1. "got some bad good news" In response to Reply # 0
looks like my private student loans were "forgiven". fantastic right? eh, now i might be hit with a huge tax bill.
i got letters that after reviewing their accounts the lender has decided not to pursue the debt. showing as 0 balance as of december. says i might receive a 1099. obviously its debt i was not making payments towards so its not exactly a weight off my shoulders. in the long term its good, i think. i was starting to get hit in my credit score so i imagine that will soften up going forward.
im doing some research, i might be able to get an exemption. if i do have to pay the estimates im coming up with range from my whole upcoming bonus to having to make a sizable monthly payment for 6 years.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80055 posts
Wed Jan-29-20 01:16 PM
2. "Taxes. NC just hit us with a tax bill from 2015" In response to Reply # 1
Coulda sworn we already consolidated and are paying on them.
Gotta pull out some paper work.
Somehow regardless of how we calculate our taxes we always end up owing NC.
This some bull
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80055 posts
Wed Jan-29-20 02:01 PM
5. "Yup. I can’t wrap my head around not owing anyone else" In response to Reply # 3 Wed Jan-29-20 02:02 PM by legsdiamond
but somehow still owing this state money every damn year.
Hopefully this is the year we settle all our tax debts.
Weight also be in a different tax bracket tho which scares me.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
4. "Sick people at work really make me angry sometimes" In response to Reply # 0
Keep your sick ass home. Don't care if you have to use vacation time.
Aggravating being stuck in an office this time of year with people that don't take care of themselves properly. Eat junk food and drink sodas all winter until you get sick? Live your life yo, but it ain't gonna be my problem.
If the coronavirus pops up I'm forcing a work-from-home situation. These folks eating chips, donuts and pepsis all day gonna be dropping like flies.
7. "Is your sick time separate from your vacation time?" In response to Reply # 6 Wed Jan-29-20 02:18 PM by flipnile
I can use sick time *if* I have a doctor's note for me or my son. I have mad sick time too, like 80 days. Haven't been sick since I found this out years ago, ironically. I hate using my days off for being sick too, but folks here don't have to.
Sniffles are whatever, but those loud hacking sneezes where you know the person is spraying the air with germs bug the hell out of me.
Man, about to up my water intake and get some multi-vitamins.
my old job was a mess and mix. thats where i would come in sick. we need a dr note but uhm who goes to the dr for a cold? should i? most of the time i already had medicine so going out to buy medicine just for the receipt was kind of weird. in the last year or two of working there they introduced PTO instead of sick days. that made things better.
currently i have a week of PTO, pretty lenient on how i can use it and two weeks of vacation. what sucks is they dont carry over so if i dont use either i lose them, dont even get paid the balance.
9. "I *never* went to the doctor for a cold or flu before, but I'm gonna sta..." In response to Reply # 8
>we need a dr note but uhm who goes to the dr for a cold?
Every other job I had sick & vacation were rolled into one. HR lady put me on when my son was sick a few years back. She told me to go see a doctor if I want to burn those sick days, even if it's just to grab that note.
10. "being a helpmate..." In response to Reply # 0
men can be so pathetic at time. my ex reached out again. I’m just glad I’m in a much better position to deal with him. he’s fucked up again and who does he run too...
I’ll help him because I’m not one to kick someone when their down but I got the juice now....
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80055 posts
Thu Jan-30-20 10:49 AM
11. "I’d keep running to my ex if she was always going to help. " In response to Reply # 10
As long as you don’t feel like he’s taking advantage you good.
I must ask. If you were in a serious relationship would you tell him to chill?
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80055 posts
Thu Jan-30-20 03:18 PM
14. "My coworker is a “well actually” ass nigga. " In response to Reply # 0
It’s hilarious. Half the time he isn’t listening, just waiting for a reason to give some dumb as data on the origin of cauliflower.
Type of dude who had a cobachelor party because he “loves his wife”
and he’s a Bernie fan.
Can’t believe he’s voting for him with all the Bro stuff happening.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80055 posts
Thu Feb-06-20 03:28 PM
18. "I tried but they kept asking questions" In response to Reply # 15
and wanted more info.
Wtf would I give all that after being breached?
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
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