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 They are shaming her. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 1
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 Baby registry. No party. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 5
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| ^^^^best answer. And invite the people over for the first b day party |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 39
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 lol @ "irresponsibility" |
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Nov 07th 2015 |
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| lol @ "irresponsibility" |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 70
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| RE: lol @ "irresponsibility" |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 87
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| RE: lol @ "irresponsibility" |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 123
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| they're having the baby. may as well have the shower... |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 2
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| RE: they're having the baby. may as well have the shower... |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 49
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| The focus should be on the baby |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 3
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| Baby going to be mad there was no shower? |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 4
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| It's not about the shower itself, but collective resources |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 7
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| The baby can sense all the bad vibrations bro |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 16
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| Agreement on all fronts |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 26
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| My 16 yr old pregnant daughter would not he pregnant |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 6
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| Or the clinic. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 8
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 I'm not disagreeing |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 15
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| at what age 11? that's when most girls get their periods? |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 9
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| I dunno, but definitely by the first day of hs |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 10
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| good luck with that. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 19
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| Well this is mildly terrifying |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 23
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| well it's mostly safe, just generally pretty unpleasant as the norm. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 40
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| well this is a bunch of lies |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 120
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| I've heard a lot of horror stories about the shot |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 142
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| ive also heard great things about the shot |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 173
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| When them not so little anymore boys start calling. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 11
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| birth control isnt easy and painless and is a big responsibility |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 18
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| I hope that I've done enough homework by the time we get there |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 22
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| AGREED! |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 35
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| you may just have to talk to her |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 42
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| where are we getting this info? LARCs are very safe and effective |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 127
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| yes but if she is would you throw her a baby shower? |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 25
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| I can sprinkle it on her cornflakes |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 29
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| lol |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 32
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| I kmew a girl whose brothers would slip it |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 72
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| Not sure what being 16 has to do with anything. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 12
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| You saying it's not disappointing for your 16 year old to get pregnant? |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 17
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| Difference between a child disappointing and being |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 20
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| i agree. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 28
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| Exactly. My disappointment can go fuck itself |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 33
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| Come on man, don't be dense about this. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 27
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| ^^ all of that. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 30
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| I hear you, but I still wouldn't support a baby shower. But then, I hate |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 34
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| but what if she doesn't want an abortion? |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 54
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| I just posed this to the wife. She said there would be a small |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 62
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| good question....9.5 x's outta 10 i'd be against it..or wouldn't |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 13
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| LMFAO!! |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 14
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| If everyone is excited... |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 21
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| YUP. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 24
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| What does not throwing a shower prove? Not a damn thing |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 31
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| every single time i've heard a future grandparent say |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 36
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| I hear you but saying we don't need a baby shower isn't the same |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 44
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| i didn't say it was. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 50
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| i'm not throwing it or attending it |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 37
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| I questioned if she'd really value it the same way she would if she was.... |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 41
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| a teenager's mind can be "meh". but a parent's mind can't be |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 43
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| Nvm I misread it |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 46
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| hell no |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 38
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| The baby shower can happen after i throw up and hang myself lol |
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Nov 06th 2015 |
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| The baby shower can happen after i throw up and hang myself lol |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 45
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| RE: Would you throw your 16 yr old pregnant daughter a baby shower? |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 47
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| I'm sure I'd be pissed initially |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 48
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| a baby shower is a celebration so fuck no |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 51
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| RE: a baby shower is a celebration so fuck no |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 53
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| 16 isnt super young anymore. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 52
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| and I bear witness... |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 55
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| WTF are you talking about? This ain't the 90s. |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 79
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| IKR |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 83
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| Fine, I'll say it for you like you're a retard. |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 121
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| smh... 16 is young bruh |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 147
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| I typed in clear English, he asked what I was talking about |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 169
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| You can't even drive if you are 16 in alot of states still |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 168
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| it's too late to shame and punish ol girl. may as well embrace it. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 56
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| I'd keep it low key and positive, but it's not gonna be a bash |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 57
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| Start as you mean to carry on |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 58
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| Yeah Yeah but all that ain't got lick to do with having a shower. |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 60
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| It's part of the preparation for becoming a mother though |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 63
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| It's not a part of the preparation for becoming a mother. Most mothers |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 76
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| It's for the mother, not the baby, dumbass |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 66
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| It's for the mother, not the baby, dumbass |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 67
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| Tell that to all the ppl in here talking about how detrimental it is |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 73
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| Why you name calling though? Hitting close to home? |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 74
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| awful guess, have zero daughters, sisters, childhood pregnancies |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 80
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| I have 2 sisters who got pregnant at 17 and 18 |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 86
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| it's a personal decision and then a family decision, obviously |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 132
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| What you're saying doesn't have a lick to do with my principle |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 89
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| nah, I think the kid with the better parent |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 91
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| Tossing seeds out a window and having one grow into a tree |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 96
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| you smoking that good shit bruh |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 104
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| Thought you'd last longer |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 136
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| It was the lack of babyshower & bad energy that made the... |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 99
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| Try reading |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 138
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| REAL TALK! |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 162
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| ask ya great grandmammy |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 59
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| When my great grandmother had my grandma at 16 |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 61
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| I mean, she is having the kid, right? |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 64
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| These responses make me want to cry |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 65
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| Lol get that hippy shit outta here |
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Nov 06th 2015 | 68
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| Couple spends $77k tryg on failed infertility treatments |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 133
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| Real talk |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 69
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| thank you. i don't even have the energy to type how i feel. |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 108
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| Might as well |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 71
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| when I was a teen I wasnt allowed to attend teen baby showers |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 75
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| exactly |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 84
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| Babies having baby showers------------------------------ we didn't make ... |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 77
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| How does most of the world & human history manage to make it... |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 78
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| these niggas love rewarding the wrong shit |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 85
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| you sound so white sometimes man. |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 117
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| Thx |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 125
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| He considers that a compliment but denies the idea of "white supremacy" |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 129
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| A compliment? Nigga, its not even worthy of a response |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 134
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| You did respond tho. With a 'thx' at that. |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 166
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| No one should be depressed and emotionally beat down while they |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 124
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| Beat down for not throwing a baby shower? Lmao |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 126
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| Why are you against throwing a baby shower in this case then? |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 128
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| because i view a shower as a celebration for being pregnant |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 145
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| that's not my position... |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 101
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| for the people who say yes, what if she was 12, or victim of rape? |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 81
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| hopefully if she was 12 or a victim of rape, we would know before |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 109
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| Not throwing a baby shower has zero impact on that kids future |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 82
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| Ok...so the parents pride is wounded... |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 88
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| of course the parents are hurt... |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 92
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| here's what showing up for me.... |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 100
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| most def there is a consequence for getting pregnant at 16 |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 103
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| BTW like many things, a baby shower is what you make it |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 90
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| or you could actually physically and emotionally support |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 93
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| RE: or you could actually physically and emotionally support |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 98
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| yeah, that doesnt make any sense bruh... |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 106
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| You can't make sense of it, definitely |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 137
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| hell yes. New life is a blessing, lets greet it accordingly |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 94
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| NO, and she's not having the child |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 95
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| what are you going to do if you find out she's pregnant in the 6th month... |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 110
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| Then she wouldn't keep the child.... |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 113
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| Sounds like embarrassment to me. If they are accepting that.. |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 97
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| this is fascinating |
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Nov 07th 2015 | 102
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| For real |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 118
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| sure. sh*t wont be turnt or anything, but that baby's coming either way |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 105
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| would love to know how many okp's had baby showers |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 107
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| it's always interesting to see what topics okps are conservative about |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 111
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| not sure how this is a question. and I think baby showers are stupid |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 112
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| the baby shower will happen. i think this is about the protest. |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 116
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| Too late for that |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 143
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| *connected |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 155
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| Basically |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 139
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| Nope, I'm sending her away for a year, she hath brought shame upon us |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 114
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| aaaaaand I'm inviting her whole Junior Year HS Class |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 115
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| ooooooorrrrr, you could just invite family and close friends as a show o... |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 140
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| Might as well go to the strip club and give her her 1st tip |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 119
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| you have to just be a troll |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 122
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| I wasn't being serious. |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 131
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| LMAO.. you aint no real dj b.. |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 148
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| Nigga was like you ain't got no Yeezy in Serato?! |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 149
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| imma say it like a retard... 16 aint young b... |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 153
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| Im sure statutory rapist and creep niggas feel the same way |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 158
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| if 16 isnt young... 15 and 14 must be in play? I mean, some cultures mar... |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 159
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| so you're admitting to trolling |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 170
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| I think the correct term is joking... |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 171
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| count your replies in here, then get a life |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 175
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| if your friends are onboard for the actual birth of the child |
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Nov 08th 2015 | 130
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| ^^^^^ |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 146
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| Yes I would |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 135
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| Absolutely |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 141
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| not a big deal either way |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 144
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| i feel like once you got over the initial shock |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 150
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| What is it to the 16 year old tho? Just another party right? |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 151
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| http://xonecole.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/Oprah-You-Get-a-Car-Gif.g... |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 152
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| yea, not sure why this doesn't get considered |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 156
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| b/c it's ridiculous. |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 161
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| so are you but we still discussing it |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 163
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| i'm rubber you're glue |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 164
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| I don't see how it has to be framed as a party |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 165
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| agreed. |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 167
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| I think most want to withhold the baby shower and not |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 172
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| I've made clear the opportunity for support and guidance presented by th... |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 174
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| What happened to that other post? |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 154
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| spin-off |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 157
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| No. I'm not celebrating that matter. |
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Nov 09th 2015 | 160
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