12. "I understand where you're coming from, but I look at it more like why" In response to In response to 7
contribute to someone's self- or family-destruction.
Kinda like helping one of your friends/relatives cheat on their spouse. You know they're always up to some bullshit, but they ask you one time to set them up with someone you know. It's minimal effort on your end and likely a drop-in-the-pond of their history of fucking around...
But some might say nah I'm good, keep me out of it, you know? Like, you know the spouse, maybe your kids all play/go to school together, and you just don't want to contribute to the mess.