And Let's assume that two people can't love equally.


Go.

Inspired by Phonte tweeting this.

http://elitedaily.com/dating/girl-loves-harder-loved/1288452/

Poll result (19 votes) I’d Rather Be The Person Who Loves Harder Than I Am Loved. (3 votes) Vote I'd Rather Be Loved More than I Love My SO. (16 votes) Vote

Nah

**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

i still blame hip-hop.

http://my.xfinity.com/blogs/tv/files/2010/03/SNL-Hot-Tub-Lovers.jpg


**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

i still blame hip-hop.

https://screen.yahoo.com/love-ahs-hot-tub-000000900.html


**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

loving someone more is a horrible feeling...

****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

>loving someone more is a horrible feeling...
>
>


**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

Or atleast I thought that

It takes all kinds to make up a world, son. -My pops

I just live for the comments -Da wiz

your link was about marriage...

the question was presented as one about relationships...

yet somehow you threw the kid out there. Smh...

****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

I say it's no different from loving your kid since you probably love your kid in ways the kid doesn't even understand.


**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

tradition that the woman should be loved more because it's felt women can "handle" not loving the male too much since he should be "providing" usually (in Western "tradition").


So women stereotypically are supposed to deal with being "...eh" about their male partners because they are getting provided for.


I know women earn $$$ now but that "tradition" still is sort of "there".

of the "power" and women are an "object".


So the one with the "power" should have the perspective ("desire") that matters. The "object" without much "power" (didn't say the female has no "power" - usually she has to say "yes" to the male's "advances") is "subservient" to being "desired" by the one with the "power".

western society has women loving their men more because the men is the provider...

and because men are seen as idiots who don't know how to love...

you single?

****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

yep

****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

In short, "traditionally" men want "beauty" women want "money".


"Beauty" is the sort of "thing" that men have filled the earth with songs about how much a woman's beauty "blows them away".

Berry Gordy wrote "Money (that's what I want)" and I'm sure some women have wrote songs about wanting money (or a man's "beauty") but it's pretty lopsided (the "tradition" of men writing song after song EXALTING what a woman's "beauty" means to them - inspires them.


I told you I know tradition

****************
TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*

A woman can be deeply in love with a dude because of his power. And a man can have a very superficial love for a woman because of her looks.



>In short, "traditionally" men want "beauty" women want
>"money".
>
>
>"Beauty" is the sort of "thing" that men have filled the earth
>with songs about how much a woman's beauty "blows them away".
>
>Berry Gordy wrote "Money (that's what I want)" and I'm sure
>some women have wrote songs about wanting money (or a man's
>"beauty") but it's pretty lopsided (the "tradition" of men
>writing song after song EXALTING what a woman's "beauty" means
>to them - inspires them.
>
>
>I told you I know tradition


**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

songwriting throughout the ages, that men are REALLY feeling a female's "beauty".


I don't think that can be denied.


Unless someone wants to come up with a theory that songwriters "traditionally" get more "sprung" with a woman's beauty than the average man.

But...

songs usually "resonate" with the "general" public. So...the public for a LONGGGGGGGGGGG time have been "feeling" male songwriters writing EXTOLLING over and over throughout the ages the "power" of a female's "beauty".


Women singing writing songs about wanting money...not so much.

"Get ready..for your blessing..."

**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

_____________________________________
If you tremble with indignation at every injustice, then you are a comrade of mine.

To be young and not be revolutionary is a contradiction of biology....

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

People may not admit it.. Shit if I'm gonna stay in a relationship I better be getting just as good as I give or more or why bother?

_____________________________________
If you tremble with indignation at every injustice, then you are a comrade of mine.

To be young and not be revolutionary is a contradiction of biology....

I guess I don't understand the poll and choices....i wouldn't want either.

-The Knicks’ coaching search still includes a lone frontrunner, Kurt Rambis, whose qualifications for the position include a strong relationship with Jackson and a willingness to take the job.

It is the crazy that normally comes with the blue that is the problem .. when they not only love you more but too much of their happiness is tied up in their love for you..

_____________________________________
If you tremble with indignation at every injustice, then you are a comrade of mine.

To be young and not be revolutionary is a contradiction of biology....

ever, ever, EVER, even close to being even.

I like them a whole lot, and they halfway like me or just tolerate me....or, they like me a whole lot, and I just tolerate them. Which is why I haven't made it official with any woman in forever-ever.

And because of that, it makes me scared to go either way. Even this year, I've dealt with women who were super into me to the point that they'd bring me all types of herbal tea and food when I was sick, while I didn't even want to take them out to dinner. And for the ones I was truly interested in, either nothing happened, or they let something minor end things, which meant they weren't in it nearly enough.

So for my own good and comfort, I would rather be the one that loves them more, to where I know I'm at least living up to my romantic potential. Because otherwise, I really can't even force myself to be romantic towards them.

------------------------------

50+ FREE Mixes on www.DJR-Tistic.com!

Twitter and Instagram - @DJ_RTistic

And I prefer to be loved more.

I trust myself to be careful with a heart so wholly given to me.

I can no longer trust myself to endure the pain of my heart being mistreated if so wholly given to someone else.

i dont trust people with my heart like that to be giving my all and they aint doing the same

i also have too much pride