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Otto
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"fuck abortion."


  

          



today,
a pregnant
woman referred
to herself as,
"us".

  

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Subject Author Message Date ID
Disclaimer.
Oct 02nd 2004
1
took it.
Oct 03rd 2004
4
      to each his own
Oct 05th 2004
59
RE: fuck abortion.
Oct 03rd 2004
2
uh huh
Oct 03rd 2004
3
CoSign
Oct 04th 2004
9
so what if a person gets raped
Oct 03rd 2004
5
RE: so what if a person gets raped
lovelife12
Oct 04th 2004
6
      tru tru
Oct 04th 2004
7
           rape
BEGUILED
Oct 04th 2004
8
           this is old, but, here:
Oct 04th 2004
19
                beautiful loni,
Oct 04th 2004
24
                     funny thing is that i don't feel that way
Oct 04th 2004
46
           instant!
Oct 04th 2004
10
                but...
Oct 04th 2004
11
                     RE: you know..
Oct 04th 2004
18
                          bartek,
Oct 04th 2004
22
                               so adding on to this...
Oct 04th 2004
23
From A Woman's Point Of View...
Oct 04th 2004
12
RE: From A Woman's Point Of View...Pt.2: Otto
Oct 04th 2004
25
      youre right, its extremely
Oct 04th 2004
26
      SOMETHING FOR THE MEN
Oct 05th 2004
49
           he had the sex,
Oct 05th 2004
56
RE: fuck abortion.
Oct 04th 2004
13
ladies...
Oct 04th 2004
14
when you debate with morals alone
Oct 04th 2004
15
      cosign.
Oct 04th 2004
17
      cosign on hunuh...
Oct 04th 2004
21
      morals
Oct 04th 2004
20
      from religion to religion
Oct 04th 2004
29
           RE: from religion to religion
Oct 04th 2004
30
                are we understanding that...
Oct 04th 2004
34
                i have a paper to write, but i will refute this today,
Oct 04th 2004
36
                ps fone...
Oct 04th 2004
38
                Otto...
Oct 04th 2004
43
                     here i show the pipe, the tug, the arrogance:
Oct 04th 2004
45
                          you can read...
Oct 05th 2004
48
                               arrogant people dont apologize
Oct 05th 2004
53
                               no sir, you are wrong...by the way (taken me out of con
Oct 05th 2004
57
                we pick & we choose...
Oct 04th 2004
39
                     you are right,
Oct 04th 2004
41
                ^^^ u never addressed this.
Oct 06th 2004
96
                     RE: ^^^ u never addressed this. im wurking on that now
Oct 06th 2004
98
                          no problem...
Oct 06th 2004
100
                               THE LONG AWAITED REBUTTLE!
Oct 06th 2004
110
                i'll be honest
Oct 05th 2004
50
                     doesnt living life, paperdoll,
Oct 05th 2004
54
                          exactly, "logical to me"..
Oct 05th 2004
63
      oh wow....you made it plain.
Oct 06th 2004
86
*nods* nm
Oct 05th 2004
71
i really like the simplicity
Oct 04th 2004
16
Fire In Which You Burn...
Oct 04th 2004
33
      word up.
Oct 05th 2004
74
wow
Adventures With A Magical Guitar
Oct 04th 2004
27
co-sign
Oct 04th 2004
28
      i don't like the approach...
Oct 04th 2004
32
           it is immoral, you are right, hence the disclaimer...
Oct 04th 2004
35
                let he who is without sin...
Oct 04th 2004
37
                     so you quote this to me as if to be casting the first s
Oct 04th 2004
40
                     i didn't mean to be cryptic:
Oct 04th 2004
44
                          but all you are doing is expanding the argument
Oct 05th 2004
55
                     RE: let he who is without sin...
Oct 04th 2004
42
bottom line:
Oct 04th 2004
31
there are more factors to having an abortion than
Oct 04th 2004
47
      controversy!
Oct 05th 2004
51
           the first month there is no heart or lungs
Oct 05th 2004
52
                RE: the first month there is no heart or lungs
Oct 05th 2004
58
                     RE: the first month there is no heart or lungs
Oct 05th 2004
62
                          RE: the first month there is no heart or lungs
Oct 05th 2004
64
                               i am sincerely interested in learning
Oct 05th 2004
65
                                    ( ( (Just Sharing ) ) )
Oct 05th 2004
70
are folks reading the disclaimer?
Oct 05th 2004
60
do they really ever? nm
Oct 05th 2004
73
Coin Flip --
Oct 05th 2004
61
RE: Coin Flip --
Oct 05th 2004
67
      That's Right -- You're In England (UK) -- ;^)
Oct 05th 2004
68
           like i said.. it's such a heavy subject
Oct 05th 2004
69
my take on it....
Oct 05th 2004
66
i can read this for what this is... ur view/ur opinion
Oct 05th 2004
72
So Far -- 322 VIEWS -- *sheeesh*
Oct 05th 2004
75
you'll make a great mother someday photo. n/m
Oct 06th 2004
79
mann... no offense but...
Oct 05th 2004
76
blah & offense taken
Oct 05th 2004
77
      RE: blah & offense taken
Oct 05th 2004
78
      i agree with paperdoll, but...
Oct 06th 2004
80
      we're not talking about mothers, we're talking about wo
Oct 06th 2004
81
      consider this:
Oct 06th 2004
83
      bad choice of words creates tension
Oct 06th 2004
85
           RE: bad choice of words creates tension--i agree
Oct 06th 2004
92
      Cosign!!!!!!
Oct 06th 2004
87
      when i was 9 i asked my father about this topic
Oct 06th 2004
89
           on a spiritual level
Oct 06th 2004
94
                are you a christian?
Oct 06th 2004
99
                sex inside marraige
Oct 06th 2004
111
                     indeed put the point i was making is that
Oct 07th 2004
114
      COSIGN AND COMMENTARY
Oct 06th 2004
82
           LOOK AT WHAT U JUST SAID....
Oct 06th 2004
84
           man...
Oct 06th 2004
91
                my friend,
Oct 06th 2004
95
                     otto...
Oct 06th 2004
109
It's NOT Funny --
Oct 06th 2004
88
RE: It's NOT Funny --
Oct 06th 2004
90
      RE: It's NOT Funny --
Oct 06th 2004
93
           *points finger to chair to sit down*
Oct 06th 2004
108
                RE: *points finger to chair to sit down*
Oct 07th 2004
115
RE: All this is getting on my nerves...nm
Oct 06th 2004
97
"u are not alone" (c) michael jackson
Oct 06th 2004
101
I'm gonna be sick....
Oct 06th 2004
102
"we HOPE someone wants this little african american bab
lovelife12
Oct 06th 2004
103
I Love What U Said Right Here --
Oct 06th 2004
106
i read the disclaimer
Oct 06th 2004
104
and i use "you" loosely n/m
Oct 06th 2004
105
      the funny thing is...
Oct 06th 2004
107
           cosign on every word here...
Oct 07th 2004
112
           how is the title's pertinance tenuous?
Oct 07th 2004
116
                i think the funny thing is...
Oct 07th 2004
118
The title is a "BOLD" statement
Oct 07th 2004
113
these questions are irrelevant...
Oct 07th 2004
117
a public apology/ & archive request
Oct 07th 2004
119
Co-Sign For Archival --
Oct 07th 2004
120
3rd request for archive
Oct 07th 2004
122
all respect i ever had for you just trippled
Oct 07th 2004
123
RE: fuck abortion.
Oct 07th 2004
121
i dont know enough about stem cell...
Oct 07th 2004
124

Otto
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1. "Disclaimer."
In response to Reply # 0


  

          

i hate to use the eff word, but its the only one strong enough to get my point across...take it or leave it...

-Otto

  

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Revolt
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4. "took it."
In response to Reply # 1


          

absorbed it.
loved it.


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of existing
instead of being

i am
nothing,
nothing at all." © Morehouse




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© Castro



"...i'm always longing, so imagine what kind of miles i'm logging on my pen..."
© Otto

"I scare white people" © Ababa

"I can't read Canadian" © BigReg




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robynwildchild
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59. "to each his own"
In response to Reply # 4


  

          

an interesting point well taken
but us
is all of us an endearing moment
where a women shares not only her body with another spirit yet to be had
but her child

to each his own opinion and to every situation there is a circumstance ...
do what one wills to be true..

peace otto.. mr. provokateur du jour

~~~~~~~~ luv R.
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cities need fewer shopping malls and more skat

  

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blankthought
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2. "RE: fuck abortion."
In response to Reply # 0


  

          

Simple and short, yet powerful and intelligent. I like it.

set my watch 5 minutes fast/ cause your smile puts a pause on the past/ presently taking me by surprise

  

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3. "uh huh"
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that's deep

yeah peeps use it has a form of birth control.. fucckem!!!!!!!!


anything for money..

-lol I write battle verses to Mariah Carey songs...

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through something more powerful than the flesh~revion

rules are for those that need structure
discipline is for the anal retentive and power hungry
repeated tests are the only thing of which i speak
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You have been sustaining yourself on the gruel of self-destruction for so long your stomach rejects the ambrosia of life
While the hero of your mind stands by without action while the monster of your emotions sever friendship like arteries under the knife~PG

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trace the edges of this room
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or pretend to be oblivious
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I was wayward child
With the weight of the world
That I held deep inside
Life was a winding road
And I learned many things
Little ones shouldn't know

CHORUS
But I closed my eyes
Steadied my feet on the ground
Raised my head to the sky
And though time's rolled by
Still feel like that child
As I look at the moon
Maybe I grew up
A little too soon

VERSE 2
Funny how one can learn
To grow numb to the madness
And block it away
I left the worst unsaid
Let it all dissipate
And I try to forget

chorus (above)

BRIDGE
Nearing the edge
Oblivious I almost
Fell right over
A part of me
Will never be quite able
To feel stable
That woman-child feeling inside
Was on the verge of fading
Thankfully I
Woke up in time

VERSE 3
Guardian angel I
Sail away on an ocean
With you by my side
Orange clouds roll by
They burn into your image
And you're still alive
(You're always alive)

chorus
*****
I always thought that if i sifted through the rummage I would reveal something as prescious as the love that I possess, and I could prove that real love exists
with a luster so real that it has a "high pitch"
and it's rays would beam illiminate and spread
so it could become a trend
and we would all be human again~me


the colors were NEVER accurate!and people dont go thru people!


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9. "CoSign"
In response to Reply # 3


  

          

n/m

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Instant Axis
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5. "so what if a person gets raped"
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and gets preggo....are they supposed to keep a rapists baby...i dont know...you kinda gotta look at all aspects of that realm...im not for abortion myself but sometimes things happen that shouldnt.

fuck a sig!!!


why MiracleRic thinks me and him clic aight, here's the reason, u real with yours, i am once i bring my guard down, we both stupid as hell, we both got our talents, want a lot of the same things, like a lot of the same things, we both

  

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lovelife12

Mon Oct-04-04 05:11 AM

  
6. "RE: so what if a person gets raped"
In response to Reply # 5
Mon Oct-04-04 05:17 AM

          

its her baby too...
?


(not necessarily disagreeing with you, just sayin)

  

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Instant Axis
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7. "tru tru"
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you right on that but to have to go 9 months know how you got pregnant...that could drive a shorty insane in my eyes...just having flashbacks and everytime you see your child being raped might be popping up in the back of your mind...i mean...like i said...im not for abortion but that is a serious thing to have to decide after being raped.

fuck a sig!!!


why MiracleRic thinks me and him clic aight, here's the reason, u real with yours, i am once i bring my guard down, we both stupid as hell, we both got our talents, want a lot of the same things, like a lot of the same things, we both

  

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BEGUILED

Mon Oct-04-04 05:46 AM

  
8. "rape"
In response to Reply # 7


          

I know of someone who was raped and knocked up afterwards.
She kept the baby because she saw it as a gift and chance to be a mother for this child.
I don't think I or anyone for that matter can really apreciate the intensity of what it would take to go there.
I know that I feel torn, I agree with choice however it isn't one I could thoughtfully make.

~beguiled~

  

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19. "this is old, but, here:"
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The Journey

Crawling, in her skin, she
somehow found a reason in which
to go on with her life.
Explaining, to those surrounding her-
-How her life would not be in vain.

Tiptoeing through her nightmares
She put a picket fence up,
To guard her as she would sleep.
To keep the foetus safe,
From the harm of its mothers demons.

She walks most days
With a confident stride,one hand upon
A bump, longing to be freed.
Waiting, for a companion
To help her along her uncompromising road.

The baby shuffles towards a mother
Who is not scared of what she created--
No longer fearful for what the child contains
At peace that, the child holds half herself,
And half a demon she must help restrain.

*********

Not everything is as difficult as you want to make it.

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Otto
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24. "beautiful loni,"
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and im not just saying that cuz its in agreement with how i feel. t'was very poetic...

-Otto

  

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46. "funny thing is that i don't feel that way"
In response to Reply # 24


  

          

and never have done.

but i appreciate what others think and their choices

*********

Not everything is as difficult as you want to make it.

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Otto
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10. "instant!"
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my brother, a baby, a fetus, that is a life, just as u dont kill the woman who was raped, you dont kill that life either!

-Otto

  

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Otto
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11. "but..."
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i respect your pennsive sentiments deeply, at least you think about things man....thats something that cannot be said for most.

-Otto

  

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BarTek
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18. "RE: you know.."
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otto, as males, we don't have a right to discuss this. also, you have never been violated by rape, and you cannot possibly think, that you understand the experience, in a position where you can "order" that women to your opinion. shrug.

peace.

let's play ping pong ■

  

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Otto
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22. "bartek,"
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my friend, my brother...as human beings we do have a right to discuss this, for tis our seed...people forget i think that it takes two to make a baby!

-Otto

  

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Otto
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23. "so adding on to this..."
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if a male can have a say sometimes, and the outcome be that murder is wrong, how can you splitt hairs and say murder is wrong, sometimes...because murder is murder...

-Otto

  

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Chaste_Souls
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12. "From A Woman's Point Of View..."
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it's easy for men to say what should be done in this instance, but you will never know how that situation will be because you're not made to get pregnant.

A woman can get raped, have a disease the raper is unaware of or have a situation that will kill her if she has the baby.

There are many problems that may be life renching for a woman who may consider Abortion and yes, this is a murder no matter how we look at it. Men can never find out how being pregnant under certain conditions and to make a life decision as this.


Now, this girl I know had 8 abortions and this is not explainable.

  

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Chaste_Souls
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25. "RE: From A Woman's Point Of View...Pt.2: Otto"
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Your short read led to a wide discussion my man.


In any case if a mother gives birth instead of choosing abortion should of course let the father get full custody. She will hurt later when her child becomes an adult and wishes to not be happy to see her, but atleast she let him or her live.

Also some women try to trap a man to be with them by setting him up and having his baby. Setup, the man in turns asks that woman to have an abortion because he isn't ready to be a father. She have's the baby anyway to keep him around and to collect child support.

To me having a baby is a deep thing than most would think in my eye's. I gots to be in love and have tight communication with my man to go that extreme of giving birth for the first time in my life. It's no joke.


C_S

  

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Otto
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26. "youre right, its extremely"
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important that all things are consisdered before shacking up...people play too much.

-Otto

  

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Chaste_Souls
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49. "SOMETHING FOR THE MEN"
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If you had sex with a girl just to get your groove off and she didn't tell you that she clipped your condom. Now, she is pregnant.

Question: Would you want her to have that baby?

She wanted to make a trap him attack, secretly.


Answer this for me because there is a guy right now who has be done that way and he's blind to what this woman is trying to do.

  

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Otto
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56. "he had the sex,"
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he has the baby...cause and effect, the effect is the consequence of the cause...

-Otto

  

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13. "RE: fuck abortion."
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tomorrow
a woman with stretched skin
and eyes to match
will
refer to her child
as 'burden'
& we who judge
will shake our heads in disgust
not understanding
the full term
of motherhood.

or perhaps

tomorrow will bring a day
when women who aren't ready
to carry the title of mother
can drop off child support checks
to single fathers
once a month
in the mail
stamped
with approval
by society.

maybe then 'we'
can discuss 'us'
on the same level.
---
wwatd? → → →

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Otto
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14. "ladies..."
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u are right, a man can never understand the joys and pains of pregnancy from a womans point of view. but every man and every woman as rational being have the faculty to discern what is moral. my point has been conceded, that it IS murder. there are always reasons one may come up with to justify what is immoral, but that doesnt make the action any more moral...

rebuttles welcome...

-Otto

  

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15. "when you debate with morals alone"
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then you open the floor to a world of possibilities

because my morals may be different from yours.

i may see bringing a child into this world only to torture him/her his/her whole life...as immoral.

i may see bringing a child into extreme poverty, or into an unideal situation like aids or drug addict parents...as immoral.

slaves killed their children, to protect them from having to live their horrors...

i can't condone or condemn cause my morals my not be their god's law.

all i can do is live this life that i'm given. & hope when time comes for me to make decisions for my life, i will make the ones that are best.

murder isn't always blk & white. it comes in the gray shades like capital punishment and then of course --->sexual/physical/mental abuse and rape and being born and bred to be nothing more than a drug abuser or drug dealer....its that type of murder that last a life time, which probably hurts more.

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17. "cosign."
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thank u for responding so eloquently to a debate that so often ends in fuck you.

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21. "cosign on hunuh..."
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-Otto

  

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20. "morals"
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have a sanction, they are not arbitrary, soley because you recognize something as moral does not make it moral, this term is called ad hominem...just becuase you say something is so, does not whatsoever make it so. read immanueal kant,john stuart mill, aristotle, and socrates....what you recognize as moral is not necessary something that is moral. morals revovle around an Idea, or someting that is unchanging and unnegotioable. hell, you can say torturing a baby is wrong, but why, is it wrong just because u say it is, and how can u say torturing a baby is wrong in that a baby is a victim or circumstance but not recognize the fact that killing that baby is far worse. happines is what morals are all about. it is empirical fact that just because you feel like doing something doesnt make it moral...therefore, to promote the greatest happiness of both parties in reference to decision making and actions, you cannot treat anyone else as a means, but as an end. a life is an end in itself, so you could not be fully happy by treating that life of fetus as a means to your own happiness if it is at the cost of "another's" happiness....this is not moral....and furthermore, evidence of past action shows that in killing that baby YOU YOURSELF would not be truly happy, there is a thing called conscience...all people act in a manner that will merit happiness. period. you are debating me because you want to win, winning would make you happy....therefore, you must consider the happiness of things before you act...and i use "you" here, generically...thanks, keep it going...

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29. "from religion to religion"
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to country to country
to culture to culture

morals change.
standards change.
defintions of 'right & wrong' change.
philosophical viewpoints change.

therefore morals are not a universal predetermined law of the land...or of the spirit...or of one's life.

every great thinker you named was merely a man with opinions that someone(s) deemed as profound.

(& then again i had to laugh at seeing the word morals debated with aristotle and socrates names attached...because judging from their era, how 'moral' would we deem their ways of living today?)

you ask me how i can make a comparison of murder to abuse? because both deal with death, whether it be a death before a physical life has begun or whether it is an 18 year long killing of a spirit.

how can you measure which one is worse?

people argue about abortion as if it were as simple as just debating it.

instead of trying to win a debate(which in my opinion, can never be won), i'm trying to open the floor to alternate views...

not as cut and dry as spelling out the word.

there are circumstances to every story, and that is the point i'm trying to make.

my opinion is, i will not be there to raise or save a child from growing up in an unwanted home, therefore i can not make that decision for that woman.

if it were up to me, all the people opposing abortions, i'd put on a list as potential adoption parents. so it could be a win win situation..and we could all live in a moral-perfect eutopia.

i say this all in peace.
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30. "RE: from religion to religion"
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the focal point of religion is God. Therfore, God is the sanctioning body of morals. If your religion is that there is no god, then your morals based on that which is material, and therfore fleeting. There is only one religion which is a path in itself to god. We will see which on that is when we die. Therefore, only one set of morals can be true, those which coincide with how the real God laid them out. People, as i've said over and over, can call moral anything they want, doesnt make it such. People can call a tree a god, and form a religion out of it, doesnt make that tree god. People can justify murder, doesnt make murder any less immoral...it doesnt matter who has had what circumstance, i say fuck abortion because it is murder. rape is immoral, but so is murder, being the victim of one act of immorality doesnt cancel the other out, making it void of immorality. this debate is winnable, every man and woman must look within themselves using their faculties of reason to the fullest degree, the truth is their, it lies in the form of peace...look totally within yourself with honesty and tell me killing someone sometimes is okay "depending on the circumstances"...the truth is, that baby is a someone...

-Otto








>to country to country
>to culture to culture
>
>morals change.
>standards change.
>defintions of 'right & wrong' change.
>philosophical viewpoints change.
>
>therefore morals are not a universal predetermined law of
>the land...or of the spirit...or of one's life.
>
>every great thinker you named was merely a man with opinions
>that someone(s) deemed as profound.
>
>(& then again i had to laugh at seeing the word morals
>debated with aristotle and socrates names attached...because
>judging from their era, how 'moral' would we deem their ways
>of living today?)
>
>you ask me how i can make a comparison of murder to abuse?
>because both deal with death, whether it be a death before a
>physical life has begun or whether it is an 18 year long
>killing of a spirit.
>
>how can you measure which one is worse?
>
>people argue about abortion as if it were as simple as just
>debating it.
>
>instead of trying to win a debate(which in my opinion, can
>never be won), i'm trying to open the floor to alternate
>views...
>
>not as cut and dry as spelling out the word.
>
>there are circumstances to every story, and that is the
>point i'm trying to make.
>
>my opinion is, i will not be there to raise or save a child
>from growing up in an unwanted home, therefore i can not
>make that decision for that woman.
>
>if it were up to me, all the people opposing abortions, i'd
>put on a list as potential adoption parents. so it could be
>a win win situation..and we could all live in a
>moral-perfect eutopia.
>
>i say this all in peace.
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>wwatd? →
>→
>→
>
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34. "are we understanding that..."
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...even the men you evoke from beyond the grave to sanction & cosign yr beliefs did not fashion their concepts of morality around theism?

Kant believed morality was abt reason. Mill believed it was abt happiness for all. Aristotle believed God was a concept, an idea...a state of perfection where all one's doings were activity, rather than process (ie ends in themselves which brought happiness, & pleasure as a part of it). God is completely out of the picture for all those three thinkers. i've studied those men & their beliefs...& as wise as some of the principles they laid down were...i still find their knowledge & wisdom to be finite & flawed in certain respects.

the fact that they contradict w/ each other ALSO presents a problem for yr case. if reason, ie a good will is what is moral, then something done for any reason other than simple adherence to morality is IMMORAL, said Kant. if a pregnant mother had her child b/c she wanted to, Kant would call that immoral. Mill believed that the greatest happiness should be sought, but he never gave a formula for it. that meant that it was ambiguous & ethereal...one could never settle for certain on a "greatest overall happiness". claiming that the killing of a fetus (especially early on in pregnancy, when it barely thinks or feels) would produce more unhappiness than allowing a rapist's spawn to grow, live & be a burden to itself, its' mother & its father...would be a very weak argument, & i'm sure Mill would be likely to disagree w/ you. his theory actually was seen to be somewhat cruel at times, b/c it was no respecter of persons -- each person's happiness meant as much as the next person's, and a fetus, which arguably would not have developed faculties of feeling by the time initial pregnancy is detected...wouldn't be able to experience the depth of unhappiness the pregnant mother would. & now Aristotle; Aristotle did not believe in rules, or absolutes. he believed in experience; empirical bodies of knowledge. he would say that a good life was one where you performed yr function as a human well, ie reasoned to the best of yr ability. how do you tell if a specific act is right/right? Aristotle says the only possible way is to ask those who are virtuous, who have lived good lives by functioning well. now in that case if we were to do that, the criteria for the virtuous person would be those w/ large bodies of empirical experience & that would be highly debatable. then determining who has reasoned/functioned well would be another debate. the discussion would be never-ending, & the opinions garnered from our investigations...

at best, "plethora" would describe them.

are we seeing a pattern here?

appeal to the towering pillars of ethics & morality sounds very nice on paper, but carrying them out...especially w/out deciding to adhere to a particular one...

*shaking head*.

"every great thinker you named was merely a man" (c) paper.

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36. "i have a paper to write, but i will refute this today,"
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write, and after i sleep...here is my question though man, how come u choose now to read and respond to one of my pieces? was it the title that drew u in, perhaps? i shall refute later my friend...

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38. "ps fone..."
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i hope u know that u are taking my words out of context, and it'd be wise to put them back....read everyone elses arguments, and apply what i said to the contexts presented...you pretend that you have a pipe and a white beard to tug and puff while your intellect supercedes mine, but it doesnt, you are twisting what i say to make yourself appear wise....i sincerely resent this.

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43. "Otto..."
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if you can show me where i "pretended to have a pipe...etc etc" or made the claim that my intellect superceded yrs, please let me know. i'd be happy to correct it. otherwise, you misinterpreted & misunderstood me. it seems i'm not the only one misconstruing...

let's set each other straight.

my intentions are never to stir up resentment or bitterness. you attacked paperdoll's view (not paperdoll herself) rather passionately, & i did the same to yr view. why am i in the wrong?

it's funny, b/c i agree w/ yr point (i'm not a fan of baby killing, though i do believe society owes much more to its women, in order to give them more of a choice - eg. birth control is still not covered by health insurance)...it's just i don't agree w/ the manner in which you make it.

ps:

i am a 21yr old child w/ a chest infection. i have no airs to put on, nor any air w/ which to do so. no beard & pipe over here, brother...

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45. "here i show the pipe, the tug, the arrogance:"
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"*shakes head*..."

read ur post, that's the conclusion...and what about all the references to "we" "are we seeing a pattern here" who is we man, you meant to be vindictive in those instances, vindictiveness is based on arrogance...

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48. "you can read..."
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one thing as arrogance, while another person may read it as a simple "no, it doesn't pan out". this is why i shook my head. perhaps you should ask what the person meant by the guesture, rather than assume? this is the internet, where ambiguous text can be interpreted in so many ways. isn't this why, even you have to edit yr text w/ qualifiers like...

"therefore, you must consider the happiness of things before you act...and i use "you" here, generically" ???

are "we" seeing a pattern here, was used in the same way that it was used here...

"There is only one religion which is a path in itself to god. WE will see which on that is when WE die."

to address the general audience. when i was addressing you in particular, Otto, i used you. when i addressed myself, yrself & all that were reading, i used the general "we". if yr use of that same word...was a vindictive one, then i guess so was mine. i meant nothing more than you did. once again...why is it so difficult to ask, rather than presume knowledge of my intentions beforehand?

edit: to be honest, i think no other statement in this entire thread has been as arrogant as this..."you meant to be vindictive in those instances". that you presume to not only perfectly understand, but even divine my aims/goals/intentions from my use of an ambiguous pronoun?

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53. "arrogant people dont apologize"
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if ive misundertood, forgive me. i will address your lengthy post yet...i have work to do for school, so i cannont allow the time sufficient to address all of it at the moment in seeing that your argument is valid. but i do have in my head, that which will refute.

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57. "no sir, you are wrong...by the way (taken me out of con"
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(you seem to do that to me a lot)


when i said "WE will see which on that is when WE die.."

my use of the word WE was plural and universal, it included myself. Yours on the other hand, "are we seeing a pattern here"
was used to include everyone but myself, in seeing that it refferred to your assertation that supposedly i bend facts on paper to fit my argument...am i wrong or am i right? to exclude me, in in its context, was a bit of snobbery, at least that is what i got from it...wheter u meant it that way or not, thats what i got, and the reason i qualify my words is because of the ambiguity factor, maybe that should be considered when you write...or maybe it shouldnt, this country is free...but in debating through gentlemanly means, which i applaud you for exercising, it'd be best to qualify, i think...so i dont think you can not say totally that there was no arrogance in your post, because assuming that i'd totally understand your tone is, i would argue, a bit arrogant in itself....

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39. "we pick & we choose..."
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a lot of times, it's arbitrary.

i've a piece on the board right now, it's been there for 3 & a half weeks...yr name isn't under it, brother, lol.

i've responded to much of yr work; mostly before you blew up & become recognized across the board. i tend to support ppl when i feel they need it from me...& then, when they have legions behind them, i fade back into the forest...searching for another anon, struggling for a little shine.

*shrug*

plus i prefer pieces that take thought to generate, rather than pieces that generate thought. not to say that yrs is either. this is just how i am...& that bias guides a lot of my responding.

you won't see my name below many haikus...*chuckle*

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41. "you are right,"
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my name is not under you piece, and i apologize...i ll check it tomorrow, as soon as i can! i am not as good a responder as i should be...again, i apologize.

-otto

  

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96. "^^^ u never addressed this."
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98. "RE: ^^^ u never addressed this. im wurking on that now"
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just want my words to reflect accurately what i feel...and believe, and what is true...

i had two tests today, one in biology and one in U.S. history, i went to bed at two in the morning last night, after studying for six hours, then got up four hours later to study at six am for another four hours...so i havent had too much time, thanks for bearing with me...

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110. "THE LONG AWAITED REBUTTLE!"
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>...even the men you evoke from beyond the grave to sanction
>& cosign yr beliefs did not fashion their concepts of
>morality around theism?






Kant: "
>
>Kant believed morality was abt reason. Mill believed it was
>abt happiness for all. Aristotle believed God was a concept,
>an idea...a state of perfection where all one's doings were
>activity, rather than process (ie ends in themselves which
>brought happiness, & pleasure as a part of it).

God is
>completely out of the picture for all those three thinkers.

NOT TRUE!

Mill: Mill discusses God quite regularly in his book on the utilitarian ethics. He treats god anthropomorphically meaning that there is a sense of god consciously making decisions...like man. Mill argues that if we do that which is opposition to god, we are not at one with god. If we act against god, we act against ourselves. Mill alludes to the fact that faith is the definition of walking with god.

“The whole force therefore of external reward and punishment, whether physical or moral, and whether proceeding from God or from our fellow men, together with all of the capacities of human nature admit of disinterested devotion together, become available to enforce the utilitarian morality...” Conscience for instance, a mother kills she has a conscience about it.... should indicate what is immoral according to Mill...notice the reference to God.


KANT: Kant argues in the opening preface and chapter of groundwork that Faith supercedes reason, and that God’s will is revealed through reason. On the basis of the fact that Kant’s entire argument is on reason as you conceded, than reason ultimately as Kant said leads back to god, so his whole argument is based indirectly on God! There are many parallels between Kant and mill in this respect. you tried to make it look like i pulled their names out of a hat because you said that they all had diametrically opposing views, but Mill argues too that: “I answer that a utilitarian who believes in the perfect goodness and wisdom of god, necessarily believes that whatever God has thought fit to reveal on the subject of morals, must fulfil the requirements of utility in a supreme degree.” Kant, is considered to be a Christian philosopher in many seminaries ...

Mill is not a Christian per se, nor affiliated with any religion known to me, but still exercises recognition of God or the possibility of his existence...

ARISTOTLE:

Aristotle says that happiness is “God-given” because it comes from virtue, which is a “god-like” thing. If his whole argument, in parallel to mill, is based on something (happiness) which is based on god, than the root of his argument, is God! Direct quote: “Happiness seems to be among the most godlike things.”








> if reason, ie a good will is what is
>moral, then something done for any reason other than simple
>adherence to morality is IMMORAL, said Kant. if a pregnant
>mother had her child b/c she wanted to, Kant would call that
>immoral.

..kant says not this, you are taking the total argument out of context, he says this: "Act in such a way that you always treat humanity, whether in your own person or in the person of any other, never simply as a mean, but always at the same time as an end."

He also says: "Act always on that maxim whose universality as a law you can at the same time will."

so the pregnant woman having the baby because she felt like it would not be immoral, according to Kant because that action is a law which can be willed for all mothers, to have their baby. on the contrary if abortion was a universal law in that it was desired among all mothers, there would be no human race, therefore in going with this premise, abortion is inconceivable.









Mill believed that the greatest happiness should be
>sought, but he never gave a formula for it. that meant that
>it was ambiguous & ethereal...one could never settle for
>certain on a "greatest overall happiness". claiming that the
>killing of a fetus

(especially early on in pregnancy, when
>it barely thinks or feels)






but the word you chose, “barely” leaves room for some thinking and feeling no matter how miniscule...abortion would put a stop to that thinking and feeling, Killing it.






would produce more unhappiness
>than allowing a rapist's spawn to grow, live & be a burden
>to itself, its' mother & its father...would be a very weak
>argument, & i'm sure Mill would be likely to disagree w/
>you.

^^saying that mill would agree with you is a weak argument and a weak evidence its merely hearsay, in seeing you dont know him. Mill’s argument would prove aborting a fetus to be detrimental t the over all happiness:

Resorting to abortion is a means to an end. That end being supposed happiness for the woman. But that woman’s happiness would come at an expense, this being, the woman knowing that she has deprived a life from reaching its rull potential. Mill argues that unhappiness results from choosing the nearer happiness, out of convienence when there was the potential for an even greater happiness. therefore, the greatest happiness was not met. the potential in the hypothetical situation we are talking about is that for the mother to receive a blessing through nourishing a life, and seeing it grow...but as mll says: “Men often, from the infirmity of character, make their election for the nearer good, though they know it to be less valuable.” SO maye the nearer good would be that the baby would not haveto suffer knowing that it was a product of rape, but the greater good, and that good which mill argues supercedes all others, is the good that the mother could have...overcome and obstacle of circumstance, making her victory worth more, giving her a sense of satisfaction, and making her efforts worth more. Also, in this, happiness mill argues comes from satisfaction.....the woman has it in her power to overcome that which has happened to her, according to mill, this means there is potential for a greater happiness than abortion, and electing that route, according tomill, would be more moral...

“All the grand sources, in short, of human suffering are in a great degree many of them almost entirely, conquerable by human care and effort.” So whatever pain that they experience is conquerable....according to mill...


“Questions of ultimate ends are not amendable to direct proof. whatever can be proved to be good, must be so by being shown to be a means to something admitted to be good without proof.” you cannot prove therefore, that abortion is good...because maybe even though that woman would be free of a burden, the baby would be forever thrown into the eternity of death, and you cannot prove that death is good because if it were greater than life, why dont we wake up in the morning and kill ourselves, no matte how hard our life is?









his theory actually was seen to be somewhat cruel at
>times, b/c it was no respecter of persons -- each person's
>happiness meant as much as the next person's,


you’re wrong, respectfully i say this....Mill was a respecter of persons: “A person in whom the social feeling is at all developed cannot bring himself to think of the rest of his fellow creatures as struggling rivals with him for the means of happiness, whom he must desire to see defeated in their object in order that he must succeed in his.” In a nutshell, you cannot USE others as means for happiness because their happiness is just as important. I beg to differ with you on the grounds that saying every man has an equal right to be happy, is the argument that typifies what it means to be a respecter of persons. With regard to abortion, to kill a baby for your own happiness is using that baby as a means...this parallels with KANT who says not to treat each other as a means but as ends. You tried to paint it as if the two thinkers were totally different, and they are not.

and a fetus,
>which arguably would not have developed faculties of feeling
>by the time initial pregnancy is detected...wouldn't be able
>to experience the depth of unhappiness the pregnant mother
>would.

...this argument is shallow, you are assuming that there is no after life. And if there is no after life, what is the point of being moral in the first place, and what is the point of this discussion. In assuming there is no after life you are assuming the baby has no soul.....if you concede there is an afterlife, then you concede that the baby can feel....its a tricky one.





Aristotle; Aristotle did not believe in rules,
>or absolutes.


^^YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY SPEAKING TO THE CONTRARY OF WHAT IS TRUE!
“Happiness, then, is something final and self sufficient and is the end of action.” The “end” is an absolute!!!!

Aristotle was one of the very first scientists, and as a scientist he bases argument on fact or ovservation. That which is fact is a rule!

Aristotle speaks of those things which are without qualification...he talks specifically about the things that are familiar to us, like happiness, being familiar without qualification...!




“With a true view, the facts all harmonize, with a false, the facts all clash.”

Lets look at abortion through this perspective....people say that a fetus is not a life, and yet a fetus is the initial foundation of you and i as living, breathing creatures, that “fact” clashes, because we did not come from that which was not living—how then can a fetus not be life? How then can abortion not be murder, in seeing that murder is putting a stop to life? That (saying abortion is not murder), in itself, is another clashing of “fact” with what is reality which means the view is false, according to Aristotle, so you cannot reject my point that Aristotle had relevant things to say!


thanks for giving me the opportunity to exercise my mind and challenge my beliefs, cuz now they are stronger!

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50. "i'll be honest"
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i'm not a scholar.
don't have theories to back up what i believe.
& i'll never take another man's opinion as my own "just because" of reason or logic.

i form my views by living life. because reason puts things in boxes but life doesn't always fit into them sometimes.

thats why this debate can't be 'won'..because no will walk away feeling like they changed the other person's mind.

all i'm doing is giving you an option to see abortion beyond a one sided definition.

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54. "doesnt living life, paperdoll,"
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lead one to reason? and to logic?

...therefore that which you belive, is logical to you.

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63. "exactly, "logical to me".."
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but i used those terms because those are the terms that you keep throwing back at me.

if you reason honestly with yourself...

so when i read that it felt like you were saying i'm not being logical...debating moreso with heart than mind.

but yes, i do agree, my ways of practice have come to be my logic. the way i view things.

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86. "oh wow....you made it plain."
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*golf claps*

I'm not sure I could have done that with the same skill.





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16. "i really like the simplicity"
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and the reaction it brings abt with so little

tho i dont totally agree with it

the length reminds me of el-p when he said some yit like even my silence is a beautiful use of negative space or summn like that

regardless u have poetic license and this was good use of it.


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33. "Fire In Which You Burn..."
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"Even when I say nothing, it's a beautiful use of negative space"

^^^ off Funcrusher Plus

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74. "word up."
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that song is amazing.

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27. "wow"
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asdie from all the debate

that is just.... i'm speechless.

you are a poet

  

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i like the approach you took, brothaman

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32. "i don't like the approach..."
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i could've done w/out the title.

like Otto, i feel that some things are immoral...

his use of language (in the title) is included w/in that list.

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35. "it is immoral, you are right, hence the disclaimer..."
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i am conscious of the fact that the title is immoral...there is no sufficient justificationfor it, simply because in the end, it is immoral, you are right. it pains me to read that title every time i log on...i hate it, actually.

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37. "let he who is without sin..."
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...cast the first stone.

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40. "so you quote this to me as if to be casting the first s"
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...so were u shaken up by 9-11?

why? You sin too.

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44. "i didn't mean to be cryptic:"
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i said it to make the point that...arguing for morality while using immoral vehicles w/ which to prove yr point (a poem, w/ a swear word as its title, even if regretfully so)...is a bit counterproductive. i quoted Jesus, not b/c he viewed all sin as permissible...he detested sin. what he had a problem w/ though was some sin being overlooked while other sin is castigated & raised up, for those who committ them to be punished. i feel the same way abt ppl who lambast homosexuals while they themselves happily engage in heterosexual sex, sans the ring on their finger.

did the Pharisees feel as passionately abt adultery as they did hypocrisy, pride, arrogance, greed?

do you feel as passionately abt abortion as you do cursing, & other acts of immorality you yrself might committ?

this isn't to condemn you at all, but rather to look at where Jesus wanted us to turn our eyes toward, firstly...our own insides.

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55. "but all you are doing is expanding the argument"
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we were talking about abortion, i said it was wrong, and by calling it "a sin" you conceded my point.

Anyway man, Jesus said things which are universal, by calling out my sin, then quoting jesus to me, why dont you consider jesus' words: "why do you point out the speck in you brothers eye and recognize not the plank in your own."

The point is you sin too, and all the while, you think christians who "lamblast homosexuals" (for example only) while they themselves sin is wrong...but in thinking this, and being that you are a sinner, you do the same thing...so i mean we are all hypocrites...but that is not what we are debating.

by the way, how can you call out my own using of profanity when even your own sig proves that you support music with cursing in it, to support on person cursing, and not another is what I am talking about....you cannot say abortion is murder some of the time, and then support it other times...it doesnt add up...thanks for proving my point yet again.


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42. "RE: let he who is without sin..."
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you also, in posting this, conceeded my point that abortion is a sin...

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31. "bottom line:"
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nice poem, well put.

abortion is killing.

if you dont want the baby:

-give the baby to foster parents,

-let someone adopt the baby.

it may be a long process, but in the 'long' run it might help... but still you chose to have unprotected sex, you made that mistake, and you shouldnt kill a baby,YOUR baby, for the mistake you and your 'loved' one made, right or wrong?

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47. "there are more factors to having an abortion than"
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just not wanting the baby.

i don't know if you're male or female but you certainly haven't considered the health risks involved to some women which makes getting pregnant THE most dangerous thing for them to do. I actually know of a woman whose husband had a vesectomy which reversed itself and got her pregnant and she was near death at the birth of her child.

that's fucked up.

besides, in the early stages of a pregnancy the form inside a woman is not recognised as "life"

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51. "controversy!"
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besides, in the early stages of a pregnancy the form inside a woman is not recognised as "life"


woah.. the heart starts beating after a couple of weeks




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rules are for those that need structure
discipline is for the anal retentive and power hungry
repeated tests are the only thing of which i speak
we need to be tested to find out which part of the soul is weak~robynwildchild

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You have been sustaining yourself on the gruel of self-destruction for so long your stomach rejects the ambrosia of life
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I was wayward child
With the weight of the world
That I held deep inside
Life was a winding road
And I learned many things
Little ones shouldn't know

CHORUS
But I closed my eyes
Steadied my feet on the ground
Raised my head to the sky
And though time's rolled by
Still feel like that child
As I look at the moon
Maybe I grew up
A little too soon

VERSE 2
Funny how one can learn
To grow numb to the madness
And block it away
I left the worst unsaid
Let it all dissipate
And I try to forget

chorus (above)

BRIDGE
Nearing the edge
Oblivious I almost
Fell right over
A part of me
Will never be quite able
To feel stable
That woman-child feeling inside
Was on the verge of fading
Thankfully I
Woke up in time

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Guardian angel I
Sail away on an ocean
With you by my side
Orange clouds roll by
They burn into your image
And you're still alive
(You're always alive)

chorus
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and it's rays would beam illiminate and spread
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52. "the first month there is no heart or lungs"
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58. "RE: the first month there is no heart or lungs"
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paperdoll, the very first formation of cells which form have a pulse, one may argue that that is life...


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62. "RE: the first month there is no heart or lungs"
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otto, a dermoid cyst of the ovary is capable of growing hair, teeth, skin, sweat glands, cells from the lining of the lungs, and cartilage...

some could argue that was a "life" too...



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64. "RE: the first month there is no heart or lungs"
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the difference is the cyst doesnt have a pulse...not only do the cells formed in the womb have a pulse, but they are their own pulse...cyst grow off of another pulse....a cyst is a life, but we are talking about human life, and we all know that human life's root is at the pulse...

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65. "i am sincerely interested in learning"
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but i can't find a link that gives me information on cells having a pulse.

like i said i'm no scholar
if you could provide that information i would appreciate the education.

also, you seem to be a fan of thoughts so i found this online:

http://www.2think.org/abortion.shtml

a snippet from “The Question of Abortion: A Search for Answers”
by Carl Sagan and Ann Druyan :

"There is no right to life in any society on Earth today, nor has there been at any former time… : We raise farm animals for slaughter; destroy forests; pollute rivers and lakes until no fish can live there; kill deer and elk for sport, leopards for the pelts, and whales for fertilizer; entrap dolphins, gasping and writhing, in great tuna nets; club seal pups to death; and render a species extinct every day. All these beasts and vegetables are as alive as we. What is (allegedly) protected is not life, but human life.

And even with that protection, casual murder is an urban commonplace, and we wage “conventional” wars with tolls so terrible that we are, most of us, afraid to consider them very deeply… That protection, that right to life, eludes the 40,000 children under five who die on our planet each day from preventable starvation, dehydration, disease, and neglect.

Those who assert a "right to life" are for (at most) not just any kind of life, but for--particularly and uniquely—human life. So they too, like pro-choicers, must decide what distinguishes a human being from other animals and when, during gestation, the uniquely human qualities--whatever they are--emerge.

Despite many claims to the contrary, life does not begin at conception: It is an unbroken chain that stretches back nearly to the origin of the Earth, 4.6 billion years ago. Nor does human life begin at conception: It is an unbroken chain dating back to the origin of our species, hundreds of thousands of years ago. Every human sperm and egg is, beyond the shadow of a doubt, alive. They are not human beings, of course. However, it could be argued that neither is a fertilized egg.

In some animals, an egg develops into a healthy adult without benefit of a sperm cell. But not, so far as we know, among humans. A sperm and an unfertilized egg jointly comprise the full genetic blueprint for a human being. Under certain circumstances, after fertilization, they can develop into a baby. But most fertilized eggs are spontaneously miscarried. Development into a baby is by no means guaranteed. Neither a sperm and egg separately, nor a fertilized egg, is more than a potential baby or a potential adult. So if a sperm and egg are as human as the fertilized egg produced by their union, and if it is murder to destroy a fertilized egg--despite the fact that it's only potentially a baby--why isn't it murder to destroy a sperm or an egg?

Hundreds of millions of sperm cells (top speed with tails lashing: five inches per hour) are produced in an average human ejaculation. A healthy young man can produce in a week or two enough spermatozoa to double the human population of the Earth. So is masturbation mass murder? How about nocturnal emissions or just plain sex? When the unfertilized egg is expelled each month, has someone died? Should we mourn all those spontaneous miscarriages? Many lower animals can be grown in a laboratory from a single body cell. Human cells can be cloned… In light of such cloning technology, would we be committing mass murder by destroying any potentially clonable cells? By shedding a drop of blood?

All human sperm and eggs are genetic halves of "potential" human beings. Should heroic efforts be made to save and preserve all of them, everywhere, because of this "potential"? Is failure to do so immoral or criminal? Of course, there's a difference between taking a life and failing to save it. And there's a big difference between the probability of survival of a sperm cell and that of a fertilized egg. But the absurdity of a corps of high-minded semen-preservers moves us to wonder whether a fertilized egg's mere "potential" to become a baby really does make destroying it murder. "


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70. "( ( (Just Sharing ) ) )"
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This article is actually about "stem cell research" and not abortion -- But it highlights some of the discussion debated on this thread.


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http://www.venturacountystar.com/vcs/cda/article_print/0,1983,VCS_126_3112032_ARTICLE-DETAIL-PRINT,00.html

Cells are people, not experiments
By Scott Nandor
August 15, 2004

The question, "Do you think the U.S. government should lift restrictions on stem-cell research?" actually begs the question and, for the purposes of this commentary, I will assume by "stem cells," it is implying "embryonic stem cells." It begs the question by assuming embryos are not people, since if they are human, then this discussion would not be taking place.

With this in mind, the first question to answer is: "Where are embryonic stem cells obtained?" Embryonic stem cells are taken from human embryos (humans approximately eight days after conception), resulting in the death of the human embryo. The next logical question is: "What is a human embryo?"


Since it is the offspring of people, it would seem to be a person eight days after conception. There are some usual criticisms when embryos are considered people. They can be summarized in the following statements:

"We don't know when life begins." This statement makes two mistakes. The first is, if we do not know when life begins, should we not err on the side of caution?

The second mistake is that it redefines the word "life." After conception, there is no period in which the small organism is not growing. The young person's cells are reproducing within a day and, if allowed to continue growing, she develops the beginnings of her brain and heart before she is 14 days old. If this growing group of cells, which will form into an adult person, is not alive, then what is it?

"Embryos cannot be people because they are not big enough or they are not developed enough." If this is so, then at what size do they become people? Does a human's stature really determine whether or not we are people? What if killing toddlers was the manner in which stem cells needed to be obtained? Most would be horrified, despite the fact that toddlers are small. Therefore, size is not the issue.

"Embryos are not viable, so they can be used." Viability is different for every child. Children develop at different rates. Although no human at the embryonic stage is viable, we protect other forms of life when they are exposed to the world. The eggs of bald eagles, for instance, are protected by law from the time they are laid, despite the fact that at this time, they are not viable. In this law, we find an implicit legislative statement about viability: From the time of conception, we should consider all life as potentially viable if left in their proper natural surroundings. The same could be said for newly conceived humans. Humans at conception are potentially viable and living.

Another question on viability is if people are on life support, can we just kill them and harvest their organs? They are certainly not viable without artificial assistance. We cannot kill an injured or sick human because they need medical attention to survive, but this is what embryonic stem cell research promotes.

"Many of the embryos to be used are going to be discarded anyway, so we should use them for research to help people who want to live." This is very similar to the reasoning that Nazi doctors used to try to justify experiments on Jewish prisoners. The Jews were going to die in the concentration camp anyway, why not try to benefit humanity by doing inhumane tests on them? The world community rejected the use of these experiments on the grounds that no matter what the results, they would not be used because of the method in which they were obtained.

Again back to toddlers, if we could heal millions of people by taking the cells of starving 2-year-old children (which, by the way, would result in their deaths), then should we proceed? Any type of morality that would prey on innocent lives to benefit the strong is inhumane. This is treating humans as a means to an end and not an end in and of themselves. Moral people instead will seek to shelter and help the most vulnerable rather than exploit them. Who is more vulnerable than a newly conceived child?

Besides these reasons, embryonic stem cells are not even necessary for research. Seemingly useful stem cells can be obtained from adults, from umbilical cords and from embryos. Evidence that all three types could be equally useful in research has been obtained. Adult stem cells can be obtained from many different parts of humans. Most tissue, from bone marrow to muscle, can be used without killing a human life. Umbilical cords are a tremendously rich source of stem cells. Each day in our country, enough children are born to provide more than enough stem cells for decades of research. If life begins at conception, then not only does this type of research kill humans, but with the other available stem cells, it is also unnecessary.

In closing, however, let us say for the sake of argument that we really do not know when life begins, it is still an unnecessary risk. We are risking the needless killing of innocent humans if we are wrong about the question; and since we have not exhausted research that we already know does not kill anyone, we have morally regressed into a Machiavellian society that cares little about the weak as long as we get what we want.

-- Scott Nandor lives in Simi Valley.

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60. "are folks reading the disclaimer?"
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i guess there was no way for this one not to be controversial. it's a very sensitive subject, one that many feel men have no right to really speak on and in a way we are displaced from the experience of bearing a child but then if we didnt look at it that way , totally, then maybe it wouldnt be so easy for brothas to dip on there significant other or gf (titles un important).

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61. "Coin Flip --"
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A very interesting & controversial subject / debate you started here Otto! -- ;^)

And far more worthwhile & challenging than my silly Jokie~Joke thread below! -- *chuckles*

But let me throw summthin’ else in the mixxx here:

Statistics –

I did a paper on this subject – Ohhhhh – Roughly about 5 or 6 years ago, maybe – But lets just use some facts & figures to guide us in our reasoning here.

The numbers I’m using are hypothetical – NOT ACCURATE – But just so we can get a general FEEL for what we’re working with here.

Let’s say that 50% of females have had abortions – (That’s half the female population, right?)

And of that 50% -- Let’s say 10-15 percent had abortions due to extenuating circumstances – i.e. Life or Death circumstances – (either for the mother or the baby) – Deformity or retardation ---- Or RAPE ---- (either by a family member, friend of the family, attack/assault by a stranger, or date rape type situations)

So you still have 35% to 40% -- (of the 50% who've had abortions) -- who basically just fucked up! -- ;^\

They made choices that they’re having to deal with – And now they have a choice to either buckle up to their decision to have unprotected sex – Or just get rid of it.

God knows there are parents out there who want the best for their kids – And a large percentage of the girls getting pregnant are UNDER 18 to 21 years of age – Still living under their parent’s roof.

So if the parents have big dreams of their daughters going to college, or making it big in the theater, politics, professional world – You know they ain’t wanting their child to bring another life into the world to set them back! – So parents make up a large percentage of the incentive to get abortions – Cuz they don’t want their daughters’ lives potentially ruined.

Boyfriends, also make up a large percentage of incentives to get rid of babies – Cuz they ain’t tryna be tied down or struggling for the next 18 years – Supporting a child that they DID NOT WANT! So if they have the money – OFTENTIMES, THEY WILL TRY TO COERCE THE GIRL INTO HAVING AN ABORTION.

Sometimes the female herself will decide to choose abortion, just because she’s not ready to bring a life into the world – Possibly because she’s still a baby herself – Whether mentally or biologically – Or because she has places to go – People to see – And things to do – And she ain’t done shit yet! -- *chuckles* -- So she ain’t about to put her life & dreams on hold – To raise a kid that she’s not ready to accept into her lifespace.

There’s even the OVER 40 crew – Who got caught between PMS & menopause – Their mortgages are almost paid up – Their kids are just about grown – If not gone – And they’re ready to travel and enjoy life in their golden years. But quite often fate slaps them with a hearty laugh and THEY become pregnant – Yet they feel like they’ve raised their kids already and they ain’t tryna raise no mo’! They can usually afford abortion with no financial stress or problems.

So let’s just say that the MAJORITY of females seeking abortions have no health problems – They’re not dealing with rape, incest, or life threatening circumstances – They just basically don’t want to have a baby at THAT particular time for whatever reason.

(((It’s not convenient – They can’t afford it – They may wind up losing the love of their life, who don’t want no kids – They have places to go, people to see, and things to do – And a child will just hold them back, etc., etc., etc. – Yadda, Yadda, Yadda –)))

But bottom line – THEY MADE A ‘WRONG’ CHOICE IN THE FIRST PLACE!

So now -- to fix it – They CHOOSE – Abortion! -- *Slappin' a bandaid on a gunshot wound* -- Cuz trust me, God don't bless no mess -- Later on down the line -- The repercussions of their abortion choices will richochet back and shoot them in the foot -- (OR ASS)! -- *LoL*

I ain’t gon’ get too deep into morals -- or religion/spirituality – But I will say this:

God is the ultimate JUDGE of what happens in our lives – Either on this side of the fence – OR THE OTHER SIDE.

HE will be the one to judge us – Our choices -- Our motives – Our logic -- Our reasoning -- Our hearts & minds!

HE knows & understands – More than we’ll EVER know or understand -- (About ourselves even) – And I do believe that he makes his Judgement calls on an individual, per case basis.

So is abortion murder? – YES – I believe so!

This lil’ glob of meat – (embryo) -- has the potential and genetic structure for tiny lungs, a tiny heart, and a tiny brain – AND IT HAS A SOUL! – It IS life – A human being – NOT JUST A GLOB OF FLESH!

But if the choice is made to destroy that life – The judgement will come from GOD!

I cannot judge anyone!

I'm not for abortion by any means -- But I do believe it should be available -- On an individual per case basis -- *Yuuuup*


Also -- I'm not in the mood to argue -- I just wanted to throw in my two cent, aaiight? -- *sad smile*






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67. "RE: Coin Flip --"
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>
>I'm not for abortion by any means -- But I do believe it
>should be available -- On an individual per case basis --
>*Yuuuup*
>
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>Also -- I'm not in the mood to argue -- I just wanted to
>throw in my two cent, aaiight? -- *sad smile*


i'm not arguing with you, and i'm certainly not getting into a debate about what you believe because that is your business and no one else's

howwwwwweverrr...

it's available here on a "per case basis" but... pssssh... i wish i could remember the reasons because they can be so twisted to suit anyone, from a 15 yr old school girl to your corporate high flyer

*shrug*

this is such a heavy subject... i can't even be bothered to say how i feel.

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68. "That's Right -- You're In England (UK) -- ;^)"
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Aaiight then -- I guess if life can be twisted and phucked up -- Then so can the so~called, individual--per case basis decisions made by MAN (be phucked up), huh? -- *shruggs*

I dunnno Loni -- I've had a few family members and close friends get abortions -- But un~4~tunately, I don't feel ANY of them were justified -- Based on my understanding of WHY they were getting them.

I have an older cousin right now -- 37 yrs old -- And she CAN'T have kids -- (She's been married twice and hasn't conceived in either marriage) -- Her abortion was done when she was in her early 20's. She really wants kids badly, but like I said -- Ain't no baking going on in that oven, now -- (And the doc said it ain't HUBBY with the problem) -- *Go Figure*

My best friend had an abortion cuz her boyfriend's parents insisted -- (AND THEY PAID FOR IT!) -- Homeboy was going to college on a full football scholarship -- and his parents wasn't gon' tolerate no setbacks or postpone~ments.

They're not even 2~gether anymore, but she regrets her choice every time she sees a lil' boy or girl around the age HER lil' one would have been had she chosen to have it. (She's also had a lot of therapy behind her decision and attributes insomnia & other psychological malfunctions to her abortion choice) -- *shruggs*

I'm not sure about the individual per case basis stuff -- Considering it can be skewed & twisted by the powers that be -- But it sounded good at the time! -- *chuckles*

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69. "like i said.. it's such a heavy subject"
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filled with sadness..

i just never want to put myself or be put in that situation where i have to make one decision or the other.

i guess there's a lot to be said for if you're not right to bring up kids you shouldn't be fucking.

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66. "my take on it...."
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there is no good reason to have an abortion. Even if it means the mothers life. Ask you average mother whos loves their child.... they would easily give up their's for the sake of that child. Abortion is wrong. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and decisions, but we are all called into judgement by God for our actions. Just my $0.02

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72. "i can read this for what this is... ur view/ur opinion"
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or at least, i'll assume this is your view/your opinion.

u're entitled to it...


as for the poem itself, although short... it's mighty powerful. as you can see the many disagreeing points/questions all because you chose to write about choosing life...

i liked the tone. not too iffy, not too unsure, seems as if the mother knew that's what she wanted.

my mother didn't... actually wanted to abort me, my father... thought otherwise. good poem. great topic... toes will always be stepped on with this one. *nods*

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75. "So Far -- 322 VIEWS -- *sheeesh*"
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I don't care if Otto looked at this thread 100 times (himself) -- that just means it was viewed 222 MORE times by other heads -- And I think that's great! -- *smiles* -- (Bear in mind, I didn't say it was viewed by 222 other people -- But it was viewed 222 times -- Possibly by the same people OVER & OVER AGAIN!) -- ;^)


That's what I like about discussion on this board -- challenging the mind -- Opening the vision -- To see things from different perspectives. As well as sharing your own perspectives -- IF YOU SO DESIRE -- ;^)

The subject matter on this one was a doozie *no doubt* -- But it caused some of us to go researching information -- And that's a good thing.


Good Job Otto -- On the subject -- As well as the flow -- AS WELL AS THE CONVO'S IT'S PROVOKED! -- *wink*

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79. "you'll make a great mother someday photo. n/m"
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76. "mann... no offense but..."
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when i get older and i actually have a wife, i wouldnt want any girl like the some of you out here, i understand u struggle and everything, but its YOUR child, with the loved one you had with, now i dont know if it was your husband or anything but... my mom had trouble with the delivery of me, and it was near death as well with her, but thankfully she loved me enough to risk herself, but shes a live, again thankfully, and you women over here are worrying about yourselves more than your child, whats up with that? damn.

btw orangeloni, im a male...

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77. "blah & offense taken"
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because what you said was meant to hurt. it wasn't an opinion, it was a judgement that you passed on the lives of other people with an opposite view of yours.

if you are against the issue, be against the ISSUE and not the woman arguing over it.

it doesn't make a woman any less of woman because she wants the right to decide what happens to her body/life.

your mother made that decision. no one made it for her, she was allowed to make it.

makes your life that much more special.

you made it to this earth because someone wanted you here. not because someone made her have you.


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78. "RE: blah & offense taken"
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all im saying is...

think about what your about to do before the abortion...

you could have done something soo wonderful by bringing this new life into the world, but instead you prevent it from happening because of yourself...

but maybe its just the type of people we are, no not selfish...

maybe pride, maybe youre too young, maybe your just so damn indecisive... im pretty open minded, but when it comes to babies and toddlers, i want the best for them, and i wouldnt want them going through some things that they shouldnt be, but we all need to go through those challenges... but thats besides the matter, i still think that abortion is dumb, period.

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80. "i agree with paperdoll, but..."
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lemme ask this, we keep speaking about what the mother wants...what about the baby? sucked down a tube, or climbing the latter of life, given a chance? just because times are hard, doesnt mean that baby wont have the drive to make things better....

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81. "we're not talking about mothers, we're talking about wo"
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not all women are meant to be mothers.

and motherhood doesn't begin for all with the fertilizing of an egg.

just as fatherhood doesn't begin with the releasing of sperm.

we are talking about women who aren't ready to be mothers, for which ever reason.

we're talking about a woman who has to make a decision on whether she wants to give up her life for another. because childbirth isn't about losing your figure...its about being ready to live for someone besides yourself.

from birth to death, they will need you in some aspect.

i am a mother by choice. but i'll be damned if i sit here and lie to you and tell you that there aren't some days when i look at my life and wonder where i would have been had i not had them. would i have finished college? been proud of my accomplishments/life? would i have travelled more? sky dived by now?

days when i just want to shower or piss in private. when i want to go see a rated r movie. or sit in a resturant and have dinner without having to rush out because my toddlers are tired of waiting at the table. there are days when i want to design websites because the creative energy in feels like its disappearing and i need to save it, but i can't because someone wants popcorn or fell down and got a rug burn.

there are days when i want to sleep past 6:30 am. and days i want to stay up and watch conan o'brien but i know i gotta get my sleep because tomorrow will be here soon.

and i have a husband to help me. so i can't even imagine what it would have been like it i didn't.

& like i said, i had them by choice. planned them. kept my legs uncrossed for them. by choice. and thats what makes it easier to get up when someone is sick and cries and coughs at 3:00am. makes it easier to deal with teething and potty training and tantrums in the middle of walmart trips.

what if i didn't though? what if i resented having them? would i shake them when they cried/hollered/threw food across the dining room? would i have dropped them off in front of my mother's house, to a grandparent who was too old and too tired to try and raise kids..again? would i teach them their abc's or let the tv run all day and hope they learn from it?

parenthood is so much more than just saying "i love you"...its a fking dedication of breath! every breath that i take, i take for them..cause if i don't keep on living, i fail them.

that right there is why women should have the right to decide if they are ready to have children. (oh god, and why a 14 year old or a 15 year old should have the right to decide.)

and i'm tired of this "you opened your legs" blah blah blah.

well guess what, you dropped outta school, so you can't ever get a g.e.d.

and you failed a class your freshman year cause you were so overwhelmed with freedom, but now you can't ever graduate college.

and you'll never be able to buy or RENT a house, car or sometimes get a "decent" job because you fked up your credit, and there is no such thing as fixing it.

a condom broke, or you got caught up in the heat of the moment, and by mistake you got pregnant...and now what?

deal with it?
you can't abort the child, but sign these papers and stick them in a holding cell called foster home and we HOPE someone wants this little african american baby. hopefully someone at child services will remember their name when they check up on them later on. hopefully when they reach 18 they will make something better of themselves.

some women change when the baby comes.
some women want to be mothers, deep down inside.

and some don't.
and some may one day, but not now.

we could make them have the baby, but we can't make them love the baby. or promise to raise them right.

& 'potential' babies don't just deserve the right to live, they deserve the right to be loved.

perhaps aborted energy gets recycled and reborn into wombs of women who are ready. then again, my 'religion' may be worshipping to the wrong god...so what do i know?

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sex makes babies, you arent ready for a baby, dont have sex, unless you can deal with the consequences honeslty, without coping out, by killing that which you "accidentally" created...and by the way, mothers are women...just as sex has the potential to lead to mother hood, so do women have the potential to be mothers, and so do fetuses have the potential to grow and develop...

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85. "bad choice of words creates tension"
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should you stop speaking?

or do things to prevent yourself from choosing the wrong words?

mothers are women.

but not all women are mothers.

i'm tired. if i have more to say later i will.

but for now, i am reminded that this is a circle of a conversation.
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92. "RE: bad choice of words creates tension--i agree"
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but for now, i am reminded that this is a circle of a conversation.


^^i agree...

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87. "Cosign!!!!!!"
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I avoided this thread for the longest, finally stepping in, and fighting myself not to respond, because I know ME...I would probably still be posting on this subject After it archived~lol~, but I'm glad to see the someone has posted my thoughts exactly, so I'll leave it at that (backs away from keyboard)

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89. "when i was 9 i asked my father about this topic"
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i've always been very opinionated, inquisitive etc etc especially when i was younger, anyway

his explanation basically boiled down to "all things happen for a reason"

but anyway, this is me talking now

how many "wrongful" abortions (okay, in your opinion all abortions are wrong) happen PER DAY?

and you want to suggest that the women who have these abortions go full term, have the baby and give them out like their last rolo?

there has to be something happening to keep this boat afloat... call it natural selection, callitwhateverthefuckuwant but infant death is decreasing, perhaps abortions are increasing, people are living longer, the population of the world is high.

and what are you going to do about the baby girls in China?

this isn't a jibe, you may take offense to this, by all means, please do, but seriously, are you thinking about what those women go through to have an abortion? have you ever met someone who has had an abortion? have you spoken to them about their experience? its not a drive through experience. it is soul crushing and draining and heart breaking. people make these decisions for a reason and it can TEAR THEM DOWN. its not on a whim, as you seem to be thinking, and i don't believe it is selfish.

look, the poem/piece posted was about a woman who IDENTIFIED with the child growing inside her.

not everyone does for reasons private and confidential to themselves.

id rather 10 mothers who WANT to be mothers than 1000 mothers who DON'T want to be mothers and CAN'T be mothers.

and there are a lot of these women out there, believe me.

to be honest, it would abuse in as many ways as you want to look at it. you can see it as child abuse if you like, but what happens if the baby isn't aborted, let's take a mentally stable 20 yr old woman with a good job, a boyfriend and a baby growing inside her.

she doesn't want the kid but she has it because "abortion is wrong"

there are a few outcomes here:
-she has the child and keeps it, but has post natal depression which fucks up her relationship with both her boyfriend and the baby. it becomes prolonged post natal depression and she starts beating on the kid, she's fucked up too and now you got a kid with some serious mental damage too. Nice Life. S/He will probably be in and out of 15 foster homes before s/he is 9.

-she gives the child to a desperate couple/orphanage. she immediately regrets it and becomes mentally unstable. her child finds out whenever children find out about being adopted etc and becomes extremely confused over the situation- upset on both sides.

-she gives the child away, the child finds out later that s/he was adopted and tries to find his/her mother who then DENIES his/her existance.

it's not even that, why give your baby to people you don't know? you can't trust? you never know what people are like behind closed doors.

there are so many possibilities i can't even type them out, they keep popping up. I know there are people who are not pro-choice but the fact of the matter is, sometimes it's just not your choice, no one ENJOYS having an abortion, but sometimes it's... what it is...

on a spiritual level i DO believe everything happens for a reason, and maybe that baby wasn't destined for that parent...

i'm talking bullshit now but... yeah... i hate this topic


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94. "on a spiritual level"
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maybe sex wasnt intended outside of marriage...because thats the context of the majority of abortions...

and yes, ive met girls who've had abortions, ive met ones who havent....

this isn't a jibe, you may take offense to this, by all means, please do, but seriously, are you thinking about what those women go through to have an abortion? have you ever met someone who has had an abortion? have you spoken to them about their experience? its not a drive through experience. it is soul crushing and draining and heart breaking. people make these decisions for a reason and it can TEAR THEM DOWN. its not on a whim, as you seem to be thinking, and i don't believe it is selfish.

...reasons dont necessarily justify, thats the point ive been making the whole time...and anyway, i HATE what happens in china...at anyrate, we are supposed to be a superpower, the greatest country in the world, and guess what, we do things that are prevelent in the third world....

-Otto

  

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99. "are you a christian?"
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>maybe sex wasnt intended outside of marriage...because thats
>the context of the majority of abortions...

b/c u're bringing up a lot of christian-oriented arguments...it's am honest question, & one i would have simply assumed to be "yes", but i had doubts abt whether "f--k abortion" was a very christian sentiment. not meant in a snide way at all...just an honest reading of yr stance throughout this thread. respond when you can...

pCe.

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111. "sex inside marraige"
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does not guarantee that a baby will not be aborted.

does not guarantee that a baby will not be abused.

does not guarantee anything but a lax in use of contraception.

people make a lot of wrong decisions. Hitler tried to conquer the world and look what happened to him.

It's not fair, but it happens.

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114. "indeed put the point i was making is that"
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most people who get married (most people) are more financially and economically ready to deal with the consequences of sex, that is a baby...more so than say, a teenage girl...

-Otto

  

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82. "COSIGN AND COMMENTARY"
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>it doesn't make a woman any less of woman because she wants
>the right to decide what happens to her body/life.
>
>your mother made that decision. no one made it for her, she
>was allowed to make it.
>
>makes your life that much more special.


COSIGN ON THIS.

HONESTLY now.... I cant say that I'm completely against abortion or for it but I can say this....damned is the man who tries to tell ME what I am going to do with MY body.

I'm 100% capable of making my own decisions, it's not a matter of whether or not it's morally wrong because that's for YOU to decide for yourself NOT for others. "I may not agree with what you say but I will fight to the death for your right to say it...." There's a valuable lesson there.

As for the right of the child, once again I say that comes to the morals of the woman. If she doesnt value life enough to keep it then I would be appalled if this woman was to raise a child she doesn't want, and yes adoption is a fantastic way to solve that, but what if the woman doesnt even respect herself enough to take care of herself and subsequently the baby is stillborn, or has major medical problems due to her negligence? How is that kid going to be any better off?

Regardless of the zillion reasons how and why women get pregnate and the equal number of outcomes of what to do when and if.... NO ONE should have a right over that woman to say what she should do with her body, and I would personally take offense to the person who told me what to do with mine.

Thanks.

~~sig~~

Just keep thinking about it.


"Dreams are true while they last, and do we not live in dreams?" -Alfred Lord Tennyson

"Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others." -J.M. Braude

~~sig~~

Just keep thinking about it.


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84. "LOOK AT WHAT U JUST SAID...."
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>>damned is the man who tries to tell ME what I am going to do >>with MY body.

>>I'm 100% capable of making my own decisions

...this is totally a faulty argument...


what is in your body is not wholly yours.

neither is your body after it has been entered--when you let a man enter it...the two of you have become one flesh through coitus...

you may be one hundred percent capable of making your own decisions about some things, but ask yourself this...could you have put that baby in yourself? would this be an issue if there werent two parties involved...no, make that three, mommy.

rebuttle welcome...



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91. "man..."
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first of all, if i get a girl pregnant im not gonna pressure her to have the baby, and when i say have, i mean to keep it and love it, i mean to deliver it... but the woman i have sex with will not be a dumb one and im not calling you women dumb, no way, i dont have the rights to do that, i hardly know any of you.

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95. "my friend,"
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im sensing a bit of indecisiveness...i exhort you in a friendly way, to really think about what you believe and why you believe it, for in order for an opinion to be valid, it must be based on fact to some measure...tell us why u believe what u believe...thank you for participating in our discussion!

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109. "otto..."
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im with you one hundred percent, but i have mad respect for women, i mean i love my mom which means i should love girls, well girls that dont really budge me or anything at least...


well... i guess girls have better responses then us man, but i still think abortion is wrong though... but women go through it, we dont, fortunately i guess...

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88. "It's NOT Funny --"
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But it's true: "Men & Women will NEVER see eye~2~eye on certain things -- Particularly when it has to do with the female anatomy and female stuph in general!"

Men will never know what it feels like to bleed -- 5 days out of every month -- Til they reach menopause -- (in their 40's thru 60's) -- They'll never know what it feels like to carry a baby around in their stomach for 9 months -- (the discomfort, mood swings, water retention/swelling, etc.) -- ;^\

And they will NEVER know how difficult it is to choose -- Either to choose to grow life within them -- (Even under adverse and traumatic circumstances) -- Or to choose termination of life -- And carry the burden of guilt and pain afterward -- ;^(

It's easy to SAY what SHOULD be done -- (We all *know* right from wrong) -- But when YOU actually get caught in a catch 22 situation and the odds are totally against you -- Your decisions and choices become more difficult to weigh with the right balance needed.

That's why -- Like my grandma always told me -- YOU NEED TO PRAY ABOUT EACH & EVERY SITUATION, CHOICE & DECISION IN YOUR LIFE! -- And then wait for divine guidance & direction.

Maybe if folks prayed first -- THEY WOULDN'T BE FUCKING -- Huh? -- *chuckles*

Aaiight -- I'm thru with this! -- *I Think*

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I've always felt like words come through me & I write them down... they have no master --- gsquared ♥

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90. "RE: It's NOT Funny --"
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yeah... and guys dont have their own problems, we heard about your periods and shit, and i heard this one girl bitching to a teacher how shes got a period and shit and ohhh it itches oohhh... ey, guess what? you have to fuckin live with it...
and we (the guys) also have to worry about taking care of the mother and the baby, but honestly if your that dumb to have sex without protection or not knowing how to put on a fuckin condom, then dont have sex til ur married... who the fuck cares about temptation, during the teen age years, love is allll temptation, fuck that.

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93. "RE: It's NOT Funny --"
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I'm gonna ignore you "YOUNG MAN" -- Cuz I *KNOW* you ain't tryna have an attitude with ME! -- *chuckles*


Lemmme ask you summthin':

How old are you?
You still living at home?
You still going to school? -- High School or College?
You got a job?
Where at? -- Doing what?
You pay any bills?
Can you vote yet?

Based on your answers -- I can tell you whether your thoughts and ideas on the female anatomy, abortion -- OR ANYTHING ELSE IN LIFE FOR THAT MATTER -- Is relevant to me!

Cuz if you ain't out there bustin' your buttt -- tryna earn a living to pay car notes, rent or mortgages, grocery & utility bills -- and things of that nature -- (ON AN ADULT LEVEL) -- YOU AIN"T LIVED TO EXPERIENCE A GOTTTTDAMN THANG!

And you can't tell me shit! -- *LoL*


It's easy to talk shit -- Like what you would do -- And how you would go about doing it -- When you're still under mom & dad's roof -- And you haven't LIVED & EXPERIENCED THE "TRIALS & TRIBULATIONS OF LIFE" outside of their domain!

Just get out on your own -- And see what you'll do!

We could argue all day and all night about what's RIGHT -- And the principles of what's RIGHT -- But when shit happens and you have to DEAL with it -- YOU DON'T ALWAYS MAKE THE RIGHT DECISIONS, nahmean? -- (Whether you're still a teenager -- or a grown ass man -- "or woman")


Thankfully -- God FORGIVES -- And washes us clean of our mistakes!

But sometimes MAN wants to stand in condemnation & judgement and point fingers -- Right, wrong, or indifferent -- I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT!


A guitar string vibrating, a measure of my soul, a breech in the silence --
I've always felt like words come through me & I write them down... they have no master --- gsquared ♥

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108. "*points finger to chair to sit down*"
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and you know all those answers you asked me...

im 15, i go to high school, live with my family, and yada yada yada...

and the problem with me is, i guess i get angry when this topic comes up, cause both sides are right, and its annoying trying to defend one or the other, cause with everything and ANYTHING, theres always two sides to a story, and i guess this is a topic like that, so like i said before, like how "men" point fingers... im pointing my young ass to sit down.

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115. "RE: *points finger to chair to sit down*"
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like how "men" point fingers... im pointing my young ass to sit down.


...lol...

no comment.

-Otto

  

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97. "RE: All this is getting on my nerves...nm"
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peace.

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101. ""u are not alone" (c) michael jackson"
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===========================

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(c) Menphyel

"I've come to realise that I never loved Hip-Hop as a whole,
just a particular era that happened at the same time as
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102. "I'm gonna be sick...."
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i seriously can't elab on this topic...

cuz i have been pregnant

and it is an amazing experience

in the books i've read it says that the baby contains a hearbeat or pulse in a couple of weeks...

i couldnt see killing it..

it's disgusting

and yes, i;ve argued about the rape thing...

and maybe.. just maybe ... it happened for a reason...

but usually people dont get prego from rape...

right?

i mean, people usually get killed or severely beaten.. cuz rape usually isn't for the sex.. more for the control of it

anyway, ima be sick...

and this WILL ALWAYS BE a topic that people will have opposing views on....

so be it <vomit>



-lol I write battle verses to Mariah Carey songs...

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www.enneagraminstitute.com < for self-analysis

don't sleep on my girl AMEL!her songs: "we can be knew""beyond""all i got" and "giving something up" from her Bravebird lp all inspire me in sooo many ways, when I felt like giving up...
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we are all intertwined and webbed together
through something more powerful than the flesh~revion

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discipline is for the anal retentive and power hungry
repeated tests are the only thing of which i speak
we need to be tested to find out which part of the soul is weak~robynwildchild

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You have been sustaining yourself on the gruel of self-destruction for so long your stomach rejects the ambrosia of life
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I turn my face so
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someday I won't have to tell myself the obvious
or pretend to be oblivious
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I was wayward child
With the weight of the world
That I held deep inside
Life was a winding road
And I learned many things
Little ones shouldn't know

CHORUS
But I closed my eyes
Steadied my feet on the ground
Raised my head to the sky
And though time's rolled by
Still feel like that child
As I look at the moon
Maybe I grew up
A little too soon

VERSE 2
Funny how one can learn
To grow numb to the madness
And block it away
I left the worst unsaid
Let it all dissipate
And I try to forget

chorus (above)

BRIDGE
Nearing the edge
Oblivious I almost
Fell right over
A part of me
Will never be quite able
To feel stable
That woman-child feeling inside
Was on the verge of fading
Thankfully I
Woke up in time

VERSE 3
Guardian angel I
Sail away on an ocean
With you by my side
Orange clouds roll by
They burn into your image
And you're still alive
(You're always alive)

chorus
*****
I always thought that if i sifted through the rummage I would reveal something as prescious as the love that I possess, and I could prove that real love exists
with a luster so real that it has a "high pitch"
and it's rays would beam illiminate and spread
so it could become a trend
and we would all be human again~me


the colors were NEVER accurate!and people dont go thru people!


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103. ""we HOPE someone wants this little african american bab"
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-paperdoll

that just made me cry.

otto, maybe if you weren't as sensitive ur points would be better taken...? (just a suggestion. I agree with a lot you've been sayin, though Foneticcus caught u off guard at somepoint)

I'm a pretty headstrong female, i value freedom of choice as much, if not more than the next person.
but it hurts me that people choose to end life.
it just hurts me.

and I cant be convinced about life starting or ending somewhere between the first month and birth, you cant go from unlife to life, something has to happen, and i think conception is it.
i worry about the baby that doesnt get to exercise choice.
and thats pretty hard for me to say as I worry about whether any child I will or will not have will want to be born or should be born, because for the longest time i wished i hadnt been born. but now that i am older, maybe the wish is that i wouldnt have been conceived. but to be, and then not to get to breathe on my own, and know the person that sang to me while i was in the womb, and feel the wind blow past me, and if i live long enough, live to know a love like Otto's, (ur the one with the girl in Europe right?) to have my dreams cut short... that would suck.

the world isnt a very good place, and its probably going to get worse, but maybe one of those little babies is meant to help it be better. you couldnt raise someone to be a Nelson Mandella or Mother Theresa or Martin Luther King Jr. i think they are born special. (said human examples are/were flawed and troubled but did some amazing things)

Nor could you raise someone to be exactly like Claire, Liz or Chris -my own friends that are nobodies to the world, but are sooo much to me. and I know everybody reading this has their special people.
Point is, every life that becomes has a purpose. Some indeed live out their purpose and die before they see the light of day, others, well - just die because *you* say.


I have no recomendations, just wanted to share.

it really hurts me that people wouldn't adopt an african american baby. I'll never get over that.

  

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106. "I Love What U Said Right Here --"
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It would be nice if we could end this discussion -- ON THIS NOTE!


I'm with everybody else -- We've been beatin' this dog to death!


AND IT'S DEAD!!!

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I've always felt like words come through me & I write them down... they have no master --- gsquared ♥

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104. "i read the disclaimer"
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so i aint even touching this one.

nopers.

*crosses arms across chest*

you cant get me to respond. nopers.
*shakes head, walks out of post*


peace
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105. "and i use "you" loosely n/m"
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peace
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107. "the funny thing is..."
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if this poem, with the same exact words had the title "new life" or something to that effect...

we'd be looking at maybe 20 replies, with a lot of "awwwwww"'s and "that is sweet"'s.

i could even argue that the current title is a tenuous link to the actual subject matter contained within the poem.

having said that:

i liked the words below the title a lot.
thought the title was a cheap pop.

carry on.

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112. "cosign on every word here..."
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===========================

"Pimping ain't art...but grabbing guns is?!"
(c) Menphyel

"I've come to realise that I never loved Hip-Hop as a whole,
just a particular era that happened at the same time as
I was actively checking actively for new music."

  

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116. "how is the title's pertinance tenuous?"
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i disagree with abortion because it is murder, when many argue that a fetus is not a life...the woman said "us" illustrating that what is in her is a life....to say that that is tenuous, is mistaken...maybe you are trying to be john edwards using that word...but using the words i used, i chose to be Otto.

i welcome your opinon...but at the same time i stand up for myself when i've been misrepresented, and you misrepresented...the title "new life" would not address the abortion issue, the point of poetry is to convey internal sentiment, at least for me it is...New life only alludes to the fact that a pregnant woman is having a baby...not that >>I<< personally think that abortion is wrong. cuz i do. and that is wht this piece is about, not about posts, and replies, but if you didnt notice, you were just as quick to post a reply as everyone else, why is that?


being that you indirectly accused me of trying to get replies, you judged me personally by assuming reasons for my actions...i thought that is what everyone here was preaching against...

-Otto

  

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118. "i think the funny thing is..."
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in addition to my other response to your comments, i think *your* post is a cheap pop, because instead of speaking the issuse and using your intellect to either refute of define and argument, you insinuate that i only wrote this to get many replies....if this was really your thoughts, wouldn't it have been better to boycott that by not replying at all underneath it...and secondly something so controversal to this magnigtude, will inevitably alienate me, as to be a sacrifice to maybe future replies by all the people i pissed off to my other work in the future...maybe that's why i struggled with posting at all....but guess what dude, i posted it anyway, knowing full well, i risk pissing people off and losing a good number of those who usually reply to me...this proves that i didnt do this to gain replies cuz in the long run, i lose them...

next time u accuse me, dont qualify it with: "i think the words below the title are nice..." if ur gonna be rude, be rude, dont play politics with me, cuz im not playing them with you, nor with anyone else here...

-Otto

  

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113. "The title is a "BOLD" statement"
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I have a couple of questions?
Otto seems to be very opposed to
abortion no matter what circumstances
surround it.
Do you yourself have children?
How old are you?
Married?
Sisters?

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Otto
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117. "these questions are irrelevant..."
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and i choose not to answer them...you have my reasons above for the way i believe, you can take those reasons and use them to find out why i believe the way i do...to ask the questions u did takes our eyes off of the ball of the debate...but i do see what you are trying to do, and that is get to the root of me, but the root has been exposed, in replies 1-118...peace

-Otto

  

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Thu Oct-07-04 05:57 AM

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119. "a public apology/ & archive request"
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i have already offered my apologies privately to you on a personal level.

so here is my public apology. not for any of the words i used or my beliefs, just as you shouldn't have to apologize for your opinions.

but i apologize if in the end you feel/felt attacked.

i think you should feel honored that you have made so many people think...

and during these political times, its important that we all know where we stand and why we are standing for it. i'm happy that this discussion took place. that we all came from different ends of the spectrum. & that, majority of the time, it took place in a respectful manner.

& i'm happy that i got to see this community of poets beyond their poetry...

this was never a waste of time. because 'fighting' for what you believe is anything but a waste.

i hope it gets archived to show evidence that poetry isn't just pretty boring words on paper...

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120. "Co-Sign For Archival --"
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I agree with paperdoll -- I think we all got on the defensive -- regardless of what side of the fence we stood on -- And I for one -- can straddle the fence sometimes, playing the "Devil's Advocate" depending on how I'm approached.

But bottom line: Some ppl believe abortion is wrong -- SOME PEOPLE DON'T -- Some ppl believe an embryo is a tiny human -- SOME PEOPLE DON'T -- (And some people don't care if it is or not) -- ;^\

But I commend you in any case, Otto -- For standing your ground on your beliefs -- CUZ IF YOU DON'T STAND FOR SOMETHING -- YOU'LL "FALL" FOR ANYTHING.

It's easy to cop out or remain quiet during controversy -- And just observe from afar -- But there's always "US" rabble rousers who just don't give a damn -- WE WILL SPEAK OUR PEACE/PIECE -- And make it known what we believe and where we stand -- And I think that's a good thing! -- *wink*

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Thu Oct-07-04 06:50 AM

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122. "3rd request for archive"
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I think that makes it official.

This is one of those topics where everyone is absolutely right.
Unfortunately... this is also one of those topics where everyone is absolutely wrong.

I appreciated watching a reasonably civil difference of opinion and diverse ideas being tossed about.

My personal opinion on the topic is aligned with paperdollpoet's perspective, and I congratulate you on being articulate enough to get your point across without resorting to any F-bombs (at least, I didnt see any. I must confess, I was lazy and skimmed through some of the dialoge.)

I tip my hat to Otto as well. Even though his ideas are, for the most part, the complete antithesis of my own, he's the one who set this whole thing in motion with his poetry.

"To be a poet is a condition, not a profession."
- Robert Frost

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Otto
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123. "all respect i ever had for you just trippled"
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and you know what, i never felt threatened from you anyway, my intention, not of this post, but of posting rebuttles to all view contrary to mine, was simply to test myself, and to test those with opinions...and i dont know if i want this archived because i dont like looking at the EFF word that i wrote...but ill leave this decision up to those who made this post what it is...

i apologize, not if i offended anyone with my post, but if i was mean to anyone......

  

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Thu Oct-07-04 06:29 AM

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121. "RE: fuck abortion."
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from what ive seen of all the debates...

otto, u seem a little too attached to your views/beliefs and call them facts, i can see how u justify your argument, but as paperdollpoet said i dont think ur argument actually challenges the validity of the other argument, its just a diff argument

No man can truly say what God is...i dont care how religious you are, some of the best philosophers prayed to multiple gods, and i love philosophy and reject organized religion, i personally think the debate with fone is pointless, you both have studied these philosophers, and justify your arguments with what u know of this or that person, to me, that's not a debate, that's a showcase of knowledge about who knows what about who, neither of your arguments sway me in any way regarding abortion...

The person i most agree who is approaching this with an open-mind, is paperdollpoet, she doesnt say your argument isnt valid, morals and religion change from person to person, but u dispute that with a highlander quote it seems, "there can only be one", lol, thats an opinion, based on logic or reason that makes sense to you...

my belief in God is similar to Nietzsche's, with themes on "will to power" and "the death of God" but im not so steadfast in this belief to say what u think isnt possible or valid

one question i would ask u tho, do u think murder in self-defense is morally wrong? u have said taking a life is taking a life, but people often accept self-defense as justification to murder, self-defense killings have resulted in a guilty consicience, but most people still dont consider it immoral, b/c they took out a threat to their survival, if i were to have someone pregnant at this moment, im not completely sure i wouldnt feel it as a threat to my survival, im not fit to raise myself, let alone a child, lol, so im not sure what ideas i would entertain about abortion or adoption,(my parents would never allow adoption, they would probably adopt the kids they damn self, lol) its a situation i hope to never confront, i've known folks to have abortions, some do it for selfish reasons, and i dislike that but i understand it and cant say i wouldnt do the same

and i dont know your views about capital punishment, but if your law was our society's law women who have abortions would find themselves in turn aborted, the law of God is one thing, but the law of man governs our actions the same, my point is this, nobody can truly say if its murder, and in the situation that it is murder, can murder be justifiable? If not, then this debate is moot, because there is no way to call an opinion a fact.

I also believe that women have much more of a right to decide, we as men dont know what it feels like to be "us" we never really will and so i believe it is too presumptious of any man to say when life begins and whether that parent has a right to choose to bear it,

I believe abortion is a bit too close to playing God, so i have my issues with it, but I can see why some would find it as an option, morals and logic (and religion) change, to assume that our logic is the right one is a bit too pretentious, this is not a debate that can truly be won

oh, whats your view about stem cell research otto


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Otto
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Thu Oct-07-04 08:06 AM

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124. "i dont know enough about stem cell..."
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research to voice an opinion...


secondly, murder in self defense is still murder....

thanks for reading ric, you is my homie...i respectfully disagree with most of what u said, which means u disagree with most of what i said, but i dont care, i know what i believe and why, and it seems you do too...thanks for reading....in response to something u said with fone....my debate with him was to show that his "knowlege" of the men he was talking about was a bit off...just as he tried to show me....just look at which argument presented is stronger...

-Otto

  

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