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12719277, Valentine's Day plans? Posted by Hitokiri, Thu Feb-05-15 10:43 AM
9 days away and I got nothing. This is the first vd for her and i and i asked a few weeks ago if we could skip it. I don't like vd. At all. She was not going for it. At all. So... I'm supposed to be figuring something out.
What ya'll got?
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12719301, wish I could help, I straight up vetoed someone trying to rope me into Posted by bonitaapplebaum71481, Thu Feb-05-15 10:55 AM
blasted VD shenanigans
but ummmmm... you could always bake her something amazing and then beg if you guys can stay in
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12719305, dinner, flowers, movie, fuckin Posted by rdhull, Thu Feb-05-15 10:57 AM
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12722378, T minus 4 days Posted by Hitokiri, Mon Feb-09-15 02:02 PM
Where yall at?
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12722386, Going to a wedding. A "tie-die and jeans" wedding Posted by mrhood75, Mon Feb-09-15 02:05 PM
That's in the afternoon, but I imagine it will last through most of the day.
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12722388, dinner for 8 at a local black owned restaurant Posted by southphillyman, Mon Feb-09-15 02:06 PM
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12722390, ditto but at 7. Posted by bonamie, Mon Feb-09-15 02:07 PM
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12722542, going to a wedding Posted by labcoat, Mon Feb-09-15 03:56 PM
what sucks is i have class in the AM
its going to be a LONNGGGG night
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12722686, Is is strange that we are going on a double date for VD? Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Mon Feb-09-15 05:51 PM
Did it last year it was fun. Now it seems like a pattern is forming. For the record, I think it's stranger for the other couple because they are newlyweds.
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12722690, 2 DJ gigs! Posted by teefiveten, Mon Feb-09-15 05:56 PM
spinning an in-store for All Star weekend then doing a sexy bar that night
honestly i have never had a valentine's day. ever. closest i came was my ex at the time who gave me a great mini cheesecake while i was on a master cleanse :(
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12722699, me either! Posted by blackrussian, Mon Feb-09-15 06:09 PM
and i'm working this year. *shrugs*
>honestly i have never had a valentine's day. ever. >closest i came was my ex at the time who gave me a great mini >cheesecake >while i was on a master cleanse :(
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12722703, either they "don't believe in the day" or Posted by teefiveten, Mon Feb-09-15 06:10 PM
they were just duds :/
i would like one, one day. lol honestly this one could have come close for me but work kinda kills it
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12722711, i basically don't believe in the day Posted by blackrussian, Mon Feb-09-15 06:13 PM
but maybe it's not as big a deal over here? although i think it has become bigger in recent years. don't recall my parents really celebrating it, maybe a card at most.
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12722716, i believe in it. i like romance Posted by teefiveten, Mon Feb-09-15 06:20 PM
i can't say i dated a particularly amorous guy theyve definitely pulled off some sweet things but when you look at them over the course of the entire relationship. they barely average to once a year if at all. so for them to 'not believe' was laughable because it's not like they were showing love like that other times
and it would have meant a lot if they even tried to be thoughtful. i'm not a luxurious person. its not like i want or need a grand gesture. just a thoughtful one. and many cost nothing.
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12722736, amen to that Posted by blackrussian, Mon Feb-09-15 06:39 PM
>its not like i want or >need a grand gesture. just a thoughtful one.
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12722783, mine don't believe in it either Posted by labcoat, Mon Feb-09-15 07:25 PM
I lucked up because we have to go To a wedding So he felt obligated in celebrating Teehee Win for me!
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12722706, my go-to valentines day smoothness Posted by fontgangsta, Mon Feb-09-15 06:12 PM
steak dinner (for me) and the ballet (for her)
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12722726, BTW, not a good look Posted by fontgangsta, Mon Feb-09-15 06:29 PM
to shorten valentines day as vd
>This is the first vd for her and i and i asked a few weeks ago >if we could skip it. I don't like vd. At all.
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12722738, btw it was intentional. Posted by Hitokiri, Mon Feb-09-15 06:41 PM
nm
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12722740, makes me think of judy blume books Posted by blackrussian, Mon Feb-09-15 06:42 PM
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12722765, Taking my fiancée to Medieval Times in Buena Park. Posted by rhymesandammo, Mon Feb-09-15 07:00 PM
We just moved out to L.A. this past December and this is our first Valentine's Day being engaged so I wanted to do something memorable. Last year we just exchanged gifts and cards but I had a show that night that kept me in Brooklyn until 3-4AM. Going to make sure I devote all day/night to her this year. ^_^
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12722824, i suggested plated.com on my blogs gift guide....they send you a meal and Posted by R A i n, Mon Feb-09-15 08:35 PM
you guys can cook it together...i think that's romantic and you can have fun following the recipe...plus it's only $24.. get some wine and dessert and some slow jams and slow dance in your living room. i don't think valentine's day should be expensive...it should be corny and fun loving.
the guide (shameless plug...lol): http://arainofthought.blogspot.com/2015/02/valentines-gift-guide-2015.html
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12722932, ugh....so much anxiety Posted by NikaMandela, Tue Feb-10-15 12:26 AM
im not in an official relationship but i got someone special. im insecure about our status and no plans have been made. i would love something small. but ive been thinking about going to a singles even friday night.
i really hate valentines day.
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