>Furthermore, unlike the white people she describes, I am not >"socially agressive"
actually, your self-righteousness could be described as socially passive-agressive. Distancing yourself from how you participate as a white person in a rascist society is a form of privilege that self-proclaimed progressive whites take advantage of every day. It is the assuming of this "beyond racism" role that is yet another form of how racism (internalized domination) works.