And I get an abstinence movement that acknowledges that pre-marital sex is a fact of life while still advising young people to be very conservative with regards to whom they choose and how often they chose to have sex and treat sex like a BFD.

But are there any folks who firmly believe, and would advise their kids, that they should never have sex until they are married?

In this day and age I can't think of any more reckless advice than to tell someone to wait until they have bound themselves to life with someone before engaging in the most intimate act two people can partake and GAMBLE that you are compatible in such a huge aspect of your married life.



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