Nov 09th 2017
1
**stands in front of mirror**
Nov 09th 2017
2
lol
Nov 09th 2017
4
very unsexy question and unsexy response.
Nov 09th 2017
3
unlol?
Nov 09th 2017
5
      i actually have no idea what sexy is. im just wasting time at work
Nov 09th 2017
6
its one of those things
Nov 09th 2017
7
next time just say 'yes'.
Nov 09th 2017
8
I'd worry about disappointing someone....
Nov 10th 2017
19
      Its not worth thinking about.
Nov 11th 2017
41
self-deprecation.
Nov 09th 2017
9
oh i forgot women have to do that.
Nov 09th 2017
12
;)
Nov 09th 2017
14
endearing but I don't know if that's sexy.
Nov 10th 2017
25
To me:
Nov 09th 2017
10
damn you know homie went limp at your response, right?
Nov 09th 2017
11
right?
Nov 09th 2017
15
Answering questions with questions ain’t sexy
Nov 09th 2017
16
Where da pic at???
Nov 09th 2017
13
:-(
Nov 10th 2017
37
if im understanding right you want a definition of sexy
Nov 09th 2017
17
Do I want to have sex with you and or want to see you engaged in sex
Nov 09th 2017
18
You *would* have the most logical definition in here lol
Nov 10th 2017
21
      I spend a lot of time analyzing and deconstructing sexuality.
Nov 10th 2017
22
           Word. Hence why your response makes the most sense.
Nov 10th 2017
23
Hard to define as different ppl have varying sex appeal
Nov 10th 2017
20
sometimes it has nothing to do with physical appearance.
Nov 10th 2017
24
This is going to sound sexist as hell but....
Nov 10th 2017
26
The unknown CAN be very sexy since it allows your imagination to fill in...
Nov 10th 2017
28
last night I watched him eat...
Nov 10th 2017
29
RE: This is going to sound sexist as hell but....
Nov 10th 2017
31
it's more of a vibe and a feel, accompanied with physical attraction
Nov 10th 2017
27
a confidence and comfort with ones self and sexuality
Nov 10th 2017
30
It's the whole aura
Nov 10th 2017
32
im meeting him in the morning..
Nov 10th 2017
33
What time are y'all meeting up? I'm coming through.
Nov 10th 2017
34
      it hurt doesn't it, beezy :-)
Nov 10th 2017
35
           I'm crushed
Nov 10th 2017
40
How fast can you add up all of the change in your purse?
Nov 10th 2017
36
Lmao..I started to post this
Nov 12th 2017
44
Trifecta= sexy
Nov 10th 2017
38
the sexiest woman on the street is...
Nov 10th 2017
39
Riri
Nov 12th 2017
42
Thick but not fat just fed. Locks that are maintained
Nov 12th 2017
43
**smh**
Nov 13th 2017
45
Be lonely.
Nov 13th 2017
46
one date is enough? damn..
Nov 13th 2017
47
yea...
Nov 13th 2017
48
what was the problem?
Nov 13th 2017
49
      he didn’t look the same...
Nov 13th 2017
50
           strobe light
Nov 13th 2017
51
                man, at a concert yrs ago, my boys and I
Nov 13th 2017
53
I don’t think I know what I’m doing...
Nov 13th 2017
52
its hard to receieve dating advice.
Nov 13th 2017
54
don't approach each date like "this could be the one"
Nov 13th 2017
58
^^^this too
Nov 13th 2017
68
what do you mean by this...
Nov 13th 2017
62
      open your box or get a bigger one
Nov 13th 2017
66
youre a square block homes
Nov 13th 2017
55
I love you.
Nov 13th 2017
61
You over thinking this shit
Nov 13th 2017
56
it's Trin, of course she is.
Nov 13th 2017
57
the problem with online dating is the level of expectations..
Nov 13th 2017
59
      i agree
Nov 13th 2017
60
over thinking is my burden Leg’s...
Nov 13th 2017
63
      I married an over thinker so I understand the struggle
Nov 13th 2017
65
           real talk...
Nov 13th 2017
69
                you definitely have interesting angles on topics
Nov 14th 2017
70
you don't....and that's fine...
Nov 13th 2017
64
      I appreciate that.
Nov 13th 2017
67

flipnile
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1. "Sexy, for me, equals a 'sexy' personality"
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How she interacts with me. Nothing else even comes close, not looks, big whatever(s), etc. Physical appearance is a distant second.

  

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2. "**stands in front of mirror** "
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i kid....

basically...'physique-ly' attractive or they have an intimate energy about em

=======================================
Coolin...

  

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Trinity444
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4. "lol"
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3. "very unsexy question and unsexy response. "
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lol

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Trinity444
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5. "unlol?"
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don't shoot the messenger...

  

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6. "i actually have no idea what sexy is. im just wasting time at work"
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http://instagram.com/aehorton

  

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7. "its one of those things"
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that you see in how a person carries herself. you know it when you see it, but its hard to describe.

a chick can be fine as shit, but not sexy at all. Rihanna = sexy. Selma Hayek = sexy. Halle Berry = not sexy. opinions will vary, but this is my take on those ladies.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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8. "next time just say 'yes'."
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lol

b/c even if you don't think you're sexy you might not want to admit that to a new lover. it's unsexy.

fuck you.

  

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19. "I'd worry about disappointing someone...."
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It would be hard to say yes without knowing how its define. Like. I could, but when you see me you think something different so I play it safe. The question itself isn't something tha should be asked because to each their own. The responses in this post are evident of that. Given my suitor's response, ("something that makes your heart skip a beat, makes your mouth open but you can't speak because it takes your breath away, makes you weak in the knees"), how do you response yes to that? It s a personal feeling.


  

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41. "Its not worth thinking about."
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Do *i* think I'm sexy? Yes.

Not the same as wanting him to tell me how I should dress or whatever. Clearly he thinks I'm sexy or sexy enough bc he's in a sexual relationship with me or he wants to be in one.

I would just do what I do and check for his response. And talk it out when needed.

fuck you.

  

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9. "self-deprecation."
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a woman that dont take herself too serious will always be sexy to me.

  

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12. "oh i forgot women have to do that."
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lol

fuck you.

  

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14. ";)"
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25. "endearing but I don't know if that's sexy. "
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**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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10. "To me:"
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Thu Nov-09-17 04:31 PM by auragin_boi

  

          

(because it's different for everybody)

-Humility
-Intellect
-Timing
-Wit
-Self-awareness/flawed
-Confidence
-Communication
-A deep understanding of self (this one plays into appearance and how a woman carries her self, she should KNOW what looks good on her, know when to up the ante on the physical look and when to tone it down, know how to flirt, know when to be a freak and when to represent you without being told to)
-Self love/working out
-And good curves (not too little, not too much, not cariacatured...meaning the proportions aren't supper wide)

The more of these things a woman possesses, the more I'm into her.

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11. "damn you know homie went limp at your response, right?"
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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15. "right?"
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_asNhzXq72w

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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16. "Answering questions with questions ain’t sexy "
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****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

  

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13. "Where da pic at???"
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Usually if someone is calling you sexy they want to fukk.

  

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37. ":-("
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17. "if im understanding right you want a definition of sexy"
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i'd say something you encounter that suggests sex or attraction.

could be something you see or hear or smell or anything.

"It's the return of the gangsta, thanks ta..."

-du

  

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18. "Do I want to have sex with you and or want to see you engaged in sex"
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Do you give me dirty thoughts
Are you able to create excitement and intrigue

R.I.P. Loud But Wrong Guy
Dec 29th 2009 - Dec 17th 2017

  

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21. "You *would* have the most logical definition in here lol"
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Days like this I miss Sha Mecca

  

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22. "I spend a lot of time analyzing and deconstructing sexuality."
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R.I.P. Loud But Wrong Guy
Dec 29th 2009 - Dec 17th 2017

  

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23. "Word. Hence why your response makes the most sense."
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Your definition is worded better than the
official definition.

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Days like this I miss Sha Mecca

  

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20. "Hard to define as different ppl have varying sex appeal"
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24. "sometimes it has nothing to do with physical appearance."
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for ME?

-Confidence
-a good head on her shoulders (book smarts AND common sense )
-ambition/drive
-good sense of humor (the darker, the better. I LOVE sarcastic women)
-independence (not that Beyonce, shit. I mean the non-clingy type)


any combination of those? You got yourself a winner.


___________

Back again for the first time.

  

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26. "This is going to sound sexist as hell but...."
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I think it's sexy as hell when a woman doesn't talk alot. When you have to wonder what they are thinking. Like I don't think I've seen Rhi Rhi say more than 10 words outside of a song.


Doesn't have to be sexist because I think the same is probably true for guys as well.



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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

  

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28. "The unknown CAN be very sexy since it allows your imagination to fill in..."
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There might be a lady you see once or twice very briefly and certain features will get stuck in your mind, you start to envision a number of scenarios...

R.I.P. Loud But Wrong Guy
Dec 29th 2009 - Dec 17th 2017

  

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29. "last night I watched him eat..."
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I wouldn't allow him to hang up. The way he chewed his food mesmerizing me...

I can't even described why

  

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31. "RE: This is going to sound sexist as hell but...."
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>I think it's sexy as hell when a woman doesn't talk alot.
>When you have to wonder what they are thinking. Like I don't
>think I've seen Rhi Rhi say more than 10 words outside of a
>song.
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>Doesn't have to be sexist because I think the same is probably
>true for guys as well.
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>**********
>"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then
>they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
>
>"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

that's because she's a blank slate, that could go out the window as soon as she opens her mouth, lol

dude

  

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27. "it's more of a vibe and a feel, accompanied with physical attraction"
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30. "a confidence and comfort with ones self and sexuality"
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sexy comes from the inside

at least thats whats sexy to me

dude

  

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32. "It's the whole aura"
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It's how you carry yourself

It's how you represent your attire meaning how comfortable you come across in whatever you have on. It could be a robe and house slippers but wear it with confidence.

It's you express your desires and wishes to the world.

It's not vain, distasteful, or misogynistic.

It's attractive mentally, spiritually, energy wise, aura wise, and/or physically. Alcohol skews the perception of all these by the way.

  

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33. "im meeting him in the morning.."
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Skype helped eliminate the jitters I have. I decided on a simple black dress. His text this morning read, "it's going to be chilly be sure to bundle up". I reminded him where I'm from. I've already made up my mind to pretend like I'm on date in Paris..

Everything about this guy says yes.

Sexy as hell
he's steez intimates me
because i can't read him
but I can feel him
and I want more


ain't nobody praying for me though...

  

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34. "What time are y'all meeting up? I'm coming through."
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<---
Fuck a sig, my presence is enough.

  

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35. "it hurt doesn't it, beezy :-) "
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10 am

  

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40. "I'm crushed"
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I'll het right though.

<---
Fuck a sig, my presence is enough.

  

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36. "How fast can you add up all of the change in your purse?"
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44. "Lmao..I started to post this"
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-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

  

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38. "Trifecta= sexy"
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a great physique, great smile, and confidence makes a woman sexy to me. If you got one or two of those things.... well then u just one or two of them thangs.

The Trifecta makes sexy

  

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39. "the sexiest woman on the street is..."
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the one least buried in her phone as a security blanket.

check it out next time.

  

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42. "Riri"
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she has that fking beauty with the dgaf swag. She sexy af. If i had to define it is swag and beauty together. Beyonce doesnt have that. Riri does. So does Meagan Good. Nia Long. Madonna had it back in the day. You know it when u see it.

  

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43. "Thick but not fat just fed. Locks that are maintained "
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Nice teeth. And a sexy booty
... "A Beautiful Struggle"
https://m.facebook.com/jamelabullock
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Musically.Entertaining.Lyrically.Alluring.

  

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45. "**smh**"
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I didn't like him
nice guy but the attraction wasn't there
and now what I gotta do what I feared.
tell him...

I'm so close to rollin' slow
forever...

  

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46. "Be lonely."
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fuck you.

  

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47. "one date is enough? damn.. "
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that's the problem with online dating. Expectations be mad high.

It sounded like you were into him too.

Damn, sometimes it just isn't there but why stop trying?

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48. "yea..."
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there were things our virtual conversation didn't capture. While you were in LA having the time of your life, I spent the weekend replaying if this is something I really want. I just need another break from it all...

  

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49. "what was the problem?"
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"Get ready....for your blessing....."

  

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50. "he didn’t look the same..."
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I’m disappointed because I didn’t think cameras could be that deceiving or maybe it’s me. Plus he didn’t speak much. I’m ok with a comfortable silence but not while we’re getting to know each other.

  

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51. "strobe light"
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"Get ready....for your blessing....."

  

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53. "man, at a concert yrs ago, my boys and I "
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saw a chick going up the steps. fine as shit. got her number. boys was dapping me up. I'm proud den a mugg!

then the lights came on. OMG, her face!!!! the dapping changed to jeering.

thought I would just get away by not calling her, but found out that she knew a girl at my high school.

shout out to Black Sheep.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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52. "I don’t think I know what I’m doing..."
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what I want. shit...if I want it.

other than y’all there weren’t many I told about this
depending on who I talk to the responses are different
says a lot about how well they know me too..

one lady said I should think about dating younger. I’m totally against it!
another friend...I’m not really feeling her philosophies so I disregard everything she says. Like, how I should have asked him for gas $ for driving to meet him.

I told another, I’m a simple woman. Her response, “you’re the worst kind”
damn, lol
but I have a feeling she may be right...

my best friend back home “oh well. back to the drawing board”

ain’t nobody praying for me...



  

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54. "its hard to receieve dating advice."
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there are a million variables that come into play when trying to date someone.

I would only suggest 2 things.

1. not cutting off your options. younger might be an option. not like 20 yrs younger, but say maybe 5.

2. open up - no matter what your level of openess, it can still close off potential suitors. get out of your comfort zone.

both of these speak to the same thing. be about the new new if the old habits aren't getting the right results.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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58. "don't approach each date like "this could be the one" "
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just treat it as a scrimmage. Especially the first date.


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68. "^^^this too"
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Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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62. "what do you mean by this..."
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>2. open up - no matter what your level of openess, it can
>still close off potential suitors. get out of your comfort
>zone.
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66. "open your box or get a bigger one"
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to play in. do things you've not done before. go to new places. put yourself in unfamiliar situations.

if what you've been doing isn't poppin like you'd hoped, you gotta try things that might be uncomfortable. do more dates, not less.

and be easy. so he didn't look like the picture. does that mean he was fugly or just not the expectation? is there no chance of a 2nd chance? maybe he was nervous when he met you or was trying to get you to talk.

Y'all buy those labels, I was born supreme

  

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55. "youre a square block homes"
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nothing wrong with being a square block except we think the round blocks are the one having all the fun

so we dye our hair blonde to look like that blonde round block

we bleach our beautiful natural dark woodgrain finish to look like the other popular round blocks

and the round blocks are taking all our square block shit and blowing that shit up for all the other round blocks

now i dont even remember what we were talking about anymore but i found this weekend that i really truly am a square block, and there was a feeling of sadness almost, like, this round block world is something that ive never wanted to be a part of, but its what everyone else wants, and there, in the middle of it all, all i felt was emptiness and sorrow. i was a foreigner. i didnt speak the language. that place would never be my home country, the food would never taste quite right. i yearned for the square hole. yearned! yearned mother fuckers!

anyway you dont find something to eat til after you get hungry so yearn mother fuckers

  

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61. "I love you."
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56. "You over thinking this shit"
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It’s just dating.. online dating at that.

You are putting too much pressure on yourself.



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57. "it's Trin, of course she is."
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59. "the problem with online dating is the level of expectations.."
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those shits are usually sky fucking high.

Dude might be shy as shit irl or maybe he was nervous as hell.. or maybe this is who he really is..

but I don't think you can get all that from 1 date.

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60. "i agree"
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63. "over thinking is my burden Leg’s..."
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I really wish you wouldn’t make things sound so easy. Like people just wake up tomorrow anew.

Its trial and error. nigga


  

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65. "I married an over thinker so I understand the struggle "
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You gotta keep at it.

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69. "real talk..."
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I don’t know if it’s truly overthinking...

I was in the break room telling friends about this and listening to them made me so uncomfortable because my thoughts are different than theres.

People mistake me not speaking as lack of knowledge, when sometimes I just don’t wanna make you uncomfortable.





  

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70. "you definitely have interesting angles on topics"
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which can make for some interesting convo and some miscommunication

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64. "you don't....and that's fine..."
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focus on this 1st--->> what I want. shit...if I want it.
just sit there and Focus (c) Jody

makes figuring out/finding the rest easier


can't be all out in the yard in gen pop looking for the inmates from the psych ward...

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Coolin...

  

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67. "I appreciate that."
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I hear you

  

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