hey I read this before and didn't reply, it took me a couple reads to get what I think is it. very deep and heartfelt. correct me if i'm wrong but the three steps behind his shadow could be interpreted as grandfather(1step) father(2steps) child(3steps). child being you? I dunno maybe I read too deep anyways I'm keep checking for ya joints, I like to be challenged through poems. And deeply sorry for your loss. PEACE