5. "Haha! No it most definitely ain't! lol" In response to Reply # 4
But to answer your question, I'm going through it now.
I typed out all this shit, but was way too long. Super short version:
His grandma died recently. She raised him and I know he's hurting but he's being so...unkind and inconsiderate now. His actions are starting to affect me and while I love him very much, I don't know if I should stick around for this. I should state that I've seen this type of behavior in him before...it was the reason we broke up the first time.
I feel me breaking up with him will have me looking evil and unkind. Don't want to contribute to more hurt.
_______________________________ Maintain chill at all times.
not sure if this is what you mean, but i was about to break up with my first adult boyfriend but 9-11 happened and i was scared so i postponed it. but we ended up staying together for another year and some after that.
12. "he'd taken a management position in a new dept..." In response to Reply # 0
rather stressful limited availability i thought to ride it out. if i've been given a reason why, i can tolerate all the whatever but i said fuck that and peace'd out.