it's a violation.

now how you respond to that violation should really be a matter of making your presence more clearly known. you create the boundaries non-verbally. if he crosses again it's pure violation.

whatever you do though don't make it verbal or your wife will catch the short end of the stick.

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"I ain't no entertainer, and ain't trying to be one. I am 1 thing, a musician." � Miles

"When the music stops he falls back in the abyss."