20. "Sounds like the mom failed at her dream, and now she's bitter and angry...." In response to In response to 0 Wed Jan-25-17 03:07 PM by flipnile
...and envious that he daughter has a real chance to live out hers. Or something similar (the issue is with the mom, basically).
For the daughter, I'd just try to help her get away and stay away so she can go and grow up and live her life.
For the mom, I guess a conversation about exactly what SHE wants from HER life. I would not approach the situation directly, as that doesn't work well IME.