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Hitokiri
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"Valentine's Day plans?"


  

          

9 days away and I got nothing.
This is the first vd for her and i and i asked a few weeks ago if we could skip it. I don't like vd. At all.
She was not going for it. At all.
So... I'm supposed to be figuring something out.

What ya'll got?

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Subject Author Message Date ID
wish I could help, I straight up vetoed someone trying to rope me into
Feb 05th 2015
1
dinner, flowers, movie, fuckin
Feb 05th 2015
2
T minus 4 days
Feb 09th 2015
3
Going to a wedding. A "tie-die and jeans" wedding
Feb 09th 2015
4
dinner for 8 at a local black owned restaurant
Feb 09th 2015
5
ditto but at 7.
Feb 09th 2015
6
going to a wedding
Feb 09th 2015
7
Is is strange that we are going on a double date for VD?
Feb 09th 2015
8
2 DJ gigs!
Feb 09th 2015
9
me either!
Feb 09th 2015
10
      either they "don't believe in the day" or
Feb 09th 2015
11
           i basically don't believe in the day
Feb 09th 2015
13
                i believe in it. i like romance
Feb 09th 2015
14
                     amen to that
Feb 09th 2015
16
                     mine don't believe in it either
Feb 09th 2015
20
my go-to valentines day smoothness
Feb 09th 2015
12
BTW, not a good look
Feb 09th 2015
15
btw it was intentional.
Feb 09th 2015
17
      makes me think of judy blume books
Feb 09th 2015
18
Taking my fiancée to Medieval Times in Buena Park.
Feb 09th 2015
19
i suggested plated.com on my blogs gift guide....they send you a meal an...
Feb 09th 2015
21
ugh....so much anxiety
Feb 10th 2015
22

bonitaapplebaum71481
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Thu Feb-05-15 10:55 AM

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1. "wish I could help, I straight up vetoed someone trying to rope me into"
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blasted VD shenanigans

but ummmmm... you could always bake her something amazing and then beg if you guys can stay in


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rdhull
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Thu Feb-05-15 10:57 AM

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2. "dinner, flowers, movie, fuckin"
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Hitokiri
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3. "T minus 4 days"
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Where yall at?

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mrhood75
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Mon Feb-09-15 02:05 PM

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4. "Going to a wedding. A "tie-die and jeans" wedding"
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That's in the afternoon, but I imagine it will last through most of the day.

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southphillyman
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Mon Feb-09-15 02:06 PM

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5. "dinner for 8 at a local black owned restaurant "
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bonamie
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6. "ditto but at 7."
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labcoat
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7. "going to a wedding"
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what sucks is i have class in the AM

its going to be a LONNGGGG night

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Buddy_Gilapagos
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8. "Is is strange that we are going on a double date for VD?"
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Did it last year it was fun. Now it seems like a pattern is forming. For the record, I think it's stranger for the other couple because they are newlyweds.

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teefiveten
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9. "2 DJ gigs!"
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spinning an in-store for All Star weekend
then doing a sexy bar that night

honestly i have never had a valentine's day. ever.
closest i came was my ex at the time who gave me a great mini cheesecake
while i was on a master cleanse

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blackrussian
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10. "me either!"
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and i'm working this year. *shrugs*

>honestly i have never had a valentine's day. ever.
>closest i came was my ex at the time who gave me a great mini
>cheesecake
>while i was on a master cleanse

  

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teefiveten
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11. "either they "don't believe in the day" or"
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they were just duds :/

i would like one, one day. lol
honestly this one could have come close for me
but work kinda kills it

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blackrussian
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Mon Feb-09-15 06:13 PM

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13. "i basically don't believe in the day"
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but maybe it's not as big a deal over here? although i think it has become bigger in recent years. don't recall my parents really celebrating it, maybe a card at most.

  

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teefiveten
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14. "i believe in it. i like romance"
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i can't say i dated a particularly amorous guy
theyve definitely pulled off some sweet things
but when you look at them over the course of the entire relationship. they barely average to once a year if at all. so for them to 'not believe' was laughable because it's not like they were showing love like that other times

and it would have meant a lot if they even tried to be thoughtful. i'm not a luxurious person. its not like i want or need a grand gesture. just a thoughtful one. and many cost nothing.

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blackrussian
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16. "amen to that"
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>its not like i want or
>need a grand gesture. just a thoughtful one.

  

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20. "mine don't believe in it either"
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I lucked up because we have to go
To a wedding
So he felt obligated in celebrating
Teehee
Win for me!

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fontgangsta
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12. "my go-to valentines day smoothness"
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steak dinner (for me)
and the ballet (for her)

  

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fontgangsta
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15. "BTW, not a good look"
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to shorten valentines day as vd

>This is the first vd for her and i and i asked a few weeks ago
>if we could skip it. I don't like vd. At all.

  

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Hitokiri
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17. "btw it was intentional."
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nm

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18. "makes me think of judy blume books"
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19. "Taking my fiancée to Medieval Times in Buena Park."
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We just moved out to L.A. this past December and this is our first Valentine's Day being engaged so I wanted to do something memorable. Last year we just exchanged gifts and cards but I had a show that night that kept me in Brooklyn until 3-4AM. Going to make sure I devote all day/night to her this year. ^_^

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21. "i suggested plated.com on my blogs gift guide....they send you a meal an..."
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you guys can cook it together...i think that's romantic and you can have fun following the recipe...plus it's only $24.. get some wine and dessert and some slow jams and slow dance in your living room. i don't think valentine's day should be expensive...it should be corny and fun loving.

the guide (shameless plug...lol): http://arainofthought.blogspot.com/2015/02/valentines-gift-guide-2015.html

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NikaMandela
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Tue Feb-10-15 12:26 AM

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22. "ugh....so much anxiety"
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Tue Feb-10-15 12:27 AM by NikaMandela

          

im not in an official relationship but i got someone special. im insecure about our status and no plans have been made. i would love something small. but ive been thinking about going to a singles even friday night.

i really hate valentines day.

  

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