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Buddy_Gilapagos
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Thu Sep-14-17 09:54 AM

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"When your homey is in a bad marriage...."


  

          

Do you say, "man it sounds like you are in a bad marriage."

Or do you always support the marriage? Especially when they have kids.

Does it matter that they called you before the marriage with cold feet and you encouraged them to go through with it? (I think I made a post about that)


What's crazy to me is for people to be in a situation that they are miserable about and they act like they have two or three lives and they like "this life sucks but I'll be happier the next time", no negro. You got one life, you have to find your happiness (and be a good person) now!!!!



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When your homey is in a bad marriage.... [View all] , Buddy_Gilapagos, Thu Sep-14-17 09:54 AM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
you always support him and give advice when asked would be my take
Sep 14th 2017
1
just be there for em whichever way they go.
Sep 14th 2017
2
I try to support them
Sep 14th 2017
3
never talk trash about another man's wife
Sep 14th 2017
4
^^
Sep 14th 2017
5
One doesn't have to "trash talk" his wife to express concern...
Sep 14th 2017
20
      No matter what, it will translate to trash talk.
Sep 14th 2017
23
           nah....if you're clear,
Sep 14th 2017
32
how bad?
Sep 14th 2017
6
This is right on time.One of my boys (just married) is fucking miserable...
Sep 14th 2017
7
was he miserable before he got married?
Sep 14th 2017
10
      Not to my knowledge. He had things on the side and was living it up.
Sep 14th 2017
11
           oh, he closed shop too early
Sep 14th 2017
12
                We're both 37
Sep 14th 2017
33
what constitutes a "bad" marriage from the outside looking in?
Sep 14th 2017
8
how about non-black wife....
Sep 14th 2017
17
      hoooomygod
Sep 14th 2017
21
      .
Sep 14th 2017
27
      haha... oh shit, she waited til marriage to do it? she white?
Sep 14th 2017
22
      Not white.
Sep 14th 2017
26
           real talk, I felt like anytime I dated non Black they called me that shi...
Sep 14th 2017
30
           I bet money she's Latina
Sep 14th 2017
60
                hmmm... I could see it.
Sep 14th 2017
64
      Grounz
Sep 14th 2017
      ...for...
Sep 14th 2017
35
           RE: ...for...
Sep 14th 2017
40
      Obligatory question: Hard-R or soft-A?
Sep 14th 2017
25
      RE: Obligatory question: Hard-R or soft-A?
Sep 14th 2017
28
      Oh
Sep 14th 2017
34
      lol...she's non white tho
Sep 14th 2017
36
           Hispanic, Latin, or Asian. Just not white or black.
Sep 14th 2017
37
           hmm, I feel like talking about my deepest darkest is worse
Sep 14th 2017
39
           I'm not much of an arguerer. I'd end whatever conversation that is
Sep 14th 2017
41
                Lol, y'all are quick to call it quits
Sep 14th 2017
47
                     You feel safe enough to call me a nigger
Sep 14th 2017
49
                          Well, that's something I think every person in a mixed marriage needs
Sep 14th 2017
52
                               cmon, man...
Sep 14th 2017
56
                               Sorry Kilo
Sep 14th 2017
58
                               To each their own I guess.
Sep 14th 2017
61
                                    I married a Black woman for a reason
Sep 14th 2017
63
                                         I've also eaten 3am sushi from a 7-11
Sep 14th 2017
66
                                              I'm from Western PA
Sep 15th 2017
72
           you've never argue then...
Sep 14th 2017
42
                I don't agree with this.
Sep 14th 2017
44
                hurt people...hurt people
Sep 14th 2017
48
                     there's a line.
Sep 14th 2017
62
                this sounds toxic as shit, to me...
Sep 14th 2017
45
                Same here. I don't do all that screaming and crap but....
Sep 14th 2017
69
                I've argued plenty. You're talking about fighting words.
Sep 14th 2017
46
                I ain't never had to fight in my own HOUSE!
Sep 15th 2017
70
                Trinity, name-calling out of anger is crossing the line toward abuse
Sep 14th 2017
67
           right? the fuck is she? Asian, Latina, Indian, French Canadian?
Sep 14th 2017
38
      I dont gotta hear both sides, but there are factors to consider
Sep 14th 2017
43
      breh how do you not lead w/ that lmfao.
Sep 14th 2017
51
      right?
Sep 14th 2017
53
      wait what?
Sep 14th 2017
57
hit him with the TI: IZ YOU HAPPY?
Sep 14th 2017
9
My name's Paul and that shit's between ya'll (c)
Sep 14th 2017
13
why would you encourage him to do it if he had cold feet going in?
Sep 14th 2017
14
A couple weeks before the wedding he called with cold feet
Sep 14th 2017
15
more than likely your words didn't change his mind
Sep 14th 2017
18
man i wouldn't encourage a dude or lady either way
Sep 14th 2017
24
and what is a "bad" marriage?
Sep 14th 2017
16
I keep it real and give the best advice I can with the info that I have
Sep 14th 2017
19
yeah...if this is your mans...how can you be anything but honest?...
Sep 14th 2017
29
      I'll be honest but I won't tell him what to do
Sep 14th 2017
31
i dont encourage/advise ppl to do sh*t
Sep 14th 2017
50
Yup. Iont want anyone using me as their reason for leaving
Sep 14th 2017
54
Spoken like a Trained Therapist
Sep 14th 2017
65
I've always left it up to them.
Sep 14th 2017
55
Didn't sign the marriage license?
Sep 14th 2017
59
      why would someone not sign the license?
Sep 14th 2017
68
           That's just evil
Sep 15th 2017
71

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