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eye.M.woman
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"At this point of my life,my opinion on cheating is that its part of life..."
Fri Sep-14-18 06:58 PM by eye.M.woman

          

I turned 30 this year and well
I am around all sorts of people in my field
I am very sociable and have this gift of helping people feel comfy talking to me... and opening up to me
well - it goes hand in hand with my career as a Nurse.
I think its part of human nature and just human to be attracted to other humans
but it gets difficult when a human is in a relationship
and as much as they would want to be faithful - shit happens
BUT
they go back to their "significant other" as in - they might have sex and get their nut -
HOWEVER
they can compartmentalize that as just an act then go back to their spouse/significant other
that just one type of compartmentalizing,
but then people get caught up and like the thrill of it, selfish,
want more - then shit gets complicated and people get hurt

I know its a complex topic
and curious to see what you guys think/thoughts on this
and for everyone to expound on their opinions
because everyone I know has cheated in one form or another
either know - or have talked to

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At this point of my life,my opinion on cheating is that its part of life... [View all] , eye.M.woman, Fri Sep-14-18 06:43 PM
 
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Don't be so jaded. Cheating isn't a part of everyone's life.
Sep 14th 2018
1
thats why I stated its my opinion on the thread title
Sep 14th 2018
2
thats why I also said expound - do you know people who have NOT cheated
Sep 14th 2018
3
      You're right, I'm sure I know people who have in fact cheated
Sep 14th 2018
7
I suppose a person can file any view on this as.....
Sep 14th 2018
4
Everyone has of course...
Sep 14th 2018
5
ive never cheated.
Sep 14th 2018
6
Not even in HS or college?
Sep 16th 2018
20
nah i was just single.
Sep 16th 2018
22
i feel bad that you think youre ugly :( why do you say that
Sep 17th 2018
46
My unpopular opinion is that cheating differs...
Sep 14th 2018
8
Nah... the reverse happens as well
Sep 14th 2018
9
      Yeah I’d say the opposite is more typical .
Sep 14th 2018
10
           Not saying it doesn't happen, just what stings the most
Sep 15th 2018
15
What does that mean?
Sep 14th 2018
11
I think that's overly charitable
Sep 15th 2018
12
my GF and I opened our relationship this year
Sep 15th 2018
13
^^^ The future of relationships
Sep 16th 2018
25
So, you don;t have any feeling about your Girl having sex with another m...
Sep 17th 2018
42
The best wisdom I've heard on this subject comes from Esther Perel
Sep 15th 2018
14
Nah sis. There are faithful people on both sides-M/F. Don't settle
Sep 15th 2018
16
More honest faithful people are ages 35 and older
Sep 16th 2018
26
Sorry you pick garbage people to talk to
Sep 15th 2018
17
lol i dont pick... its patient's and people that work in health care fac...
Sep 15th 2018
18
The majority of people are horrible judges of character and dishonest w/...
Sep 16th 2018
19
Nice insights
Sep 16th 2018
23
basically.
Sep 17th 2018
27
im 50/50
Sep 17th 2018
28
Is there really or is your judgment...
Sep 17th 2018
31
      i think there can be....
Sep 17th 2018
35
           If you hit a rough patch...
Sep 17th 2018
44
                that assumes relationships are perfect...
Sep 18th 2018
48
                     I'm saying one or both people in your scenario...
Sep 18th 2018
60
                          I wanna make sure I understand...
Sep 19th 2018
64
                               It's not the choice it's the honesty
Sep 19th 2018
66
RE: The majority of people are horrible judges of character and dishones...
Sep 18th 2018
52
Death, taxes, cheating...
Sep 16th 2018
21
at this point... it's not the cheating but the metoo behavior...
Sep 16th 2018
24
Thats your standard?
Sep 17th 2018
29
nah, you can’t trust people to be faithful
Sep 17th 2018
47
Huh?
Sep 17th 2018
30
This sounds more like cheating vs. rape
Sep 18th 2018
53
i can only speak for myself. my record is clean.
Sep 17th 2018
32
Everyone doesn't cheat
Sep 17th 2018
33
it's a mark of immaturity
Sep 17th 2018
34
I’m trying to determine if I still want you...
Sep 17th 2018
36
yeah that goes to the bad boy/thugs/assholes thing
Sep 17th 2018
37
      what’s different about you now?
Sep 18th 2018
49
           learned to compromise
Sep 20th 2018
86
"biologically wired"
Sep 17th 2018
38
      RE: "biologically wired"
Sep 17th 2018
41
           show me on this dna helix where that's at
Sep 17th 2018
43
           lmao...
Sep 18th 2018
50
Nah..errbody doesn’t cheat.
Sep 17th 2018
39
this.
Sep 18th 2018
59
Your two eyes are your best guide.
Sep 17th 2018
40
I dunno.
Sep 17th 2018
45
regarding Mori’s line...
Sep 18th 2018
51
I don’t know what it’s like to be loved by men...
Sep 18th 2018
54
im so sorry about this. But maybe they didn't love you how you wanted to...
Sep 18th 2018
55
^^^^^ this
Sep 18th 2018
57
dont be...
Sep 19th 2018
62
      i hear you sis. i think there are different types of love, and love lan...
Sep 19th 2018
69
      you call those attacks, lol
Sep 19th 2018
72
           haha that was a bit tongue in cheek.
Sep 19th 2018
75
                imagine if you did love them all the same...
Sep 19th 2018
78
                again, i think i get what you're saying.
Sep 19th 2018
79
                hahaha exactly... we can't love our kids the same way we love our lovers
Sep 19th 2018
85
      I respect your yearning to be loved unconditionally but even that
Sep 19th 2018
84
We don’t give ourselves the tools to deal with our feelings
Sep 18th 2018
56
all this shit runs its course....
Sep 18th 2018
58
Background Checks on Wifey/Hubby
Sep 18th 2018
61
Not knowing what it's like doesn't mean you weren't loved by men
Sep 19th 2018
63
      I think they did the best they could...
Sep 19th 2018
65
           Hurt people hurt people... What's love got to do with it?
Sep 19th 2018
67
           i don't think it's true that you don't hurt people you love
Sep 19th 2018
68
           hurting someone doesn't mean you don't love them.
Sep 19th 2018
70
           Opposite.
Sep 19th 2018
71
                right...
Sep 19th 2018
73
                it can drive actions, but
Sep 19th 2018
74
                     i agree with you
Sep 19th 2018
76
                          *daps*
Sep 19th 2018
83
           ***recalls every beating i received as a child and the 'speech'
Sep 19th 2018
77
                **sucks teeth**
Sep 19th 2018
80
                either party's shortcomings/inadequacies? awareness? truth?
Sep 19th 2018
82
                this is where it gets tricky
Sep 19th 2018
81
"sex at dawn" is a dope read on global and historic behavior
Sep 21st 2018
87

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