1. "that Caroline Calloway story hits home a bit" In response to Reply # 0
her family lives near me (Falls Church, VA) I tutor kids like her I know for a fact her parents aren't as rich as she would have you believe the money game with kids worries me She was trying to live a life of an actual rich kid and the actual rich kids were jealous and in this little ecosystem...all of it is bullshit but enthralling none the least
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Navem nu, cuando sol Tutu nu, vondo nos nu Vita em, no continous non Nos nu ekta nos sepe ta, amen
When the sun shades the ship We sweat and life is not safe To swim or to touch not When we unite we hedge amen
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79618 posts
Wed Sep-11-19 10:20 AM
8. "I skimmed but it was interesting to me" In response to Reply # 5
is this the girl who was always late to trial because she was obsessed with fashion?
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79618 posts
Wed Sep-11-19 10:26 AM
9. "I need a financial advisor" In response to Reply # 0
and about 4 more hours a day.
I get some me time this evening. Going to go get some some jeans and then prolly spend some money on these kids.
It’s my daughters 4th bday next week so I’m going to hook her up.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
BrooklynWHAT Member since Jun 15th 2007 85076 posts
Wed Sep-11-19 10:51 AM
11. "People will drive you to your worst before they take you seriously" In response to Reply # 0
had some shit go down at work last week that didn't even have to happen. but they broke me and made me come out of character and cut all the professional bullshit.
niggas acting right this week tho. i know that much...
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79618 posts
Wed Sep-11-19 10:58 AM
12. "This woman parks like shit at work" In response to Reply # 0
We have a huge parking lot but she refused to park anywhere besides right out front so she just makes a space where there isn’t one.
I want to leave a note or kick her car.
She isn’t handicapped or obese. Just being an ass.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79618 posts
Thu Sep-12-19 12:01 PM
32. "Why would anyone ask that question" In response to Reply # 31
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79618 posts
Thu Sep-12-19 05:18 AM
29. "Because it’s not safe and sometimes it involves my car" In response to Reply # 23
She parks horizontally in front of my car grill on a tight corner which means her car is out in the street.
and there are so many empty parking spots right around the corner. It’s rude and dangerous.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
13. "North Carolina is a wild place " In response to Reply # 0
And so perfectly America/n Y’all folks from there ... underrated in your resilience. Alabama and Mississippi and South Carolina survivors get credit that y’all from NC also deserve.
------ “There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.” -Albert Camus
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79618 posts
Wed Sep-11-19 02:51 PM
14. "You talking about the election or just crazy crime news? " In response to Reply # 13
Cause if you are talking about the McCready loss... that’s local politics.
Like most states the urban areas are blue as hell and the rural areas are red.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
I guess it’s not as wild to me because I’m not from here so when I go other places it’s just other places to me.
Cali seems to be the only place where I’m like “wow” but that’s because I get spoiled when I’m out there. If I had to come out of pocket or wait in lines I would probably have a different perception.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79618 posts
Wed Sep-11-19 04:37 PM
22. "Gotcha. I was forced to travel by my mom " In response to Reply # 18
She wanted to make sure we experienced life outside of Pittsburgh.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
17. "i kind of really want to quit my job" In response to Reply # 0
i want to find something having to do with helping the environment but no idea how to start that search. ideally something that doesnt require any additional school or certificates.
25. "Dog in the workplace ... p.2" In response to Reply # 0
There was a position at Purina earlier this year that I was well qualified for but didn't apply to because I figured I didn't want dogs as coworkers. Then I get here, to this job (not Purina) and there are 9 dogs around. Ugh! The Purina job would have paid more too!
♥ Inescapably Me ♥
"Love is never any better than the lover" Toni Morrison (The Bluest Eye)
33. "some 20 year old okp drama confronted me in "real life"" In response to Reply # 0 Thu Sep-12-19 12:17 PM by Damali
well sorta.
not quite real life, just on twitter
i responded to a Blue Check's tweet, and she summarily cursed me out
then DM'd me to say she's someone from here that i did wrong 20 years ago
i don't even remember all the details from back then but i sincerely apologized to her...i had no idea i'd hurt her like that..i didn't make any excuses. i just apologized
she legit threatened to "crush me" if i ever came near her
again, i didn't know that's who she was when i replied to her tweet
it was like, wow...felt like shit all night..then blocked her on everything i could find. definitely don't want to ever cause her any more pain...
60. "she did. we don't remember it the same way (i barely do at all)" In response to Reply # 39
which makes sense cuz when someone hurts you, the way that felt gets stuck in your craw, while the offender has the luxury to not remember as it wasn't a significant moment in their lives...
I don't want to give any more detail though because then I'd be re-offending, so to speak...it would cause her further pain and embarrassment if folks here figured out who i was talking about and/or remembered the posts.
41. "damn, here's your drama, Damali." In response to Reply # 33
>i responded to a Blue Check's tweet, and she summarily cursed >me out > >then DM'd me to say she's someone from here that i did wrong >20 years ago > >i don't even remember all the details from back then but i >sincerely apologized to her...i had no idea i'd hurt her like >that..i didn't make any excuses. i just apologized > >she legit threatened to "crush me" if i ever came near her > >again, i didn't know that's who she was when i replied to her >tweet > >it was like, wow...felt like shit all night..then blocked her >on everything i could find. definitely don't want to ever >cause her any more pain...
that's crazy that she came at you like that... for whatever that might have been done wrong
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79618 posts
Fri Sep-13-19 11:28 AM
43. "Crush you? Damn.. and you don’t even remember. " In response to Reply # 33
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
BrooklynWHAT Member since Jun 15th 2007 85076 posts
Fri Sep-13-19 11:30 AM
44. "damn. was it some significant shit?" In response to Reply # 33
or just some petty internet beef shit? i can't imagine really holding on to grudges on over some internet shit if it didn't effect my money or real life.
45. "theres a dude on here who still got beef with me cuz his girl liked me." In response to Reply # 33
and i guess she used to say/do things to make him jealous.
we were never involved outside of a platonic level. always just been friends.
he has no idea i once paid off their rent so they wouldnt get evicted, or that i used to help his girl with money and deal hookups for her son (like flying him from coast to coast) because okp dude was often jobless and couldnt even support himself half the time.
i pretty much kept their 'family' afloat behind the scenes sometimes and kept dude from committing suicide on at least one occasion and never even brought it up to him to throw it in his face.
dude has been through several relationships since (i assume). and i think might even be married now. still holding on to that hate tho.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 79618 posts
Fri Sep-13-19 11:59 AM
49. "I mean... I would still have beef with you if you did all that " In response to Reply # 45
and I had to hear about it at the dinner table every time money was brought up.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
35. "Teaching middle schoolers STEM classwork made for younger" In response to Reply # 0
students....stuff they don't know, and all they can say is, "This shit is boring."
I have to work to be a better teacher here, but I know if I was teaching this same lesson in Nairobi or Kitui or somewhere else on the continent, I would have attentive, focused young'uns ready to work.
I’m starting to question how much I love mines. despite my mother and him not being together he was significant in my life I learned a lot from him but I don’t feel like I know him enough to say I love him I’m about to get to know him time slippin’
i found myself digging a country album earlier cuz it was hitting the feels. i almost understood why there are people that like country lol. if i wasnt at work i might had let it play in full and let some tears flow down. once i started feeling that jimmy butler shroom hair growing out i had to hit stop.
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