It's how you carry yourself

It's how you represent your attire meaning how comfortable you come across in whatever you have on. It could be a robe and house slippers but wear it with confidence.

It's you express your desires and wishes to the world.

It's not vain, distasteful, or misogynistic.

It's attractive mentally, spiritually, energy wise, aura wise, and/or physically. Alcohol skews the perception of all these by the way.