He was completely invisible to her until her boss pointed out he was a big deal. He was never rude to her or unkind, he just came off as weak and unimportant. >What he was pretending to be or who he thought he had to be>to be liked or successful. I thought that was clear to>everyone?**********"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"