44. "This rings true to me from my 2nd hand experiences (I'm male)..." In response to In response to 12
>Motherhood, if you want it, can >be in the cards for >you as long as there >are no damaging physical effects >from your previous choices. >And ironically, you may be >a better mother for it >all.
Especially the last comment. I've seen young women terminate unwanted pregnancies and then several years later have kids. The difference being that the women were more prepared for the reality of children in that they wanted the kids and had the means to provide completely for the little ones (emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually, etc).