14. "i think their self-preservation is more important." In response to In response to 11
so yeah, it's selfish. and i don't mind it at all. i think that's a situation where they're wise to be selfish and cautious given the risk of harm.
>I get it, because the threat of violence against transgender >people is REAL, but withholding that type of info also lacks >consideration towards the other party as well. You could very >well be putting them in a position that compromises their >morals/beliefs/religion ect ect. And we know people that type >of stuff seriously.
*shrugs*
>Also you don't think withholding that information for an >extended period of time then telling them or them finding out >increases the risk of violence?
sure. and there's a balance to be struck. which is why there's no good hard/fast rule that will apply in all cases.