"Bachelors, does your mom chill at your place when you aren't there?"
Example, she comes buy for 2-3 hours a few times a week while you're at work, or during her lunch break. Would you have a problem with it? Is that invading your space? Hell, does your mom even have a key to your crib?
6. "Not at all, my cousin gave his mom keys so she doesn't have" In response to Reply # 3
to drive 10 miles more to go home for lunch or when she's needs to get out of the office for a few hours. He said never really wanted to do it in the first place, but he didn't want to say no. Now he's really regretting it because thats cutting in to space. He said he comes home for lunch every other day and she's laid back in his recliner watching Soap Operas. lol
25. "see i could see my moms doing that,but the understanding would be" In response to Reply # 6
that she just has to give me a heads up before she comes.
I know my mom so she'd probably only use it once in a blue. If you know ya moms is the type to do what cousins mother is doing, shoulda never gave her the keys in the first place
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27. "all of this:" In response to Reply # 25 Wed Feb-17-16 03:18 PM by SoWhat
>If >you know ya moms is the type to do what cousins mother is >doing, shoulda never gave her the keys in the first place
my mom would not ever violate my space like that so i would trust her w/a key to my apartment if she lived here in town. but she'd have it only in case *i* need it.
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Wed Feb-17-16 02:04 PM
15. "lmao.. hilarious exchange" In response to Reply # 10
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14. "My Mom can stop by my crib anytime. But free access is kinda weird" In response to Reply # 0
One time, I was at work and we had a bad freezing rain storm. Mom was on my side of town and I told her not to drive back to her place. She stopped by my office & got the key to my apartment and stayed there for a few hours.
I would never want her to drive in conditions like that when she didn't have to. But I spent most of the time worrying about what she might find and whether she would be going through my stuff.
I think she got the vibe that i was nervous about it. She told me that she didn't mess with anything just watched TV and had something to eat.
16. "totally understandable " In response to Reply # 14
> > One time, I was at work and we had a bad freezing rain storm. >Mom was on my side of town and I told her not to drive back to >her place. She stopped by my office & got the key to my >apartment and stayed there for a few hours. > > I would never want her to drive in conditions like that when >she didn't have to. But I spent most of the time worrying >about what she might find and whether she would be going >through my stuff. > > I think she got the vibe that i was nervous about it. She >told me that she didn't mess with anything just watched TV and >had something to eat.
PoppaGeorge Member since Nov 07th 2004 10384 posts
Wed Feb-17-16 02:06 PM
17. "Hell... Fuck... NAWL!!!" In response to Reply # 0
When I was single, only one person had a spare key to my apartment: My oldest sister. Even then the only time she ever used it was to let herself in AFTER she called me to let me know she was stopping by.
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18. "when i was single she had a key but would only come by if i asked her" In response to Reply # 0
to.
She wouldn't drop by unnanounced, and would def not come in if i wasn't home.
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19. "My Mother not only has never visited, she definitely doesn't have a key," In response to Reply # 0
But she'll cuss me out for not visiting her, or answering her numerous mid-day calls (to every one of my phone lines), almost everyday of the week...to chat about nothing.
29. "I actually wish she could sometimes. Lol " In response to Reply # 0
She's like a 2 hour plane ride away. If she lived closer I'm sure she'd drop in and straighten things up a bit or leave some food she knows I'd like. Lol
The Wordsmith Member since Aug 13th 2002 17074 posts
Wed Feb-17-16 10:54 PM
30. "I have a great relationship with moms." In response to Reply # 0
I'd have no problem letting her get a key for my apartment if I were single. Knowing her, she wouldn't stop by too often anyway, despite me not complaining about her coming.
I live about a mile from my mom. She doesn't come by as often as I like, but the same can be said by her. However, I did invite her over for dinner on Valentine's Day for dinner and she loved the food!! My mom has keys to the house, but she respects my space. I love my mom dukes!!
33. "Chill? No, but maybe come by for a minute." In response to Reply # 0
We are neighbors so it's not really a big deal. She will come by to pick up or drop stuff off when I am not there. Otherwise she won't come without a call. My mom knows me, it's not like her finding a roach or some broad's panties would be a big revelation.
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