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REN

Fri Jul-14-00 09:17 AM

  
52. "Perm does not equal slave, Locs do not equal blackness..."
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I dealt with this same issue in college. A few sistas who became "au natural" during the Erykah Badu era decided to have all their little fly "revolutionary" poetry sets and always had to find a way to criticize those that were not "natural".

I think all this perm vs. natural is bull. I have been a hair stylist for years. I love the variety of styles that black women can attain. It wouldn't be fun if we all looked alike with locs and afros, etc. I like to see beautiful sistas with locs, braids, wraps, twists, hard curls, etc.

I like being different. I have been fortunate enough to have a fine texture of hair which has allowed me to switch up between natural and permed hair styles on a regular basis. Even with permed hair, my hair would curl up really nicely. I simply liked the versatility in being able to wear a wrap one day and a head full of curls another day.

Going to the hairdresser on a regular doesn't mean that a person is overly concerned with their looks. How about they just like to look neat and well-groomed and try to keep a healthy head of hair? What's wrong with that? I love to see a well-groomed male or female at all times, be it permed or locs. As for beauty-shop maintained locs...what's wrong with that?

Cassandra Wilson???Has anyone seen this women's locs. She is simply gorgeous.Compare Cassandra's locs to, say...., Bob Marley's. Don't get me wrong, I am the biggest Bob Marley fan you'll find and I like his more matted and less-maintained look on him but not her. For a woman, I would expect to see a more maintained look just because that's the nature of women. At the same time, its all good if guys want that maintained look.

I really think that those who knock folks about this whole hair issue should really think twice. Most of you all became natural after years of being permed and if you didn't, it doesn't matter. To me, it seems like the folks that are "au natural" are the ones that care more about how "natural" they look as compared to the vain sisters who are permed. It's like a contest to see who's more afrocentric.

Well, WAKE UP CALL...take a deeper look at the places where locked and natural styles originated (i.e. African countries and Caribbean islands). Look at all the different people in these places. Take the Caribbean for example. What is a Jamaican or a Trinidadian? There is no set look. They are mixed with a little bit of every ethnic group and a lot of their women have the light to cinnamon brown tones with beautiful straight, curly hair that you all say is only for white people. Come on people. Wake up. All of you so called "conscious" people need to take another look around the globe and put more time into your history books before you criticize that sister with "permed" hair again.


***Please everyone, no offense intended, just wanting the "naturals" to see a difference in opinion and take it into consideration before judging...........

REN

  

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Hair-Identity-Beauty--1st Impressions are a Bitch [View all] , nappiness, Tue Jun-06-00 06:37 PM
 
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RE: Hair-Identity-Beauty--1st Impressions are a Bitch
KlangSquadCam
Jun 06th 2000
1
i'm a revolutionary w/a relaxer!
Jun 07th 2000
2
agreed
what if...
Jun 07th 2000
3
RE: i'm a revolutionary w/a relaxer!
Jun 07th 2000
4
Hmm..
Jun 07th 2000
5
      RE: Hmm... well see
Jun 07th 2000
10
      RE: Hmm..
Jun 07th 2000
13
           Tasty...
Jun 07th 2000
15
                RE: Tasty...
Jun 07th 2000
16
same
Jun 07th 2000
6
      same
what if...
Jun 07th 2000
7
           Funny thing about 1st impressions
Jun 07th 2000
8
                My hair grows in notty spirals....
Jun 07th 2000
9
                RE: Funny thing about 1st impressions
Jun 09th 2000
26
                     eyering
Jun 19th 2000
39
                          RE: eyering
Jul 07th 2000
44
Free your hair....
Jun 07th 2000
11
tha shit I go through
Jun 07th 2000
12
RE: tha shit I go through
Jun 12th 2000
34
RE: Hair-Identity-Beauty--1st Impressions are a Bitch
RudeGirl/Virgo
Jun 07th 2000
14
RE: Hair-Identity-Beauty--1st Impressions are a Bitch
ariE
Jun 08th 2000
17
the inside part
Jun 08th 2000
18
RE: I dunno, about all that
Jun 08th 2000
19
i am enjoying the dialogue
Jun 08th 2000
20
we aren't in utopia
Jun 08th 2000
21
      RE: we aren't in utopia
Jun 08th 2000
22
           see...
Jun 08th 2000
23
                personaly
Jun 09th 2000
27
RE: Hair-Identity-Beauty--1st Impressions are a Bitch
Jun 08th 2000
24
BIG PICTURE: DOES IT REALLY MATTER?
Kahoona
Jun 09th 2000
25
MY SISTAH, MYSELF
Jun 11th 2000
32
      RE: MY SISTAH, MYSELF
Kahoona
Jun 19th 2000
36
           Every choice you make has meaning
Jul 06th 2000
42
do yall know the power of the "napp"
Jun 09th 2000
28
Redefined
Jun 09th 2000
29
Hey yo, Bust it.........
Jun 10th 2000
30
RE: Hair-Identity-Beauty--1st Impressions are a Bitch
RaShaunda
Jun 10th 2000
31
Don't worry. Once...
TJDance
Jun 11th 2000
33
RE: Hair-Identity-Beauty--1st Impressions are a Bitch
Jun 12th 2000
35
Content of Book??
Beyond_Levels
Jun 19th 2000
37
RE: Hair-Identity-Beauty--1st Impressions are a Bitch
Plumbun
Jun 19th 2000
38
people need to learn
Jun 20th 2000
40
Hair
Blakstar33
Jul 06th 2000
41
      RE: Hair
leelee
Jul 07th 2000
43
RE: Hair-Identity-Beauty--1st Impressions are a Bitch
ms_raimaia
Jul 11th 2000
45
chickenheads with locks and revolutionaries with relaxers
Jul 11th 2000
46
I agree, but.....
IlladelAnde
Jul 13th 2000
47
      CORRECTION
IlladelAnde
Jul 13th 2000
48
Welcome to my world!!!
Jul 13th 2000
49
RE: Welcome to my world!!!
what if...
Jul 13th 2000
50
      cassandra vs. bob...
Jul 15th 2000
54
      so people with course kinky hair are unfortunate?
Jul 26th 2000
57
tank I understood yo British talk *ha ha, jokey jokey*
Jul 14th 2000
51
      judge not others lest thee be judged said someone or other!
Jul 14th 2000
53
Black hair issue
Jul 26th 2000
55
i'm goin' through something similar to that
Jul 26th 2000
56

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