(because it's different for everybody)

-Humility
-Intellect
-Timing
-Wit
-Self-awareness/flawed
-Confidence
-Communication
-A deep understanding of self (this one plays into appearance and how a woman carries her self, she should KNOW what looks good on her, know when to up the ante on the physical look and when to tone it down, know how to flirt, know when to be a freak and when to represent you without being told to)
-Self love/working out
-And good curves (not too little, not too much, not cariacatured...meaning the proportions aren't supper wide)

The more of these things a woman possesses, the more I'm into her.