>kids/marriage: say goodbye to friends
>I lost all my friends that way

and I don't get invited to anything ( other than when they have some shit and want you to contribute; trunk parties, etc). I understand it, but yeah. It's almost like you're an outsider. Especially if your boy was stupid enough to tell his wife about all the silly shit you guys used to do in your 20's.




>we're still "friends" but hanging out/building/choppin it up
>is an event that requires
>planning/logistics/babysitter/checkin in
>aka ain't nobody got time for that

exactly. You gotta spend two weeks putting together a 4 hour outing.


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