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Buddy_Gilapagos
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"Work Husband Violation"


  

          

So my wife has a work husband.

(First question on work spouses? Do you tell your spouse you got a work spouse?)

I hear about him and the rest of the gang from her work all the time and I don't pay it much mind because I am me and dude really isn't her type (nerdy white guy).

So I don't have real fear of dude stealing my wife or even hooking up with the missus.

However, I think there was a work husband violation because at their holiday party they had a photo booth and they took photos together.

That in itself didn't bother me, but the violation on his part in my mind is dude posted the pictures on facebook and tagged her.

So now I got my brother clowning me talking about they look like such a happy couple on facebook.

Two questions to get it poppin.

Was there a violation? and if so, what is the proper remedy for the violation?

There is actually another holiday party tonight we will all be together at so it would be a good time to implement any agreed upon remedy for the alleged violation.



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Subject Author Message Date ID
goofy ass shit
Dec 10th 2014
1
Lol
Dec 10th 2014
101
fuck his wife.
Dec 10th 2014
2
I mean it's the only thing that seems fair.
Dec 10th 2014
3
OMG I just busted the fuck up at this shit LOL
Dec 10th 2014
96
He has to film it though
Dec 11th 2014
133
Depends on the pic to be honest
Dec 10th 2014
4
Well yeah it's totally about what other people think here.
Dec 10th 2014
6
^^^^^^^^^
Dec 10th 2014
114
I can't get past "Work Husband"
Dec 10th 2014
5
Damn my dude your advice for every relationship questions is "acquittal"...
Dec 10th 2014
8
      I'm not trying to change anyone, so I have to deal with what's there...
Dec 10th 2014
16
           Divorced?
Dec 10th 2014
26
           Me? Never been married.
Dec 10th 2014
           I hear you but even the happiest relationships have ups, downs, bumps...
Dec 10th 2014
34
                that is the definition of a relationship...
Dec 10th 2014
73
have you met him?
Dec 10th 2014
7
I think so. Not sure. I would have been in passing at a holiday party
Dec 10th 2014
9
      depending on the pic, if he *knows* who you are
Dec 10th 2014
11
Don't know about that one
Dec 10th 2014
10
^^someone's goofy ass work husband
Dec 10th 2014
12
Big Reg, It's OKPs before fellow Work Husband Bros. SMH.
Dec 10th 2014
18
+1
Dec 10th 2014
13
Oh I brought it up.
Dec 10th 2014
17
      DO.NOT.DO.THAT!!
Dec 10th 2014
22
      all her friends already seen it, let it ride.
Dec 10th 2014
24
      if you had the same photo with a work wife would she trip?
Dec 10th 2014
35
           ^ relevant question
Dec 10th 2014
41
           Ohh Sheeiittt ain't no way in the world I can get away with that.
Dec 10th 2014
46
                *screwfaces*
Dec 10th 2014
49
                     RE: *screwfaces*
Dec 10th 2014
59
                          does not compute
Dec 10th 2014
68
                               he doesn't trust himself. he does....but its only so much a man can take
Dec 10th 2014
78
                               ^Bingo
Dec 10th 2014
82
                               oh, I agree... he is a smart man.
Dec 10th 2014
103
                               if you don't trust yourself, you just gotta get out the paint
Dec 10th 2014
98
                                    I ain't in the paint. I don't have a work wife. Don't want one.
Dec 12th 2014
146
Nah, let it ride*...
Dec 10th 2014
14
ohh you tempting me to post the pic!!!
Dec 10th 2014
23
      LMAO!
Dec 10th 2014
28
Pants that nerd.
Dec 10th 2014
15
I like this idea. a juvenile problem deserves a juvenile solution.
Dec 10th 2014
21
i just busted out laughing at that. hahaha
Dec 11th 2014
117
as a veteran work husband....ehhhhh....not really
Dec 10th 2014
19
No violation, your brother just hating...
Dec 10th 2014
20
sooo,this picture don't look like a couple to you?
Dec 10th 2014
25
      yeah fuck that shit
Dec 10th 2014
27
      eggzactly. Can we now stipulate that picture is eye brow raising?
Dec 10th 2014
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           I still stand by my suggestions in this post
Dec 10th 2014
31
      ehhhh
Dec 10th 2014
30
      he damn right he does!!?!?!
Dec 10th 2014
32
           I'm getting mad just reading these reactions
Dec 10th 2014
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                yea i'm mad i missed it too
Dec 10th 2014
39
                     it's still there
Dec 10th 2014
48
                          nah its gone
Dec 10th 2014
50
                          Here I will re-up it for those who missed it.
Dec 10th 2014
54
                               not mad. at all. nm
Dec 10th 2014
63
                               wait...is that supposed to be the real pic or Zoe and Mila like i think ...
Dec 10th 2014
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                                    no longer the real pic. I just put the zoe , mila one up, well, just be...
Dec 10th 2014
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                          RE: it's still there
Dec 10th 2014
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                               it must cache or something cuz I was like uhhh, I still see it
Dec 10th 2014
112
      The image ain't there, and by YOUR OWN admission
Dec 10th 2014
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      Your description of events is not how it went down but ok.
Dec 10th 2014
61
           I recounted what you said succintly...
Dec 10th 2014
81
                This where you got it wrong.
Dec 10th 2014
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      That's no nerdy white guy in that pic.
Dec 10th 2014
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           yup
Dec 11th 2014
119
THESE MOFOS TRIPPIN. BEYOND VIOLATION
Dec 10th 2014
36
^^Who I was waiting for.
Dec 10th 2014
37
My friend met his wife's work husband.. nigga was HEATED
Dec 10th 2014
38
      See. Clear violation. First Rule of Work Spouse.
Dec 10th 2014
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      muthafuckers want labels and to feel special
Dec 10th 2014
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           dude doubled down on it too...
Dec 10th 2014
71
                that's cause work husbands think its cute. sadly. nm.
Dec 10th 2014
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                     See I would expect dudes to know the rules and the wives to mess it up.
Dec 10th 2014
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                          i think there are two kinda work husband/wife dudes
Dec 10th 2014
80
                          white privilege? I can't see a Black man doing this
Dec 10th 2014
104
Something about a photobooth at a work party
Dec 10th 2014
40
*cough*
Dec 10th 2014
42
      oh.
Dec 10th 2014
45
i can not for the life of me understand the concept
Dec 10th 2014
43
if you get a job in an office, you will
Dec 10th 2014
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the majority of my work experience has been in offices.
Dec 10th 2014
108
and IMO that's a mistake
Dec 11th 2014
128
      its weird to me if you're in a relationship or marriage to have
Dec 12th 2014
143
what are the perks of it?
Dec 10th 2014
110
      basically... but you pay them back.
Dec 11th 2014
127
           whoa, I almost ready that wrong, lmao...
Dec 11th 2014
134
                oh hell nah...
Dec 12th 2014
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                LOLOL!!
Dec 12th 2014
152
Really? YOU don't get a fake husband?
Dec 10th 2014
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      i get the joke but seriously
Dec 10th 2014
107
           Pssst, the secret to Work Spouses is that it's not that serious.
Dec 12th 2014
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                it aint' that serious until it is. isn't that the reason why you don't h...
Dec 12th 2014
149
"nerdy white guy"... right, suuuure he is. That's what she told you.
Dec 10th 2014
44
do u care or do u care that ur brother cares?
Dec 10th 2014
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#6. I don't really even care what my brother thinks. He was joking...
Dec 10th 2014
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Work Wife/Husband is real
Dec 10th 2014
51
there are men and women who are at work to WORK
Dec 10th 2014
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      im going to have to agree with this.
Dec 10th 2014
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      i'll be goofy then
Dec 10th 2014
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      See, you somebodies work wife and don't even know it...
Dec 10th 2014
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      nah
Dec 10th 2014
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      no no no not intimate. that's not the def
Dec 10th 2014
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      how do you know that he isn't telling you shit he doesn't tell her?
Dec 10th 2014
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           because i dont get that personal with coworkers
Dec 10th 2014
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                RE: because i dont get that personal with coworkers
Dec 12th 2014
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i can't get past "work husband"/"work wife".
Dec 10th 2014
65
putting the pics on FB is just not a good idea
Dec 10th 2014
74
I'd have clowned and acted a fool so hard the very 1st time
Dec 10th 2014
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I think work wife/work husband is cool but
Dec 10th 2014
85
three errors
Dec 10th 2014
86
work mate is the same concept as a gym buddy, or study buddy
Dec 10th 2014
88
^^^Quality Work Wife right here.
Dec 10th 2014
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i mean. there has to be more incentive to fool around beyond...
Dec 10th 2014
90
      ...but I also got you your favorite coffee drink and a muffin.
Dec 10th 2014
           depends. what kind of muffin?
Dec 10th 2014
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           1 blueberry and 1 banana nut. I hope you like banana because
Dec 10th 2014
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           ^^LOL this is where im at with it
Dec 10th 2014
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basically...
Dec 11th 2014
129
I'd step to him at the Xmas party
Dec 10th 2014
Well report how that goes over when I pull that tonight.
Dec 10th 2014
93
I heard this whole post, (including sig) in DOOM's voice....LMAO
Dec 10th 2014
113
but did he ask her if shes happy tho???
Dec 10th 2014
91
Points for the reference.
Dec 10th 2014
92
not cool.
Dec 10th 2014
99
Doesn't seem to be the case here, but would it matter if he's gay?
Dec 10th 2014
102
^^^^^my fave work hubby was gay
Dec 10th 2014
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Gay Work hubby is Ideal.
Dec 11th 2014
122
The whole "work spouse" idea is a violation, in my opinion...
Dec 10th 2014
105
WAS. SHE. SITTING. ON. HIS. LAP? <--only question that matters
Dec 10th 2014
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eh, not a big deal. let it go (c) frozen
Dec 10th 2014
111
I don't think it's a violation
Dec 10th 2014
115
kick the motherfucker in the shinbone and watch him whimper.
Dec 11th 2014
116
Seems like your bother was just busting your balls
Dec 11th 2014
118
potential for Lost Recipes...stay woke Bro ...
Dec 11th 2014
120
lmao
Dec 11th 2014
135
you gotta act mexican and send her to work w/hickeys on her neck.
Dec 11th 2014
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omg!
Dec 11th 2014
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yuuuuuup
Dec 11th 2014
130
My work wife is a cool ass lesbian.
Dec 11th 2014
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she's only a lesbian until you give her some d*ck (c) my boy Rodney
Dec 12th 2014
142
I'm a work hubby to a married woman, & I think our fling is gettin weird...
Dec 11th 2014
125
there should never be any contact outside of work IMO...
Dec 11th 2014
126
Even if the work hubby's gay?
Dec 11th 2014
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not even a "hey I'm running late...
Dec 11th 2014
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      I'm talking drinks after work or hanging a frame at the house...
Dec 12th 2014
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Yo, that's where I'm at with it...
Dec 12th 2014
151
I'm late to the party but yeah shit is tricky though, I've had a few...
Dec 11th 2014
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So...? I need to know if you put dem paws on him
Dec 11th 2014
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What I gotta do to see the pic?
Dec 11th 2014
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Relax your eyes
Dec 11th 2014
139
      this that magic eye shit? i'm cool w/ zoe & mk, tho.
Dec 12th 2014
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What did you wife do/think/say?
Dec 11th 2014
140
Wasn't it your wife w/ the Special Needs Transit Boyfriend too?
Dec 12th 2014
150
Negative.
Dec 12th 2014
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      my bad, somebody told a funny ass story about a
Dec 12th 2014
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      my bad, somebody told a funny ass story about a
Dec 12th 2014
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           ha, I remember that, but I don't recall who it was
Dec 13th 2014
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I have many jobs so I guess that makes me a polygamist
Dec 12th 2014
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I love my husband's work wife
Dec 13th 2014
157
What type of Mormon Work Marriage shit is this?!?!?!
Dec 13th 2014
158

teefiveten
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1. "goofy ass shit"
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101. "Lol"
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prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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veritas
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2. "fuck his wife."
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i still blame hip-hop.

  

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3. "I mean it's the only thing that seems fair. "
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96. "OMG I just busted the fuck up at this shit LOL"
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133. "He has to film it though"
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and show it at the next work event on a projector.

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4. "Depends on the pic to be honest "
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It sounds more like a case of your brothers overreaction giving you food for thought than anything, but it really depends on the pic IMO.

  

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6. "Well yeah it's totally about what other people think here. "
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I am not concerned but its what other people see that is the source of the violation.

It's a source of jokes for my brother that's all.

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114. "^^^^^^^^^"
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5. "I can't get past "Work Husband""
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That's breakup-level violation right there. I understand that you're married, and that's not on the table at this point, so I'm just speaking as an unmarried man here.

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8. "Damn my dude your advice for every relationship questions is "acquittal"..."
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You got a, what is it?, Kamala? List of deal breakers, like a mofo!

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16. "I'm not trying to change anyone, so I have to deal with what's there..."
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If a woman *shows* me that she's not interested in me, or if she does something that really bothers me, or if I'm unhappy in the relationship then what other options do I really have?

To put it another way, if *I* am the one that's unhappy in a relationship, then *I* need to be the one that changes something.

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26. "Divorced? "
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"Me? Never been married."


  

          

No real plans on getting married, either. I do the LTRs tho.

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34. "I hear you but even the happiest relationships have ups, downs, bumps..."
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need the lows to enjoy the highs.


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73. "that is the definition of a relationship..."
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anything else is fantasy island.

No such thing as a relationship where everyone is happy all the time.

  

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7. "have you met him?"
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9. "I think so. Not sure. I would have been in passing at a holiday party "
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last year.


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11. "depending on the pic, if he *knows* who you are"
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it's a violation.

now how you respond to that violation should really be a matter of making your presence more clearly known. you create the boundaries non-verbally. if he crosses again it's pure violation.

whatever you do though don't make it verbal or your wife will catch the short end of the stick.

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10. "Don't know about that one"
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it seems your brother is the issue here.

If the only pics are of him and her then perhaps. But that photobooth, etc...shit is a mainstay at holiday parties, and lord knows some co-workers love to spill their work lives into social media tagging everyone around em.

I just don't see the angle where you can bring it up to her and not come off a bit weak, lol

  

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12. "^^someone's goofy ass work husband"
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18. "Big Reg, It's OKPs before fellow Work Husband Bros. SMH. "
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13. "+1"
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here for dis.

  

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17. "Oh I brought it up. "
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Wed Dec-10-14 01:34 PM by Buddy_Gilapagos

  

          

Hard not to when she showed it to me. Mainly with jokes.

The question is do I bring it up again at the very least to say "uh could you please untag yourself so that all your friends ain't raising eyebrows?!?"




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22. "DO.NOT.DO.THAT!!"
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>The question is do I bring it up again at the very least to
>say "uh could you please untag yourself so that all your
>friends ain't raising eyebrows?!?"

Just remind your wife why you're her husband and KIM fam. Your release her pleasure.

(keeping it too real?)

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24. "all her friends already seen it, let it ride. "
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if you ain't say it made you feel a way when you first saw it, don't bother now...you look like a punk if you do. and honestly this is punk behavior cuz you only saying something because your brother.

  

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35. "if you had the same photo with a work wife would she trip? "
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41. "^ relevant question"
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46. "Ohh Sheeiittt ain't no way in the world I can get away with that. "
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The double standard is acceptable though because, well, (I know how my mind works and she does too).

Work wife ain't really a good idea for me.



>


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49. "*screwfaces*"
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>The double standard is acceptable though because, well, (I
>know how my mind works and she does too).
>
>Work wife ain't really a good idea for me.


You don't see a problem here? Why are you the only one on the leash? So this OTHER DUDE gets to do whatever the hell he wants, but YOU have to keep yourself in check?

No snark, btw. I just don't think this type of thing is cool (the double standards).


You should find some female friends to hang with (solo) and take a bunch of pics with. You know, for science.

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59. "RE: *screwfaces*"
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>>The double standard is acceptable though because, well, (I
>>know how my mind works and she does too).
>>
>>Work wife ain't really a good idea for me.
>
>
>You don't see a problem here? Why are you the only one on the
>leash? So this OTHER DUDE gets to do whatever the hell he
>wants, but YOU have to keep yourself in check?

It's kind of simple. She is trustworthy. I am not. Generally speaking.


>
>No snark, btw. I just don't think this type of thing is cool
>(the double standards).
>
>
>You should find some female friends to hang with (solo) and
>take a bunch of pics with. You know, for science.

I've done that. They don't end up on facebook though.


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68. "does not compute"
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sounds like she don't trust you...

or maybe you don't trust yourself?

I'm confused.


  

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78. "he doesn't trust himself. he does....but its only so much a man can take"
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and more men need to accept that about themselves and not put themselves in situations to fail.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

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82. "^Bingo"
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Certain situations I just need to avoid.


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103. "oh, I agree... he is a smart man. "
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98. "if you don't trust yourself, you just gotta get out the paint"
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146. "I ain't in the paint. I don't have a work wife. Don't want one. "
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14. "Nah, let it ride*..."
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*Unless he was all hugged up tight on your wife or doing something inappropriate in the pic.

I'm assuming this was one of those goofy photo booths where people go in and get 4 consecutive pics, each one with a different goofy-ass face.

The idea that your wife will never be in a normal ass pic with another man is odd.

  

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23. "ohh you tempting me to post the pic!!!"
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It's not that much of a "normal ass pic". It's very couply. One more person in the pic and it would have been nothing though.


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28. "LMAO!"
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Did they have matching Christmas sweaters and a cat between them?

If dude was stepping over the line, your wife would put him in his place & let you know. Your boys are just trying to hype you up.

  

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15. "Pants that nerd."
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"Hands off my wife, point dexter. FOH, back to your mom's basement."

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21. "I like this idea. a juvenile problem deserves a juvenile solution."
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i still blame hip-hop.

  

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117. "i just busted out laughing at that. hahaha"
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19. "as a veteran work husband....ehhhhh....not really "
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if he just posted a pic and was like me n suchnsuch @ holiday party then no biggie
just a pic


but if he gotta bunch of extras in his commentary then he .........i'll be nice...doesn't feel very threatened

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20. "No violation, your brother just hating..."
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is he the ONLY one who thinks they look like a couple? Are there comments under the pic like "y'all make a cute couple" and if so, did she or him say "nah we just work friends" or whatever? like this is so childish and petty.

i mean, if she starts cooking him meals and buying up groceries saying "Dre like turkey, I'mma get turkey" then you need to be worried.

  

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25. "sooo,this picture don't look like a couple to you?"
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http://i.imgur.com/yofF8bN.jpg?1

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27. "yeah fuck that shit"
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where the fuck are his hands in pic 3!!?

I ain't trying to start no shit but...

nahhhhh b

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29. "eggzactly. Can we now stipulate that picture is eye brow raising?"
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31. "I still stand by my suggestions in this post"
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You gotta know you're wife has it covered, but you should definitely have the angry black man scowl going into the party and everyone should be talking the next morning about how you might kick old boy's ass. He needs to get a message.

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30. "ehhhh"
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he knows what he's doing

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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32. "he damn right he does!!?!?!"
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33. "I'm getting mad just reading these reactions"
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I ain't even see the pic.

  

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39. "yea i'm mad i missed it too"
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i still blame hip-hop.

  

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48. "it's still there"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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50. "nah its gone"
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i think we're the only ones that saw it. so much going on.

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54. "Here I will re-up it for those who missed it. "
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http://imgur.com/t1XMagD


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63. "not mad. at all. nm"
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

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87. "wait...is that supposed to be the real pic or Zoe and Mila like i think ..."
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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94. "no longer the real pic. I just put the zoe , mila one up, well, just be..."
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77. "RE: it's still there"
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strangely it's still there for me too. Also seems to be there for jfrost.

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112. "it must cache or something cuz I was like uhhh, I still see it"
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56. "The image ain't there, and by YOUR OWN admission"
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when you saw the pic, you made some jokes and kept it moving. it wasn't until your brother put that spark under your ass that made you think "wait this ain't cool." so either you had an issue and you were too scared to say anything then (which is a punk move) or your brother is hating and instigating (which is a punk move).

Again, if you had an issue with it and said it when you saw the pic, then fine...but going back AFTER your brother says something is wack. if it bothers you, it bothers you but reading your post, it seems like it didn't bother you until your bro opened his mouth.

  

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61. "Your description of events is not how it went down but ok. "
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>when you saw the pic, you made some jokes and kept it moving.
>it wasn't until your brother put that spark under your ass
>that made you think "wait this ain't cool." so either you had
>an issue and you were too scared to say anything then (which
>is a punk move) or your brother is hating and instigating
>(which is a punk move).
>
>Again, if you had an issue with it and said it when you saw
>the pic, then fine...but going back AFTER your brother says
>something is wack. if it bothers you, it bothers you but
>reading your post, it seems like it didn't bother you until
>your bro opened his mouth.


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81. "I recounted what you said succintly..."
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your wife has a work husband, she refers to him as such in your presence
there was an office party
they took pics
work husband puts up pics, tags wife
wife shows you, you lol and joke with her about it. not saying "this isn't cool." (if you did, you haven't said that in this post)
your brother hits you and says "they a cute couple" jokes jokes jokes
now it's "is this a violation."

okay, so given that you didn't care until your brother said something. mind you, in my first post I said what are the comments others are leaving, how is that being handled...which you didn't answer. but in #6, you care about what others have to say...not about your brother while in the OP it's not about what others said, but your brother.

so okay.

i got it wrong but that's how you presented the story.

COOL.

  

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84. "This where you got it wrong. "
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>your wife has a work husband, she refers to him as such in
>your presence
>there was an office party
>they took pics
>work husband puts up pics, tags wife
>wife shows you, you lol and joke with her about it. not saying
>"this isn't cool." (if you did, you haven't said that in this
>post)

When she showed me the pictures I said "What the fuck is this bullshit!?!?"

In a less than serious tone. You assumed my jokes weren't about it being a violation.

So now everything you said after this point falls apart.

I think you should give me credit for knowing what happened to me better than you.

>your brother hits you and says "they a cute couple" jokes
>jokes jokes
>now it's "is this a violation."
>
>okay, so given that you didn't care until your brother said
>something. mind you, in my first post I said what are the
>comments others are leaving, how is that being handled...which
>you didn't answer. but in #6, you care about what others have
>to say...not about your brother while in the OP it's not about
>what others said, but your brother.

Maybe I wasn't clear but I use my brother to be illustrative as to how others would react to it.

For the record no one but there co-workers commented on it. But you don't have to comment on it to walk away with a wrong impression.


>
>so okay.
>
>i got it wrong but that's how you presented the story.
>
>COOL.
>


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70. "That's no nerdy white guy in that pic."
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That's a decent looking guy (no homo) and a beautiful woman. To paraphrase Pimp C, you might have to prepare to send him her clothes or go to war.

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119. "yup"
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in that dude's mind, he could hit. not saying he'd act on it. but he's walking around figuring

it is what it is

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36. "THESE MOFOS TRIPPIN. BEYOND VIOLATION"
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My wife aint finna be taking no solo pics with no man that aint her daddy bucept me.

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37. "^^Who I was waiting for. "
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38. "My friend met his wife's work husband.. nigga was HEATED"
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Dude was white and corny but dude was like "hey, I'm your wife's work husband"

Dude actually said that shit to him. For the next week that dude would watch his wife get ready for work with the illy grilly.

  

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52. "See. Clear violation. First Rule of Work Spouse. "
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Don't be all bubbly introducing yourself to the real spouse as the work spouse.

That's almost as bad as having inside jokes with the work spouse in front of the real spouse.


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69. "muthafuckers want labels and to feel special"
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"work husband"

if he had have said hi....i'm Dave, wouldn't have been no issue.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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71. "dude doubled down on it too..."
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all "hey, did she tell you I'm her work husband?"

knocking people out the way to make sure he knew and shit.



  

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72. "that's cause work husbands think its cute. sadly. nm."
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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76. "See I would expect dudes to know the rules and the wives to mess it up. "
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80. "i think there are two kinda work husband/wife dudes"
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gay guys who i'd expect not to know the rules and nigga who wanna fuck who i expect not to want to follow the rules.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

  

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104. "white privilege? I can't see a Black man doing this"
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40. "Something about a photobooth at a work party"
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Makes things far less serious for me.

I mean, unless he's snuggled in her neck with his hand under her shirt or something similarly questionable, I wouldn't bring it up.

Definitely no disrespect, but you thinking of approaching her about it makes you sound a little...insecure?



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42. "*cough*"
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>I mean, unless he's snuggled in her neck with his hand under
>her shirt or something similarly questionable

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45. "oh."
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Well, damn.


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43. "i can not for the life of me understand the concept"
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at all.

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66. "if you get a job in an office, you will"
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108. "the majority of my work experience has been in offices."
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i have never had a work husband.

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128. "and IMO that's a mistake"
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it's nothing more than a good friend of the opposite sex who looks out for you and makes your job easier.

  

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143. "its weird to me if you're in a relationship or marriage to have"
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a 'fake me out' work 'marriage'
if you have friends you have friends
i had homegirls who looked out for me
they weren't my 'work wives' or whatever
you look out for your friends that's what friends do
this 'work spousal relationship' shit is weird and ultimately too white for me.

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110. "what are the perks of it?"
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They buy lunch and coffee and shit?

  

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127. "basically... but you pay them back. "
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I have a mother-daughter combo. Around lunch they will ask if I want something or ask if I'm going out for lunch.

If they don't have cash I will pay for it... but they will either pay me back or buy my lunch later in the week.

If I hear people talking shit about their work I give them a heads and they do the same.

That's it. Ain't no snuggling, kissing or thoughts of cheatin'

  

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134. "whoa, I almost ready that wrong, lmao..."
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>If I hear people talking shit about their work I give them a
>heads and they do the same.

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147. "oh hell nah... "
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152. "LOLOL!!"
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I Grew Up On Booty Shake...We Did Not Know No Betta Thangs...

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79. "Really? YOU don't get a fake husband?"
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I'm sorry, Sha...that shit just made me chuckle

  

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107. "i get the joke but seriously"
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in real life i've never pretended someone was my boo at work
i don't see how that could be conducive to a real marriage or relationship
or why it's even a real relationship category

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145. "Pssst, the secret to Work Spouses is that it's not that serious. "
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It's a joke. Not to be taken too seriously. It's people taking it seriously and claiming the label like a title which is problematic.



>in real life i've never pretended someone was my boo at work
>i don't see how that could be conducive to a real marriage or
>relationship
>or why it's even a real relationship category
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149. "it aint' that serious until it is. isn't that the reason why you don't h..."
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a work wife? you said above you wouldn't put yourself in that situation? what situation if it's not serious right?

it's stupid imo

and just from being on these message boards for years i've seen enough stories
about work spouses gone weird or terribly wrong
enough for me to not get why niggas even put themselves through that
for people they not even WITH

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44. ""nerdy white guy"... right, suuuure he is. That's what she told you."
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47. "do u care or do u care that ur brother cares?"
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either way...eh.
and no, i dont believe in work wives or husbands and i do find it completely weird and lame
but i wldnt really care if i was in that situation

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53. "#6. I don't really even care what my brother thinks. He was joking... "
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but he ultimately said it ain't a thing (though he will have jokes).



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51. "Work Wife/Husband is real"
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the people that are claiming it lame or can't understand don't realize how real in the field it is


or do but don't wanna hear it.


YOUR MAN is talking to a woman at work about shit he don't talk to u about

YOUR WOMAN is telling some dude at work about shit u don't wanna talk about

it happens

hug it don't reject it.

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55. "there are men and women who are at work to WORK"
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and go home

im plenty friendly w/ my coworkers and we go out drinking and things and i know nothing about them that their mates don't know.

shit their mates drink WITH us.

y'all are goofy and want some telenovela in your life

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57. "im going to have to agree with this."
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the practice is rather goofy, and i've had loads of work wives.

focusing on work is always a better idea.

  

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58. "i'll be goofy then"
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cause i done had about 6-10 work wives.

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60. "See, you somebodies work wife and don't even know it..."
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>im plenty friendly w/ my coworkers and we go out drinking and
>things and i know nothing about them that their mates don't
>know.
>
>shit their mates drink WITH us.

All that is compatible with a work spouse. If they can't bring their real spouse around then you got trouble.

BTW, me and Geah definition of work spouse a little different.

His definition includes sharing intimate stuff with it seems. My definition is just that person you spend all day with and become extra familiar with.

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62. "nah"
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64. "no no no not intimate. that's not the def"
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just someone u spend all day with. My PR work wife here don't tell me nothing intimate..but she tell me a lot. We go together here.

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67. "how do you know that he isn't telling you shit he doesn't tell her? "
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75. "because i dont get that personal with coworkers"
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only shit i know that their SO's dont is that they are about to propose

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144. "RE: because i dont get that personal with coworkers"
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^^^i think this is a hard concept for some people.

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65. "i can't get past "work husband"/"work wife"."
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like how many times in your life have you said "you play too much!!!"

point being too much play play can turn serious.

so, fuck a work spouse.

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74. "putting the pics on FB is just not a good idea"
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...i don't know bout a violation, but it just seems ill advised....

maybe if it's pics of him and her and then a bunch of pics with him posing with other people.....

nothing to trip about though

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83. "I'd have clowned and acted a fool so hard the very 1st time"
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She even mentioned my title in conjunction with another man she would have never mentioned it again

Your work husband? Is he paying your work bills? He holding down your work house? He giving you some work dick? Gtfoh

Yall too new school for me

  

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85. "I think work wife/work husband is cool but"
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Well lets just say in my personal history I wanted to have sex with several of my previous work wives and made out with one once. None of them were married or boo'd up and neither was I.

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86. "three errors"
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work "mates" arent goofy and they arent strange. its the fact that they have a title that i think annoys some.

anyway. its something just not to really be mentioned or acknowledged outside of the workplace because you do not at all want to suggest that its anything significant other than two folks that take a coolness to each other on the clock.

when mentioned outside of work, with non co workers...posts like this happen.

if you knew nothing, youd just say your wife was taking pics with coworkers at a holiday party.

but the knowledge of his title coupled with your brother poking fun, messes with you.

so all three of you are wrong wrong wrong. and all of you just need to be quiet in the future.

psst!

  

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88. "work mate is the same concept as a gym buddy, or study buddy"
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two people that look out for each other and take a closeness/agenda similiar to each others.

if adults wanna sully that with lust and sex thats on them

but one does not automatically lead to the other. if you think so, then you also think all gym partners, study partners, leisure activity mates fuck.

thats goofy.

psst!

  

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89. "^^^Quality Work Wife right here. "
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90. "i mean. there has to be more incentive to fool around beyond..."
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my work hubby delivering my package from reception to my desk so that i dont have to walk alllll the way up stairs!

psst!

  

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Lardlad95
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"...but I also got you your favorite coffee drink and a muffin."


  

          

And now I'm not gonna get a handy in the break room?

What the fuck do I even come to work for?

  

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Iwasmadeto
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95. "depends. what kind of muffin? "
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joke

maybe...

if you single...

psst!

  

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Lardlad95
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97. "1 blueberry and 1 banana nut. I hope you like banana because"
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my workmistress is allergic to nuts.


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And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts..." -The Bard

  

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100. "^^LOL this is where im at with it"
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if i like you im looking out for you, you, and the other guy
maybe we're just one hippie commune at this job b/c it was us vs the CEO and now we all are all good (CEO bounced)

but having one person investing all this emotion and thoughtfulness in and no sex?

GOOFY

i work non profit so not to say there isn't backstabbing but i havent encountered any. i have yet to have to position myself up with anyone to keep vultures away.

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129. "basically..."
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"I'd step to him at the Xmas party"


          

Let him know you got cases and ain't afraid to go back

  

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93. "Well report how that goes over when I pull that tonight. "
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113. "I heard this whole post, (including sig) in DOOM's voice....LMAO"
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91. "but did he ask her if shes happy tho???"
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92. "Points for the reference. "
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99. "not cool. "
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Yeah people can be friendly at work, but getting close and taking photos-- nah. It just shows a lack of respect for YOUR marriage which involves a lot of work, compromise, and whatnot.

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102. "Doesn't seem to be the case here, but would it matter if he's gay?"
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This is to all the "work spouse is crazy ppl". I've been a work hubby and it's basically the most innocuous shit ever but I guess that could be because there's no underlying element of secretly wanting to fuck(?)

Most times it's just spending lunch with them and they give u food and if they need U to do some manly stuff like move or carry something u do it lol

It's just fun

I think the whole concept indicates ur only a boo in this work setting and not wanted outside of work

Ppl who are really fucking or want to fuck someone at work don't call that person their work spouse

I don't kno, the "my woman would NEvER" replies in here are kinda weird to me becuz I thought work spouses were a fairly common thing

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106. "^^^^^my fave work hubby was gay"
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we actually swapped lunch making duties

psst!

  

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122. "Gay Work hubby is Ideal."
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105. "The whole "work spouse" idea is a violation, in my opinion..."
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that shit is too liberal for my taste.

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Castro
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109. "WAS. SHE. SITTING. ON. HIS. LAP? <--only question that matters"
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111. "eh, not a big deal. let it go (c) frozen"
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115. "I don't think it's a violation"
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unless they are doing something inappropriate in the pic.

peace

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116. "kick the motherfucker in the shinbone and watch him whimper."
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Heinz
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118. "Seems like your bother was just busting your balls"
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120. "potential for Lost Recipes...stay woke Bro ..."
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135. "lmao"
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121. "you gotta act mexican and send her to work w/hickeys on her neck. "
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mark yo territory.

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123. "omg!"
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psst!

  

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130. "yuuuuuup"
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124. "My work wife is a cool ass lesbian. "
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142. "she's only a lesbian until you give her some d*ck (c) my boy Rodney"
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125. "I'm a work hubby to a married woman, & I think our fling is gettin weird..."
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It seems like she's getting emotionally attached. She gives me an unusual amount of compliments about my looks and physical appearance. And now she's pushing to hang out outside of work.

I mean, I enjoy it, but I have a weird feeling about our relationship as well. I dunno. The holiday party should be interesting -- when I said I was skipping it, she begged me to go. Now that I've decided to attend, she wants us to go together...even though she has a husband O_o


  

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126. "there should never be any contact outside of work IMO..."
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Goldmind
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131. "Even if the work hubby's gay?"
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It's just like two homies hangin out. Work just happens to be one place where you make friends.

  

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132. "not even a "hey I'm running late..."
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can you throw a sweater over my chair and turn on the light in my cubicle?" text?

here for dis.

  

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148. "I'm talking drinks after work or hanging a frame at the house..."
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texting shit on weekends...

work related text are cool.

  

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151. "Yo, that's where I'm at with it..."
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This married Dominican chick who sits in the next cubicle been tryin' to be my work wife for a minute. First, it seemed innocuous enough. Bringin' me food she cooked and all that. Then she was tellin' me that her cousins don't like black guys 'cause they're all dogs or some shit, but she was like, "I told them about you...and how you're the sweetest and most genuine guy I've met in a long time". I was like, "Oh....well that's just fine" and kept it pushin'.

Then we had this seminar at a hotel one weekend. It ended like at 5 and there was a party at 8. She was like, "I got a room at the hotel. If you wanna shower and get ready for the party, you can use my room". I gave her the people's eyebrow and was like, "Oh, good lookin' out, but I think I'ma skip the party...spend a little time with the fiancee tonight".

Then a couple weeks ago, she told me she was divorcin' her husband 'cause he a bitch or somethin'.

Then yesterday, nigga put on a suit, 'cause I had to give a presentation to the board of directors. She seen me and was like, "How you're dressed today...I would totally fuck you". I hit her wit the, "Girl, you crazy!" and got the fuck up outta there.

She tryna get mad extra-curricular...wifey don't need to know SHEEEIT about this one lol.

  

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136. "I'm late to the party but yeah shit is tricky though, I've had a few..."
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work wives, one of them was married. No funny business but we did flirt quite a bit and eat lunch together almost every day and had drinks occasionally after work. She actually hooked me up with a couple of her friends.

One time when we were in the office alone late she changed clothes in the cubicle right next to me, I was on the computer not paying attention and had no idea what she was doing until she was done, lol.

I met her husband once and it was a pretty brief introduction and handshake and I kept it moving, lol.

There is one pic of us together on FB but she isn't tagged in it. I doubt if her husband would trip though because she grew up with and is still close friends a pretty well known male pornstar and she has pics them together back in hs 20 years ago and today with their families. She claims they were just really good friends and he never hit but I don't believe her, lol.



Buddy G, as for your situation I didn't see the pic but from the reactions there seems to be a possibility that a line or two has been stepped. It could be nothing but stay woke. I would still step to dude at the Christmas party, subtly, just give him a firm handshake, and let him know who you are and that you know who he is and that shit is not a game. All that could be communicated non-verbally too.

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137. "So...? I need to know if you put dem paws on him"
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Was it a dry slap?

Did you spray the office lobby?

Or just place two hands on his throat and choke him out by the hors d'oeuvres?

I prefer the choke at all times, it sends a variety of messages.

  

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138. "What I gotta do to see the pic? "
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139. "Relax your eyes"
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141. "this that magic eye shit? i'm cool w/ zoe & mk, tho. "
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140. "What did you wife do/think/say?"
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The biggest violation might not be his.

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150. "Wasn't it your wife w/ the Special Needs Transit Boyfriend too?"
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You might have to start checkin some chins potna.
These cats out here tryin you.

  

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153. "Negative."
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155. "my bad, somebody told a funny ass story about a "
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mentaly challenged dude making googly eyes at his wife and he couldn't really say shit.

I know it was a NYC OKP.

  

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156. "my bad, somebody told a funny ass story about a "
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mentaly challenged dude making googly eyes at his wife and he couldn't really say shit.

I know it was a NYC OKP.

  

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159. "ha, I remember that, but I don't recall who it was"
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www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

  

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154. "I have many jobs so I guess that makes me a polygamist "
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Lol I'll be dat.
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157. "I love my husband's work wife"
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I be hoping she feed his ass so I don't have to. Sometimes when she makes jerk chicken, he brings me some home.
We all had a blast at the holiday party and clowned at in photo booth. You shouldn't sweat it, it's just friendship.

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158. "What type of Mormon Work Marriage shit is this?!?!?!"
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Look here Big Love, act like an adult and poison your marriage with insecurities you have over your husband's innocuous friendships!

"All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts..." -The Bard

  

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