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ThisIs_ATruthThang
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"If a man likes it in his ass; is he gay or nah? "


  

          

My gaydar has been broken for a while since moving to NYC. Guess it makes me question everything rightfully and unrightfully so. I have (male) friends who claim to be bisexual but since I've known them? I've only seen them have relationships with men. And I have gay male friends who only date guys on the DL? Smh...

So I met a guy on Tinder a few months ago; upon first date? I thought he was gay. Lol Nice and attractive guy but I honestly thought he was gay. He'll say weird stuff like, "Hey girl!", "You better werk!", and one night at dinner he tried to say that our very OUT and feminine waiter was NOT gay. Lol He then argued that he has a good "gaydar"?

But again VERY nice guy and he claims to be very attracted to me.

Key thing I don't want to leave out* He owns a sextoy site. It's actually very nice and not your normal sleazy site. And he sells very nice, expensive products. He has a normal 9 to 5 as well. But he very facinated by the adult industry. Jokes about doing porn and watches a lot "Girls with black butts" porn. Caught it on his laptop one night. Lol

Anyway, during having an intimate conversation he mentions he likes anal play... Hmm ok. And he even said when I asked, "So would you let penetrate you with a strap on?", "Yes.".

But he says he often doesn't tell women that because they automatically assume he's gay. But he doesn't like men. And though I get that in logic. I guess I want to ask him; even if he isn't attracted to a man, would he let a man penetrate him. Especially if he doesn't have a woman that's open to that.

Then my mind wonders... If he would let me use a strap-on? Does dick arouse him? If his dick gets/stays hard knowing there's a dick around him; is he one of those I'm not gay I'm just a freak guys? Lol

Anyway, it's nothing too serious that I'm "worried" about just very curious about. I don't think there's a one answer or a right answer but I'm interested to see what's OKPs opinions and amongst women vs straight men vs gay men.




Somebody's lying...

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If a man likes it in his ass; is he gay or nah? [View all] , ThisIs_ATruthThang, Wed Oct-22-14 10:53 AM
 
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haaaay Truday!
Oct 22nd 2014
1
Awww hey boo!!!
Oct 22nd 2014
8
      I'm here...too much lol. Not on fb as much. Glad you're still in NY
Oct 22nd 2014
11
           Yes chile they havent scared me off yet. Lol
Oct 22nd 2014
72
somebody's lying?
Oct 22nd 2014
2
That doesn't mean he's gay, but this guy sounds gay.
Oct 22nd 2014
3
Pretty much came in to say this
Oct 22nd 2014
5
if a fish breathes under water...is it a fish?
Oct 22nd 2014
4
when you have sex do you just have sex w/body parts
Oct 22nd 2014
20
      I dunno what any of that even means. speak English, you commie.
Oct 22nd 2014
62
      that's dope.
Oct 22nd 2014
64
      pie...well I'll be damned. You learn something new everyday
Oct 22nd 2014
85
           guy w/a pie.
Oct 22nd 2014
87
If his penis doesn't get hard
Oct 22nd 2014
6
Well.......
Oct 22nd 2014
7
Dan is right.
Oct 22nd 2014
14
Afraid you might like it?
Oct 22nd 2014
17
i don't like sex w/women.
Oct 22nd 2014
21
      Me thinks thou doth protest too much.
Oct 22nd 2014
22
           you're right.
Oct 22nd 2014
25
                You see what his homonormative society has wrought!
Oct 22nd 2014
31
                     brand new daaaay!!!
Oct 22nd 2014
33
                          lmao
Oct 22nd 2014
112
                               Fucking it. I'm having fun with SoWhat today. UChi stand up!
Oct 22nd 2014
115
                                    <-- Maroon.
Oct 22nd 2014
116
                                         I still don't get why it isn't the Phoenixes. That bird is every where.
Oct 22nd 2014
117
                                              The Chicago Phoenix.
Oct 22nd 2014
118
                                                   You've got my support. We kept losing to my brother's Alma mater Wash U.
Oct 22nd 2014
119
                                                        *daps*
Oct 22nd 2014
121
PINK RAIN!
Oct 22nd 2014
43
but would you let a she-male fuck you in the butt???
Oct 22nd 2014
80
      nope.
Oct 22nd 2014
81
           so, would you fuck with a FTM trans?
Oct 22nd 2014
125
                possibly.
Oct 23rd 2014
131
this is along the lines of that bullshit that women use agains anal sex
Oct 22nd 2014
88
we gotta chill with these binary constructions of sexuality
Oct 22nd 2014
9
It isn't really a binary, it's more like a Coordinate Plane.
Oct 22nd 2014
16
that's not your question, i don't think.
Oct 22nd 2014
10
plenty? How do you know this?
Oct 22nd 2014
24
i've talked to a sex therapist and i read Savage Love.
Oct 22nd 2014
27
Lol nah it was my question!
Oct 22nd 2014
32
      he ain't gon cheat w/a man b/c he likes it in the bum.
Oct 22nd 2014
38
how deep?
Oct 22nd 2014
12
im dyin
Oct 22nd 2014
53
someone will try to be deep and say "sexuality is fluid"
Oct 22nd 2014
13
sure. and this guy seems pretty free to me.
Oct 22nd 2014
23
      what do you make of this?
Oct 22nd 2014
29
           not much.
Oct 22nd 2014
34
           I say 'bye, Felicia' all the time, man.
Oct 22nd 2014
41
                bye Felicia is something mostly gay people say?
Oct 22nd 2014
63
           that doesn't make him gay. Being *gay make him gay
Oct 22nd 2014
71
nah.
Oct 22nd 2014
15
nice cleavage
Oct 22nd 2014
18
lol
Oct 23rd 2014
129
No such thing as a gay sex act between a man and a woman
Oct 22nd 2014
19
nah... hell nah
Oct 22nd 2014
26
lol niggas is on some dumb shit
Oct 22nd 2014
30
      some niggas like their ass ate. Some niggas like to be tied up
Oct 22nd 2014
40
           y eso es lo que hay.
Oct 22nd 2014
45
           if the item used is in the shape of a man's dick... FOH
Oct 22nd 2014
48
                if a gay man uses a fleshlight, he's clearly straight.
Oct 22nd 2014
51
                     yup...
Oct 22nd 2014
54
                          b/c sex toys are sorta like ppl.
Oct 22nd 2014
58
                               ts/dr
Oct 22nd 2014
65
                                    ^ ts
Oct 22nd 2014
70
it's literally impossible for a man and woman to engage in a gay sex act...
Oct 22nd 2014
28
Club going UP on a tuesday!
Oct 22nd 2014
35
I despise this song. not as much as lifestyle...but close. nm
Oct 22nd 2014
66
      "Grub going up! on a tuesday got them cold cuts in fridge but I'm choose...
Oct 22nd 2014
90
if you plan on having sex with other ppl
Oct 22nd 2014
36
nah, that's perfectly normal
Oct 22nd 2014
37
nayaa's post 2.0
Oct 22nd 2014
39
i'm sure if you penetrated him with something other...
Oct 22nd 2014
42
I bet he prefers the shape of the D tho
Oct 22nd 2014
49
      it's the ultimate form...
Oct 22nd 2014
57
wait, if a dude jerks himself off, isn't that gay too, technically?
Oct 22nd 2014
44
if a man gets an erection while watching straight porn, that's kinda gay...
Oct 22nd 2014
46
You stealing jokes from Ron White now?
Oct 22nd 2014
52
      sorta.
Oct 22nd 2014
56
if you have to ask??? does the answer really matter?
Oct 22nd 2014
47
I'm not seeking a relationship from him lol I'm just curious
Oct 22nd 2014
68
      oh, I read the OP wrong.
Oct 22nd 2014
83
not sure if i can be clear about this
Oct 22nd 2014
50
He already told you women he isn't into it. Jesus, leave him alone.
Oct 22nd 2014
59
OH HE GONNA BE MINE
Oct 22nd 2014
74
*sends you a foot photo*
Oct 22nd 2014
60
so...you want me not to like you?
Oct 22nd 2014
77
good point - she don't gotta like it.
Oct 22nd 2014
61
two people taught me that aspect
Oct 22nd 2014
75
      the calculus is tricky for sure.
Oct 22nd 2014
82
lol, this is how y'all end up on that Terry McMillan
Oct 22nd 2014
67
not really.
Oct 22nd 2014
69
I wouldn't know...
Oct 22nd 2014
107
you sound like you need a butt plug
Oct 22nd 2014
76
      do you boo, I'm good
Oct 22nd 2014
108
           try posting like it
Oct 22nd 2014
109
I get the logic. Sex can get so tangly though lol
Oct 22nd 2014
78
      why would you want to?
Oct 22nd 2014
93
      Pee on someone? Lol I don't know why. I just do.
Oct 22nd 2014
98
      if you're willing to explore his fantasies
Oct 22nd 2014
97
      He already said he would let me. We just aren't there yet. Lol
Oct 22nd 2014
99
           lmao
Oct 22nd 2014
100
           winning exchange^^^^^
Oct 22nd 2014
127
           I like to get to know a woman before I piss on her
Oct 23rd 2014
130
      agreed
Oct 22nd 2014
110
Gay! Sike naw, idk. He certainly ain't the right guy for u tho
Oct 22nd 2014
55
With a fake penis?
Oct 22nd 2014
73
sexual intercourse and diet are really kinda the same thing.
Oct 22nd 2014
79
plenty of women refuse 3somes because they aren't on that gay shit...
Oct 22nd 2014
122
      no, I'm talking about men who "aint with that
Oct 23rd 2014
138
why is it always the same 'straight' dudes in these posts
Oct 22nd 2014
84
if he was gay why not find a man to do all that?
Oct 22nd 2014
86
there's a thing called denial
Oct 22nd 2014
91
      this doesn't make sense to me
Oct 22nd 2014
92
      hello.
Oct 22nd 2014
94
      how do you know he isn't attracted to men?
Oct 22nd 2014
95
      that sounds too much like right.
Oct 22nd 2014
96
      LOGIC NOT PERMITTED IN POST. BACK AWAY SLOWLY.
Oct 22nd 2014
102
           exactly allow me to de-rail
Oct 22nd 2014
111
      lol wut?
Oct 22nd 2014
101
           oh okay. I didnt use the word denial
Oct 22nd 2014
105
                oh you're qualified to discuss psychoanalytic theory?
Oct 22nd 2014
114
                     it seemed like you wanted to have sex with me
Oct 22nd 2014
120
This post good *****
Oct 22nd 2014
89
He's a lover of humanity that happens to like a woman playing with..
Oct 22nd 2014
103
All I know is...
Oct 22nd 2014
104
If he was gay and trying to hide it...
Oct 22nd 2014
106
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nGt_JGHYEO4
Oct 22nd 2014
113
If a man says, don't think I'm on some faggot shit, is he gay?
Oct 22nd 2014
123
I say that to my babymama everyday.
Oct 22nd 2014
124
it amazes me that y'all debating this
Oct 22nd 2014
126
its OKP
Oct 23rd 2014
132
      see? you are totally not okay
Oct 23rd 2014
135
           damn boo, you're the one that seems to be really pressed, did you get......
Oct 23rd 2014
136
                pretty sure she said she would date a gay man or a bi
Oct 23rd 2014
139
                absolutely said it
Oct 23rd 2014
140
                     damn, so you can't even give that shit away?
Oct 24th 2014
170
                aw sweetie i'm not the one with my masculinity threatened
Oct 23rd 2014
141
                     stock up on your AZT
Oct 23rd 2014
142
                          look at you faux concern trolling now
Oct 23rd 2014
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                               you started the trolling, I'm just better at it than you.
Oct 23rd 2014
147
                                    looks like we dont know what concern trolling is to boot
Oct 23rd 2014
148
                                         I had no idea you were such an insufferable cunt. I think you need to go...
Oct 23rd 2014
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                                              But we ALL know what you are
Oct 23rd 2014
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                                                   Great, I have a new fan, welcome to the club, rookies have to bring...
Oct 23rd 2014
159
                                                   i already brought your butt plug though
Oct 23rd 2014
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                                                   of all the anti-gay posters here TheTruth is the most likely to be gay
Oct 23rd 2014
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                                                        they dont want him though
Oct 23rd 2014
163
                                                        lol, I didn't go extra hard, I just made an observation.
Oct 24th 2014
164
The hell happened in here?
Oct 23rd 2014
128
Man we agree 100%
Oct 23rd 2014
149
RE: If a man likes it in his ass; is he gay or nah?
Oct 23rd 2014
133
// -_-)8===D (_(_)/ 'CMON GURL WHA CHU WAITING FOR!?' - Radio Rahim
Oct 23rd 2014
134
...as the day is long
Oct 23rd 2014
137
Strap up and wear that ass out. Then get back to us.
Oct 23rd 2014
143
Fellas. TruthThang butt naked w/ a strapon fucking dude. Wud you watch?
Oct 23rd 2014
144
now you are going to see Tha Truth and LegsDiamond
Oct 23rd 2014
146
you sound damaged....
Oct 24th 2014
168
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2fmZ2C2CdA
Oct 23rd 2014
150
      So you can get the gay just by watching stuff? Interdasting.
Oct 23rd 2014
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           yep, if you watch gay porn, you're gay, you just don't know it yet.
Oct 23rd 2014
153
           Uhh there's one man & one woman in the scenario I posted playboy.
Oct 23rd 2014
154
                He doesnt think too deeply
Oct 23rd 2014
156
                i wouldn't watch that movie.
Oct 23rd 2014
157
                Hey fam, if you like watching dudes get fucked in the ass do you. I'm...
Oct 23rd 2014
158
                     actually you are, butt clenched tightly and all
Oct 23rd 2014
162
                          okayplayer. n/m
Oct 24th 2014
165
                               ^^still not okay
Oct 24th 2014
166
                                    ^^^still a hag
Oct 24th 2014
167
           my nigga, what the fuck made you type that shit? LOL
Oct 24th 2014
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