Example, she comes buy for 2-3 hours a few times a week while you're at work, or during her lunch break.
Would you have a problem with it? Is that invading your space? Hell, does your mom even have a key to your crib?

omg.

hell no.

like...is someone living that life? i'll pray for him.

b/c...i can't even imagine a life like that.

Is your place way nicer than hers or something? I dont get it.

to drive 10 miles more to go home for lunch or when she's needs to get out of the office for a few hours.
He said never really wanted to do it in the first place, but he didn't want to say no. Now he's really regretting it because thats cutting in to space. He said he comes home for lunch every other day and she's laid back in his recliner watching Soap Operas. lol

That's nice of him to do, but hell no. Maybe once in a while if she asks first, but not just free reign.

he can and should take the keys back b/c the agreement isn't working out for him. or for no reason at all. it's HIS home.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndzSpva1M80

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

He grown. It's time to act like it.

that she just has to give me a heads up before she comes.

I know my mom so she'd probably only use it once in a blue. If you know ya moms is the type to do what cousins mother is doing, shoulda never gave her the keys in the first place

>If
>you know ya moms is the type to do what cousins mother is
>doing, shoulda never gave her the keys in the first place

my mom would not ever violate my space like that so i would trust her w/a key to my apartment if she lived here in town. but she'd have it only in case *i* need it.

should've never give me the keys

Sometimes less than that, usually to drop things off or pick things up, since I'm ALWAYS taking their stuff (folding chairs, Tupperware, etc etc).

She never ever comes just to chill, though. I pop up at my parents' house all the time though

One time, I was at work and we had a bad freezing rain storm. Mom was on my side of town and I told her not to drive back to her place. She stopped by my office & got the key to my apartment and stayed there for a few hours.

I would never want her to drive in conditions like that when she didn't have to. But I spent most of the time worrying about what she might find and whether she would be going through my stuff.

I think she got the vibe that i was nervous about it. She told me that she didn't mess with anything just watched TV and had something to eat.

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> One time, I was at work and we had a bad freezing rain storm.
>Mom was on my side of town and I told her not to drive back to
>her place. She stopped by my office & got the key to my
>apartment and stayed there for a few hours.
>
> I would never want her to drive in conditions like that when
>she didn't have to. But I spent most of the time worrying
>about what she might find and whether she would be going
>through my stuff.
>
> I think she got the vibe that i was nervous about it. She
>told me that she didn't mess with anything just watched TV and
>had something to eat.

When I was single, only one person had a spare key to my apartment: My oldest sister. Even then the only time she ever used it was to let herself in AFTER she called me to let me know she was stopping by.


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"Where was the peace when we were getting shot? Where's the peace when we were getting laid out?
Where is the peace when we are in the back of ambulances? Where is the peace then?
They don't want to call for peace then.

to.

She wouldn't drop by unnanounced, and would def not come in if i wasn't home.

But she'll cuss me out for not visiting her, or answering her numerous mid-day calls (to every one of my phone lines), almost everyday of the week...to chat about nothing.

come home and unexpectedly see my mama chilling on the couch watching tv.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

with doing this

i dont see the issue

She's like a 2 hour plane ride away.
If she lived closer I'm sure she'd drop in and straighten things up a bit or leave some food she knows I'd like. Lol

I'd have no problem letting her get a key for my apartment if I were single. Knowing her, she wouldn't stop by too often anyway, despite me not complaining about her coming.



Since 1976

she cooks, cleans, does laundry, the whole 9, I hate to see her leave, lol

I live about a mile from my mom. She doesn't come by as often as I like, but the same can be said by her. However, I did invite her over for dinner on Valentine's Day for dinner and she loved the food!! My mom has keys to the house, but she respects my space. I love my mom dukes!! :-)

We are neighbors so it's not really a big deal. She will come by to pick up or drop stuff off when I am not there. Otherwise she won't come without a call. My mom knows me, it's not like her finding a roach or some broad's panties would be a big revelation.

i keep spares at their crib for all my keys.

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