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Mori
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Wed Feb-06-19 09:30 PM

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"Should I tell my situationship about my recent miscarriage?"


          

Started seeing a guy over the last six months. No labels, definitions or obligations as we were figuring out this romantic situation. He and I both enjoy each other. I was sexually exclusive with him for 6-7 months.

Then I hooked up with an old flame, unprotected, and got pregnant. I was pretty sure I was going to terminate the pregnancy, but ended up having a miscarriage.

I went MIA for a month and told my situationship that we should take a break. He was really taken a back. But I was an emotional and physical mess.

He is still expressing interest. So one part of me wants to tell him, out of respect that he has trust issues with women. A part of me feels like this is so personal and it doesn't involve him.

My lesson learned: No more unprotected sex.

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Should I tell my situationship about my recent miscarriage? [View all] , Mori, Wed Feb-06-19 09:30 PM
 
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I think he would appreciate hearing that you were really hurt by somethi...
Feb 06th 2019
1
Thanks I tried to put myself in his shoes
Feb 06th 2019
2
you were both single even if it was exclusive
Feb 07th 2019
3
now is the time to decide what y’all doing...
Feb 07th 2019
4
Good point. I played the good time girl role
Feb 07th 2019
5
      Wait. You aren’t having sex with him right now due to this?
Feb 07th 2019
8
           Sex is not even a medical possibility
Feb 07th 2019
11
                Gotcha. Wasn’t sure how long ago it happened
Feb 07th 2019
16
I'd lean towards no unless you actually WANT something more
Feb 07th 2019
6
This could go really wrong
Feb 07th 2019
7
This part
Feb 07th 2019
9
Didn't think about that part
Feb 07th 2019
12
can't really make a judgement because I don't know how he viewed ya'll
Feb 07th 2019
10
He viewed us as a little more than a hook up
Feb 07th 2019
13
      You broke the rule of your agreement
Feb 07th 2019
15
      Yes I did break the agreement
Feb 07th 2019
19
      you shouldn't carry any load on this...
Feb 07th 2019
18
           Needed this compassionate response
Feb 07th 2019
20
                it’s such an honest post...
Feb 07th 2019
22
if I were the guy, i would want to know
Feb 07th 2019
14
don't tell him, unless...
Feb 07th 2019
17
Yes. Tell him. If he runs, he runs. It's his decision.
Feb 07th 2019
21
Tell nothing.
Feb 07th 2019
23
succinct. on point.
Feb 07th 2019
26
no unless he thinks he is shooting blanks, but still no...
Feb 07th 2019
24
clipse up here demonstrating why i love that guy
Feb 07th 2019
25
I will say this
Feb 08th 2019
27
How do u know it was by the 1-off ex and not mr regular
Feb 09th 2019
28
Always wore protection with situationship
Feb 09th 2019
29

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