i'm listening to dan savage's savage love podcast and the topic this week is cuckholding. for my vanilla peeps, that is when a person basically gets off on their partner fucking someone behind their back. essentially, it's consentual cheating and the fantasy involves deception.

sometimes the person with the fantasy watches, and other times it's erotic enough for them to know their partner was getting it in behind their back.

this resurfaced a scenerio i'd long since buried. the third guy i'd ever had sex with had this as a fantasy and he tried to force it on me like, after a week. it started with him wanting to know all of the freaky shit dudes had done to me, which was next to nothing because my experience was so limited at that point. he'd get frustrated during sex because he'd be like "Tell me about the dicks you've sucked" and i really had nothing for him.

anyway, he told that he had a friend he wanted me to fuck, and to do it and come back and tell him all about what the guy did to me.

i never talked to dude again, but he would linger around my apartment until i got my neighbor on him.

whats yours?

i clutched my pearls.

i had a chick literally spit on my dick once while blowing me & it took all the self control in my body not to slap the shit out her

im a prude tho


do or die

LIKE THAT!!! lmao.

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'75 porn mag submission silly just then.

no way he can let a chick violate his THIRD MEMBER. lmao.

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when it's happened to me, it wasn't requested but what was i going to do? stop fucking because the guy spit on my pussy?

nah

lol

what on earth FOR?

lol

dont answer that

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'Spitting is RUDE!'

completley dominated. i'm usually the aggressive one, more aggressive than most of my partners have been. i want to be man-handled - f*cked into submission. . .yes, i have this sick assed daddy complex too. ya'll can judge me now.

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i've found it interesting that in the past you've also talked about dominating. you seem like the ultimate switch.

i don't have it in me.

whilst in the midst of the greasiest reach around.

i've had NO TAKERS, thus far.

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damn dudes no one?
oh look a tumbleweed...
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joint, real greased up. a few of 'em like fingers and thumbs and whatnot. . .some (MOST) just will.not.submit, though. they think it "means" something.

i guess that's just taking my domination to another level, but i also like to make pple feel good in unexpected ways. NOT TO HOLD IT OVER THEIR HEADS!!!

i think when pple really love/are into you and know you're adventurous and are actually "making love" they're more open. NO PUN!

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I got a good life man

i refused and never saw the guy again.

fuck you.

i've always wondered if they're just as uncomfortable requesting as the partner is in processing and saying no.

.

fuck you.

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i'm down w/some activities that make others squeamish so i'm okay w/being squeamish about some activities that others are into.

fuck you.

"down for squemish stuff"

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fuck you.

I just found out what felching was last week. anyway, please help me out with this one.

>I just found out what felching was last week. anyway, please
>help me out with this one.

I actually had to google this one myself.
*projectile vomits*
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=scat

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while it wasn't off the wall I had NEVER had a black woman request it before... I was like wow this is odd but hey grab the lube and let's get to know each other.

I got a good life man

beautiful chick, but with me in COMPLETE control of what goes down (just watching). the fantasy is being able to control what happens after we all leave the bedroom.

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>the fantasy is being able to control
>what happens after we all leave the bedroom.

a boat in a port like one of those Greek/Italian Islands (u know the ones with villages built into the mountainside) or St. Tropez or someplace. truestory. it was so crisp, clear, vivid. . .the shops and restaurants were so beautiful and pristine.

this post may be a fortelling of great adventures. i don't always believe in coincidence. lol

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i too have the image of docking somewhere stuck in my mind. actually hopping off the boat onto the pier while it's still moving slowly...lol

i lined up a deal with a yacht this summer but some of my friends did not see the point in paying $100 to go across the lake to a place less than 2 hours away.

the boat was sweet though and the quaint little town looks like something in a post card. i still have not given up.

p.s. Greece is falling further and further so it's a great time to get good bang for your buck...lol...you SHOULD consider it.

Let him jack off and skeet on my feet and take a picture of it.

I was in the library studying and he wrote this long note asking me how my feet smelled, what was my favorite shoe blah blah. Clearly he had podophilia but he was a stranger so I called campus security.

FUCK THAT especially since Black women dont get reported missing.
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i had someone tell me they wanted to have anal sex w/me
then have me essentially defecate the semen back onto their chest

i don't think that's weird in & of itself
but i'd never heard anythin like it before {requested of me}

he was someone who was admittedly really, super dominant
but i question'd if he himself could step out of that role far enuff to permit any true submissiveness

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*vanishes in puff of ninja smoke*

https://chriswind.bandcamp.com/track/massage

"You can take an African out of Africa, but you can't take Africa out of the African"
Afro-Americana/Afro-Caribbana/Afro-Latino unite. We are ALL Black!

and LOL @ 'defecate'. it's not that at all. LOL

fuck you.

it's really just pushin the semen back out
but i wanted to ah, paint a picture
*makes air brush strokes*

all roads lead to dan savage

nm

And you will know MY JACKET IS GOLD when I lay my vengeance upon thee.

you mfs have grossed me out.

http://youtu.be/5o37GORoKUQ

#htpw

oh man i wonder if i should stay before lunch

cause i sure cant read this during lunch
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it wasn't really weird though because i did it.

i never came across any woman that would ask me anything out of the ordinary because i've seen a lot of crazy shit.


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and I... you know what I can't even finish this story.

I guess you can say I was subjected to... forced urination?

Is that a term?

All I know is I ended up pissing on the dude against my will, he got extra excited, I got up, showered and went home never to speak to him again.

weird.

I shoulda posted this under my alias


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alors que d'autres ont trouvé l'impermanence
des châteaux de sable tout à fait décourageant,
elle éveillé la nuit
à attendre le jour où sa forme présente serait anéantie
burdenless par le flux et le reflux de la marée

Parable of the Sandcastle

you know what? i don't wanna know.
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and locks on bathroom doors are going through my head
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When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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and I struggled, trust me.

I told him I had to get up and take a break and he went creepy on me.

"you gotta go pee?"





When he locked me in place and I couldn't move, I figured the only way to get up was by peeing on the nigga.

It was... surreal to say the least.

Now I'm looking for my therapist's number, I never discussed this with him and now I'm feeling all yucky again


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alors que d'autres ont trouvé l'impermanence
des châteaux de sable tout à fait décourageant,
elle éveillé la nuit
à attendre le jour où sa forme présente serait anéantie
burdenless par le flux et le reflux de la marée

Parable of the Sandcastle

i been doing a mental cleansing in there
...its also a bit fetishistic for me
*shameface*



http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=10801964&mode=full#10802110

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but even they are scared.

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alors que d'autres ont trouvé l'impermanence
des châteaux de sable tout à fait décourageant,
elle éveillé la nuit
à attendre le jour où sa forme présente serait anéantie
burdenless par le flux et le reflux de la marée

Parable of the Sandcastle

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~!~
alors que d'autres ont trouvé l'impermanence
des châteaux de sable tout à fait décourageant,
elle éveillé la nuit
à attendre le jour où sa forme présente serait anéantie
burdenless par le flux et le reflux de la marée

Parable of the Sandcastle

MAN she soaked thru the SHEETS dog!
*hi 5*


do or die

I can see dude saying this with wide eyes.

does you. lol

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my ex from way back and i used to hang out at these swingers parties.

we never really did anything with any other couples, as these people weren't that attractive. it felt like we went for the free food.

anyway.

one night we did fuck in front of a few people.
after we finished, a guys wife came up to us and asked to keep our underwear.

and i'm like "what the fuck you expect me to walk around in?"

my girl at the time was like "for what?"

i interrupted the woman before she said anything and was like "we don't need to know"

but i know he just wanted to sniff them or something.

ugh.
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