65. "Spoken like a Trained Therapist" In response to In response to 50
This is really the only way to go with friendships. I think some folks want someone to tell them what to do so they can turn around and point the finger.
The people who make the best decisions have the wisdom to self reflect and look at the issue with a long view.
He knew damned well his marriage was built on sand. No one else to blame but he and his partner when something washes it away.