but it's not unlike an older gay person to 'get close to/assist' a younger gay person.and yes i am understanding the circumstance of molestation/rape.but again. only because the article that was posted initially omitted the information about him being a family member.i kinda think that's a big omission.i couldn't make the connection with access to the fathers home and doing repeatedly etc. not knowing he was extended family, was i really that off thinking they could've been lovers?