>again, what if there's only a hit and quit it blow job? the >2 never see each other again. they both leave the situation >satisfied. > >let's assume for the sake of this discussion that if the >transperson had disclosed the situation would've blown up. > >what good was the disclosure? it would've kept both parties >from getting what they wanted out of the situation. > >again: i don't advocate for a necessary disclosure before >intimate relations. it varies.
If that sort of thing really matters to a heterosexual man, how about being really careful about who you sleep with?