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>Well in previous days and ages, where women were considered >property, their "virginity" was basically esteemed as their >only desirable worth. It was determined that in order for a >woman to get a man, she couldn't be with anyone else, and >ultimately was beholden to the man's desires. > >In this day and age, where women are not property but >individuals, then their "virginity" should not only not be >required, but their "virginity" should not even be a thing. It >really doesn't exist. > >However, if a person decides on their own regard that they >want to abstain, for any reason, secular or sacred, then to >each their own. And at some point they will venture out, or >meet someone, and take that step, pre or post marriage. But >they won't have to feel beholden to someone else's desires, or >plan, or expectations. People can just be, as God intended. >
You ended that with "as God intended" but He intended us to wait.
. . . "And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful." ~ 2 Tim 2:4
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