1. "i have no problem w/it." In response to In response to 0 Mon Apr-27-15 08:31 AM by SoWhat
the advice is only problematic if it results in folks being unequipped to handle many of the negative consequences of sex - unwanted pregnancies, STI's, HIV infection, shaming, et al.
i don't agree that ppl NEED to have sex w/their potential mate before marriage or that they NEED to have sex at all before their first marriage.