"Ever told a friend they don't look happy in a relationship?"
How that work on for you, that friendship and that terrible relationship?
I see my dude and I just see his soul being crushed. It reminds me of how Tony Soprano described his mother as a joyless woman who wore his father down "to a little nub".
Can I assume that there is no need to tell him because he already know?
********** "Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
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3. "yeah i told that to the girl i was with." In response to Reply # 0
she claimed she was.
I broke up with her the next day and got with the chick in my spanish class that i was digging.
oh, to be 16 again.
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legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80181 posts
Mon Aug-03-15 03:58 PM
9. "i told him but it wasnt like he didnt know" In response to Reply # 0
I said "it doesn't sound like either of you are happy"
they broke up soon after. I doubt I had anything to do with it tho, I think he just heard himself say it out loud one too many times.
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
13. "Update: So SHE wants a divorce" In response to Reply # 0
So she told my other Ace's wife that she wants a divorce. She says she thinks he is cheating but we know it isn't true just looking for an excuse.
My Ace told me but asked me to not break the confidence of his wife who was told about old girl wanting the divorce in confidence.
Now I of course swore to secrecy when my Ace told me this secret but of course I feel compelled to tell my original Ace that his wife wants a divorce. Bro Code requires it right (though there appears to be a bro code conflict)!?!?
So my choices are:
1. Do nothing. He will find out the deal when she tells him thus I will be honoring my promise to keep a secret.
2. Tell My original Ace so that he can be prepared for what's coming. Of course I will be blowing up the relationship between my Ace's girl and the wannabe divorced chick but yeah, whatever.
If this is all too confusing I will redo and give folks alias.
********** "Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
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legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80181 posts
Tue Aug-18-15 02:47 PM
16. "mail him a chik-fil-a letter... Sheez guna dee force yuu burrruh!" In response to Reply # 15 Tue Aug-18-15 02:48 PM by legsdiamond
eat mor phish
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
17. "Every time I've heard this, it was the lady that said it who was cheatin..." In response to Reply # 13
>She says she thinks he is cheating but we know it isn't true
Seriously. Projection is real. At least put the bug in your homey's ear that he should make sure everything is on the up-and-up and to protect his neck.
legsdiamond Member since May 05th 2011 80181 posts
Tue Aug-18-15 07:00 PM
19. "yup, and if she aint cheating she got someone on deck" In response to Reply # 17
**************** TBH the fact that you're even a mod here fits squarely within Jag's narrative of OK-sanctioned aggression, bullying, and toxicity. *shrug*
they'd been together 9 years, but i knew he didn't want her anymore. i just told him he needed to break it off sooner than later and he did within a month. now he's with a new woman that he really likes.
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