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HueyShakur
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"this post is for queer okps."


  

          

sorry allies, maybe next time.

and haters thanks for clicking, now bye.

now on to the business.

the new year has ushered in some new queers. identify yourself, dammit. this is your database.

a/s/l would be helpful, LOL. jk

yes, but feel free to check-in, post your favorite websites (inbox the male porn links to SoWhat and the female porn to luvlee2003, however), get your e-hollers on, honor your fav okqueer (even those that have seemingly LOGGED OFF).

my non-straight brethren and sistren (even the ones i know that'll lurk in this post) this posts for you. you (mostly likely) wont' be judged.

me first? 25/m/nyc. LOL

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<= "Tomorrow" Romare Bearden

  

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*out of breath* has the resident hag quota been met yet ?
Feb 24th 2006
1
^^^ missed the first sentence.
Feb 24th 2006
2
      LOL ok I'll leave you be also
Feb 24th 2006
8
           someone will claim you.
Feb 24th 2006
10
           u tried it
Feb 24th 2006
14
                RE: u tried it
Feb 24th 2006
26
                heh
Feb 24th 2006
29
                RE: u tried it
Mar 13th 2006
517
                LMAO, yesss!!!!
Feb 24th 2006
94
                     RE: LMAO, yesss!!!!
Feb 25th 2006
132
                          it is, it is
Feb 26th 2006
148
25/T post op/ Bx
Feb 24th 2006
3
Oh my God! LMFAO
Feb 24th 2006
6
I wanted to make a post about how
Feb 24th 2006
4
bisexuals underrep themselves.
Feb 24th 2006
7
see what I mean.
Feb 24th 2006
12
RE: see what I mean.
Mar 13th 2006
518
no thats real, most time bi folks dont even want to be lumped
Feb 24th 2006
96
      In my case it's not that I don't WANT to be a part....
Feb 26th 2006
135
           'xactly
Feb 26th 2006
139
           oh PLEASE
Feb 26th 2006
141
           yeah those women are brainwashed
Feb 26th 2006
149
           actually.. i think bis get more love today than they ever did
Feb 27th 2006
215
                co-sign, i think this is definately tru
Feb 27th 2006
246
                So true.
Feb 28th 2006
292
RE: can i have a flyer to the meetings?
Feb 24th 2006
17
      the meetings are mythical.
Feb 24th 2006
18
      u always pop my fuckn bubble
Feb 24th 2006
20
           oop.
Feb 24th 2006
25
           *also waiting*
Feb 24th 2006
32
                i'm sayin.
Feb 24th 2006
33
           ewww.
Feb 24th 2006
95
      sure, lemme find an e-flyer
Feb 24th 2006
23
           RE:
Feb 24th 2006
47
                just show and prove
Feb 24th 2006
54
                i might press harder depending on the pic
Feb 24th 2006
59
                u keep that 8c. to ureself
Feb 24th 2006
73
                     LOL
Feb 24th 2006
75
                     ^^^ trying to change the subject
Feb 24th 2006
76
                          not really
Feb 24th 2006
78
                               well...
Feb 24th 2006
79
                but you are in FLorida.
Feb 24th 2006
63
                     RE:
Feb 24th 2006
72
ok queer allies? hahahaha
Feb 24th 2006
5
your presence in the post isn't surprising
Feb 24th 2006
9
      if u mention syracuse ONE mo' FUCKING TIME!
Feb 24th 2006
11
      lmao
Feb 24th 2006
24
      i'm sayin'!
Feb 24th 2006
62
           ^^^ cunts corner
Feb 24th 2006
64
                cunts corner?!?
Feb 27th 2006
190
                     LOL.
Feb 27th 2006
192
                     You're a sweetheart
Feb 28th 2006
294
                     ^gave me Hoeegaardan tips^
Feb 27th 2006
196
                          Anytime you wanna talk beer i'm your girl
Feb 28th 2006
295
      *hands rainbow brite doll and moodring
Feb 24th 2006
13
           tee hee
Feb 24th 2006
15
*just.in.here.cause.i.need.to.ask.bblock.sumn,right.fast...
Feb 24th 2006
16
*sits next to sugastix looking for bi ladies*
Feb 24th 2006
36
      bi "ladies"...sureeeeeeeeeeeee
Feb 24th 2006
97
           keke
Feb 25th 2006
108
                ^^^the comic strip
Feb 27th 2006
260
29/m/Chicago, 8c
Feb 24th 2006
19
LMAO
Feb 24th 2006
22
LOL, u a fuckin fool
Feb 24th 2006
27
this post is for the people.
Feb 24th 2006
30
RE: 29/m/Chicago, 8c????
Feb 24th 2006
39
      lol
Feb 24th 2006
41
      lol
Feb 24th 2006
42
      lol
Feb 24th 2006
43
      What's so funny?
Feb 24th 2006
49
      LOL
Feb 24th 2006
45
19/f/nyc
Feb 24th 2006
21
when are we going to a ball?
Feb 24th 2006
28
      D just gave me a flyer...its early april
Feb 24th 2006
34
      have you gone downtown yet? LMAO
Feb 24th 2006
35
           well of course.
Feb 24th 2006
46
                o yay, so you are not even trippin.
Feb 24th 2006
65
                     not at all haha
Feb 24th 2006
67
      RE: when are we going to a ball?
Mar 13th 2006
519
hi fellow homos
Feb 24th 2006
31
wassup!
Feb 24th 2006
98
26, f, chapel hill, nc
Feb 24th 2006
37
i'm think about joining critical resistance.
Feb 24th 2006
38
yeah... i think there's a group here too...
Feb 24th 2006
50
y'all know who i be e-hollaring on..... luvluv!! oooohhhhwweeee!!!!
Feb 24th 2006
40
      i'm e-crushing on Blkprincemd again
Feb 24th 2006
53
           lol.
Feb 24th 2006
57
           Myspace feels like a dirty bathhouse.
Feb 24th 2006
60
                the link is in his sig
Feb 24th 2006
61
                     c'mon now, you know i've already been there.
Feb 24th 2006
66
                          updated fam
Feb 24th 2006
68
                               i might skip the gym tonight and go str8 home
Feb 24th 2006
70
           please, please don't express this to him
Feb 24th 2006
77
           oh, he already knows.
Feb 24th 2006
87
           my new avi is Black Thought!!!!
Feb 24th 2006
104
           mayne.... this is almost as serious as my luvluv crush...
Feb 26th 2006
137
                good hands maybe? i always take the time out to notice a
Feb 26th 2006
147
                but I'm an 100% thug top, i dont give a fuck about a dick
Feb 26th 2006
150
                     ..and i'm versatile.
Feb 27th 2006
156
                          lol....versatile is best
Feb 27th 2006
158
                               yalls exchanges always make me laugh.
Feb 27th 2006
159
                                    um why?
Feb 27th 2006
164
this goes out to the logged off FAMILY
Feb 24th 2006
44
damali is bi
Feb 24th 2006
48
bis are queer.
Feb 24th 2006
51
now u know stating anything fact or fiction about ______
Feb 24th 2006
52
pour out some liquor & glitter for SankofaII.
Feb 24th 2006
56
oh shit.
Feb 24th 2006
58
i miss him. i thought he was coming back to NY
Feb 24th 2006
71
      i think he said he was.
Feb 24th 2006
74
           oh he's here... he's just quiet. :)
Feb 28th 2006
302
what about furiousfreddy's aliases?
Feb 24th 2006
81
      aint you one of them?
Feb 24th 2006
83
           Well, I have had a cartoon as an alias, so...
Feb 24th 2006
86
           *heart attack*
Feb 24th 2006
99
           i'm sayin
Feb 25th 2006
107
           Bwahahaha
Feb 25th 2006
128
23/F/NJ
Feb 24th 2006
55
it's a FREE post.
Feb 24th 2006
82
well in that case.....
Feb 24th 2006
91
      ..that 'long walks on the beach' bit is just to get the cute women, righ...
Feb 24th 2006
93
           yup :-)
Feb 27th 2006
171
RE: 23/F/NJ
Feb 24th 2006
85
lol, u stoopid
Feb 24th 2006
100
nj? where u party?
Feb 24th 2006
88
      RE: nj? where u party?
Feb 27th 2006
170
           oh shit...
Feb 27th 2006
186
                take it to inbox..
Feb 27th 2006
191
                     :-)
Feb 27th 2006
195
                          whats good?
Feb 28th 2006
305
                               just smiling, i thought yall exchange was nice
Feb 28th 2006
307
...ALL QUEERS STAY AWAY FROM DELANEY...
Feb 24th 2006
69
I miss kimmie_j
Feb 24th 2006
80
me too.
Feb 24th 2006
89
me too.
Feb 24th 2006
90
i always get to these things too late.
Feb 24th 2006
84
its never too late
Feb 24th 2006
102
21/m/R-I-C
Feb 24th 2006
92
why do so many homos like str8 porn
Feb 24th 2006
101
      my theorem:
Feb 24th 2006
106
           hmmm, interesting, but in gay porn u see like multiple
Feb 25th 2006
111
21/M/STL by way of MURRLAND
Feb 24th 2006
103
24/f/tx
Feb 24th 2006
105
and the hags who LUH dem!
Feb 25th 2006
109
^^^ failed reading comprehension
Feb 25th 2006
110
      not if you just read the title of the post....I'm exercising
Feb 25th 2006
112
      you're a dyke tho.
Feb 25th 2006
114
           *grumble ouchie*
Feb 25th 2006
124
           I am?
Feb 25th 2006
126
      lol, "we can't hav nuffin!"
Feb 25th 2006
113
*Twirls into post*
Feb 25th 2006
115
say more domper.
Feb 25th 2006
116
It's hard to speak while twirling.
Feb 25th 2006
117
lol...i said mad ish in the original post
Feb 25th 2006
118
      whew.
Feb 25th 2006
119
           i'm too young to be a curmudgeon
Feb 25th 2006
122
                haha. a rose by any other name....
Feb 25th 2006
123
*arrives all late to the party*
Feb 25th 2006
131
      LOL!
Feb 25th 2006
133
!!!! (^^^best reply in post)
Feb 25th 2006
120
      -------HEEEEEEEEEEYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!-------------
Feb 25th 2006
121
           ^ ^ ^ I imagined China's voice from Wendy Williams' sound clip
Feb 25th 2006
127
29/m/Tx
Feb 25th 2006
125
;-)
Feb 25th 2006
130
22/M/Jersey and Chapel Hill, NC
Feb 25th 2006
129
gross:
Feb 26th 2006
152
      lol.
Feb 26th 2006
153
my favorite websites.
Feb 26th 2006
134
25 / M / ATL
Feb 26th 2006
136
Since y'all say better late than never...
Feb 26th 2006
138
LMAO @ this:
Feb 26th 2006
140
At first I thought it was too much...
Feb 26th 2006
142
      CHEERS!
Feb 26th 2006
144
      there's wisdom in this reply.
Feb 26th 2006
145
           that there is my friend. that there is.
Feb 26th 2006
146
beautiful.
Feb 26th 2006
143
^^^rookie of the year!
Feb 26th 2006
151
mmmhmmm
Feb 27th 2006
154
aight, lets keep this conference going:
Feb 27th 2006
155
do i get along w/Black gay men?
Feb 27th 2006
160
aw, well it could be gay men in general
Feb 27th 2006
162
      you're right...it's gay men in general.
Feb 27th 2006
168
      you're right...it's gay men in general.
Feb 27th 2006
169
lol, i hate u so much rite now
Feb 27th 2006
161
OMG, this is really isnt about u LMAO
Feb 27th 2006
163
RE: aight, lets keep this conference going:
Feb 27th 2006
172
so terse.
Feb 27th 2006
178
      i kno right
Feb 27th 2006
179
      RE: so terse.
Feb 28th 2006
345
It's really a love-hate relationship
Feb 27th 2006
194
me and you have very similar outlooks
Feb 27th 2006
197
cool beans
Feb 27th 2006
202
i love black lesbians....
Feb 27th 2006
210
they love you too baby! Raowr!
Feb 27th 2006
213
luvluv... you make my heart skip 3 beats.
Feb 27th 2006
216
see dats wassup, @ both u and luvlee
Feb 27th 2006
219
My good friend and best man is a gay black man
Feb 28th 2006
296
...daaaaayummm
Feb 27th 2006
157
u didnt put ur a/s/l...so ppl can get then :)~ on
Feb 27th 2006
165
      he's married.
Feb 27th 2006
166
      .
Feb 27th 2006
173
      LIES
Feb 27th 2006
175
      lol
Feb 27th 2006
176
      ohh, i forgot
Feb 27th 2006
167
           LOL
Feb 27th 2006
174
           ...ugk, u guys...
Feb 27th 2006
177
           thahell? lol
Feb 27th 2006
201
I love searching out my name...
Feb 27th 2006
180
we need more lesbos....n/m
Feb 27th 2006
181
mmmhmmm
Feb 27th 2006
182
      Except with the way things are nowadays..
Feb 27th 2006
183
           me, myself, personally
Feb 27th 2006
184
           ewww
Feb 27th 2006
198
           mmmhmmm
Feb 27th 2006
185
                yes, you are getting quite boring and predictable.
Feb 27th 2006
187
                     ew.
Feb 27th 2006
189
                          yeah... i need to holla at blankstare...
Feb 27th 2006
211
                               last i heard she was single now...
Feb 27th 2006
214
aiight i'm back...22/f/nj/dc
Feb 27th 2006
188
u look like a lady killer/heart breaker
Feb 27th 2006
200
30 /f / VA
Feb 27th 2006
193
hey
Feb 27th 2006
199
i haven't seen you before.... nicetomeetyou.
Feb 27th 2006
207
your photos
Feb 27th 2006
228
the dudes took over this post yet again!
Feb 27th 2006
203
yall ack funny.
Feb 27th 2006
204
      negro you know we stay busy unpacking u-hauls
Feb 27th 2006
205
           *flips thru magazine while getting pedi*
Feb 27th 2006
206
           lolol, both y'all silly
Feb 27th 2006
218
           lol
Feb 27th 2006
217
this is a do-over
Feb 27th 2006
208
^^^ rallying cry!
Feb 27th 2006
209
but you so young baby... *huddles anyway*
Feb 27th 2006
212
*please answer the qn below. thanks.
Feb 27th 2006
232
question for the womyn...
Feb 27th 2006
220
i want some answers, dammit!
Feb 27th 2006
221
there's this area of my forearm
Feb 27th 2006
222
wow.... i'm like.. the exact opposite...
Feb 27th 2006
226
      my arms be hurting tho
Feb 27th 2006
229
           hhmm......y'know.. i *can show you what else you can do
Feb 27th 2006
230
           that was SO not undercover
Feb 27th 2006
236
                it was an attempt at undacova-ness
Feb 27th 2006
250
           co sign plus a great ab workout
Feb 28th 2006
297
um while im not gay enough to reply just yet
Feb 27th 2006
234
how do *you feel about it though?
Feb 27th 2006
245
      in short because
Feb 27th 2006
248
           are you and nk the same person?
Feb 27th 2006
249
           oui.
Feb 27th 2006
251
           my gf was obsessed
Feb 27th 2006
253
                i dont even know what to say to comfort her.
Feb 27th 2006
255
                honestly,
Feb 27th 2006
263
                we need to talk about this, i swear...
Feb 27th 2006
262
I'm not big on the idea of strap-ons all the time either
Feb 28th 2006
303
I'm such a negro...*looks @ watch*
Feb 27th 2006
223
^^^^ she be havin them dope avy's, san
Feb 27th 2006
224
it's just evidence of my 3rd eye malfunctioning
Feb 27th 2006
233
this post will live for ever. CPT dont exist here.
Feb 27th 2006
225
i can rest easy... we are coming out!!
Feb 27th 2006
227
please answer the qn posted above you. thanks..
Feb 27th 2006
231
      she BEEN in the database
Feb 27th 2006
235
      i know this... cause i know you aint slacking...
Feb 27th 2006
238
      sorry, girlie
Feb 27th 2006
241
           no prob.
Feb 27th 2006
266
FAMILY MEETING!
Feb 27th 2006
237
oh my goodness im dying right now
Feb 27th 2006
239
i'm serious tho. like, we can be critical and collegial right?
Feb 27th 2006
240
      i agree 100%. we some smart and fun mofos. lets keep it peaceful.
Feb 27th 2006
243
           *rocks like sophia*
Feb 27th 2006
244
                LMAO, ur such a mess.
Feb 27th 2006
257
exactly, this is real, its hard to convey what...
Feb 27th 2006
242
      look, water under a bridge
Feb 27th 2006
247
      i kinda feel the same way, though.
Feb 27th 2006
258
      lmao when have i EVER said anything REMOTELY homophobic?
Feb 27th 2006
264
           lol.
Feb 27th 2006
269
           im glad you're amused
Feb 27th 2006
271
                i think any sgl person on the boards
Feb 27th 2006
278
                     naw im good. ill keep anything regarding the subject to myself.
Feb 27th 2006
281
                     aiight man.
Feb 27th 2006
285
                     co-sign
Feb 27th 2006
282
           i guess its all perspectives...
Feb 27th 2006
272
                well im cunty. so fuck you and fuck him. the end.
Feb 27th 2006
273
                this exchange is the opposite of collegial.
Feb 27th 2006
275
                     no u didnt, u won, lets not focus on the minor
Feb 27th 2006
277
                     i apologise, hueyS
Feb 27th 2006
279
                          inbox
Feb 27th 2006
283
                im enjoying this post too much to let shit get negative
Feb 27th 2006
276
      yes.
Feb 28th 2006
298
let this crap drop
Feb 27th 2006
252
god, stop hating for a day.
Feb 27th 2006
254
ME?! HATING?!?!?!
Feb 27th 2006
267
you discriminating against the womyns!!!
Feb 27th 2006
256
go flat iron your hair
Feb 27th 2006
259
      i did sunday.
Feb 27th 2006
261
           ooooh, i wanna see new pics
Feb 27th 2006
265
                yeah.. this post is surprisingly refreshing....
Feb 27th 2006
270
ive been on this site for a while and i've yet to be offended until toda...
Feb 27th 2006
268
oh a good website is fobrothas.com
Feb 27th 2006
274
:( you know what this means right????
Feb 27th 2006
280
o dear god no!
Feb 27th 2006
284
i feel bad, like maybe i partly caused this...
Feb 27th 2006
287
      gurl hush, u dont need no cig
Feb 27th 2006
288
           i quit everytime i finish a pack.
Feb 28th 2006
289
                make 'em!
Feb 28th 2006
290
                have your ass a cig if you want!
Feb 28th 2006
291
yall should be reading kai wright
Feb 27th 2006
286
damn...i missed all the good shit
Feb 28th 2006
293
RE: me too!
Feb 28th 2006
299
#300: let's talk about queer love
Feb 28th 2006
300
RE: i met my folks on a chatline
Feb 28th 2006
301
sa couples look forward to gay marriage..
Feb 28th 2006
306
of course their is queer love and u can find it anywhere
Feb 28th 2006
308
does that mean there's a chance for us?
Feb 28th 2006
309
      of course...
Feb 28th 2006
313
           yes.
Feb 28th 2006
314
                old is neva an attractive feature to me, dont say that ugk
Feb 28th 2006
315
                     wow...i'm in the upper reaches of someone's limit. LOL
Feb 28th 2006
316
                          lol, deal, but seriously
Feb 28th 2006
318
                               our 1st date is at Imo's.
Feb 28th 2006
320
                                    *dick goes soft*
Feb 28th 2006
323
                                         oh i forgot you're not from STL.
Feb 28th 2006
324
                                              lol, ive neva seen Mumbo sauce in a bottle
Feb 28th 2006
329
                                                   and what do i get if i find such a bottle?
Feb 28th 2006
331
                                                        well, gotta do my homework now ttyl
Feb 28th 2006
333
                                                             LOL...i'll be on e-bay looking for mumbo sauce.
Feb 28th 2006
335
                                                                  LOL!
Feb 28th 2006
341
well i've never found it on the internet but
Feb 28th 2006
311
QUESTION: Anyone see The Aggressives?
Feb 28th 2006
304
Okhomos, Lets get Free - Free Xone by Janet Jackson
Feb 28th 2006
310
Serious question "y'all": Is Jaye Swigga a ghey icon for
Feb 28th 2006
312
y'all kno yall love Swiggs!
Mar 02nd 2006
367
RE: she seems to get her share of hate
Mar 02nd 2006
369
      can't cosign
Mar 02nd 2006
370
           see, its cause u a woman
Mar 02nd 2006
373
swigga is grace
Mar 02nd 2006
372
      no, shes sooo much more, shes diana ross young
Mar 02nd 2006
376
           *big gigantic hugs* :-) nm
Mar 06th 2006
467
                lol
Mar 06th 2006
468
22/f/ny
Feb 28th 2006
317
lol, this post is so great, *gives wassup head nod*
Feb 28th 2006
319
      lol
Feb 28th 2006
322
           chillin, bout to take a nap
Feb 28th 2006
325
                I lurk here all the time, so I know who they are, hehe n/m
Feb 28th 2006
336
damn, y'all had to do this post while i was out of town?
Feb 28th 2006
321
i think this my favorite post ever
Feb 28th 2006
326
edit: *never reply when in a rush:-)*
Feb 28th 2006
328
      huh? what are u talking bout?
Feb 28th 2006
330
           oops. thought you were attempting to crack a sarcastic joke(don't ask)
Feb 28th 2006
332
like mana from heaven. you are right on time!!
Feb 28th 2006
346
Even though I'm extra extra late
Feb 28th 2006
327
neva too late, when is the last time u were with a female
Feb 28th 2006
334
24/F/AZ...it seems oknonheteros can unite when they really want
Feb 28th 2006
337
goodness its a lot of us
Feb 28th 2006
338
*sigh... I love my okqueers!!
Feb 28th 2006
339
PSA: UMMM every homo can/will be eventually outed
Feb 28th 2006
340
THERE IS NO REASON
Feb 28th 2006
342
ya pseudo hate is so transparent.
Feb 28th 2006
343
^^^homophobic
Feb 28th 2006
344
um. to the RE attendees:
Feb 28th 2006
347
if you have a queer gathering, i just might have to come for the RE
Feb 28th 2006
348
i need to ask 25 what he did last year.
Feb 28th 2006
349
      *make it happen.
Feb 28th 2006
351
           what type of gathering would you like to see?
Feb 28th 2006
352
                a gathering of beautiful lesbians,....
Feb 28th 2006
355
                     umm..it'll be may you don't need to smoke inside.
Feb 28th 2006
358
we need to do a gathering outside of the RE as well
Feb 28th 2006
353
      suggest something
Feb 28th 2006
356
      RE:
Mar 01st 2006
359
           this post will never die!!
Mar 01st 2006
360
                i just want to see it get to #400 n/m
Mar 01st 2006
361
                mmhmm.
Mar 01st 2006
365
Here's something to debate - queer vs n***er
Feb 28th 2006
350
the n word is worse, u couldnt even type it all the way out
Feb 28th 2006
354
i like being queer
Feb 28th 2006
357
how about faggot vs n***er
Mar 01st 2006
362
i don't know 'queer' as a slur.
Mar 01st 2006
363
exactly...
Mar 02nd 2006
368
queer as a slur is so 50s.
Mar 01st 2006
364
on the real, i hate "sissy" more than "f*gg*t"
Mar 02nd 2006
366
      ^^ sissy
Mar 02nd 2006
371
           suck my dick.
Mar 02nd 2006
374
                is that an open invitation?
Mar 02nd 2006
375
                     lol, sure.
Mar 02nd 2006
377
                     this has gone too far.
Mar 02nd 2006
379
                          ^^ anti-sexual.
Mar 02nd 2006
380
                               pssht.
Mar 02nd 2006
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                               puh-lease, he like the biggest slut on here
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                                    LMAO!
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                                         answer my ? below trollop
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                                              the goal is 1000. lol
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                                                   :-/
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                                                   thats too much fckin scrollin
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                     LOL
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                     he's built like that white guy that was too much for you
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                          ^^^nonsensical
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                          that was 7 yrs ago when i was still wet behind the ears.
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do any of yall have/want kids?
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sure. why not?
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Iam is womp, but zoe is cool
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      all your "sons" names suck.
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yes.
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4 children also
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four kids is SO many.
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so lets fast-forward to the future
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yes, i want 3. at least one son.
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two maybe (and hopefully twins)
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      ^^^ most predictable names EVER
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           ^^^most cunty cunt ever
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           you still bleeding?
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                ugk
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                     LOL
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                          omg im mad u think im mad lol, i cant take jokes now
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           but you know me (kinda)
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           and they are at least better than *ahem* ian and zoe
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                ^^^undisputed truth
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                     lol...have you SEEN my last name?
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Gotdamn, if you miss 2 days, you miss a lot
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Ooops:
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      I knew it!
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Oh wow I guess Im....
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whoa!
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      Whoa?
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           you haven't been around for a while.
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           So it seems
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           you haven't been around for a while.
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Black pastor and Black county exec to debate gay rights. (swipe)
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Question for the bi ladies... Everyone actually.
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as the resident bisexual
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Thanks and a bit more...
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RE: Question for the bi ladies... Everyone actually.
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I love this post, the discourse is great
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I've constantly been in this post.
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      you definately contributed to that effect greatly
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           I mainly lurk in this post, soaking up y'all convo.
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Question: on gender roles/ stereotypes/ typecasting..
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nice article: sexual-gender-identity.txt..
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good questions.
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      RE: good questions.
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yall think this post'll be archived?
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hell no, but if they try to shut it down b4 we ready
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thank heaven for DSL.
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I'm a 24/7 365 day/year flirt. It's my nature, I can't help it.
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In my younger days I was THE flirt
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i usually just build from mutual interests, cares, and concerns, or
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*takes notes...
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OKGay RE Suggestions
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San Fran would be tite
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woo hoo!
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      y is that?
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           i was there
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                o thats not a good enuff reason.
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                     i found that post
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                          which one?
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                               #447
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                                    im confused, what exactly are u talking bout?
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i say atlanta!
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Some Black Lesbian History Links in honor of Women's History
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*nice!!
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what's the most uncomfortable same-sex setting you've been in?
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not *quite what you have in mind, im sure...
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GEESH!
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there's a transsexual that thinks she has a chance with me
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a bathhouse.
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LOL, ur an elitist...but anyway let me try to answer ur ?
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my artistic taste is very sensitive.
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last saturday
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Like Blkprince, I too had an uncomfortable Miami experience lol
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      lmao, how did i miss this, anyway that sounds god awful.
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Late Pass!
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this is a great reply, and no one is gonna judge u for that
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Are any of you out in real life too?
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yes, very.
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it's on a need to know basis with me.
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same here, in some very important aspects of my life
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i don't deny it...
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Out to Sis, Moms, Boss, a Few Co-Workers and Friends
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so, what about HIV/AIDS?
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this is was EXCELLENT time to bring this up.
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last year i learned 2 of my peers are positive.
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this is where i am:
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last year i learned 2 of my peers are positive.
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yeh im kinda scurred
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only once.
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hmm thats interesting
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yeah its crazy, cuz my older cousin died of it
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      yeh my family is like that
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everyday it seems more and more inevitable
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that's pretty good prevention.
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that's pretty good prevention.
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this reply made me sad
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im not scared, but sometimes i think i should be
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hhmm.. im kinda glad im in the lowest risk demographic..
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I'm concerned enough to start using condoms during oral sex
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      there have been few confirmed cases of HIV transmission via fellatio.
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           Aint nobody skeetin in my throat or mouth
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                precum is somewhat safe.
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                precum is somewhat safe.
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on a lighter note: Who are y'all top 3 okartists?
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ERYKAH
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Meshell ndegeocello!!!
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I *HEART* HUEY
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Late pass please
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San Fran 2007!!!!!
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quintuple---
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platinum beeeshes!
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LOL!
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*hands HueyShakur Award for outstanding service to the
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do i get kneepads?
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      yes its in the gift bag, along wit da dildo and gallon of lube
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           i insist you keep the dildo and lube...
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                :-o
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I just wanted to be in the 500 section too n/m :)
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up...just cuz i always miss this mofo...
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answer all those damn questions.
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      make up work and shit...aiight i'll be back with answers.
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my make up work...here u go, huey...
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i was missing this post.. (questions)
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ok i guess ill be the first(only) one to bite
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sounds like you were paying dude...
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      $$$ and head
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the 1st one.
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      nice!!!
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           aww...
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MEN, can we get deep for a second?
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Maybe TMI.... but.....
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^^^ doesn't know me is good as he thinks he does.
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well, you need to be answering some of these damn quest-ions, bro
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^^ has given me 0 evidence to the contrary.
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           .
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Some of my friends talk about goin an hour plus
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I love that this post is still here :) n/m
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SoulSis_7
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1. "*out of breath* has the resident hag quota been met yet ?"
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HueyShakur
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2. "^^^ missed the first sentence."
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Fri Feb-24-06 03:11 PM by HueyShakur

  

          

LOL.

you're in chicago?

i'm sure someone needs a hag there.

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SoulSis_7
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8. "LOL ok I'll leave you be also"
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I feel out with the queens in chicago. said some shyt i shouln't have said @ a drag ball. my pass has been revoked=( you know how when a white person gets to comfy with black folx. yeah I went there. now i have to watch Paris is burning to get my hag fix.

The mind is everything; what you think, you become. -Buddha

Knowledge of self is like Life after Death -Talib Kweli

Peace, Luv, Power

  

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HueyShakur
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10. "someone will claim you."
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14. "u tried it"
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banji

You want it one way, when it's the other (c) Marlo Stansfield

  

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SoulSis_7
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26. "RE: u tried it"
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LMAO on the real though. I want to be Fab like Mz. Pepper Labeija(RIP). Can I demand they knock out a wall, or two, so my dress will fit? Then can I "walk" and have mutha fuckers chanting my name as I slip outta my ballon gold lam'e straps! A girl can dream.

The mind is everything; what you think, you become. -Buddha

Knowledge of self is like Life after Death -Talib Kweli

Peace, Luv, Power

  

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29. "heh"
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i just hang and apply witty retorts when i'm looked upon other than that...i dont try to outshine the starz..ahahah

You want it one way, when it's the other (c) Marlo Stansfield

  

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encyclopedia brown
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517. "RE: u tried it"
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word...

somewhere...between the sacred silence and sleep...

when i became the sun, i shone life into the mans heart...

--system of a down

  

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94. "LMAO, yesss!!!!"
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bmore queens

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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132. "RE: LMAO, yesss!!!!"
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Sat Feb-25-06 08:29 PM by bassndaplace

          


(non-thread related)

Yo, that BT avi is dope...

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148. "it is, it is"
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>
>Yo, that BT avi is dope...

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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3. "25/T post op/ Bx"
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_____________________
puttin' the roota in the toota since 98'

  

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6. "Oh my God! LMFAO"
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4. "I wanted to make a post about how"
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bisexual peoples are underrepresented.
In fact, aside from transgendered (which Eclipsed so rightly pointed out to me), we are often the least represented in queer circles.

With that said,... I think I am going to start attending bisexual meetings b/c I be having questions.

LOL.

SIG CORNER

You must know your mythic origins.
Facts and news are reports from the current TV drama.
They have no relevance to your 2-billion-year-old divinity.
Myth is the report from the cellular memory bank.
Myths humanize the recurrent themes of evolu

  

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7. "bisexuals underrep themselves."
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lol.

bisexuals = conveniently straight most times.

jk

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12. "see what I mean."
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Exhibit A.

SIG CORNER

You must know your mythic origins.
Facts and news are reports from the current TV drama.
They have no relevance to your 2-billion-year-old divinity.
Myth is the report from the cellular memory bank.
Myths humanize the recurrent themes of evolution.

  

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518. "RE: see what I mean."
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that's true though right? bi people are half the time in deep stealth mode, so...

somewhere...between the sacred silence and sleep...

when i became the sun, i shone life into the mans heart...

--system of a down

  

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96. "no thats real, most time bi folks dont even want to be lumped"
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wit da rest of us. no hate tho, maybe they shouldnt

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135. "In my case it's not that I don't WANT to be a part...."
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of the larger queer community, it's just generally I've encounted just as much bias from them as the straight folks.

All those "I kiss my female friends at bars to get male attention, but would never really date a woman" chicks deciding to call themselves bisexual really made life a living hell for those women who legitimately are bi.

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to get through this thing called life.

  

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139. "'xactly"
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>All those "I kiss my female friends at bars to get male
>attention, but would never really date a woman" chicks
>deciding to call themselves bisexual really made life a living
>hell for those women who legitimately are bi.

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141. "oh PLEASE"
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this is a case of..."i'm so self-conscious"

it's fine, just admit it.

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blkprinceMD05
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149. "yeah those women are brainwashed"
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or maybe just using that as excuse to act out their inner desires.

prototype

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215. "actually.. i think bis get more love today than they ever did"
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in the lbgtq movement...
despite the upsurge of the publicity lesbians
usedta be bis weren't even considered to be homosexuals.
just a special kind of freak.

just thought i'd mention that.




>of the larger queer community, it's just generally I've
>encounted just as much bias from them as the straight folks.
>
>All those "I kiss my female friends at bars to get male
>attention, but would never really date a woman" chicks
>deciding to call themselves bisexual really made life a living
>hell for those women who legitimately are bi.

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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246. "co-sign, i think this is definately tru"
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prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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honigbabyliebe
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292. "So true."
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>in the lbgtq movement...
>despite the upsurge of the publicity lesbians
>usedta be bis weren't even considered to be homosexuals.
>just a special kind of freak.

I remember when I first started going to lbgtq meetings (16 at the time) bi people were given a cold shoulder. I just told everyone I was a "friend of the gay community" to avoid the arguments and disagreements. I was accepted as a fruit fly and pretty much had to get my dating done on the dl, all of the ladies were full lesbians though. It was too funny because at that time damn near EVERY straight person I knew swore I was butch.

~I don't want a bad memory when a jaded one will do. I don't want to make one mistake two...~

"You think too much, calm down."

  

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17. "RE: can i have a flyer to the meetings?"
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oh yeh, um......25(aquarius mothafucka)/M/FL

  

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18. "the meetings are mythical."
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that's not surprising is it?

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20. "u always pop my fuckn bubble"
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25. "oop."
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*waits patiently for mandate*

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32. "*also waiting*"
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fuck you.

  

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33. "i'm sayin."
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hook niggas up!

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95. "ewww."
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prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
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23. "sure, lemme find an e-flyer"
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Fri Feb-24-06 03:52 PM by cosmicgirl

  

          

DON'T LISTEN TO HUEY. HE HATIN'

They take place at the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual Transgender Community Center.

Bisexual Women
Social and discussion group for women who identify as Bisexual. Bi-friendly lesbians and trans-women are welcome. 2nd/4th Wed. 6:30-8PM.
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They have no relevance to your 2-billion-year-old divinity.
Myth is the report from the cellular memory bank.
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47. "RE:"
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i feel cornered by Huey and SoWhat...I don't know what to do. Can I hang out with you?

  

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54. "just show and prove"
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and we'll leave you alone.

well at least i will. i can't speak for sowhat.

LOL

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59. "i might press harder depending on the pic"
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so choose carefully.

fuck you.

  

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73. "u keep that 8c. to ureself"
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n/m

  

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75. "LOL"
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fuck you.

  

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76. "^^^ trying to change the subject"
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mmmhmm nigga.

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78. "not really"
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i was just gon' ignore the subject, but SoWhat gave me the perfect opportunity to reference his weiner

  

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79. "well..."
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back to the stated objective.

quick fast homie.

i got inbox. LOL

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63. "but you are in FLorida."
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SIG CORNER

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Facts and news are reports from the current TV drama.
They have no relevance to your 2-billion-year-old divinity.
Myth is the report from the cellular memory bank.
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72. "RE:"
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there's that, and also i'm not a lesbian or transgender....but whatever.

  

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5. "ok queer allies? hahahaha"
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*falls out

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9. "your presence in the post isn't surprising"
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LOL

omg, i have the perfect gift you.

a carmelo anthony throwback!

it's b-more, denver nuggets, and syracuse (showing that i gave it to you) ALL AT THE SAME TIME!

yay! when's ya bday?

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11. "if u mention syracuse ONE mo' FUCKING TIME!"
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_____________________
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24. "lmao"
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-
www.myspace.com/laulau

  

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62. "i'm sayin'!"
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---

@kokupuff

  

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64. "^^^ cunts corner"
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190. " cunts corner?!?"
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There's only four corners in this damned room and I don't see not one... oh wait nevermind *teehee*

Anywho

A/ methuselah or there abouts but still sexy in my geriatric days

S/ it's good, I could use a sandwich though and some money on this
damned gas bill.

L/ they call it O-high-o but I ain't been high in years!

I don't have a favorite web site, I don't send out pics but one day i'll get to a RE and be plastered all over this board (thus hindering my ability to work undercover - lol)

I enjoy Chinese noodles, chihuahuas and black capped chickadees if you know that line then you are old school like me.

I have a wicked sense of humor and a checkbook that's slowly being depleted- if someone else offers to pay for your wedding LET THEM!

this is some old BS - 5 hours of open bar you (well not YOU) MFs better appreciate my broke ass! *sorry just a little frustration leaking out, not at anyone here though*

I know I better get some damned great gifts!
that's my inner gay man speaking! ^^^^^^^
DeeDee





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192. "LOL."
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you are my favorite!

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294. "You're a sweetheart"
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thanks I'm always up in one of your posts- i'mnot trying to stalk you though at least not yet

Dee

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196. "^gave me Hoeegaardan tips^"
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YES MAM!

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295. "Anytime you wanna talk beer i'm your girl"
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I have been drinking the hell out of some Lindeman's Framboise lately, it's another fine Belgian- it's more girly/fruity but one or two can be just right for a man too... it's Raspberry flavored

I'm here to learn/teach

Beer class is open
step up to bar and don't forget to tip!
Dee

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13. "*hands rainbow brite doll and moodring"
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where's the love?
I'm trapped in the closet...
shhhhhhhhhhh

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15. "tee hee"
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16. "*just.in.here.cause.i.need.to.ask.bblock.sumn,right.fast..."
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ya'll.aint.seen.him.have.u??







bblock.me.playing.

  

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36. "*sits next to sugastix looking for bi ladies*"
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97. "bi "ladies"...sureeeeeeeeeeeee"
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.

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
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108. "keke"
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260. "^^^the comic strip"
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~~~~~~~~~~~

I would rather maim than kill
Hurt than maim
Intimidate than hurt
Avoid than intimidate.

~~~~~
congratulations
You now know what its like to be a man.

Eat some pussy. It'll make u feel better. - Esco

~~~~~
DIRTY BITCHES! (c) sug@stix

  

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19. "29/m/Chicago, 8c"
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fuck you.

  

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22. "LMAO"
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this nigga.

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27. "LOL, u a fuckin fool"
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or maybe i am....Huey was this intended for hookup purposes? if so, i can add more info

  

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30. "this post is for the people."
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make it what you want.

it's a vessel. lol

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39. "RE: 29/m/Chicago, 8c????"
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what does 8c mean????

  

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41. "lol"
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fuck you.

  

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42. "lol"
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fuck you.

  

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43. "lol"
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fuck you.

  

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49. "What's so funny?"
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45. "LOL"
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21. "19/f/nyc"
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you can find me on 6th ave with the homo thugs

  

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28. "when are we going to a ball?"
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They have no relevance to your 2-billion-year-old divinity.
Myth is the report from the cellular memory bank.
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34. "D just gave me a flyer...its early april"
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www.myspace.com/laulau

  

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35. "have you gone downtown yet? LMAO"
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They have no relevance to your 2-billion-year-old divinity.
Myth is the report from the cellular memory bank.
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46. "well of course."
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www.myspace.com/laulau

  

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65. "o yay, so you are not even trippin."
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cool.

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67. "not at all haha"
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www.myspace.com/laulau

  

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519. "RE: when are we going to a ball?"
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i wanna go too

somewhere...between the sacred silence and sleep...

when i became the sun, i shone life into the mans heart...

--system of a down

  

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31. "hi fellow homos"
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:-)

  

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98. "wassup!"
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prototype

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37. "26, f, chapel hill, nc"
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>sorry allies, maybe next time.
>
i dont know what else im supposed to add.

oh... recently joined a lesbian women of colour group, and so im 'claiming my side of the fence.'



yeah.... nomofencesitting-o




>and haters thanks for clicking, now bye.
>
>now on to the business.
>
>the new year has ushered in some new queers. identify
>yourself, dammit. this is your database.
>
>a/s/l would be helpful, LOL. jk
>
>yes, but feel free to check-in, post your favorite websites
>(inbox the male porn links to SoWhat and the female porn to
>luvlee2003, however), get your e-hollers on, honor your fav
>okqueer (even those that have seemingly LOGGED OFF).
>
>my non-straight brethren and sistren (even the ones i know
>that'll lurk in this post) this posts for you. you (mostly
>likely) wont' be judged.
>
>me first? 25/m/nyc. LOL

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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38. "i'm think about joining critical resistance."
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i like their politics.

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50. "yeah... i think there's a group here too..."
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at least someone was telling me about something similar

this group of women.... well. i went for their first 'meeting' sunday.

turns out this very white, mainly boy's, gay club (like usually it'll have 1/2 girls and they are straight) has a lounge area at the back where the bartender is this black dyke called muscles......
what a pleasant surprise! cause now i have a new place to hang out at. anyway.... we were talking about coming out in the black community. has this topic not been beaten to death yet??? its like this dead horse will not die...but they seemed pretty cool...so ima keep going.

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http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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40. "y'all know who i be e-hollaring on..... luvluv!! oooohhhhwweeee!!!!"
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..

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http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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53. "i'm e-crushing on Blkprincemd again"
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b/c he posted that face pic as his avy earlier this week. he's since broke my heart by changing it to something else. i'm so distressed i haven't checked to see about the new avatar. luckily that other pic was copied and pasted to my mental hard drive. i wish i'd copied and pasted it to my actual hard drive but i'm not creepy like that.

fuck you.

  

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57. "lol."
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he's on myspace.

it can be your on personal playground.

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60. "Myspace feels like a dirty bathhouse."
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i can only be over there for about 5 minutes before i get disgusted w/myself.

fuck you.

  

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61. "the link is in his sig"
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lol.

direct access.

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66. "c'mon now, you know i've already been there."
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i haven't checked recently but i've looked before when he didn't have any pics posted. i was disappointed and only checked once or twice more after that. it was months ago. i should try again when i get home, it's blocked here.

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68. "updated fam"
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70. "i might skip the gym tonight and go str8 home"
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so i can check.

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77. "please, please don't express this to him"
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just let it burn inside. that's what i do.

  

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87. "oh, he already knows."
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i mean i think he does.

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104. "my new avi is Black Thought!!!!"
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hes the shyt and him and the roots are the reason i first came to okp! yay roots fan 4eva!

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137. "mayne.... this is almost as serious as my luvluv crush..."
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*almost.

you handle that.
if that 8c doesn't catch his attention.... i dontknowhatwill.

what's the female equiv of an 8c. i need digits to get someone's attentione, yo...


>b/c he posted that face pic as his avy earlier this week.
>he's since broke my heart by changing it to something else.
>i'm so distressed i haven't checked to see about the new
>avatar. luckily that other pic was copied and pasted to my
>mental hard drive. i wish i'd copied and pasted it to my
>actual hard drive but i'm not creepy like that.

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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147. "good hands maybe? i always take the time out to notice a"
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woman's hand if i get the chance, among other things.

  

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150. "but I'm an 100% thug top, i dont give a fuck about a dick"
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y'all aint kno! *bounces round room throwing 'bows*

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156. "..and i'm versatile."
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so we're good to go.

fuck you.

  

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158. "lol....versatile is best"
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that top and bttm shyt is soooooooooooo played

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159. "yalls exchanges always make me laugh."
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164. "um why?"
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44. "this goes out to the logged off FAMILY"
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well i think yall logged off. lol

pointfivefag
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48. "damali is bi"
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_______________________________________
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51. "bis are queer."
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it's nice umbrella term.

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52. "now u know stating anything fact or fiction about ______"
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will get you a fervor of inboxes

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56. "pour out some liquor & glitter for SankofaII."
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fuck you.

  

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58. "oh shit."
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i meant to add him too. lol. i posted before i proofread.

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71. "i miss him. i thought he was coming back to NY"
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74. "i think he said he was."
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fuck you.

  

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302. "oh he's here... he's just quiet. :)"
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~K

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kristy does not sleep. she waits.

  

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81. "what about furiousfreddy's aliases?"
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He gave each one of them a different personality and then they all had that fight in a post one time.

  

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83. "aint you one of them?"
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86. "Well, I have had a cartoon as an alias, so..."
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99. "*heart attack*"
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LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

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107. "i'm sayin"
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128. "Bwahahaha"
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.

  

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55. "23/F/NJ"
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was I supposed to include other info?








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82. "it's a FREE post."
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91. "well in that case....."
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I am a gemini and I like long walks on the beach. Oh yeah, and I like to cook. did I miss anything?

  

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93. "..that 'long walks on the beach' bit is just to get the cute women, righ..."
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:P

  

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171. "yup :-)"
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I like to get my ~ on, or whatever it is yall call it around there parts lol

  

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85. "RE: 23/F/NJ"
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ure supposed to include how many inches, and let us kno if ure cut or not

  

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100. "lol, u stoopid"
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88. "nj? where u party?"
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prose before hoes

  

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170. "RE: nj? where u party?"
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I dont really party in NJ like that... I usually go out in NYC, but I did peep u at Jazz n Java tho. I was sittin on the side with those chicks that were hemmin and hawin at your first piece lol

  

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186. "oh shit..."
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i aint hear. it's too cold to go to nyc. i hang out at the colosseum on thurs nites from time to time.

prose before hoes

  

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191. "take it to inbox.."
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195. ":-)"
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305. "whats good?"
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307. "just smiling, i thought yall exchange was nice"
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69. "...ALL QUEERS STAY AWAY FROM DELANEY..."
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I stepped into this post to apply hate.

The guy's NO GOOD.

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80. "I miss kimmie_j"
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now she was cool.

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89. "me too."
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fuck you.

  

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90. "me too."
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fuck you.

  

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84. "i always get to these things too late."
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prose before hoes

  

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102. "its never too late"
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92. "21/m/R-I-C"
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*approaches mic*
*tap tap tap*
is this thing on?
umm... i enjoy porn. breeder porn, mostly.

  

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101. "why do so many homos like str8 porn"
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i mean i watch it too and bust off hardily but cant nuffin beat a group of ninjas doing all sorts of freakiness in white socks...i mean nuffin!

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106. "my theorem:"
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we like watching people cum.

most porn doesn't focus on true female orgasms (hell not even the chick chick stuff, they just kind of "stop"...)

you can't hide from a man shooting his wad across a room though. and there's something appealing about the finality of it all.

www.twitter.com/luvlee2003

  

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111. "hmmm, interesting, but in gay porn u see like multiple"
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cummings, hence why i think its the best, but for lesbians your theory makes perfect sense

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103. "21/M/STL by way of MURRLAND"
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its funny cause the only okps i wanna really meet are the homos (both males and females)

okPEACE

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105. "24/f/tx"
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why ya'll keep posting this stuff during the day?

knowing i got a good job now!

shit. and why am i responding on a friday night? (answer: my gf may or may not have a date tonight so I'm home alone)

Holla at cha girl!

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109. "and the hags who LUH dem!"
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What up nigga?

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110. "^^^ failed reading comprehension"
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112. "not if you just read the title of the post....I'm exercising"
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hetero privilege. I'll do what I want to you hauxmauxs. What you gon' do?

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114. "you're a dyke tho."
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so it's okay for you to be here.

*affirms you*

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124. "*grumble ouchie*"
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www.twitter.com/luvlee2003

  

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126. "I am?"
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Frill?

Shit, with the way shit is going lately.....

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113. "lol, "we can't hav nuffin!""
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115. "*Twirls into post*"
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Getting my Swigga on.

28/m/mpls.

"I don't have to squeeze just to appease your dream." Lady Miss Kier

  

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116. "say more domper."
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the ppl wanna know.

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117. "It's hard to speak while twirling."
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Whachu wanna know?

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118. "lol...i said mad ish in the original post"
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fulfill that.

it's okay to stop twirling now.

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119. "whew."
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Still a bit dizzy.

I must say I enjoy SoWhat's online persona. Plus, I'm hoping to hit up the Oprah hook-up someday. (Preferably the day she's giving away Caribbean islands.)

Your curmudgeounly-ness (damn) has also entertained me, frequently.

I don't have any e-lust for the gays yet, cause we don't really seem to be posting up pics too frequently. What's up with that? Maybe I miss all the good posts.

"I don't have to squeeze just to appease your dream." Lady Miss Kier

  

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122. "i'm too young to be a curmudgeon"
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lol.

snarky? yes.

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123. "haha. a rose by any other name...."
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would still smell as snarky, lol.

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131. "*arrives all late to the party*"
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heeeeeeeeey
21/f/NYC
If you wanna know just ask.

here for dis.

  

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133. "LOL!"
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oh my.

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120. "!!!! (^^^best reply in post)"
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if ur fan a swigga ur cool wit me!

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121. "-------HEEEEEEEEEEYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!-------------"
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"I don't have to squeeze just to appease your dream." Lady Miss Kier

  

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127. "^ ^ ^ I imagined China's voice from Wendy Williams' sound clip"
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LOL

  

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125. "29/m/Tx"
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130. ";-)"
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129. "22/M/Jersey and Chapel Hill, NC"
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I thoroughly enjoy West Indians, parties, and large bank accounts.
Holla




>sorry allies, maybe next time.
>
>and haters thanks for clicking, now bye.
>
>now on to the business.
>
>the new year has ushered in some new queers. identify
>yourself, dammit. this is your database.
>
>a/s/l would be helpful, LOL. jk
>
>yes, but feel free to check-in, post your favorite websites
>(inbox the male porn links to SoWhat and the female porn to
>luvlee2003, however), get your e-hollers on, honor your fav
>okqueer (even those that have seemingly LOGGED OFF).
>
>my non-straight brethren and sistren (even the ones i know
>that'll lurk in this post) this posts for you. you (mostly
>likely) wont' be judged.
>
>me first? 25/m/nyc. LOL

  

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152. "gross:"
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>I thoroughly enjoy West Indians, parties, and large bank
>accounts.
>Holla

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153. "lol."
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134. "my favorite websites."
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http://www.hypertrophy-specific.com/hst_index.html

http://www.lpsg.org/index.php

http://adult.sladinki007.net/index.php?s=c66e9b58b7f924a9199d452dd83fdddb&showforum=15
^^ NWS

http://gofugyourself.typepad.com/

  

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136. "25 / M / ATL"
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where we talk about crazy shit...
re:GEN Online...
http://www.theregen.net

  

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138. "Since y'all say better late than never..."
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>the new year has ushered in some new queers. identify
>yourself, dammit. this is your database.

I'm bi. Not bicurious. Not kiss my friends in the club bi. Not down for a threesome bi w/my bf bi. I'm bi/poly like I could be with either or, even better both, in a long term relationship.

>a/s/l would be helpful, LOL. jk

27/F/Bangkok- soon to be New Orleans (hometown)

~I don't want a bad memory when a jaded one will do. I don't want to make one mistake two...~

"You think too much, calm down."

  

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140. "LMAO @ this:"
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>I'm bi. Not bicurious. Not kiss my friends in the club bi.
>Not down for a threesome bi w/my bf bi. I'm bi/poly like I
>could be with either or, even better both, in a long term
>relationship.

i love it!

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142. "At first I thought it was too much..."
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Then I thought, a little clarification doesn't hurt. Too many men approach me like- hmmmm, the perfect gf, we can have threesomes all the time. gtfoohwtbs (I actually said that out loud really slowly in a low voice.)

I don't want to be lumped in with the fake bi women- it's so not my style. I've dated a few of those and don't like their game at all, especially when I'm not the one doing the pursuing. Anyways.

Just my TMI way of saying, I love people and not genders- HOWEVER I fully appreciate and go down on both.

~I don't want a bad memory when a jaded one will do. I don't want to make one mistake two...~

"You think too much, calm down."

  

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144. "CHEERS!"
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>HOWEVER I fully appreciate and go down on both.
>

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145. "there's wisdom in this reply."
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I love people and not genders-
>HOWEVER I fully appreciate and go down on both.

  

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146. "that there is my friend. that there is."
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www.twitter.com/luvlee2003

  

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143. "beautiful."
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>I'm bi. Not bicurious. Not kiss my friends in the club bi.
>Not down for a threesome bi w/my bf bi. I'm bi/poly like I
>could be with either or, even better both, in a long term
>relationship.

-k-
q.e.p.d.

una y otra vez

  

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151. "^^^rookie of the year!"
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154. "mmmhmmm"
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155. "aight, lets keep this conference going:"
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fellas, do y'all get along with other (black) gay men?

sistren, do y'all get along with other (black) lesbians?


for me, initially at least, i (usually) don't relate well with other homo brothas. now all of my closest friends are gay black and latino men, but even with some of them it took a while to get that point of tru friendhsip.

in general, especially back home in dc/bmore, but its here in STL too, i find that homo black men are very standoffish and cliquish or either all in ur face being slutty cause they like u (BOTH I FIND ANNOYING). and sometimes they can be both, like trying to be all standoffish and catty but then they tell their homeboy to tell u that they like u

even here, on okp, i have got "into it" with some homo brothas who were acting queenie (percraps i was too)IMO, its all good tho no hard feelings

i mean as far as getting hit on i am real good about it cause i was raised to be humble,

but with the "i dont kno *her* im not gonna speak" shyt, ive kinda out grown it
in the past, cause me and all my friends *REALLY* do look good, i respond in kind, wit indifference, but now as im getting older and more "conscious" i wanna stop treating my brothas like that, queen/dl/chill-->whatever u are, if your in the life u gonna be dealing wit some of the same shyt, and we are, a lot of times, all we got

this was long as hell, but i hope it sparks some discussion (my next question will be about how homo men and women relate wit each otha)

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160. "do i get along w/Black gay men?"
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i think i get along w/them about as well as i get along w/anyone. LOL

well, okay i get along w/them slightly better than i get along w/anyone. i feel unattractive around big groups of Black gay men...i feel like i fit in socially but that's where it stops. most of the Black men i've been with i've met outside of Black gay settings but that could be b/c i hang out in so may non-Black gay settings. most likely i feel unwanted/unattractive in Black gay social settings for personal reasons. i gotta work on that shit.

fuck you.

  

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162. "aw, well it could be gay men in general"
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u could answer that, but u seem like u would be regarded as attractive no matta what, from what ive seen,

my relations with white gay men are pretty much the same as with most white ppl, just cordial small talk and u keep it moving, sometimes will share info about who we're dating but it doesnt go far beyond that.

ive had fun the few times i went to non black homo clubs, but my friends that went with me didnt really

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168. "you're right...it's gay men in general."
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i spoke specifically about Black gays b/c of your question but when i think about it i've felt unattractive around gay men in general as of late. just last night i was in a mostly white gay bar feeling unwanted. when i replied earlier i was thinking specifically of a party i attended last month that 100% Black gay men where i felt like a troll and also of the last time i went to The Generator (Black gay club) and got 0 attention except from 1 guy...a white Latino. everybody else ignored me. those are just 2 examples.

but anyway yeah, i feel that way all the time and i know it's my thing.

>u could answer that, but u seem like u would be regarded as
>attractive no matta what, from what ive seen,

*blushing*

fuck you.

  

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169. "you're right...it's gay men in general."
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i spoke specifically about Black gays b/c of your question but when i think about it i've felt unattractive around gay men in general as of late. just last night i was in a mostly white gay bar feeling unwanted. when i replied earlier i was thinking specifically of a party i attended last month that 100% Black gay men where i felt like a troll and also of the last time i went to The Generator (Black gay club) and got 0 attention except from 1 guy...a white Latino. everybody else ignored me. those are just 2 examples.

but anyway yeah, i feel that way all the time and i know it's my thing.

>u could answer that, but u seem like u would be regarded as
>attractive no matta what, from what ive seen,

*blushing*

fuck you.

  

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161. "lol, i hate u so much rite now"
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yeh, ill tell on myself. i dont kno about my boi, but i ddnt speak to u becuz u were bizarre, not cuz u homo. u were like a thing that needed to be observed.


so i did.

  

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163. "OMG, this is really isnt about u LMAO"
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no but that experience is one like all the others, thats tru, but i didnt have u and that time in mind when i wrote this.

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172. "RE: aight, lets keep this conference going:"
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>fellas, do y'all get along with other (black) gay men?

Not yet.

  

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178. "so terse."
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179. "i kno right"
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but i guess thats all that was needed to be said...

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345. "RE: so terse."
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lol

i only have 1 gay friend... and i didnt even like him at first. but he was persistent. i think its a territorial thing with me, i dont like to many gay ppl in my area. smh.

u'd think my adverseness to gay ppl would affect my sex life, but them straight guys be on me son. lol

  

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194. "It's really a love-hate relationship"
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>fellas, do y'all get along with other (black) gay men?
>

I say it's a love-hate relationship because I despise the annoying characteristics that so many of them take on- catty, cliquish, hyper-sexual, dramatic. Sometimes I feel like I can't be nice to people even if I wanted to, cause niggas are so arbitrarily venomous and judgemental.
I feel self-conscious around big groups of black homos, because I know they are among some of the vainest people on earth(although I am not innocent myself lol).
And why does it seem that everybody in a city knows (and sometimes fucks) each other? I hate it; I don't like my social groups overlapping.
And let's just skip the subject of queens- I really don't deal with them on any extended level.

BUT despite the faults of some in the community, I love the black homo best friends that I've acquired. They're such total packages- smart, funny, attractive, and educated. I have so much fun with them, and I know this sounds corny lol, but sometimes I feel so optimistic and complete when we're together. The fact is that to dislike Black homos in general would be to dislike some of the best people in the world.


  

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197. "me and you have very similar outlooks"
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thanx for sharing

and yes co-muddafuccing-sign on erryone knowing (and probably having fucked ) each otha, its really much worst when its tru (and it is) in a big city/urea like dc/bmore...ugk!

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202. "cool beans"
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>fellas, do y'all get along with other (black) gay men?
>
>sistren, do y'all get along with other (black) lesbians?


yup. i get along with women in general.

for some reason though studs(butches) don't really get me at first and usually ignore me, but once they get to know me, they love me to death. i've yet to f*ck one though...

i hate getting put into boxes though, which chicks who are really into roles tend to do, but with time I usually make my case and they let me be me.

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210. "i love black lesbians...."
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yes!!!! i get along with them.

i have especial love for them dykes...
ooohhhweee!!
my first love was the boxers wearing type of dyke that had never ever been with a man.
she's still my heart.
she introduced me to what loving a woman was really about.
(i think i just got wet)
my longest running crush (im still waiting for her to break up with her girl) is a dyke. *she says i follow her around like a lost puppy.
so yes!! i got mad love for dykes.

unfortunately my girlfriends always end up being femmes, idontknoww'supwiththat.
cause i aint even dyked out like that.

but yeah... i only have one close friend that's straight (and she's my best bud, lol)
every other female i like to chill with is gay.
and im trying to make more lesbian friends.




>fellas, do y'all get along with other (black) gay men?
>
>sistren, do y'all get along with other (black) lesbians?
>
>
>for me, initially at least, i (usually) don't relate well with
>other homo brothas. now all of my closest friends are gay
>black and latino men, but even with some of them it took a
>while to get that point of tru friendhsip.
>
>in general, especially back home in dc/bmore, but its here in
>STL too, i find that homo black men are very standoffish and
>cliquish or either all in ur face being slutty cause they like
>u (BOTH I FIND ANNOYING). and sometimes they can be both, like
>trying to be all standoffish and catty but then they tell
>their homeboy to tell u that they like u
>
>even here, on okp, i have got "into it" with some homo brothas
>who were acting queenie (percraps i was too)IMO, its all good
>tho no hard feelings
>
>i mean as far as getting hit on i am real good about it cause
>i was raised to be humble,
>
>but with the "i dont kno *her* im not gonna speak" shyt, ive
>kinda out grown it
>in the past, cause me and all my friends *REALLY* do look
>good, i respond in kind, wit indifference, but now as im
>getting older and more "conscious" i wanna stop treating my
>brothas like that, queen/dl/chill-->whatever u are, if your in
>the life u gonna be dealing wit some of the same shyt, and we
>are, a lot of times, all we got
>
>this was long as hell, but i hope it sparks some discussion
>(my next question will be about how homo men and women relate
>wit each otha)

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213. "they love you too baby! Raowr!"
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216. "luvluv... you make my heart skip 3 beats."
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>

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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219. "see dats wassup, @ both u and luvlee"
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and we didnt take over this post, hushup

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296. "My good friend and best man is a gay black man"
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I have more gay black female friends now then I've ever had, but I chalk that up to setting and not desire.

I'm basically the oldest of my friends here in OH and married, I don't tend to go out in search of new friends, i've been blessed to just have people fall in to the fold(um no sex-o lol) oddly enough most of my close male friends are str8 white guys here in OH.

I get along with gay and str8 brothas but I feel like the str8 guys are a little dissapointed when they find out i'm gay- and I don't even see myself as the extra sexy type, I'm not hardcore butch at all but i'm not the femme-y type either.

depending on how i'm dressed I get cruised by gay black men (which amuses me) when I do go out to the club(s). My inner gay man comes out when dancing, i'm not that stand in the corner posting up type of girl - my inner gay man LOVES some house music!

i'd like to get to know more gay black folks, it's just such an interesting dynamic to me. Because when I was coming out (back in the Jurrasic period) people of color were few and far between.


Dee

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157. "...daaaaayummm"
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this post went diamond lol. and that is surprising since it is about gay people and okp is sooo straight........anyway.

  

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165. "u didnt put ur a/s/l...so ppl can get then :)~ on"
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166. "he's married."
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173. "."
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n/m

  

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175. "LIES"
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but, he is a love hater. remember that.

  

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176. "lol"
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167. "ohh, i forgot"
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Mon Feb-27-06 12:42 PM by quadrush

  

          

i'll fill it out like this is www.adam4adam.com

27/M/sc
status: in a situation
style: sexy fat boy
top
just looking for friends...unles your name is corey and then i would be willing to drop my 2yr relationship for a one night stand where you just let me watch from a closet while you do your thing whith someone much sexier than i.

  

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174. "LOL"
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fuck you.

  

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177. "...ugk, u guys..."
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201. "thahell? lol"
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www.twitter.com/luvlee2003

  

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180. "I love searching out my name..."
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I do!

Oh yea, 26/m/atlanta.

it takes a muscle.

  

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181. "we need more lesbos....n/m"
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>sorry allies, maybe next time.
>
>and haters thanks for clicking, now bye.
>
>now on to the business.
>
>the new year has ushered in some new queers. identify
>yourself, dammit. this is your database.
>
>a/s/l would be helpful, LOL. jk
>
>yes, but feel free to check-in, post your favorite websites
>(inbox the male porn links to SoWhat and the female porn to
>luvlee2003, however), get your e-hollers on, honor your fav
>okqueer (even those that have seemingly LOGGED OFF).
>
>my non-straight brethren and sistren (even the ones i know
>that'll lurk in this post) this posts for you. you (mostly
>likely) wont' be judged.
>
>me first? 25/m/nyc. LOL

.
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182. "mmmhmmm"
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i bet you do.

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183. "Except with the way things are nowadays.."
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we might end up with the publicity lesbians cosmigrrl was talking about.
so im kinda conflicted.

lets just put it this way....

*I need more lesbians in my life...


(purely platonic......

.....of course)...

.
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184. "me, myself, personally"
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i wouldnt mind seeing some new dick around here






of course itd hav 2 b platonic...like u said

  

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198. "ewww"
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185. "mmmhmmm"
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i bet you do.

(did i say that twice? lol)

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187. "yes, you are getting quite boring and predictable."
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No wonder wdsmith needs some new purely platonic (of course) d%^k


>i bet you do.
>
>(did i say that twice? lol)

.
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189. "ew."
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i hate that subject line.

look @ all the dykes that have responded and you ignored.

hmph.

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211. "yeah... i need to holla at blankstare..."
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*that avy!

and i still got that mental picture of the time she mandated what her first bra looked like....






>i hate that subject line.
>
>look @ all the dykes that have responded and you ignored.
>
>hmph.

.
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214. "last i heard she was single now..."
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but you ain't hear that from me ©lady in the window

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188. "aiight i'm back...22/f/nj/dc"
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prose before hoes

  

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200. "u look like a lady killer/heart breaker"
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the type to cause femmes to fight over u, like the lesbian version of me (jokes)

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193. "30 /f / VA"
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fave websites: blackademic.com, crunktastical.blogspot.com/, fourfour.typepad.com, blackgayblogger.com

blog: dustdaughter.livejournal.com (pics on blog are not of me)

Hi.
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199. "hey"
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207. "i haven't seen you before.... nicetomeetyou."
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>fave websites: blackademic.com, crunktastical.blogspot.com/,
>fourfour.typepad.com, blackgayblogger.com
>
>blog: dustdaughter.livejournal.com (pics on blog are not of
>me)
>
>Hi.
>______________________________
>

.
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228. "your photos"
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i'm sensing a very quirky sense of humor... i dig that
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203. "the dudes took over this post yet again!"
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damn ya'll some chatty mofos!


i still love ya'll though



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204. "yall ack funny."
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and introverted.

nobody got time for all that. lol

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205. "negro you know we stay busy unpacking u-hauls"
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ain't got time to be checking on posts all day!

ya'll just busy trying to hook up!

we need some more women up in here though...


>and introverted.
>
>nobody got time for all that. lol

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206. "*flips thru magazine while getting pedi*"
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*gets facial*

oh, what was that? you need more women in here?

um, go summon your database. lol

*purses lips*

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218. "lolol, both y'all silly"
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217. "lol"
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208. "this is a do-over"
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21/f/NYC
us ladies are looking so lonely in this post
we should huddle together.

here for dis.

  

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209. "^^^ rallying cry!"
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212. "but you so young baby... *huddles anyway*"
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232. "*please answer the qn below. thanks."
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.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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220. "question for the womyn..."
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what y'all think about dykes that be wearing strap ons like -all the time.
actually... how do y'all feel about strap ons.

lil story..
other day i was at the local gay club...
cabaret starts and this hella fine dyke is performing.
now she was kinda young and all.....
but trust and believe i could already imagine the things
i would do to her if she let me..
but anyway... she's doing her show, she's in a man's suit,
lookin like something you want to eat first thing in the mawning...
takes off her coat, her shirt is unbuttoned ... tittays just fall out
like they were being called or something...
and there's like a collective sigh of desire among all the females
(girls was ackin real cunty)....

but.... her pants kinda drop.. right..
and she's got a strap on.....

personally...
not really my thing.
i.dont.want.that.when.im.with.my.woman.
i dont like toys, period.
(maybe im just repressed)..
but i wanta know what y'all think.

how many of y'all know the entire catalog of goodvibrations..
and how many of y'all are like me.
know how to make that p*&sy call out yo name without needing nothing else?



.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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221. "i want some answers, dammit!"
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.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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222. "there's this area of my forearm"
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*points to forearm* right here that would jump off my body and pay me cash money to get a strap if it could. Like seriously my forearms are like the strongest parts of my body due to not having a strap (if you're lost folks just give it a second it'll come to you...)

so umm yeah anyways lol i've priced them and know exactly what kind i'd want if i were ever to go ahead and make that expenditure for that appendage(r)

good vibes sells this red and black marble looking one. not too big (for me) not too small (for her)

i just can't go there yet. like thats such an official official type of thing ya know?

i have to admit that i would try wearing it out and about one evening just to see what it feels like.

now i've never been with someone and NOt been able to make them cum, but i'd be lying if i said i wouldn't like to be able to do it hands or mouth free.

>what y'all think about dykes that be wearing strap ons like
>-all the time.
>actually... how do y'all feel about strap ons.
>
>lil story..
>other day i was at the local gay club...
>cabaret starts and this hella fine dyke is performing.
>now she was kinda young and all.....
>but trust and believe i could already imagine the things
>i would do to her if she let me..
>but anyway... she's doing her show, she's in a man's suit,
>lookin like something you want to eat first thing in the
>mawning...
>takes off her coat, her shirt is unbuttoned ... tittays just
>fall out
>like they were being called or something...
>and there's like a collective sigh of desire among all the
>females
>(girls was ackin real cunty)....
>
>but.... her pants kinda drop.. right..
>and she's got a strap on.....
>
>personally...
>not really my thing.
>i.dont.want.that.when.im.with.my.woman.
>i dont like toys, period.
>(maybe im just repressed)..
>but i wanta know what y'all think.
>
>how many of y'all know the entire catalog of goodvibrations..
>and how many of y'all are like me.
>know how to make that p*&sy call out yo name without needing
>nothing else?
>
>
>
>

  

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226. "wow.... i'm like.. the exact opposite..."
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>but i'd be lying if i said i wouldn't like to be
>able to do it hands or mouth free.


i cant imagine ever doing this hands, tongue, breasts, pussy, (andeveryotherbodypartieverused)- free.

there's too much pleasure in using *just my body to please.

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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229. "my arms be hurting tho"
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like seriously my wrists and arms be HURTING

its strictly an issue of utility for me.

i mean there's a novelty aspect. but i wont be like worshipping the thing.

im just trying to give my body some rest

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230. "hhmm......y'know.. i *can show you what else you can do"
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im not saying you dont know...

im just saying...





(oh hell!! this might be an undacova holla...)

i dont really have that problem, tho.
cause there's too many *other things to do, y'know.




>like seriously my wrists and arms be HURTING
>
>its strictly an issue of utility for me.
>
>i mean there's a novelty aspect. but i wont be like
>worshipping the thing.
>
>im just trying to give my body some rest

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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236. "that was SO not undercover"
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>im not saying you dont know...
>
>im just saying...
>
>
>
>
>
>(oh hell!! this might be an undacova holla...)
>
>i dont really have that problem, tho.
>cause there's too many *other things to do, y'know.

no comment.

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250. "it was an attempt at undacova-ness"
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but im serious though.


y'know.






infinite possibilities (c)amel


>>im not saying you dont know...
>>
>>im just saying...
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>(oh hell!! this might be an undacova holla...)
>>
>>i dont really have that problem, tho.
>>cause there's too many *other things to do, y'know.
>
>no comment.

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
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297. "co sign plus a great ab workout"
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:x oops
Dee

Should a person do good, let him do good over and over again. Let him find pleasure therein, for blissful is the accumulation of good ~ Buddhist teachings

Av: was taken in January. I've got a bit more hair now.

  

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234. "um while im not gay enough to reply just yet"
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i would like to contribute that my gf really wants to get one and i think its because she some how thinks itll ween me from my desire for men or something

meanwhile im not even really keen on the idea.

  

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245. "how do *you feel about it though?"
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i mean why not?

for me its more of seeing a toy as some sort of invasion.
like if i cant please my woman with what i got, then what's the point, really.

i kinda want to know what reasons (pro and cons) folks got.

also cause i feel that *some dykes wear strap-ons for reasons other than what i know.
and i think for most, its a sexual experience very independent of the hetero model.

so....


i need some answers......
why aren't you keen on the idea?



>i would like to contribute that my gf really wants to get one
>and i think its because she some how thinks itll ween me from
>my desire for men or something
>
>meanwhile im not even really keen on the idea.

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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248. "in short because"
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if i want a penis, ill get a man
and quite frankly i dont think id even mind it if she hadnt vocalized that she wants to do it in an attempt to turn me off from men
im bothered that she thinks i can be controlled or satisfied that easily

plus, i like her and she pleases me and i just dont need it
shes femme and i like her that way

  

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249. "are you and nk the same person?"
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>if i want a penis, ill get a man
>and quite frankly i dont think id even mind it if she hadnt
>vocalized that she wants to do it in an attempt to turn me off
>from men
>im bothered that she thinks i can be controlled or satisfied
>that easily
>
>plus, i like her and she pleases me and i just dont need it
>shes femme and i like her that way
>
>

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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251. "oui."
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-
www.myspace.com/laulau

  

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253. "my gf was obsessed"
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about me leaving her for a dude when we first got together.

her last gf was like a stud who fell to family pressure and straight left her for a dude

it took time for her to finally get that i was in it because i wanted to be and not as some reaction to (or against) dudes

i'm like, if im with you i'm with you and if i feel like i cant be with you, ill let you know well in advance.


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255. "i dont even know what to say to comfort her."
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263. "honestly,"
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once our relationship stabilized (you know, getting past the games and getting to know you and possessiveness that comes with a new relationship) it went away.

just took time and really getting to know each other and know what kind of realtionship we wanted/needed to have.

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262. "we need to talk about this, i swear..."
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my ex is getting married *this friday.
to a german dude, no less


shit! i dont even know what to think about this.

is it peer pressure
could this be love? (c) bobmarley
was it just a phase?

i don't know.
it would be hard for me too, though. if a chick left me for a guy (i kinda understand if we'd already broken up... but straight up from my bed and onto a man's dick? nah ah.)







>
about me leaving her for a dude when we first got together.
>
>her last gf was like a stud who fell to family pressure and
>straight left her for a dude
>
>it took time for her to finally get that i was in it because i
>wanted to be and not as some reaction to (or against) dudes
>
>i'm like, if im with you i'm with you and if i feel like i
>cant be with you, ill let you know well in advance.
>
>
>

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
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303. "I'm not big on the idea of strap-ons all the time either"
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Maybe i feel this way because I'm still attracted to men, but when I'm with a woman (God it's been too long), I appreciate all that makes her a woman and NOT a man: breasts, ass, thighs, pussy. I'm not checking a girl for the size of her strap-on lol.

here for dis.

  

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223. "I'm such a negro...*looks @ watch*"
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*clears throat* well, not to interrupt the last call

BUT

26/female here/progression in MD beginnings from FL
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

<~ No quality is more attractive than poise...that deep sense of being at ease with yourself and the world.

  

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224. "^^^^ she be havin them dope avy's, san"
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233. "it's just evidence of my 3rd eye malfunctioning"
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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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225. "this post will live for ever. CPT dont exist here."
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oh...and another lady. yay!

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227. "i can rest easy... we are coming out!!"
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>oh...and another lady. yay!

.
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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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231. "please answer the qn posted above you. thanks.."
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it's necessary for admittance into the database..

(luvluv, can i use this lie, please? i want some answers, dammit!)


>*clears throat* well, not to interrupt the last call
>
>BUT
>
>26/female here/progression in MD beginnings from FL
>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
>
><~ No quality is more attractive than poise...that deep sense
>of being at ease with yourself and the world.

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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235. "she BEEN in the database"
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lol seriously

like seriously i think ya'll dont be taking me seriously with this thing.

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238. "i know this... cause i know you aint slacking..."
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i just wanted to offer a morsel or someshit to get her to answer the question... like acting like you need to pass some kinda test to gain admittance..
now you've ruined the whole thing, luvluv...


i still luvs you though.




>lol seriously
>
>like seriously i think ya'll dont be taking me seriously with
>this thing.
>
>

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
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241. "sorry, girlie"
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asking those ?s aren't my style
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266. "no prob."
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* i kinda feel bad that you called me girlie though.



like... i dont know....


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237. "FAMILY MEETING!"
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due to recent events i think it's time i suggest something.

i advocate critical solidarity. i'm all for engaging conversation where viewpoints and perspectives oppose. but for the sack of respect etc let's keep it above the belt and not get too emo in the process.

imo, a criticism from a queerade is typically on some "just LOL bitch" or something that should be thought about in a reasonable manner. everything isn't a personal attack. know your audience. thanks.

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239. "oh my goodness im dying right now"
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like im fr5eaking hunched over the computer laughing right now




>due to recent events i think it's time i suggest something.
>
>i advocate critical solidarity. i'm all for engaging
>conversation where viewpoints and perspectives oppose. but for
>the sack of respect etc let's keep it above the belt and not
>get too emo in the process.
>
>imo, a criticism from a queerade is typically on some "just
>LOL bitch" or something that should be thought about in a
>reasonable manner. everything isn't a personal attack. know
>your audience. thanks.
>

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240. "i'm serious tho. like, we can be critical and collegial right?"
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i dunno. maybe i'm getting old.

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243. "i agree 100%. we some smart and fun mofos. lets keep it peaceful."
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244. "*rocks like sophia*"
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257. "LMAO, ur such a mess."
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.

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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242. "exactly, this is real, its hard to convey what..."
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im trying to express on this message board, so shyt may come off as snark when its more like frustration or me being baffled.

im not trying to shoot down anyone for self discovery but i do have opinions about what i consider to be wearing a critical part of my identity as if it was new handbag

thats why i didnt get all into a back and forth with ababa/nk in her post but im glad that she imed me to discuss what i thought (but i see the snarkiness has already begun, see her reply to akon in this post above)

but anyway constuctive concriticism is not bad, but this is my opinion so anyone can take it or leave it, especially in regards to ones self identity

prototype

stand ur ground, believe in urself,
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247. "look, water under a bridge"
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im not interested in beefing OR defending my sexuality or how i choose to express it

so with that said
just dont read my post

  

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258. "i kinda feel the same way, though."
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i mean i love this fam.
and i stick up for us alla the time.

but i think blkmd's prob (and mine) is that
nk has been known to say some homophobic sounding shit
and this was no less than a few months ago.
so this is all kinda questionable and ish, y'know.

but hey, hueyS, ur are right,
im just gonna just LOL
it aint that crucial.


but i clearly feel what blkmd is saying.




>im trying to express on this message board, so shyt may come
>off as snark when its more like frustration or me being
>baffled.
>
>im not trying to shoot down anyone for self discovery but i do
>have opinions about what i consider to be wearing a critical
>part of my identity as if it was new handbag
>
>thats why i didnt get all into a back and forth with ababa/nk
>in her post but im glad that she imed me to discuss what i
>thought (but i see the snarkiness has already begun, see her
>reply to akon in this post above)
>
>but anyway constuctive concriticism is not bad, but this is my
>opinion so anyone can take it or leave it, especially in
>regards to ones self identity
>
>

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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264. "lmao when have i EVER said anything REMOTELY homophobic?"
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oh please
you definately have me confused as fuck

  

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269. "lol."
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prototype

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271. "im glad you're amused"
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really i find it rather disturbing that you think homosexuality is something so exclusive that i can't talk about it or understand it

im really bothered right now
but im not even interested in going there

do you think i havent experienced adversity so i cant be on your level?

whatever

  

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278. "i think any sgl person on the boards"
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who speaks about their personal experiences in the life (whether from your amsofunky to your akons to your sowhats to newbies like you) can and do contribute much to okp.

all perspectives are welcome perspectives in my book.

there are some nutjobs on these boards and i know personally it makes me feel good to know that there are folks here who are coming from where i'm coming from regarding this particular aspect of my idenity. cause sometimes it's rough out there in the real world.

please dont be bothered though. im sure no harm has been meant by anything posted in here.

>really i find it rather disturbing that you think
>homosexuality is something so exclusive that i can't talk
>about it or understand it
>
>im really bothered right now
>but im not even interested in going there
>
>do you think i havent experienced adversity so i cant be on
>your level?
>
>whatever
>

www.twitter.com/luvlee2003

  

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281. "naw im good. ill keep anything regarding the subject to myself."
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-
www.myspace.com/laulau

  

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285. "aiight man."
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AIM me sometime, we should chat.


RoneJonePatt

  

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282. "co-sign"
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different perspectives are great and ppl are gonna have different opinions about those perspectives and HOW they are expressed, but i feel like if u kno who u are u will be like whatever im mean and not get all out of pocket

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272. "i guess its all perspectives..."
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as i said before,

in the right now, its not that crucial.
im enjoying this post too much to let shit get negative


so.. im gonna go back to thinking about the next intensely
personal question im gonna ask the womyn.

hueyS just asked us not to negative.

and i dont like e-bickering.
everyone can post whatever the hell they want





>oh please
>you definately have me confused as fuck

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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273. "well im cunty. so fuck you and fuck him. the end."
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-
www.myspace.com/laulau

  

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275. "this exchange is the opposite of collegial."
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i lost.

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277. "no u didnt, u won, lets not focus on the minor"
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negative, with all the greatness of this post, u kno erryone appreciates u for this post, and i mean that sincerely

prototype

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279. "i apologise, hueyS"
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i tried.
i mean i still dont see what i said wrong, y'know?
i mean i just stated what i felt.
and i even said, its not that crucial.
its all perspectives.

now i feel bad....

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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283. "inbox"
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-
www.myspace.com/laulau

  

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276. "im enjoying this post too much to let shit get negative"
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(c) akon

and thats the bttm (no pun intended lol) line, aint nobody trying to be on that bickering stuff in here.


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298. "yes."
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>im trying to express on this message board, so shyt may come
>off as snark when its more like frustration or me being
>baffled.

^^ me too. i've been accused of being snarky in the same way.

  

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252. "let this crap drop"
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254. "god, stop hating for a day."
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please.

PLEASE!

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267. "ME?! HATING?!?!?!"
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you exude hate from every FIBER OF YOUR BEING!

  

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256. "you discriminating against the womyns!!!"
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when we finally start representing in the post ya'll want to shut it down!


you see what im talking about???


do you SEE what i be talking about?


!!!!!


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259. "go flat iron your hair"
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.

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261. "i did sunday."
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and umm... i aint realize we was rollin this deep. we should hold more posts like these.

homOKAYplayers unite!

  

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265. "ooooh, i wanna see new pics"
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and yes i love this post its like a conference/meet and greet

i wanna be the delegate from hawaii, can I?

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270. "yeah.. this post is surprisingly refreshing...."
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>and yes i love this post its like a conference/meet and
>greet
>
>i wanna be the delegate from hawaii, can I?

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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268. "ive been on this site for a while and i've yet to be offended until toda..."
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i didnt realize being gay was a club i had to be initiated in

smh


  

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274. "oh a good website is fobrothas.com"
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they dont update it enuff IMO but it still good, especially the first time u go

and also amazon.com, if u do a search u can find great books on there, i bought afrekete, an athology of black lesbian short stories after i did a search at amazon and its a very good book

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280. ":( you know what this means right????"
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"it's" in us.


you know "it" *points at okp*


now *we* too could ruin a wet dream (or a bed hunch for the ladies)


sad.


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284. "o dear god no!"
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noooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

now im starting to feel bad, just cause of the damper its put on this post.

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287. "i feel bad, like maybe i partly caused this..."
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and even worse for ruining a bed hunch (for myself).
i was just getting ready to get extra indepth with my questions and shit.

oh well. its bedtime i guess.

*shit... now i need a damn cig. i thought tonight would be my quitting night. but....




>ladies)
>
>
>sad.
>
>
>

.
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288. "gurl hush, u dont need no cig"
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.

prototype

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289. "i quit everytime i finish a pack."
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its a damn shame, no?
but those natural mint natsherman's mayne. something about that sweet taste they leave in your mouth. you know im all about 'sweet tastes in the mouth.


*grumbles....
now you got me thinking about what i *really want to be tasting.

dont make me start making booty calls and shit.


my o my!

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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290. "make 'em!"
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the booty calls that is,


sex>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>cigarettes.

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291. "have your ass a cig if you want!"
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i support it.

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286. "yall should be reading kai wright"
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www.kaiwright.com

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293. "damn...i missed all the good shit"
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23/m/tx (d-town, what it do?)


:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|

avi: "gotta love terrell, tx"

the one and only: www.myspace.com/mayn1

think i'm lyin'?!: www.damaynwun.blogspot.com

  

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299. "RE: me too!"
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damn! i log off last night and come back this mornin and so much is goin on. Huey's holding meetings, folks are trying to console and/or argue with lesbians....so much(lol, how gay)





i dnt kno where to begin

  

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300. "#300: let's talk about queer love"
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does it really exist and if it does, can it ever be found in places such as adam4adam or blkgaychat? i think that for the most part, straits think that all we do is hook up and sex each other but let's talk about real relationships that have real romantic love!

  

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301. "RE: i met my folks on a chatline"
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...we met up outta curiosity cuz the chatline was based outta state and we were suprised that we were both calling from the same place. anyways, in april itll b 3 yrs. i dnt like to use the "L" word, but some would call it luv.



("L" word does not equal Lesbian)

  

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306. "sa couples look forward to gay marriage.."
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i shoulda posted this here..

this post will never die.

i loved reading this article. thought i'd share.

-----------------


Gay marriages are to become legal in South Africa by the end of this year, after a Constitutional Court ruling that the current marriage laws were discriminatory. The BBC News website's Justin Pearce spoke to one young couple who are delighted at the news.
Mpumi Mathabela and Asanda Mjobo are the kind of couple who finish each other's sentences even when they're disagreeing with each other.

"I'd like to be pregnant..." says Asanda.

"... and I'm like: 'Yippee'." Mpumi chimes in.

"But when we're older," Asanda says. "You can't have a baby in a flat."

"When we have a secure future," agrees Mpumi. "I wouldn't want a child to be asking for something when I couldn't buy it. So as soon as we've sorted that out - we'll have one."

Gay and lesbian couples are allowed to adopt in South Africa, but Asanda and Mpumi will instead be looking for a donor father.

Asanda gets a wistful look in her eye: "Such an experience, that cute little thing growing inside you."

Mpumi shudders: "I'm scared of having a child inside me. I'm glad she made that decision."

If God intended you to be lesbians, then who am I to judge?

Asanda's grandmother
They have been living together for almost two years and have always thought they would get married one day.

"Even if the court ruling had been different we would still have gone ahead with it," Mpumi says.

"Not necessarily in a year, but as soon as we're ready. Maybe in two years, maybe less."

Asanda works as an office administrator - Mpumi produces the website for Behind the Mask, a group that works for the rights of gays and lesbians in Africa.


Families

In contrast to many other lesbian and gay couples in South Africa, Asanda and Mpumi have enjoyed the support of their own families in their relationship.


Mpumi works on gay and lesbian rights issues throughout Africa
"My mother calls Asanda 'Mrs Mathabela'," says Mpumi - she in turn said she was treated like one of the family when she visited Asanda's parents' home in the Eastern Cape.

"My family - they love me," Asanda says. "My gran said when I told her: "If God intended you to be lesbians, then who am I to judge?" They know I'm living a clean life, not doing any drugs and working hard."

Mpumi had a similar experience: "My mum and dad are very open minded. Mum always said: 'Stand up for what you believe in'."

Discrimination

Despite laws that are favourable towards lesbians and gay men in South Africa, discrimination remains common in wider society, and black lesbians endure the worst of the abuse.

They always say we contribute to moral degeneration - they blame that on us, as if the whole beautiful thing of marriage and family values is going to disappear

Mpumi
Earlier in February, a young woman called Zoliswa Nkonyana was murdered by a group of 20 men in Khayelitsha, Cape Town, for being a lesbian.

Asanda and Mpumi recognise that they are luckier than most, and say they would not always advise another lesbian to be as open as they are about their sexuality.

"She must be sure she wants to come out," Asanda says. "It's not always safe to be an out lesbian."

"You need introspection," Mpumi says. "You need to face your fears."

Harassment

Mpumi recalls harassment when she was a student in Durban: "Guys at the Technikon always said we take their women - like all these women who they don't know belonged to them, or women are some kind of prize."

Asanda tells of the time when she, her former partner and some female friends were out at a cafe one night - a group of men kept calling to them, followed them out when they left, and beat up some of their friends.


The couple enjoy the support of their families
"They were jealous because we were with beautiful girls who didn't give them any attention. We don't do public places a lot - we prefer to chill at a friend's house or go to safer places and get a cab home."

In their neighbourhood, people either accept or ignore them.

"One time the painter who was painting the flats came in while I was watching TV," says Mpumi. "He asked if I had a boyfriend, and I said: 'No, a girlfriend'.

"He looked at me - there was that blank look for a second, and then it was: 'I didn't hear you say a word'."

Love

"This gay marriage is something they don't want to hear about," says Asanda. "As if all heterosexual marriages are working OK, and as if when they legalise gay marriage everyone will become gay."

"They always say we contribute to moral degeneration," Mpumi adds.

"They blame it on us - as if the whole beautiful thing of marriage and family values is going to disappear. But family values have already disappeared and we have nothing to do with it. I want to ask one of them what's so perfect about their hetero world the way it is now?"

"Fathers are raping children," Asanda says.

"Brothers rape sisters."

"And we just love one another, but it's a problem for them."


>does it really exist and if it does, can it ever be found in
>places such as adam4adam or blkgaychat? i think that for the
>most part, straits think that all we do is hook up and sex
>each other but let's talk about real relationships that have
>real romantic love!

.
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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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308. "of course their is queer love and u can find it anywhere"
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what a silly question.

u just have to sift thru some bullshyt sometimes

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309. "does that mean there's a chance for us?"
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fuck you.

  

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313. "of course..."
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u got good credit right?

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314. "yes."
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oh wow, am i old enough to be your sugar daddy/sponsor?

LOL

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315. "old is neva an attractive feature to me, dont say that ugk"
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29-30 is about my limit, so lets forget this old business

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316. "wow...i'm in the upper reaches of someone's limit. LOL"
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this is a new thing for me but i dig it (i'll be 30 in July).

just don't bring me your gas bill on our 1st date. wait until the 2nd.

fuck you.

  

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318. "lol, deal, but seriously"
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i like to take care of myself...but gifts are always welcome

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320. "our 1st date is at Imo's."
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actually you have a choice...either Imo's or some place where i can get a good St. Paul sandwich.

and as a gift i'll let you order extra cheese at Imo's or some egg rolls at the Chinamens.

fuck you.

  

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323. "*dick goes soft*"
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.....

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324. "oh i forgot you're not from STL."
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well maybe we can find some of that Mumbo/Mambo sauce to put on your St. Paul. y'all eat that sauce in Maryland, right?

i'll bring you a bottle as your gift.

fuck you.

  

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329. "lol, ive neva seen Mumbo sauce in a bottle"
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that would be impressive!

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331. "and what do i get if i find such a bottle?"
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fuck you.

  

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333. "well, gotta do my homework now ttyl"
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.

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335. "LOL...i'll be on e-bay looking for mumbo sauce."
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fuck you.

  

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341. "LOL!"
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you guys!

*throws tomato*

---------
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311. "well i've never found it on the internet but"
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1 of my best friends met his boyfriend of 3.5 yrs on Salon.com.

they had 1 date and moved in together like lesbians.

fuck you.

  

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304. "QUESTION: Anyone see The Aggressives?"
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thoughts?

and how do you feel about the inevitable comparison with Paris is Burning?

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310. "Okhomos, Lets get Free - Free Xone by Janet Jackson"
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He was on a airplane
Sittin next to this guy
Said he wasn’t too shy
And he seemed real nice
Until I found out he was gay
That’s so not mellow

Let’s get free. . .

Let’s get free
Let’s get free
Now make it mellow
Now make it mellow

Freestyle
Xone 1
Boy meets boy
Boy loses boy
Boy gets cute boy back

Girl meets girl
Girl loses girl
Girl gets cute girl back

One rule
No rules
One love
Freexone
Let’s get free. . .

Let’s get free
Let’s get free
Now make it mellow
Now make it mellow

Freestyle
Xone 2

Boy meets girl
Boy loses girl
Boy gets cute girl back

Girl meets boy
Girl loses boy
Girl gets cute girl back

Free to be who you really are
One rule
No rules
One love
Freexone
Let’s get free. . .

Let’s get free
Let’s get free
Let’s get let’s get let’s get free
Let’s get free
Now make it mellow
Now make it mellow

Freestyle
Xone 3

Love your sister
Love your brother
Love yourself

Remember
One rule
No rules
One love
Freexone
Freexone
Freexone

One rule
No rules
One love
Freexone
Freexone
Freexone
Freexone

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312. "Serious question "y'all": Is Jaye Swigga a ghey icon for"
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us ogayplayer mens?


she is too me!

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367. "y'all kno yall love Swiggs!"
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369. "RE: she seems to get her share of hate"
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but i lubs that mothafucka

  

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370. "can't cosign"
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her posting style irks my last nerve.

she probably is quite interesting in person.
but her e-personality???

nah ah.
and i dont appreciate t

>but i lubs that mothafucka

.
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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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373. "see, its cause u a woman"
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seriously i think, i feel like the only ppl that lub some swigga are ghey men

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372. "swigga is grace"
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<= "Tomorrow" Romare Bearden

  

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376. "no, shes sooo much more, shes diana ross young"
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shes janet, shes mary j., shes beyonce, she is that lady that sung "its raining man, hallejuh"

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467. "*big gigantic hugs* :-) nm"
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nm





---AND, ON THE 8TH DAY, GOD CREATED SWIGGA ... AND SHE WAS VERY, VERY GOOD :=)-

main jawn likes it: www.divasincharge.com/SwiggasBossy.mp3

Challenge what u THINK u know: http://www.WhatThePeopleREALLYThink.com ®

http://www.GoBuyOurShit.com ®

  

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468. "lol"
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.

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317. "22/f/ny"
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319. "lol, this post is so great, *gives wassup head nod*"
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its a safe haven

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322. "lol"
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sup?

  

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325. "chillin, bout to take a nap"
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have u e-met any of the lovely oklesbians or bi women?

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336. "I lurk here all the time, so I know who they are, hehe n/m"
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321. "damn, y'all had to do this post while i was out of town?"
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i know i'm ridic. late, am currently seeing a guy, but for what it's worth:

24/f/CA soon to be NY in June

i'll quickly try and answer the questions i remember from my initial skimming of the post:

queer friends? yes, both male and female...though it wasn't until i really started becoming comfortable with my sexuality that i really began to establish a strong basis for friendships with gay women


strap ons? uhhhh no. if i wanted dick, i'd sleep with a guy. what i love about women is the fact that they are women (and i'm all about celebrating our womanhood together)


queer love? it's def. possible and just as beautiful hetero love

fav posters? always enjoy HueyS's posts (and crazy remarks) though Goldmind is a fav of mine as well. regarding the ladies, luv and akon will always be special b/c of their timely advice to me back when

i think i've covered everything.

<--------

i'm sayin...

  

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326. "i think this my favorite post ever"
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.

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328. "edit: *never reply when in a rush:-)*"
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nm

<--------

i'm sayin...

  

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330. "huh? what are u talking bout?"
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it is understood that ur bi, who said u werent

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332. "oops. thought you were attempting to crack a sarcastic joke(don't ask)"
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...(don't ask) sorry about that i was in a rush, misinterpreted/assumed. lo siento.

i edited.

my apologies.

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346. "like mana from heaven. you are right on time!!"
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nice to see you here!


>i know i'm ridic. late, am currently seeing a guy, but for
>what it's worth:
>
>24/f/CA soon to be NY in June
>
>i'll quickly try and answer the questions i remember from my
>initial skimming of the post:
>
>queer friends? yes, both male and female...though it wasn't
>until i really started becoming comfortable with my sexuality
>that i really began to establish a strong basis for
>friendships with gay women
>
>
>strap ons? uhhhh no. if i wanted dick, i'd sleep with a guy.
>what i love about women is the fact that they are women (and
>i'm all about celebrating our womanhood together)
>
>
>queer love? it's def. possible and just as beautiful hetero
>love
>
>fav posters? always enjoy HueyS's posts (and crazy remarks)
>though Goldmind is a fav of mine as well. regarding the
>ladies, luv and akon will always be special b/c of their
>timely advice to me back when
>
>i think i've covered everything.
>

.
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327. "Even though I'm extra extra late"
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23/f/boston

  

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334. "neva too late, when is the last time u were with a female"
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?

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337. "24/F/AZ...it seems oknonheteros can unite when they really want"
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to.

  

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338. "goodness its a lot of us"
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339. "*sigh... I love my okqueers!!"
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>sorry allies, maybe next time.
>
>and haters thanks for clicking, now bye.
>
>now on to the business.
>
>the new year has ushered in some new queers. identify
>yourself, dammit. this is your database.
>
>a/s/l would be helpful, LOL. jk
>
>yes, but feel free to check-in, post your favorite websites
>(inbox the male porn links to SoWhat and the female porn to
>luvlee2003, however), get your e-hollers on, honor your fav
>okqueer (even those that have seemingly LOGGED OFF).
>
>my non-straight brethren and sistren (even the ones i know
>that'll lurk in this post) this posts for you. you (mostly
>likely) wont' be judged.
>
>me first? 25/m/nyc. LOL

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340. "PSA: UMMM every homo can/will be eventually outed"
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especially if ur putting urself in a gay atmospheres and such all the damn time and letting urself be photographed

its a cunty move of the person who outs u (especially if its a str8 male who is doing it), but u put urself out there so just deal with it


this is in response to sumthin that happened earlier that i missed

kthxbye


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342. "THERE IS NO REASON"
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FOR THIS POST TO STILL BE ON PAGE ONE!!!
*sips more haterade*

  

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343. "ya pseudo hate is so transparent."
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you still up the post.

i see you, ho.

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344. "^^^homophobic"
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.

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347. "um. to the RE attendees:"
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would yall be down for a queer gathering?

maybe we can organize something on the side.

i need feedback.

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348. "if you have a queer gathering, i just might have to come for the RE"
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>would yall be down for a queer gathering?
>
>maybe we can organize something on the side.
>
>i need feedback.

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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349. "i need to ask 25 what he did last year."
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351. "*make it happen."
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i'll brave the okdrama that is the RE and come for that!

.
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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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352. "what type of gathering would you like to see?"
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i need suggestions, miss.

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355. "a gathering of beautiful lesbians,...."
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(i know im not helping here).

but seriously, any place with a good brew and good music
(i'd say a place where i can smoke too but we are talking about nyc)

>i need suggestions, miss.

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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358. "umm..it'll be may you don't need to smoke inside."
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that's all you need?

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353. "we need to do a gathering outside of the RE as well"
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i think that would be really fun, just us ALL get together, like a totally different weekend from the re

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356. "suggest something"
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359. "RE:"
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i'll be there if there's no photography (see #340).

p.s.: when will this post die?

  

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360. "this post will never die!!"
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.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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361. "i just want to see it get to #400 n/m"
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365. "mmhmm."
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350. "Here's something to debate - queer vs n***er"
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Is one word more acceptable to say than the other? Or are both of them equally painful and oppressive?

Check out this link for more elaboration: http://blackademic.blogspot.com/2006/02/queer-vs-niggernigger-vs-queer.html


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354. "the n word is worse, u couldnt even type it all the way out"
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but queer has its negs too but to me its no where near as bad

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357. "i like being queer"
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its like the cool form of not the norm.


>but queer has its negs too but to me its no where near as
>bad

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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362. "how about faggot vs n***er"
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now those 2 words have about the same potency. queer is like kool aid while faggot is that hard nard.

  

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363. "i don't know 'queer' as a slur."
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i'm a aware it's used that way but i've never had a personal experience w/it in that connotation. i don't recall hearing the word at all until i went to college and heard academics use it on the reclamation tip. so it doesn't bother me. where i'm from 'faggot' is the slur and so that 1 stings.

i don't think 'nigger' actually bothers me. just this weekend a white friend used it in my presence as he was quoting "The Chappelle Show" and in that moment i was aware i was "supposed to be" offended but i just wasn't. i knew he was quoting and i couldn't blame him for it. the moment passed, i laughed (b/c the quote was funny) and that was that. i use 'nigger' myself as a term of endearment (i see you Q-Tip) w/only my closest most select Black friends. My Niggas, i mean. LOL

fuck you.

  

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368. "exactly..."
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faggot is said with a lot more venom than i've ever heard someone use queer.

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364. "queer as a slur is so 50s."
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366. "on the real, i hate "sissy" more than "f*gg*t""
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well both are bad but sissy is just like ugk

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371. "^^ sissy"
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374. "suck my dick."
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375. "is that an open invitation?"
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fuck you.

  

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377. "lol, sure."
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379. "this has gone too far."
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ugh!

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380. "^^ anti-sexual."
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fuck you.

  

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384. "pssht."
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this exchange is slowly spiralling.

keep it clean!

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385. "puh-lease, he like the biggest slut on here"
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next to blaizeblack that is

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387. "LMAO!"
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omg.


*beginning of the end*

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388. "answer my ? below trollop"
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(400 is the goal i heard)

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389. "the goal is 1000. lol"
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390. ":-/"
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prototype

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394. "thats too much fckin scrollin"
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and too much gay

  

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378. "LOL"
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ew

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381. "he's built like that white guy that was too much for you"
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be prepared to unhinge your reptilian jaws

  

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382. "^^^nonsensical"
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383. "that was 7 yrs ago when i was still wet behind the ears."
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i'm a full grown man now and i'm ready.

fuck you.

  

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386. "do any of yall have/want kids?"
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me i want four sons, altho i would like to see how pretty of a baby my nut would produce, im prolly gonna go the adoption route and not until im "married"

they names will be:

taurus
naeme(aka brando)
nukuru (aka knock)
pierre (he gon be the ghey one)

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391. "sure. why not?"
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i like the names Ian and Zoe.

my last name is too long for first names longer than two syllables.

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392. "Iam is womp, but zoe is cool"
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393. "all your "sons" names suck."
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*shrug*

Ian is a good look on a Black man. sorry!

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398. "yes."
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i want a son to be named after me and then 1 more kid of any sex. i like kids in pairs so if i have more than 2 there have to be 4 or 6, etc.

except for Junior i haven't thought of any other names.

fuck you.

  

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399. "4 children also"
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at least one daughter
Valdez- boy name

  

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401. "four kids is SO many."
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yall must gonna be ballers.

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403. "so lets fast-forward to the future"
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would u legally marry a dude?

  

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404. "yes, i want 3. at least one son."
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boy names
Onaje Joaquin
Zion Nakai

girl names
Garcelle
Raina

imma be a God-father in about one month, so imma *really* know in about 6 months

  

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405. "two maybe (and hopefully twins)"
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Langston = son
Zora = daughter

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406. "^^^ most predictable names EVER"
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409. "^^^most cunty cunt ever"
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411. "you still bleeding?"
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go check that out, son.

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413. "ugk"
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416. "LOL"
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omg.

you mad about the sissy thing? that was a j-o-k-e.

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blkprinceMD05
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422. "omg im mad u think im mad lol, i cant take jokes now"
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im like the furthest thing from actually, bout to eat a veggie pizza!

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mayn1
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410. "but you know me (kinda)"
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i always liked paired names for twins (not rhyming ones like mine).

:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|

avi: "it could all be simple, but you'd rather make it hard."

the one and only: www.myspace.com/mayn1

think i'm lyin'?!: www.damaynwun.blogspot.com

  

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415. "and they are at least better than *ahem* ian and zoe"
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:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|:|

avi: "it could all be simple, but you'd rather make it hard."

the one and only: www.myspace.com/mayn1

think i'm lyin'?!: www.damaynwun.blogspot.com

  

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423. "^^^undisputed truth"
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prototype

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425. "lol...have you SEEN my last name?"
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395. "Gotdamn, if you miss 2 days, you miss a lot"
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Homos comin out of the woodwork left and right.
People (who are so gay they might as well be out lol) bein "outted" in a a post.
Lesbian mini-beef.
Sex bein exchanged for Mumbo Sauce.

OKP has come a long way since I was the only homo scandal. I'm so proud


  

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400. "Ooops:"
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>People (who are so gay they might as well be out lol) bein
>"outted" in a a post.

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402. "I knew it!"
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I knew some mothafcka would take post 400...that was sposed 2 b mine. (see #361).

  

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396. "Oh wow I guess Im...."
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a old queer!
age-24 on Feb 24th
Location-Chicago

DROKAYPLAYER -05

Fantasia Barrino- http://anax8a.pressmart.com/Bleulife/Index.aspx

Georgia Rule - http://artnouveaumagazine.com/blog5/2009/08/05/georgia-rule/

epiphany chrisette michelle - http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/bleu/2009spring/#/90

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407. "whoa!"
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fuck you.

  

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417. "Whoa?"
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What that mean Nicca?

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Fantasia Barrino- http://anax8a.pressmart.com/Bleulife/Index.aspx

Georgia Rule - http://artnouveaumagazine.com/blog5/2009/08/05/georgia-rule/

epiphany chrisette michelle - http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/bleu/2009spring/#/90

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419. "you haven't been around for a while."
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what's the news?

fuck you.

  

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Unique1ne
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421. "So it seems"
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I have taken on lurker status!, Nothing up really working again out at Follet Higher Education Group, in Oakbrook I live in the burbs now Lyons that is I don't have a social life anymore.

DROKAYPLAYER -05

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Georgia Rule - http://artnouveaumagazine.com/blog5/2009/08/05/georgia-rule/

epiphany chrisette michelle - http://www.nxtbook.com/nxtbooks/bleu/2009spring/#/90

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420. "you haven't been around for a while."
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what's the news?

fuck you.

  

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397. "Black pastor and Black county exec to debate gay rights. (swipe)"
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i hate ken hutcherson. this would be HOT if it were televised nationally.


Pastor, county executive to debate gay rights' parallel to civil rights
http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/localnews/2002838368_simshutcherson02m.html
By Lornet Turnbull
Seattle Times staff reporter

The Rev. Ken Hutcherson grew up in the segregated South, the illegitimate child of a poor Alabama family whose members rode in the back of the bus and drank from blacks-only water fountains.

King County Executive Ron Sims was raised in conservative Eastern Washington, marching alongside his parents for racial equality and enduring the kind of discrimination he has called searing.

Tonight at Town Hall Seattle, the two will confront each other over the issue of gay rights and whether the gay-rights movement parallels the civil-rights era of the 1960s that helped shape their lives.

Sponsored by the weekly alternative newspaper The Stranger, tonight's debate comes amid an effort to recall gay-rights legislation narrowly passed by the Legislature last month.

The measure added sexual orientation to a list of classifications such as race, sex and religion that are protected from discrimination in areas such as housing and employment.

Hutcherson, pastor of Antioch Bible Church in Redmond, testified against the bill, gaining national prominence on the issue last year when he threatened to boycott Microsoft if it didn't withdraw support for the measure.

Sims, a longtime supporter of gay-rights issues, encouraged a lawsuit against him and King County in 2004 that brought the gay-marriage question into the state's courts.

"We've interviewed both men several times," said Josh Feit, The Stranger's news editor. "They are dueling quotes smashed onto a page. We thought we'd bring them together to duke it out."

Wier Harman, executive director of Town Hall, was more reserved. "We've framed this not only in terms of gay rights, but the relationship of the gay-rights movement to the civil-rights movement. That in itself has proven a polarizing dimension to this debate."

Issues such as gay rights and specifically gay marriage have created division in the black community, especially in black churches.

Hutcherson, who made his mark on the football field before a knee injury ended his career with the Seattle Seahawks, has taken the position that there is no comparison between gay rights and civil rights.

He is fond of saying that he's never known an ex-black person but has many ex-gays in his multicultural congregation of 3,500.

"The problem we have is this: Gays don't want tolerance anymore, they want 100 percent acceptance," he said in a recent interview about the gay-rights legislation. "That's not going to happen."

For Sims, a longtime public servant, images of prejudice and discrimination from his childhood in Spokane inform his position on equal treatment.

As a minister ordained by the National Baptist Church, he is prohibited by church policy from conducting gay marriages, but he has been outspoken in his advocacy of gay causes.

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honigbabyliebe
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408. "Question for the bi ladies... Everyone actually."
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But since I'm coming to terms with the realities of dealing in a straight relationship (this is the first true time for me), I really would like some input esp. from bi ladies dealing in straight relationships.

For our fellow queers (I love that word), please give your input regarding personal situations and offer advice for me because I want to get my feelings straight before I get back home and settle up with the steady.

Of course, this is all if you feel like it and ask what you like.


1.) What kind of bi are you? (Please don't hate on this.)
Please see replies #138 and #142.

2.) Would you consider your being bi a phase? Like if you settle up with a man, you stop looking at women?
No and no. Not even remotely possible.

3.) What kind of life did you picture before the reality of bi slapped you in the face?
I thought that I would find the perfect woman, get married, have kids. Or perhaps I would settle into a nice triad, with myself being the primary in two separate relationships.

My life for the past few years really didn't allow for involvement in a gay scene and so I ended up being "the bi chick" people thought of for threesomes and what not. I miss spending time with a woman romantically and it sucks that here my interactions have been limited either random sex or fake bi women.

4.) How do you deal in a straight relationship?
Of course I've dated men before, but I never allowed them to get close. They were pawns; for some reason I just closed off a part of myself to men.

Fast forward to now. I've met a guy and want to try to make things work for a LOT of different reasons. I've worked out my issues and what not, but I still find myself wondering exactly what a relationship with a man is like. Please don't get me wrong, I'm not wavering on the guy. I just would like to know about your experiences.

For instance:
a) Does your man what to participate in your queer relationship? Do you want him to? Do you think this would be a violation?

b) How did your man react when you first broach the subject? Did he always know or did you inform him later? What was his opinion on your sexuality? Did he state any outlines for continued queer relatoins?

ALL REPONSES WELCOMED
c) Are you poly? Do you only date poly? What kind of poly relationshp would you like? Or have you like me abandoned all hope?


I think that's it for now. Damn, so many questions.

~I don't want a bad memory when a jaded one will do. I don't want to make one mistake two...~

"You think too much, calm down."

  

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428. "as the resident bisexual"
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>1.) What kind of bi are you?

i consider myself bi- because of my past relationships with guys.
i dont want to demean those in any way.
and i still have *some attractions to guys but its not significant enough for me to consider a relationship beyond sex/ one night stand.
just the other day i realised it had been a loooong while since i thought of a guy romantically.
>
>2.) Would you consider your being bi a phase?
I used to wish it was a phase....actually this whole homosexuality thing...
But I never stop looking at women (is this even possible?) even before I was physically with a woman I usedta look at women.
If I settled with a man he’d have to understand that I’d have to have a woman on the side. I don’t think there’s any getting round to that!

3.) What kind of life did you picture before the reality of
>bi slapped you in the face?

I guess I shouldn’t answer this cause im the opposite? I see myself settling down with a woman, her having my kids… and us playing house. Shit I’d love for this to happen before I start grad school!!
i dont remember ever thinking of marriage in the legal sense of it (as is). before the possibility of women.. i was gonna be a single succesful yatch!

4.) How do you deal in a straight relationship?
Eh?
I don’t know. I think for the most part I had good relationships. I’m a lot more giving with a female. I tend to have longer relationships with females. But for the most part…

im not saying i totally exclude the possibility of being in a m-f relationship. i just highly doubt it would happen anytime soon!

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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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honigbabyliebe
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429. "Thanks and a bit more..."
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>i consider myself bi- because of my past relationships with
>guys.
>i dont want to demean those in any way.
>and i still have *some attractions to guys but its not
>significant enough for me to consider a relationship beyond
>sex/ one night stand.
>just the other day i realised it had been a loooong while
>since i thought of a guy romantically.

This was the way I was with men up until recently. I could not wrap my head around the idea. I enjoy sleeping with men, but they just didn't do "it" for me like women. After coming here and messing with fake bi's, living in an enironment were the the gender roles are rigid, and sexual fulfillment is kept under wraps- I truly saw no point in dating women. And so I became familiar with men.

It's only recently that I began considering anything serious with a man and I'm still trying to figure out how these things go. Since things are in the pre-conception stage, I'm trying to get an idea of what to expect. Fuck a man, I can do. Have a relationship with a man, I have no clue. It's not like I'm offering him anything different- I'm not. The little things worry me and too shy(?) to show just how inexperienced I am when it comes to sharing my heart and life with a man. This is a whole new thing for me.

>>2.) Would you consider your being bi a phase?
>I used to wish it was a phase....actually this whole
>homosexuality thing...
>But I never stop looking at women (is this even possible?)
>even before I was physically with a woman I usedta look at
>women.
>If I settled with a man he’d have to understand that I’d have
>to have a woman on the side. I don’t think there’s any getting
>round to that!

I never thought I would settle with a man, at least not as a primary. But my circumstances (living abroad) kind of forced me to get out in the straight world and date, have sex w/men... I was tired of life as a wall flower. But I found that my experiences just made my opinion of men worse.

Then I met some nice men who began the process that eventually led to my realizing myself as 50/50 bi. It was a growing process for me and I'm still learning. Love is an extension of that and both genders are capable of continuing that journey with me. It's more about the person rather than gender for me now. I'm fine with at because that's how I started out in the first place.

>3.) What kind of life did you picture before the reality of
>>bi slapped you in the face?
>
>I guess I shouldn’t answer this cause im the opposite? I see
>myself settling down with a woman, her having my kids… and us
>playing house. Shit I’d love for this to happen before I
>start grad school!!
>i dont remember ever thinking of marriage in the legal sense
>of it (as is). before the possibility of women.. i was gonna
>be a single succesful yatch!

When I say reality of being bi, I think more of public perception, your ideals vs. what is accepted... For me my sexuality merely followed along the lines of my ideals- that being love sees no color, gender, creed, etc. As I grew older and interacted more with "society" (I was a very sheltered child), I found that my ideals were challenged and that was directly reflected in my sexuality and those whom I found myself gravitating towards. For example, if my interactions with a female had a strong negative impact I would fall back on men until something else happened. If it wasn't to strong, then I would merely look for a different "type" of person.

I would jump back and forth, randomly, on some groundless reason because I wasn't right with myself. So I had to step back and work on myself before I could truly let anyone else in my life as a partner, it didn't matter what gender they were. As I worked more with myself and resolved the issues (emotional and mental scaring) that arose from that, the more I was able to let myself love and be loved and return. I was able to learn HOW I express my love, what my boundaries are, what I require in a mate, etc.

At the end of the day, gender qualification is not important on my list of things that I must have in a relationship. The sex and our lives together will be great regardless.

>4.) How do you deal in a straight relationship?
>Eh?
>I don’t know. I think for the most part I had good
>relationships. I’m a lot more giving with a female. I tend to
>have longer relationships with females. But for the most
>part…

It's always been the same way for me too.

>im not saying i totally exclude the possibility of being in a
>m-f relationship. i just highly doubt it would happen anytime
>soon!

I feel the same way, but simply because I'm in transition. Men are always up under me, so I have no problem with them. But where does a bi woman go to find a quality wife? I have no clue anymore. I've been out of the game for way too long.

~I don't want a bad memory when a jaded one will do. I don't want to make one mistake two...~

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520. "RE: Question for the bi ladies... Everyone actually."
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>But since I'm coming to terms with the realities of dealing
>in a straight relationship (this is the first true time for
>me), I really would like some input esp. from bi ladies
>dealing in straight relationships.
>
>For our fellow queers (I love that word), please give your
>input regarding personal situations and offer advice for me
>because I want to get my feelings straight before I get back
>home and settle up with the steady.
>
>Of course, this is all if you feel like it and ask what you
>like.
>
>
>1.) What kind of bi are you? (Please don't hate on this.)
> Please see replies #138 and #142.

I am my type of bi lol

>2.) Would you consider your being bi a phase? Like if you
>settle up with a man, you stop looking at women?

It is definitely not a phase but I do respect my partner's wishes no matter what gender.

>
>3.) What kind of life did you picture before the reality of
>bi slapped you in the face?

The same life anyone else would want, I just don't know if the story will end with a woman or a man by my side.
>
>4.) How do you deal in a straight relationship?
> Of course I've dated men before, but I never allowed them
>to get close. They were pawns; for some reason I just closed
>off a part of myself to men.
>
> Fast forward to now. I've met a guy and want to try to
>make things work for a LOT of different reasons. I've worked
>out my issues and what not, but I still find myself wondering
>exactly what a relationship with a man is like. Please don't
>get me wrong, I'm not wavering on the guy. I just would like
>to know about your experiences.
>
> For instance:
> a) Does your man what to participate in your queer
>relationship? Do you want him to? Do you think this would be
>a violation?
I'll talk about my ex since he's the most recent relationship. No he did not want me to participate in any romantic relationship other than ours. He considered sleeping with another woman to be cheating and I respected that since no matter the sex of who you're fucking, you're still having sex w/ another person.

> b) How did your man react when you first broach the subject?
> Did he always know or did you inform him later? What was his
>opinion on your sexuality? Did he state any outlines for
>continued queer relations?

He knew before we hooked up that I was bisexual, which made him a bit wary. I was just who I was in his eyes and my sexuality only became an issue 2x (nothing major)


>ALL REPONSES WELCOMED
> c) Are you poly? Do you only date poly? What kind of poly
>relationshp would you like? Or have you like me abandoned all
>hope?

No I can't say I am because I've never been in a poly relationship. I guess I'd like to try it but I think I'm way too possessive for that to work lol

>I think that's it for now. Damn, so many questions.
>

here for dis.

  

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412. "I love this post, the discourse is great"
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414. "I've constantly been in this post."
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It just feels so good to be here.

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418. "you definately contributed to that effect greatly"
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wit ur most recent reply, i hope u get some answers going, i dont really kno what to say but u kinda educated me more on being bi

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honigbabyliebe
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424. "I mainly lurk in this post, soaking up y'all convo."
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>wit ur most recent reply, i hope u get some answers going, i
>dont really kno what to say but u kinda educated me more on
>being bi

I hope some of the answers start pouring in too. It would be great to explore the varying aspects of queer life together and spotlight those issues dear to us.

As for my being bi... I ALWAYS knew I was bi, and didn't know enough to fake it. By the time I realized, I didn't give a fux. Everyone was already calling me gay by that point b/c I wouldn't denounce females as SO material. If the shoe fits...

~I don't want a bad memory when a jaded one will do. I don't want to make one mistake two...~

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426. "Question: on gender roles/ stereotypes/ typecasting.."
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Y’know what im talking about.
The ladies that identify as butch/dykes/ or the pillow biting femmes…
Or for the guys: the homothugs , or the voguing divas…

What’s the purpose/ point?
Do we think its some sort of identifying with heteronormal ‘gender roles’?
(cause you tend to identify certain behaviours with certain groups of folks, right?)

Or is it an entity entirely different from the so called norm?
Since gender is always political…. Is it a political statement? What exactly?
or is it just what it is..
(as I believe…. Shit my ambition is to be a butch-dyke. The kind that walks in a room everyone knows im dyke. I haven’t mastered the mean-mug yet, though) but my reason is because i kinda get tired of being ambiguous. like i want that to be my statement, so folks dont always assume im a hetero

and…. What do we think of transexuality/ transgendered?


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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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427. "nice article: sexual-gender-identity.txt.."
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get your queer studies on...

http://feminism.eserver.org/sexual-gender-identity.txt

Sexual Identity and Gender Identity are similar in some ways and very different in others. Both refer to how one thinks of a person. The existence and perpetuation of gender and sexual identities is based in the historic and continuing oppression (systematic mistreatment condoned by society as a whole) of people do not conform to certain aspects of society's gender roles. Gender roles refer to the clothing, behaviors, thoughts, feelings, relationships, etc., that are considered appropriate or inappropriate for members of each sex.
However, sex, gender identity, and sexual identity refer to different aspects of oneself.

Therefore, one may be any combination of sex (male/female), gender (masculine/feminine), and sexual identity (straight, bisexual, lesbian/gay.) In recent history, people oppressed on the basis of different sexual identities (bisexuals, lesbians, gay men) and people oppressed on the basis of gender identity have formed communities which are partly separate and partly overlapping with one another. Because of this historic separation, someone who is a member of one of these communities does not necessarily understand and prioritize the issues of others of these communities. One who belongs to more than one of these communities may feel welcome in both, but usually neither addresses all one's needs or the way that one's needs from different communities overlap or interact.

Gender identity refers to how one thinks of one's own gender: whether one thinks of oneself as a man (masculine) or as a woman (feminine.) Society prescribes arbitrary rules or gender roles (how one is supposed to and not supposed to dress, act, think, feel, relate to others, think of oneself, etc.) based on one's sex (whether one has a vagina or a penis.) These gender roles are called feminine and masculine. Anyone who does not abide by these arbitrary rules may be targeted for mistreatment ranging from not being included in people's circle of friends, through the cold shoulder, snide comments, verbal harrassment, assault, rape, and murder based on one's (perceived) gender identity.

Sexual identity refers to how one thinks of oneself in terms of whom one is sexually and romantically attracted to, specifically whether one is attracted to members of the same gender as one's own or the other gender than one's own. Society prescribes arbitrary rules that one should be sexually and romantically attracted to members of the other gender than one's own, and should not be attracted to members of the same gender as one's own. Anyone who does not abide by these arbitrary rules may be targeted for mistreatment ranging from not being included in people's circle of friends, through the cold shoulder, snide comments, verbal harrassment, assault, rape, and murder based on one's (perceived) sexual identity. (See homophobia and biphobia.) When one's sex and one's gender identity are different, one may base one's sexual identity on either one. Alternatively, one may have two sexual identities, one as a man and one as a woman.

These are terms often used within the sexual identity and gender identity communities. Self-identification terms are often spelled with initial caps (e.g. Queer, Bisexual) to emphasize that they refer to how one think of oneself, rather than how someone else labels one. (For instance, researchers often classify bisexual-identified women and men as lesbians and gay men and transvestites as transsexuals, obscuring important distinctions.)

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430. "good questions."
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>Y’know what im talking about.
>The ladies that identify as butch/dykes/ or the pillow biting
>femmes…
>Or for the guys: the homothugs , or the voguing divas…
>
>What’s the purpose/ point?
>Do we think its some sort of identifying with heteronormal
>‘gender roles’?

sometimes i think that's it. that we take on certain roles b/c we're conditioned to think of ourselves and the world in a certain way and in order to live w/ourselves we have to put ourselves in 1 of those roles. yes we put our own spin on them but they still relate strongly to the conditioning.

>Or is it an entity entirely different from the so called norm?

and at other times i think our performances are a revolutionary act against our conditioning.

right now i think it's a mixture of both or that it varies from person to person and moment to moment. i can't make a concrete statement either way b/c there's so much variance. and i love the variance.

>Since gender is always political…. Is it a political
>statement? What exactly?

maybe it's more of an homage than a political statement. i dunno. like i said it varies so much there's no way to get a hold on it and make a blanket statement.

>or is it just what it is..

this too.

>(as I believe…. Shit my ambition is to be a butch-dyke. The
>kind that walks in a room everyone knows im dyke. I haven’t
>mastered the mean-mug yet, though)

i love butch-dykes. is it b/c i love men? LOL

but my reason is because i
>kinda get tired of being ambiguous. like i want that to be my
>statement, so folks dont always assume im a hetero

i know right?

but most of the time i'm glad when ppl don't assume i'm gay b/c i don't fit the gay stereotypes i know and assume ppl are working from. like, i don't want ppl to assume i'm gay and then ask me shit about shopping or home decorating or voguing..etc. i'm not into any of that. on the real that's my own internalized homophobia at work. i don't want ppl to assume i'm gay b/c i was taught the gays are wrong and i don't want to be wrong. try as i might that shit is buried deep in me and i don't know it'll ever be gone. i don't act on it though, i'm good at squashing it.

>and…. What do we think of transexuality/ transgendered?

i'm all for them being whoever it is they need to be. God bless 'em.

fuck you.

  

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431. "RE: good questions."
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>
>but most of the time i'm glad when ppl don't assume i'm gay
>b/c i don't fit the gay stereotypes i know and assume ppl are
>working from. like, i don't want ppl to assume i'm gay and
>then ask me shit about shopping or home decorating or
>voguing..etc. i'm not into any of that. on the real that's
>my own internalized homophobia at work. i don't want ppl to
>assume i'm gay b/c i was taught the gays are wrong and i don't
>want to be wrong. try as i might that shit is buried deep in
>me and i don't know it'll ever be gone. i don't act on it
>though, i'm good at squashing it.


i dont want people to stereotype me either.. but i dont want to always have to have *that conversation. like at work, everyone asks about a boyfriend... or settling down in marriage or ish like that
and its coming to a point where i feel pressured to 'come out'/.
i dont want that pressure. i think in an ideal world folks shouldn't just assume one's partner is a male (in my case). instead of asking if i have a boyfriend they should ask about my partner.. y'know? that way i dont feel like the conversation has already been closeted into heterosexuality.

i think if i was a total butch dyke that assumption wouldn't be there.
of course then i'd be opening the stereotypes can of worms and i dont know if that is any better.

>
>>and…. What do we think of transexuality/ transgendered?
>
>i'm all for them being whoever it is they need to be. God
>bless 'em.

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432. "yall think this post'll be archived?"
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lol.

this isn't a request, just yet.

we still got shit to talk about.

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448. "hell no, but if they try to shut it down b4 we ready"
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i say we riot Stonewall style!

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433. "thank heaven for DSL."
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www.twitter.com/luvlee2003

  

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434. ""
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i'm really not good at flirting in person. like, not at all.

and when i say really not good, i mean im REALLY "okplayerish" with my stuff.

generally speaking it has to be thrown at me (and ive been fortunate to get it thrown at me a few times, thankfully) or the flirting+ aint happening, underdig?

so in what manners have yall found success?

i have a little crush on a coworker at my new job. she gave me extended eye contact when we first met. like really extended smiling. anyhow yesterday i was finally alone with her for 20 seconds in the elevator and i asked her where she was from cause she looks so familiar (she actually does). it went over well enough but i still feel like a herb.

i have no probelem with intial hellos and how are you doings©(rudy and clarence at the school dance), but beyond that i just want it to be over with as quickly as possible. and once it is over i want to be back at it again.

yeah so... thoughts?


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435. ""
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>i'm really not good at flirting in person. like, not at all.

me either. I am painfully shy... but get a few drinks in me?? it's a wrap!


>so in what manners have yall found success?

I put on the cute shy face and I am very respectful. and the wommens looove it. I also listen to what they are saying rather than talking a lot. It seems that women love to talk about themselves.

other than that, I don't really try to flirt. Yeah, I've been fortunate to have it thrown at me, but I'm best at standing on the wall *trying* to look cute

  

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436. ""
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>
>>i'm really not good at flirting in person. like, not at all.
>
>me either. I am painfully shy... but get a few drinks in me??
>it's a wrap!

yeah drinking always helps. oh that sounded horrible! im trying to find a good un-inebriated method now.


>
>>so in what manners have yall found success?
>
>I put on the cute shy face and I am very respectful. and the
>wommens looove it. I also listen to what they are saying
>rather than talking a lot. It seems that women love to talk
>about themselves.

i don't know how to spark it though. like beyond hello i dont know how to get them talking about themselves (or me or whatever)

>other than that, I don't really try to flirt. Yeah, I've been
>fortunate to have it thrown at me, but I'm best at standing on
>the wall *trying* to look cute
>

www.twitter.com/luvlee2003

  

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437. ""
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yea, i dont really know how to spark it either... i just let em start runnin their mouth. eye contact be killin' em tho

  

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438. "I'm a 24/7 365 day/year flirt. It's my nature, I can't help it."
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>i'm really not good at flirting in person. like, not at all.

I constantly flirt with everyone and everything. It's not something I do on purpose, I just like spreading good vibes and possses, as one friend put it, "unabashed sexuality." So of course the runs over.

>generally speaking it has to be thrown at me (and ive been
>fortunate to get it thrown at me a few times, thankfully) or
>the flirting+ aint happening, underdig?

From my point of view, people approach me and I rarely approach others. At the same time, if I appreciate what's within my sight no-one present has any doubt about it. "It's my game and I welcome everyone to join me..." My sexuality is a BIG part of who I am, and also the part most expressed with the least effort. I like sharing that part of myself with others in a positive and nonthreatening way.

Anyways, all that was to say is it depends on point of view b/c I'm sure that some consider my behavior to be an invitation/throwing myself at them.

~I don't want a bad memory when a jaded one will do. I don't want to make one mistake two...~

"You think too much, calm down."

  

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439. "In my younger days I was THE flirt"
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but it was harmless, just having a good time, hanging out, kind of flirting

If I was seriously interested I wouldn't flirt with a female.

I have had women hit me over the head and tell me "HEY I like you DAMN! up until that point I was completely clueless.

nowwhen I was bartending, I would flirt with any and everyone but that is the nature of bartending I knew I wasn't going home with anyone and that it was just while at work.

Dee





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441. "i usually just build from mutual interests, cares, and concerns, or"
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like-mindededness, or any route that forms a connection, and since i almost always attract women +5yrs older than me (and vice versa) they're usually the ones to make the initiative, and if i'm interested enough in them, i'll try to meet them half way.

but trying to pick someone up at the library, grocery store, or even club/bar, i wouldn't know how to approach that. i've always met them through school or the work i do. so i pretty much got to see what they were like beforehand.

  

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453. "*takes notes..."
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im hanging out with a group of lesbians this evening.
these skills we speak of might come in handy!!



>i'm really not good at flirting in person. like, not at all.
>
>and when i say really not good, i mean im REALLY "okplayerish"
>with my stuff.
>
>generally speaking it has to be thrown at me (and ive been
>fortunate to get it thrown at me a few times, thankfully) or
>the flirting+ aint happening, underdig?
>
>so in what manners have yall found success?
>
>i have a little crush on a coworker at my new job. she gave me
>extended eye contact when we first met. like really extended
>smiling. anyhow yesterday i was finally alone with her for 20
>seconds in the elevator and i asked her where she was from
>cause she looks so familiar (she actually does). it went over
>well enough but i still feel like a herb.
>
>i have no probelem with intial hellos and how are you
>doings©(rudy and clarence at the school dance), but beyond
>that i just want it to be over with as quickly as possible.
>and once it is over i want to be back at it again.
>
>yeah so... thoughts?
>
>
>

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440. "OKGay RE Suggestions"
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I think all of us getting together would be a great idea.

I can't make it to the NY RE this year but I think having an OKGay Re during some high profile gay(or black Gay) event would be a lot of fun. I know a lot of folks were in DC last year.

What about Hotlanta's black pride isn't that during Labor day weekend? or hell just meeting up in SF during pride one year or Toronto.

How many of us would travel? or meet for an extended weekend?
Where would we like to go?

I would be happy to help plan something for 2007...

Dee

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442. "San Fran would be tite"
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id be down to do that in 2007 fo sho, also by labor day (yes that is atl black pride but they also have one for MLKJr weekend) 2007 i and few other okhomos will already be down in atl so that would be cool too

only thing is we get together during a pride, i would like to have like a couple events where *we* can just get together and connect with each otha seperate from all the other stuff that goes on during pride

but i think thats a great idea, we should start planning (make a committee) but first decide where

I vote San Fran/ Bay Area during their pride or Miami pride both 2007

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444. "woo hoo!"
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i should b on the west coast in '07 so that works for me...btw, u shoulda been in atl this MLK that passed.

  

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445. "y is that?"
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what was special about it?

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446. "i was there"
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and i was feeln friendly. we coulda hung out.

  

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447. "o thats not a good enuff reason."
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j/k











kinda

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449. "i found that post"
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emotionally draining

  

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450. "which one?"
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451. "#447"
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u had me on a mufckin rollercoaster

  

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452. "im confused, what exactly are u talking bout?"
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463. "i say atlanta!"
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443. "Some Black Lesbian History Links in honor of Women's History"
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month

http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/herstory/

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471. "*nice!!"
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im saving this page on my favourites.

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454. "what's the most uncomfortable same-sex setting you've been in?"
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why was in uncomfortable?

me? i'm an art snob, and i feel bad about it sometimes. but, alas, i can't help it. i went to this poetry/art show two years ago...IT SUCKED! and it's on some self-conscious/self-absorbed bohomo shit, i nearly died.

i felt embarassed for everyone. ugh! i hate it.

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456. "not *quite what you have in mind, im sure..."
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but thanksgiving.

standing outside the club, line going round the block
its cold as hell.

this young'in, thuggish dyke is shit talking about why is it taking so long for folks to get in the club and shit.
basically being young, being hardcore.
apparently these two grown ass men masquerading as cops didn't like it
they ask her to leave.

wha?? for what?
leave, they say.
so she crosses the street is and is facing the club shouting
fuck C.C's y'all. i cant even get in the damn club
i dont see what these mofo's problem is
im just trying to be... fuck y;all bladdy bla.
we are all kinda amused, standing in line, shooting the shit,
cops feel somewhat 'threatened, i guess
they are like, you need to leave or you'll spend a night in jail.

for what? i know my rights...
she's steady cursing.
they cross the street, proceed to slam her on the ground and cuff her.

*dead silence on the line.
mofos cant believe this shit.
they push her into a cop car and drive off with her.

we are all wondering what her charge is gonna be?
and none of us said/ or did shit.
needless to say..
i ended up going home and not clubbing.


>why was in uncomfortable?
>
>me? i'm an art snob, and i feel bad about it sometimes. but,
>alas, i can't help it. i went to this poetry/art show two
>years ago...IT SUCKED! and it's on some
>self-conscious/self-absorbed bohomo shit, i nearly died.
>
>i felt embarassed for everyone. ugh! i hate it.

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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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457. "GEESH!"
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458. "there's a transsexual that thinks she has a chance with me"
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im like "NO. I.LIKE.GUYS!."

she (i call him "she" out of respect) calls the house for my roomate and anytime i answer the phone, she wants to be all flirty.

my roomate told her that i wasnt the least bit interested and she like "well what if i get a really sexy guy to have a 3some with us?"

the only reason im holding in the vomit is cause i dont want to offend her.

  

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461. "a bathhouse."
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the vulnerability is too much.

  

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466. "LOL, ur an elitist...but anyway let me try to answer ur ?"
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the last time i felt uncomfortable around gays was when i was in miami for new years 04 and we went to this club, Club Boi and all the ppl in there were so messy and they swarmed around me and my best friend like we were celebrities and asked us where we bought our clothes...UGK and they had a "buffet" and i thought i would die just from looking at the food for too long

ppl even wanted to take pictures with us...ummmmmmmmmmmmm, i was just like *smh* "do better" we left within an hour and went back to south beach

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469. "my artistic taste is very sensitive."
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i try my best to hold it in. but a lot of times i just can't help but be mortified.

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470. "last saturday"
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the unc lgbtq club is trynna have a regular homo club in chapel hill
(cause its a damn shame we aint have one).
so i decide to stop by, on my way home, to support
(from watching a friend's band play a show)
anyway.

it was so wierd.
its like a bunch of hippies.
mainly white kids
doing wierd kind of gyrations on the dance floor
to hip hop music.
and all these folks was dressed kinda funny,
y'know?
kinda like going out their way to *look funny.
(i shoulda taken some pics to post, i think)

and some white girl came to talk to me, and shit
(actually two white girls that claimed they know me from somewhere).

it was like being in the twilight zone.
i have to go to purify myself in the waters of the black gay club
this thursday...
just to get over *that experience.

i'll give them my money in support,
*just please dont make me go there, again!




>why was in uncomfortable?
>
>me? i'm an art snob, and i feel bad about it sometimes. but,
>alas, i can't help it. i went to this poetry/art show two
>years ago...IT SUCKED! and it's on some
>self-conscious/self-absorbed bohomo shit, i nearly died.
>
>i felt embarassed for everyone. ugh! i hate it.

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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473. "Like Blkprince, I too had an uncomfortable Miami experience lol"
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I went to Club Twist, a gay club on South Beach.
And I am not used to white gay clubs; I almost always feel out of place amid the annoying dance music and shirtless cornballs.
Well, Club Twist is mad white and Latino- but like, white Latino. That made for a tacky, slutty combination, with mofos hookin up in the corners of the club in their tight ass tanktops to the sounds of technofied salsa blaring from the speakers.

I often don't get much play in a white gay club, but I sho was lucky that night. First, a Venezuelan guy came up to me and offered me a card that would get me free drinks at the bar. In exchange, he said I had to let him fuck me that night. I shook my head in agreement. Ha, I took the card and ditched the Latino.

But then Pablo found me again later that night. "Watchu workin with, Papi?" he said, and grabbed my dick! And then stuck his tongue in my mouth! I'm so not a big kissing fan, or of people grabbin my dick, so I told him that this is not Venezuela and he betta not touch me ever again.

And then this black drunk ass nigga bought me a drink. And he said to me, "Do you know what you are? Sexy, that's what," and he kissed me on the lips! Omg, two different men have kissed me on the lips in 20 minutes. I took my drink...took his drink lol, and then disgustedly pushed past him. He aint like that, and proceded to curse me out. Tsk tsk, black folk always gotta try to be the violent ones.

And then this black guy introduced himself to me, since we were one of the few black people there. He said he goes to Florida A&M and bla blah blah, I didn't pay attention cause he was ugly and mad country.

All in all, it was a horrifyin first experience at Twist.
And I think I've fostered an unhealthy prejudice against white Latinos.

I went back the next night, tho. LOL


  

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489. "lmao, how did i miss this, anyway that sounds god awful."
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455. "Late Pass!"
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Damn -- as I obviously am in life, I'm quite late in reading & responding to this post.

Of course -- back when I began my OkayPlayer-ism (@ the early beginning)... which later progressed into constant lurker-istic behaviors... I wasn't completely convinced that I was queer.

(...umm.. yes, I know. I am hearing the judgemental "tsk..tsk...tsk"-ing as I type... so feel free to save the commentary).

Anyhow -- what a difference (and what an AWARENESS) the years bring.

So -- here I proudly post. Hey Y'all!! Nice to meetcha.

32-male-Charlotte, NC (formerly Detroit, MI... and still part of The D in my heart).

  

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465. "this is a great reply, and no one is gonna judge u for that"
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welcome brotha

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459. "Are any of you out in real life too?"
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460. "yes, very."
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462. "it's on a need to know basis with me."
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i don't tell erybody and there aint no rainbows on my car or anything like that but if asked, i never deny.

  

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464. "same here, in some very important aspects of my life"
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i am very closeted, but i guess it is what it is, its not ideal but...whatever

but my momma knows and a good deal of my close friends

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472. "i don't deny it..."
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most ppl just think im "arsty" or "weird"

but if they ask, i'll tell em..

  

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509. "Out to Sis, Moms, Boss, a Few Co-Workers and Friends"
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I was more afraid of coming out here than to anyone in real life. Kinda silly, huh?

  

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474. "so, what about HIV/AIDS?"
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(almost 500 replies and no thread about HIV? GREAT! seriously.)

but yeah, what about it?

you skurred?

you not skurred?

me? i'm scared and not scared at the same time. i'm scared for my ppl who are living w/it and i'm not scared of getting it. but then i am scared of getting it b/c it's criminally easy and could happen to me. i don't want that fear to paralyze me and it doesn't. i've had 10 yrs of good times (*pause*)



and i still don't have it or anything else i know of. (sidenote: why don't i have herpes? i should. and i'm overdue for crabs.) i know more about HIV and prevention than i ever have so hopefully i'll keep living w/o it. i managed to stay (that) disease free (bitch © Kim) even when i barely knew what i was doing and now that i know my chances have only improved. still i'm troubled when i hear/read HIV stats b/c i sit right at the epicenter of the pandemic here in America. well, i used to at least when i was younger. is it weird that i'm a little sad to be out of the main demographic b/c i'm getting old?

fuck you.

  

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475. "this is was EXCELLENT time to bring this up."
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i dont think i'm necessarily scared. and my experience with hiv/aids, even the personal ones, have been with folks that are a bit older - out of my peer group.

i expect fear to surface when someone i know KNOW, went to school with, in my peer circle became poz. but for me, for now? it's not a tangible fear.

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481. "last year i learned 2 of my peers are positive."
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1 of them seroconverted last year and the other has been positive the whole time i've known him (5 yrs) but i just found out. they're both friends of friends and right around my age (1 is 2 yrs older the other is 2 yrs younger).

in 2004 1 of my oldest friends seroconverted. i've known him since 1994...we met at the U of C. he was probably the 1st out gay man my age i ever met. if not the 1st he was 1 of the 1st. i've always considered him a mentor of sorts in part b/c he was the head of the school's gay student association when we met and i looked up to him. he gave me the courage to be a bit more out w/it. when he seroconverted it hit me kinda hard. it made HIV more real for me. i'd already had a cousin my age seroconvert in 2000 but her life is pretty unlike mine. this friend is more like me.

before all of these ppl i kinda thought HIV was an old person's disease. i mean i knew better b/c i worked here and had the stats and regularly saw younger ppl w/HIV but it wasn't real to me yet. it's more real now.

fuck you.

  

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487. "this is where i am:"
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>before all of these ppl i kinda thought HIV was an old
>person's disease. i mean i knew better b/c i worked here and
>had the stats and regularly saw younger ppl w/HIV but it
>wasn't real to me yet. it's more real now.

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482. "last year i learned 2 of my peers are positive."
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1 of them seroconverted last year and the other has been positive the whole time i've known him (5 yrs) but i just found out. they're both friends of friends and right around my age (1 is 2 yrs older the other is 2 yrs younger).

in 2004 1 of my oldest friends seroconverted. i've known him since 1994...we met at the U of C. he was probably the 1st out gay man my age i ever met. if not the 1st he was 1 of the 1st. i've always considered him a mentor of sorts in part b/c he was the head of the school's gay student association when we met and i looked up to him. he gave me the courage to be a bit more out w/it. when he seroconverted it hit me kinda hard. it made HIV more real for me. i'd already had a cousin my age seroconvert in 2000 but her life is pretty unlike mine. this friend is more like me.

before all of these ppl i kinda thought HIV was an old person's disease. i mean i knew better b/c i worked here and had the stats and regularly saw younger ppl w/HIV but it wasn't real to me yet. it's more real now.

fuck you.

  

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476. "yeh im kinda scurred"
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when i was a teenager i noticed a family member had way too many prescription drugs, so i looked to see wut two of them were for. i found out they were commonly used by aids/hiv patients. i kinda felt numb...later it was confirmed that this person had hiv. i wasnt sexually active then, but now that i am ....(i took a while but it happened ) its kinda scary.

i havent seen this person get very ill, but i suspect ill be even more paranoid if i see them get sick. i never allow myself to think about the toll the illness can take.

especially with all those other things out there that u mentioned (crabs, herpes). a question i have related to this is: Has anyone here given or received oral sex with a condom? And what was that like?

  

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483. "only once."
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Has anyone here given or received oral sex with a condom?
>And what was that like?

i had a guy put a condom on me before oral sex b/c he said i was too leaky. i was somewhat offended/taken aback at 1st but then i got over it. the experience was okay but definitely not as good as it might have been w/o the condom.

fuck you.

  

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486. "hmm thats interesting"
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490. "yeah its crazy, cuz my older cousin died of it"
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in the 80s or early 90s i dont really kno, but for my family members that kno about me, they always tell me to be extra careful and I kno a lot of that has to do with Randy (RIP), i didnt kno him tho and no one really talks about him either, i think it was real hurtful

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491. "yeh my family is like that"
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it has NEVER been discussed. we got like 2 other huge elephants in the room that nobody mentions...

  

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477. "everyday it seems more and more inevitable"
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like, it's not about not getting it, it's about holdin out as long as possible.

since i came out (or should i say stopped lying to myself) 2 of my closest friends got it. i dont know a WHOLE lot about prevention. i just think my best bet is not fuck ppl i dont know (meaning not bein a HOmo)and wrap it up EVERYtime.

  

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484. "that's pretty good prevention."
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fuck you.

  

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485. "that's pretty good prevention."
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fuck you.

  

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488. "this reply made me sad"
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but yeah that sounds like good prevention

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478. "im not scared, but sometimes i think i should be"
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but i take a blanket no raw sex stance

well cept for my now ex SO we usta to do it *cough*raw*cough* but after our first major break up and then make up we went to condoms from there and got tested and all was good, should get tested again soon tho

ugk i hate HIV/AIDS!

the very fact that u have to get tested annoys me

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492. "hhmm.. im kinda glad im in the lowest risk demographic.."
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(i know... shows lack of empathy, no?).

because of this i rarely think about protection with women. (even though, yes, i got those good flavoured dental dams!!)

but.. i've know known too many people die of hiv.
3 of my friends, 1 in 2001, 2 in 2004 and i last year.
but they are sort of not "in my age/ peer group.
these are guys who peaked late 80's early 90's
and these are folks who dabbled in shit like heroin, and all kinds of drugs too, so there was the additional needle risk.
(one of my hetero buddies.... currently poz... yep- heroin)

but. hey, i also found out this round-the-way girl i know that's about 23- and very straight is poz...

i used to work with PLWH/A's about 2-3 years ago. had to stop because everyone i got close to would eventually die.
i got tired of that emotional baggage.

but.... yeah. my life's goal is to be back in Africa trying to come up with better prevention/ education programs.
so i figure its always (in some way) going to figure in my life.
until.

So, im I scared?
No.. I have enough information about this disease.
I know its preventable.. this is not the common cold.

But I am scared *for folks that don’t bother to find out how to protect self
And others because… well. Nowadays it’s a chronic disease anyway.
and we don’t talk about it as much as we should



>(almost 500 replies and no thread about HIV? GREAT!
>seriously.)
>
>but yeah, what about it?
>
>you skurred?
>
>you not skurred?
>
>me? i'm scared and not scared at the same time. i'm scared
>for my ppl who are living w/it and i'm not scared of getting
>it. but then i am scared of getting it b/c it's criminally
>easy and could happen to me. i don't want that fear to
>paralyze me and it doesn't. i've had 10 yrs of good times
>(*pause*)
>
>
>
>and i still don't have it or anything else i know of.
>(sidenote: why don't i have herpes? i should. and i'm overdue
>for crabs.) i know more about HIV and prevention than i ever
>have so hopefully i'll keep living w/o it. i managed to stay
>(that) disease free (bitch © Kim) even when i barely knew what
>i was doing and now that i know my chances have only improved.
> still i'm troubled when i hear/read HIV stats b/c i sit right
>at the epicenter of the pandemic here in America. well, i
>used to at least when i was younger. is it weird that i'm a
>little sad to be out of the main demographic b/c i'm getting
>old?

.
http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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495. "I'm concerned enough to start using condoms during oral sex"
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I think.

  

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496. "there have been few confirmed cases of HIV transmission via fellatio."
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it's fairly difficult to transmit the virus that way. you'd have to have an open wound in your mouth or bleeding gums and you'd have to take semen in your mouth. it's safer to have him skeet in your throat b/c there usually aren't open wounds or cuts in the esophagus and stomach acid kills HIV.

fuck you.

  

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498. "Aint nobody skeetin in my throat or mouth"
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So that should cut down my risk factor.

But err, does precum count?
lol
Sometimes ya can't do anything about that.


  

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510. "precum is somewhat safe."
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you'd have to injest a fairly large amount under the same conditions i mentioned yesterday...bleeding gums, open wound in mouth...to transmit the virus. it's not as safe as saliva but not as dangerous as semen, blood, or breast milk.

fuck you.

  

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511. "precum is somewhat safe."
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you'd have to injest a fairly large amount under the same conditions i mentioned yesterday...bleeding gums, open wound in mouth...to transmit the virus. it's not as safe as saliva but not as dangerous as semen, blood, or breast milk.

fuck you.

  

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479. "on a lighter note: Who are y'all top 3 okartists?"
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mine

1. Common
2. Erykah Badu
3. The Roots

prototype

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believe in love, prepare urself for love, remove the negativity from ur life, and accept the love u kno u deserve

  

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480. "ERYKAH"
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Common
Jill


i think im on a first name basis with them...dont pop my bubble

  

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493. "Meshell ndegeocello!!!"
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Jaguar (before that divorcing neo bullshit)
D’angelo
erykah

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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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494. "I *HEART* HUEY"
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he's finna have my babies
he can name them

You want it one way, when it's the other (c) Marlo Stansfield

  

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497. "Late pass please"
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I would love to have a RE in SF in 2007 I have some off days coming up soon I'll post more on that.

No I'm not worried about hiv/aids like Akon said I(we)happen to be in a low risk group(most of us). I have lost too many friends/family members. It never gets easier.

I just found out last year that my sister is hiv+ she'll be 26 this month and his very heterosexual. I'm sad but since we really haven't seen/talked to each other in 18 years, it's not sinking in that it's MY sister.

The last time I was uncomfortable around gays was when I arrested a pre op trans mtf, who happened to be hooking in our city. lol no it wasn't the uniform change, it was just the sad desperate measures she was putting herself through, she was all ready for the shyte talking to begin from the officers with me and even commented that she expected abuse from us.

Yes there are those guys who i'm sure wanted to say something stupid but honestly they just felt bad for her, she pretty much had gone home with someone did get money up front and then got booted out, as she was attemting to get back into the apartment, other residents called us - 330-4 am, she had warrants so she got arrested.

It just made me feel really bad for a lot of kids out there still struggling with their identity/situations. But secretly I was thanking god/spirits above that I wasn't in those type of situations.

Dee





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507. "San Fran 2007!!!!!"
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lets do it

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499. "quintuple---"
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www.twitter.com/luvlee2003

  

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500. "platinum beeeshes!"
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www.twitter.com/luvlee2003

  

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501. "LOL!"
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this is great.

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502. "*hands HueyShakur Award for outstanding service to the"
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ogheyplayer community*

*applause*

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503. "do i get kneepads?"
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504. "yes its in the gift bag, along wit da dildo and gallon of lube"
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.

prototype

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505. "i insist you keep the dildo and lube..."
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for your acquaintances with SoWhat.

i insist!

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506. ":-o"
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omg ur crude/crass

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508. "I just wanted to be in the 500 section too n/m :)"
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Should a person do good, let him do good over and over again. Let him find pleasure therein, for blissful is the accumulation of good ~ Buddhist teachings

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512. "up...just cuz i always miss this mofo..."
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prose before hoes

  

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513. "answer all those damn questions."
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lol

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514. "make up work and shit...aiight i'll be back with answers."
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prose before hoes

  

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515. "my make up work...here u go, huey..."
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first of all, what's good to everybody. i'm on here on average like 5 minutes every day unless something rare happens where i have motivation to stay longer.

again...i'm 22. i'm a girl. i'm from dc, currently located in nj. i still spend a lot of time in dc...matter of fact, i'm going there sometime 2nite for the weekend.

*um...blkprince...um, i always have good intentions? i only hurt the feelings and emotions of those who don't listen and think they can change me. i've broken one heart that i take full responsibility for and it was among the worst mistakes of my life
*dredd...inbox
*akon...inbox and i say damn...i forgot i posted a pic of my mammary glands. that was the post when my homie took me to vicki's to see what size bra i wore.

the questions...(speaking only for women who love women)

1. On queer love...it definitly exists. i've definitely been in love relationships before and they've been beautiful.

2. As far as a queer re gathering...i'll be down if it's in atlanta. as far as the nyc re...i'll be there half the weekend and at dc pride wit akon the other half.

3. I prefer to identify with queer as opposed to lesbian. I have no problem shaking off orientation-related slurs, probably because I've heard the worst ones from my mother and people who are supposed to love me unconditionally. I honestly think that's the reason why they have no effect on me. Like I'ma give two shits if Joe Blow calls me a dyke because my mama already called me a "demon she-witch." and i use them all the time. my favs are carpetmuncher and sacrilegious leslie (if anyone's seen stranger inside).

4. Kids are a possibility. I never wanted them until my nephew was born. I'd like a son. Named after my hero, Michael Joe Jackson. I'll figure out some variation of his name. Whether or not I have kids depends on how responsible and sefless of an adult I develop into. And if I feel like "pausing" weed for 9 months...even longer if I breastfeed.

5. As far as gender roles go, people look at me and label me stud/butch/dom...but I just do as I feel. I love women. I've dated pillow princesses and "butches"...playing whatever role...and I've found that I'm attracted most to those women who resist labels. I'm extremely versatile. I know I confuse the shit outta my coworkers. Every other day I dress differently. I'll either rock a blouse, some tight dress slacks, some cfm boots, and curl my mane...or I'll be on manchild status and wear a sweater, some loose khakis, casual shoes, and throw my shit in a ponytail. I'm lazy above all else...so it usually depends on what I see or can reach first.

6. I rarely spit game. I can't just cold holler at a girl. I gotta watch her for awhile or do something to feel out what kind of person she is because I HATE rejection. In a club, I'll ask her to hold my drink while I tie my shoes. If she's smiling when I come back up, I'm talking to her. If not, I say thank you and walk away. Ladies also don't expect me to pop like I do if...let's say "crazy in love" or "lose control" comes on. In those cases, I'll just throw it on a fem and feed off of her inaccurate judgement. I become interesting to them. If I REALLY like someone...like genuinely...I won't holler for awhile. I'll get to know her and if I decide that she's worth my interest, I usually write a poem of endearment or something to her. In most cases, generally speaking from MY experience...women are attracted to those who show them no attention so with no holleration involved, I find myself swatting them away.

7. The most uncomfortable same sex setting? I just hate fatgirls in the club. They seem to gravitate towards me. And that's that trickery right there because I'm 130 on a GOOD day BEFORE I shit or piss. One fatgirl RUINED my tims the last time I went to the club. Another fatty left a dent in my shoe back in 2003 that still won't restore to the part of the shoe it used to be. And YES I still wear them cuz I'm a cheap bastard.
Ugly chicks piss me off too.

8. I'm out and proud, but I can't get with the rainbow being branded all over my life. I accept my life and I'm proud of it but if I don't know you or don't fuck with you...it's none of your business along with every other aspect of my existence.

9. I get tested every 6 months for HIV and I try to handle that shit in between partners, too. Sometimes that's impossible...like if I bring someone home with me, of course I can't. But I try to stay on top of it. I'm anti-dental dams but I rarely put my mouth on someone I don't know like that. Last time I got tested, my counselor and I spent about 15 minutes talking about how pointless rubber sheets were in any part of sexual activities amongst lesbians. I'm as careful as I can be.

10. Jean Grae, Erykah Badu, Kweli. I'm the hugest Jean Grae groupie. I've bought plane tickets and traveled to see her when I wasn't in the area. I have t-shirts, all the cds except for Jeanius...I have posters, damn near everything is autographed and her whole camp knows me. Lol. Erykah is my favorite female singer, and I've loved Kweli ever since Refection.

prose before hoes

  

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516. "i was missing this post.. (questions)"
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so i have to think up some questions.


hey.... anyone want to share about their 'first' homo experience.

like... age/ how'dyou start talking to the person/how'd you know the person was queer/ where did you meet them/ were you nervous?/ did you know what to do?/ did it become a relationship or was it a one nighter?/ what did you gain/ lose from the experience- like did u have that 'this is what its about!' epiphany or were you lackadaisical bladdybla....


yeah.
i want to hear some stories.
you can get as steamy as you want but i'd appreciate it if you'd answer a few of the above questions, first.




>sorry allies, maybe next time.
>
>and haters thanks for clicking, now bye.
>
>now on to the business.
>
>the new year has ushered in some new queers. identify
>yourself, dammit. this is your database.
>
>a/s/l would be helpful, LOL. jk
>
>yes, but feel free to check-in, post your favorite websites
>(inbox the male porn links to SoWhat and the female porn to
>luvlee2003, however), get your e-hollers on, honor your fav
>okqueer (even those that have seemingly LOGGED OFF).
>
>my non-straight brethren and sistren (even the ones i know
>that'll lurk in this post) this posts for you. you (mostly
>likely) wont' be judged.
>
>me first? 25/m/nyc. LOL

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521. "ok i guess ill be the first(only) one to bite"
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hell yeah i was nervous. i was waitin on dude to come to my crib and wen i heard the knock on the door i momentarily wished that i had just j/o. anyways, i opened the door. we talked some and he knew i was mad nervous. he askd if i wanted the lite off to make me more comfortable. "yes" and they were off he startd asking if i wanted him to take clothing off. "yes" and they were off.


so anyways, before he got there ide closed my bedroom door so that we wouldnt go in there and to prevent the possibility of anything happening. (lol, silly me) we ended up fuckin around in the shower....it was just ok.

questions?

  

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525. "sounds like you were paying dude..."
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so anything you asked for... you got.

i think i'd like to pay for ass.
i know, i know. its not p.c to admit
but the thought of paying for a guaranteed orgasm
(in my mind if im gon give you money, you better make sure that o happens)
and sex where nothing is expected of me.... but everything i ask for i get.... umm ummm.....
plus i like that sometimes no strings attached thing
is tempting. i think it might also be the forbidden aspect of it.

the closest i came?
i was in nairobi, for six weeks. i dont know any lesbians in kenya
or any joints where i could find some..
and i was kinda feenin'
so i was at this club called florida 2000
it's a 'working girls' club. but one of my fave joints cause its a anything goes kind of place...
i seen some gay dudes there.... doing whateva.
it's *that kind of place
nobody blinks over some shit.
this pretty girl in a lime green outfit was working a pole..
she was absolutely fucking gorgeous.
i was totally spell bound on some 'o the things i would do to you, girl
(lol, i guess i can't totally be non participatory)
i gave her all my money that night.
but she wasn't trynna leave with me.
(i didn't get to ask.... i didn't see her after her show).
i had some hella good fantasies after that.


the only yucky thing about this line of thought though
is that i'd be going in after a buncha random dicks
so i'd have to break out the dental dams and what have you.
and i dont necessarily enjoy the thought of random dicks not pleasing the vagina.
so that's always the *pause.

i guess this is gonna be one fantasy im not gonna go through with.
(shit... i've done everything else i ever dreamed of so i cant really complain).
but shit.....

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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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531. "$$$ and head"
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>>sounds like you were paying dude...
so anything you asked for... you got.

no i wasnt, it was just a hookup. i jst didnt kno if i had the nerve to follow thru. im glad that he wasnt shy about getn things startd, but im glad he wasnt pushy either.
once we got startd tho, i was kool. lol, be4 he came thru i told myself i wouldnt have a dick in my mouth. um, things aint work out quite as planned tho. so anyways...

>>i think i'd like to pay for ass.

how about the other way around? ive been offered $$$ to have my dick sucked. i won't lie, it was tempting...but i ddnt kno how i would feel after the fact so i had to pass on that.

  

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522. "the 1st one."
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>hey.... anyone want to share about their 'first' homo
>experience.
>
>like... age/

i was 19.

>how'dyou start talking to the person/

we were study partners.

how'd you
>know the person was queer/

he was out and so was i.

>where did you meet them/

we 1st met on the phone when he called to talk to me about The U of Chi as a recruiter/mentor. then i met him on campus in my 1st yr either in a dining hall, at a party, or at a meeting of the Org of Black Students. i can't remember. we ended up in the same physics class in my 2nd yr and became study partners.

were you
>nervous?/

i didn't know what was happening until it was already in progress so i didn't have a chance to be nervous. he seduced me after we'd been to see "Waiting to Exhale" (this was 1996) and had a few drinks. we were sitting on the floor and he leaned over to kiss me. i had all my clothes off before it became clear i was about to have sex w/a guy. the act was just that foreign to me though it was something i'd wanted for years.

>did you know what to do?/

i didn't think i did. i just mimicked what i'd seen in movies, i guess. he told me i did a good job.

did it become a
>relationship or was it a one nighter?/

it became a casual relationship. fuckbuddies.

what did you gain/
>lose from the experience- like did u have that 'this is what
>its about!' epiphany or were you lackadaisical bladdybla....

my reaction: "Is that what all the fuss is about? Is that it?" it got better later on.

fuck you.

  

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527. "nice!!!"
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what's wierd about mine?
when i first moved to the states (kansas city, mo)
the only friends i seemed to make were lesbians
(gaydar must be a motha)
there was deedee..who had one-a those formal,
'im coming out to you' moments
which was so unnecessary because i already knew..
her girl was damn sure there was something going on
between us cause we spent too much time together
(late night? cant find deedee, call akon's cell..)
deedee was the first girl to call me out on checking out girl's asses
(girl, you know i caught you lookin...
is there something you want to admit??
;no babe, im just coolin')

then charmaine... i was her token black friend (she was white).
(at least i felt that way..)
girl usedta spend a lot of time wanting to be in my arms.
i just wasn't feeling her like that

then there was kira... (my first).
who spent a couple of months heavily flirting,
peeping under the short skirts i usedta wear when i knew
we would be hanging out
lettin me know what she wanted and why she wanted it (ooohhh weee!!!)
it was a matter of time... we both knew it.
i just didn't want to accept it.
until the day we were out in the woods somewhere,
smoking weed and i *kinda jumped on her.

we had some good times, kira and i
including the time we got busted by a cop for being in a park after dusk
(y'know how hard it is to disentangle in a lil' nissan altima with the law looking on?)


then after kira came the girl that was to break my heart.
(and make me realise it was deeper than the physical..
which is what i kept saying to myself. it's just physical..
aint nothing to it)
*sigh.
i still dream about this girl.
she's in chicago somewhere. makin music or someshit
she'll always hold that special place in my heart.
this girl usedta kiss me in from of her mom, her cousins n' em...
it was my first truly open experience...
and she made me appreciate what being with a woman was really about.

i love reminiscing about past relationships.
they all mean something to me.......

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i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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534. "aww..."
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that was a good read! you got me over here reminiscing now.

fuck you.

  

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523. "MEN, can we get deep for a second?"
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okay so our heterosexual brother Mash_Comp put up a post being real about premature ejaculation and he encouraged us all to do the same. i did (yes, it's happened). it happens to all of us i know. in that post he also got real about the (i assume vaginal?) intercourse marathons women claim to love. he knows not all of us can or have interest in stroking it for that long. word.

in the post i said i've never had (anal) intercourse on either end for more than 20 minutes b/c i don't see the point of going on beyond that except for bragging rights (which is a worthy goal, sure). what do you say? you don't have to reveal how long you go at it if you don't want (i know how anti-sexual some of you are *looks at Huey*) but i really want to know if you're going for more than 20 minutes on either end on a regular basis. and i don't mean 10 minutes as a top and then 15 as a bottom i mean total time in either spot top or bottom.

i gotta ask my crew about this when i see them this weekend.

fuck you.

  

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524. "Maybe TMI.... but....."
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NO.

I get bored & crampy doing any ONE act/position for 20 minutes.

I prefer to do whatever feels good... or whatever my creative mind finds appropriate -- which sometimes includes repeating positions, varying rhythms... even taking breaks and chillin' in a position for awhile (especially if it feels good without requiring motion, friction or acrobatics).

Whatever's clever... and wearing it out with the repetition isn't my idea of clever.

That said -- because of that preference (even when I used to have sex with women) -- I've never prematurely finished. I guess the technique facilitates it... and you're allowed to finish whenever you/y'all get ready.

  

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HueyShakur
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526. "^^^ doesn't know me is good as he thinks he does."
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and i agree with you.

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akon
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528. "well, you need to be answering some of these damn quest-ions, bro"
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how you gon start a post and be m.i.a in all the important discussion pieces.

i want you to answer sowhat's qn.

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http://perspectivesudans.blogspot.com/
i myself would never want to be god,or even like god.Because god got all these human beings on this planet and i most certainly would not want to be responsible for them, or even have the disgrace that i made them.

  

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529. "^^ has given me 0 evidence to the contrary."
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you're right though, i don't.

  

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530. ""
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lol.

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532. "."
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hi

  

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535. "Some of my friends talk about goin an hour plus"
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Thus, I think some of my friends are trife.

And why would it take anybody that long to ejaculate, anyway?
Truth be told, I think 20 minutes is pushing it.
If you can't cum in 12 minutes, you have a sexual disease that needs to be treated, IMO.

  

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533. " I love that this post is still here :) n/m"
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Should a person do good, let him do good over and over again. Let him find pleasure therein, for blissful is the accumulation of good ~ Buddhist teachings

Av: was taken in January. I've got a bit more hair now.

  

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